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kryptidkhaos · 2 months
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I'm a disabled trans guy who is unemployed, and I don't bring any income to my household. I love to cook, clean, organize, manage calendars, appointments, etc. so in my polycule, that's the role I fill.
I'm a homemaker and very proud of it, but I wish I could say that with more frequency without constantly having people roll their eyes or interrogating me about my personal life.
"How can you be too disabled to work a job, but not to take care of your household? Don't the other people in your family do any housework? Are you being taken advantage of? Have you ever had a job? Can't you work part time? Why aren't you on disability? Have you tried a work from home job?"
I've been trying to find more support and community for people like me, but the sheer wall of red usernames that appear when I dip into any kind of "homemaker", "housekeeping", "domestic labor", type of tag is absolutely terrifying. It's either tradwives or radfems, with no in-between. "stay at home dad" tags are basically empty, and i don't even have a kid living at home with me anymore to bond with other parents anyway.
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fairmaidnelly · 3 months
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Baked some reindeer cookies as a gift ✨🦌
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recoveringdoll · 3 months
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Wanting a man to provide for you doesn’t mean you’re incapable. Of course you’re capable. But it’s nice to have someone help you and take of you. That doesn’t mean you can’t do those things yourself. That just means someone loves you enough to make your life that bit easier <3
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FUCK OFF IF YOUR BLOG IS 18+ I’M SICK OF IT
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homemakinghippie · 2 months
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traditionaldream · 1 month
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The beauty of home altars ✝️🤍
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cozydaysathome · 1 year
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Instagram- brittany.morian
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staycoolbutstillcare · 5 months
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so much of taking care of yourself as an adult is just learning to eat at home and going on walks
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rose-lily-field · 2 years
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everlastinghistory · 5 months
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“if you become a housewife they’re gonna cheat and you’re gonna get abandoned with nothing some day.”
has to be the biggest self projection ever. why do you automatically assume every relationship is going to go badly, and why do you feel the need to project your own fears onto other people who actually feel secure in their relationship/with their decision?
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moderntradwife · 9 months
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I found this template online a few months ago. It comes in handy when you don’t know where to start. So far my house is spotless and I’m not stressing out.
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heverything · 6 months
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tradwifesblog · 1 year
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Trad Husbands
Traditional Husbands also have a huge part to play in a traditional marriage, although it’s not acknowledged by many of traditional individuals. So here’s a small list of the traditional husbands duties :
Make your wife feel protected, whether she’s with you or not.
Do the heavy lifting and fixing jobs around the house for your wife.
Always greet your wife with a kiss
Set an example to your daughter/s what a boyfriend should be like, and your sons how they should treat women.
Always bring gifts back from long work trips to show your loyalty and appreciation.
Make sure to remind your wife that you love her by taking her on dates, saying “i love you” frequently and holding her when she needs it.
Cater to her emotional and physical needs, like she does for you.
Give her days or time off, especially during pregnancy, birthdays and holidays in general.
This relationship is a balance, she looks good for you so make sure you’re hygienic and groomed for her.
Assure her consistently that she and her kids are completely provided for and protected as long as you live.
Support her in everything she does.
Women are a lot more emotional then their male counterparts so approach arguments and conflicts with caution and care.
Make sure you understand her boundaries and what she considers wrong etc, otherwise you’ll run into many arguments ( and obviously abide by these boundaries ).
Never talk badly to others about your wife. Even to your own parents and children.
This list isn’t all the duties of a traditional working husband, just a small guide. Although men and women aren’t equals, within a relationship it’s a balance. We have to work toward that balance by showing we have equal yet opposing duties.
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findher · 10 months
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𝒻𝒾𝓃𝒹 𝒽ℯ𝓇
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There is nothing that makes me happier than the thought of creating a human being with my partner, I think that’s one of the greatest acts of love.
I also think that admitting you are not mentally, physically or financially capable of properly caring for a child as of now, or ever, is also a huge act of love.
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homemakinghippie · 2 months
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traditionaldream · 2 months
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Feminism is full of lies: being a "boss babe" won't fulfill most of us, birth control harms your body and no, it doesn't heal you, it just cover the problem, like a band aid, children are not a burden, but a blessing, men aren't oppressing you, you can't find total equality for things that aren't equal.
Don't belive that man aren't needed. Man work jobs that most feminist don't want to work in: building, mines, military....
It is not backwards, oppressive or misogynistic to realize that all of these things are true.
Embrace your true essence
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