#honestly i'm surprised wwx stayed as long as he did because the more i think about it the more his time in lotus pier sounds like hell

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My Top Posts in 2022:

#5

Wei Ying has his fear of dogs, Lan Zhan deals with it the best he can by shooing the dogs away and he gets kisses in return plenty

But my personal headcanon is that both the fearsome Yiling Patriarch and his illustrous Hanguang-Jun have a shared fear/disgust of spiders

Fierce corpses, ghosts, ancient beasts? Fair game.

Spiders?

Nah, they don't fuck with that.

"Lan Zhan, you saw it first, you deal with it."

"No."

"What do you mean no?! Aren't you my husband? You're supposed to protect me!"

"Mn. But you are also my husband, so, likewise."

"This is ridiculous. You're Hanguang-Jun, the Second Jade of Lan. That's just a stupid spider!"

"You are also the Yiling Patriarch, the grandmaster of demonic cultivation."

"Lan Zhan, come on, we can't stay up on this table forever. Just kill it!"

"Killing is forbidden in the Cloud Recesses."

"A whole lot of things we do are forbidden in the Cloud Recesses but that never stopped you before!"

"Mn."

"No 'mn'!! You have to do something about it and quickly, unless it..."

"Wei Ying?"

"The...the spider...I don't know where it is, it's gone!!"

"Gone?!"

(Sizhui comes to visit and finds his two most respected parental figures in battle stances, Chenqing is out, talismans float about and the two very graciously stand on their spiritual swords safely away from the floor.

Sizhui kills the spider.)

985 notes - Posted May 20, 2022

#4

"Ask me now, see if I would deny you anything." is the most romantic, erotic, emotional, heart-wrenching, devotion-filled, loving sentence I have ever read and I will never recover from it

1,030 notes - Posted March 11, 2022

#3

AITA for getting punched in the face?

So I (16, M) am betrothed to a girl (16, F) I don't really like but my mom and her mom made the arrangement before we were born and neither of our dads (or us) get much say in this because our moms are scary.

Anyway, I really don't like this girl. She's just average and the only reason we're supposed to marry is because our moms are sworn sisters and we're from powerful, noble families. Not to brag, but I'm exceptionally good-looking and highly skilled, and I don't think a girl so meek and ordinary would be fit for me at all.

I don't see the point of hiding my disdain for her. Anyone with a good pair of eyes can see how different I am from her and there is no point in me pretending I feel any different about her.

To preface, I don't think I'm the asshole and I want to prove I'm not the only one who thinks that.

Onto the story:

Some friends were talking about pretty girls and such, and since I don't necessarily care for those discussions, I kept silent. One of them then mentioned I am not saying anything because I am already in love with my forced fiancee and see no other girls as interesting.

I simply responded like I did above: that I find her unappealing and she's not at all my type. Which prompted her almost-brother (long story, but the guy isn't even adopted in the family, just hangs out around them and somehow ended up as head disciple) to punch me in the face. Hard.

I am not weak at all but the hit took me by surprise and led to me walking around with a swollen face for several days. The guy got punished but not without him and my fiancee's actual brother both calling me an asshole.

Could you all convince them I am NTA once and for all?

Edit 1: To update you all, I actually did marry my fiancee (not resulting from the arranged marriage, it was annuled and then we ended up falling in love on our own) and she's an amazing, kind and beautiful person with whom I am going to have a son in a few months.

I was an arrogant, annoying, entitled, incel-esque piece of shit two years ago but thankfully, I got better and am on the way of becoming a decent person and hopefully a good father!!

I love my wife very much and I regret I didn't treat her right from the start, but I now have the rest of my life to make it up to her although I know she has already forgiven me anyway.

Growth is a wonderful thing and I think everyone should embrace it. I used to really hate my life and resent my parents for the environment they have raised me in as an arranged marriage couple that was never really happy. I thought the same would happen to me and I projected all of that onto my wife for no reason - but now I am happily married and feel so loved and appreciated that I can't help but model after my wife's kindness and good character.

Edit 2: My son just came into the world a few days ago. He is happy and healthy and I am fighting with my wife about who gets to hold him more!! I can't wait for his one month celebration, I'll try to make up with my wife's brothers and make sure my son has all his uncles in his life! I'll update you all with pictures after the event!

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1,304 notes - Posted July 31, 2022

#2

Wangxian is like

WWX, perfectly capable of defending himself: Lan Zhaaan save me!!

LWJ, perfectly aware that WWX can defend himself: *saves him with no hesitation*

And then they kiss

1,652 notes - Posted September 3, 2022

My #1 post of 2022

Wei Ying is a trophy wife icon

Does not have a job

Husband pays for everything

Spends time with the kids all day

Gets dicked down silly every day

Can focus on his hobbies and interests without needing to work

Is insanely pretty

1,914 notes - Posted July 28, 2022

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[crossdressingdeath]

Oh I could go on a full rant on how normalized WWX’s abuse by YZY is on Lotus Pier and it pisses me off so much because that was supposed to be his home, his safe place.

JC thinks WWX brings it on himself despite doing the same things as him. The other disciples laugh it off and expect WWX to be the only one targeted and even when he complains about being singled out and being whipped, they make jokes about it. Even JYL knows how to distract her mother so she doesn’t focus on WWX anymore. It’s normal that if WWX is kneeling for hours in the Ancestry Hall, only way to let him out is to tell JFM because he’s so out of touch he doesn’t realized half the time WWX is getting unfairly punished unless told about it.

