#hes greta tk play with hes so much fun lol

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I really admire how polite you are with all these people (person?) continuously coming on your blog to bother you, personally I couldn't.

That said I really can't fathom how someone can come to the conclusion that TK is someone who 'fools around with other men' just by one tiny scene in which nothing of substance really happens. Even if TK was sort of flirting back (which is up for debate) he was well aware of Carlos there and it's not far-fetched that what he was angling for was actually Carlos claiming him, a sort of game and flirtation between them.

Also it's not so easy at times to make apart flirtation from friendly chatting, and extract yourself from it without causing a scene, especially when the flirtation wasn't even that forward.

I'm curious to know how those people would have reacted if they ever showed Carlos being flirted on, he isn't the type to cause a scene so he would have been polite too. Though TK is naturally flirtatious, so there's that. Doesn't mean he's one to play around or be unfaithful or whatever else these people think.

I think some people have some passionate feelings about that scene and seem to be holding onto some resentment at TK for it but yeah. That's just really not how I see it. I get flirted with all the time. And that's not a brag lol, it's highly annoying. I have a friendly face and I'm not skilled at communicating 'please go away' so men flirt with me and then tend to get annoyed with me when I don't want to have sex, as if they were entitled to that because I was polite. And it's really not greta. So as much as that scene is just fun and led to a sweet moment between our boys, it gets my hackles up when people say things like TK was lowkey cheating by flirting with the bartender or TK 'let' the guy flirt with him and owes Carlos an apology. I mean what was TK supposed to do? Start screaming that he has a boyfriend in a stranger's face and blowing a rape whistle? Just! Not a take that sits well with me. Not at all.

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