It’s infuriating how this is how it’s been for years for everyone to just expect it.

Oh yeah, it is such a thing. Everyone there treats it like some joke, or something WWX is bringing on himself for *checks notes* doing the same things as all the other disciples, and even JFM has to be specifically told when it’s happening or he won’t put a stop to it because he doesn’t pay attention to what YZY is doing. Even the other disciples, who clearly look up to WWX a great deal, don’t seem to really care that YZY is targeting him like this! And don’t even get me started on JC saying WWX’s bringing it on himself while doing the exact same thing WWX is being whipped for and facing no punishment whatsoever. The closest someone gets to acknowledging how fucked up the situation is is JYL trying to distract YZY so she’ll leave WWX alone, and even she can only do so much. It seems like an absolute nightmare and I would love more discussion of that. (Please, anon, give me the full rant, I want it.)

#mdzs #cql #wei wuxian #lotus pier #imagine living in a place where LITERALLY EVERYONE treats you being WHIPPED as a normal thing #that you have no right to complain about #honestly i'm surprised wwx stayed as long as he did because the more i think about it the more his time in lotus pier sounds like hell #anon #asks

[crossdressingdeath]

(1/6) Hi, I'm not the anon who talked about LQR rule to avoid WWX, but I agree. He’s being petty, sure, but my heart breaks for wwx for being sic out and isolated from his family-in-law. These things cut deep, and while wwx is used to abuse from supposed-families, it leaves a horrible taste reading it. Just because no one follows it doesn’t mean it don’t exist, and honestly?

(2/6) If that rule is on the stone and everytime wwx comes back from outside he has to see it, I just want he to get some self-respect and take lwj with him away. Sure, he wouldn’t cause it’s lwj home and he’s used to being treated like less-important than others, but that’s a form of abuse to intentionally isolate someone from their supposed-family. Like what the hell? How can lwj ignore such an attack?

(3/6) Also, you mentioned that they can’t just ignore the heir apparent’s husband. They could and did ignore his mother, while taking her children away and imprisoned her till she died. I doubt someone who killed a respected teacher of the Lan sect to be so weak as to die young naturally, so presumably her mental state would be likely the cause of her death. This is not canon, but I see a similarity in attitude here.

Isolation till one dies of mental pain and loneliness is much crueler than just a sword in their hearts. While her imprisoning might be just (no canon info), taking away her children feels not only wrong, but…immoral, especially to the children. Honestly I’m surprised they don’t one day think back about all the time they wasted while their mother was alive, and not growing to resent/ rejected the Lans. If I was lwj, I would be extremely wary to take wwx back to CR, especially after such rule was

(5/6) was made in fear of a repeat of what happened to his mother. Yes, their mother may have committed a crime, and suffer the consequence. But, given the unclear of legalities in-universe (no central laws, it’s about “which sect you go against that’s powerful enough to demand revenge” rather than “do something wrong/illegal”), who knows what could happen that turns them against wwx like they did before?

(6/6) So ugh, yeah, I know in the other extras he seemed to be accepted into the family (banquet and teacher-like position in iron hook), but I’m still bitter about that part. Of course the Lans is not perfect and has their issues which is totally fine, I just want wwx to be happy :( Sorry for the long ask btw, I just have a lot of feelings on this issue ;A;

That is a good point. Personally the way I’ve always seen that rule given everyone’s reaction to it is less “this is a serious attempt to isolate WWX” and more “this is LQR being Exceptionally Petty and WWX and LWJ will wear him down in like a week tops”, but if you see it differently that also makes sense.

My thought process is basically... the fact that it clearly doesn’t last (WWX is allowed at sect banquets and presumably given some level of authority and trust given he’s allowed to teach the juniors) combined with the fact that no one involved seems to take it seriously suggests to me that it’s generally accepted to be LQR throwing a bit of a tantrum before accepting LWJ’s marriage fully. It’s not quite the same as the situation with LWJ’s mother because she was locked up; they weren’t giving her the silent treatment, she was in prison. How just that was is debatable, but I’d say they’re two very different situations. Honestly I get the impression that we’re supposed to see the rule against speaking with WWX as a joke; I mean, come on, “give Hanguang-jun’s husband the silent treatment”? This is a rule set by an actual person with authority in the Lan sect? It’s just so ridiculous and petty I find it almost impossible to take seriously. This is schoolyard stuff.

Also... if LWJ was genuinely concerned about how the Lans were going to treat WWX, he wouldn’t have settled in the Cloud Recesses with him. The last thing he wants is for his husband to feel isolated. LWJ has blind spots, but having seen his sect turn against WWX (which I do feel the need to point out the Lans had very good reason for doing, assuming for whatever reason they didn’t hear or didn’t believe LWJ’s version of events, which would be at least semi-reasonable given it was two sect leaders’ word against LWJ’s when at least part of the sect knows LWJ is in love with WWX; they only knew what they had been told by two presumed-trustworthy sources, that WWX was a traitor and a threat to the sects who was building an army) in the past would lead him to be very cautious about such things in the future. I imagine he would have at least discussed the matter with WWX (and probably his uncle, too), and they clearly decided to stay.

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