#hope this helped!!

[bibylers]

@cowboy-like-vee-hee-hee SINCE YOU ASKED IN UR REBLOG ON THIS POST ON HOW I FOUND OUT ABOUT MY TEACHER BEING A BYLER IM GIVING YOU A STORYTIME 😭‼️

SO WE’RE IN CLASS JUST DOING OUR WORK AND IM ALREADY REALLY CLOSE WITH THIS TEACHER SO WHEN WE HAVE CLASSES WITH HER SHE USUALLY TALKS WITH ME

IM JUST DRAWING AND SHE SEES ME DRAW THE STRANGER THINGS LOGO (don’t ask why I was just bored 😭)

SO SHE WALKS UP TO ME AND IS LIKE: “HEY DO YOU LIKE STRANGER THINGS?”

AND IM LIKE: “YES!”

AND THEN SHE TELLS ME THAT SHE ALSO LOVES STRANGER THINGS AND THEN SHE ASKS ME WHAT MY FAVOURITE PART IS ABOUT STRANGER THINGS AND I JUST TELL HER THAT I LIKE WILL AND MIKES PLOT IN SEASON 4

THEN SHES JUST LIKE: “OH YESS I LOVE IT TOO I REALLY LOVE THEIR ROMANCE!” AND SHE ALSO TELLS ME THAT SHE 100% THINKS THEY’RE GETTING TOGETHER :)

AND THATS HOW I FOUND OUT SHES A BYLER!

#HOPE THIS HELPED!! #byler #will byers #mike wheeler #stranger things #byler tumblr

[apollos-boyfriend]

sorry if this is a dumb question but what are mspec gays/lesbians?

not dumb at all, don’t worry! mspec stands for multiple-attraction spectrum/multisexual spectrum, and basically means a person who is attracted to multiple genders. mspec gays/lesbians are people who identity as things such as bi lesbians, pan gays, etc ^_^

this carrd [link] has a really good overview on the topic, including the history and further explanation! it’s a very good read to understand the basics, and possibly even do some deeper digging through the sources linked. highly recommend

#muse talk #anon #hope this helped!!

[filmbyjy]

how do you even chat with enhypen AI?😭 its so hard to start it yk..its a bit awkward

well I usually just say anything or create a scenario!

example: (both you and jake are going to an arcade)

then it will generate something. if you don’t like the generated response, there is this little arrow

where you can generate different options and scroll until you like the response. to save that response, you just type in the bar and enter what you wanna reply.

#markxdino: asks #hope this helped!! #also ignore this little jake thing #i used it for my smau and like I also screenshot it because I was shocked the AI generated that first try

[beaxmice]

what size do you make your canvas when you post on tumblr? specifically, for portrait, landscape & then your pinned post (4 images). i have a hard time knowing which size is best. 😭

i usually draw w around 2k / 3k pixels and above!! it usually varies between these 2 (length / width)

i still feel like the quality could be better, but maybe that's just bc im used to instagram sweeping over my feet w the resolution from time to time 💀

#save asks #hope this helped!!

[tsukkiipi]

Your edits are so good!!!!! May I know what type of filters you use on your edits? or do you change it manually or depending on the colour/theme of the edits? Sorry if this makes no sense, I just think they look really nice!!!

thank u sm!! dw it makes sense to me!! i use different gradient maps and filters for every set of edits. i pick what looks good then tweak around with blending modes!! (i edit in clip studio paint, so things might be weird or not work in other programs.)

i use multiple different gradient maps from different collections i find in the csp asset store.

for example i used this one for the HiMERU edit! and these are what my layers will look like usually.

i just mess around a LOT until i think it looks good. i can try to find and share the gradient map collections or just specific gradient maps people might want! u should be able to export them and use them in other programs iirc!! :]

#☆ ★ asks ! #☆ ★ q&a ! #hope this helped!! #im in no way well versed in editing #its a silly side hobby #leo ! ★ ☆

[snailsnfriends]

hiiiii i'm so lost who is apl

hi anon!! apl or abandoned parking lot is a discord serve made up of myself, stella stellanutella, halley smp-live and ronnie squareupgod. they are my best friends :))

#hope this helped!! #snailtrail.asks

[punkclowngod]

do u have any tips for someone who thinks they might have hpd?

ive been reading some posts from ppl w hpd and realizing some of my experiences align w theirs (extreme sensitivity to rejection, remaking my whole personality to be liked by someone, struggling to stay true to own morals when around others) and like 8|

some of the coping mechanisms people have mentioned for it look really helpful but idk. would it be weird to use those if im not even sure i have it

i think you’re already doing the right thing (looking at posts from people who have it, it’s always better to judge yourself based on others’ experiences instead of a checklist made by someone who doesn’t have it), and if you see coping mechanisms that seem helpful, you have every right to try them!

finding out you have a disorder can take a lot of time and it’s often super stressful, but it doesn’t matter what you end up having, if something helps, you’re allowed to do it. the symptoms you experience are real and you don’t need a diagnosis to learn how to cope with them.

as for tips, honestly keeping a journal about your thoughts and feelings about having HPD is something that might help a lot, keep track of your symptoms, your moods, your way of acting with others compared to when alone, etc. no rules, just noting whatever comes to mind and without worrying about having to prove anything. it helps untangle the brain and since you have no audience it also helps being completely truthful. that’s what i did (and still am doing) with my OSDD questioning and it helped immensely. the important part is that you do not lie in the journal. that’s the only rule. you can change how you write, how you layout your page, how you date the page, etc anytime you note something new, as long as you’re being truthful. note your doubts, your certainties, how they compare, things like that! also what’s important to remember is that your goal for this journal is to observe yourself not convince yourself or anyone you have HPD. it’s not a thesis, it’s not a homework, it’s not a debate. they’re just personal observations. personally i refuse to read the pages of my journal so i don’t influence myself for the next time i write, so what i end up writing is more natural and less thought of than if i read my old pages, but that’s just me, you don’t have to do this, just do whatever works for you.

another tip would be to try doing or even just thinking about things a histrionic wouldn’t do. for example, i can’t go out without being super dressed up or it makes me incredibly depressed. the thought of going out without flashy clothes and over-the-top makeup makes me feel small and humiliated. for another example, how long can you last in a conversation where you’re not the subject or main speaker? i space out after about a minute and become painfully bored after maybe two minutes. depending on who i’m with i might just leave or scream or even blatantly ask if we can start talking about me, but those are just the people i’m comfortable with. you can try putting yourself in situations that would make people with HPD uncomfortable/unwell (without actually endangering yourself) to see and mesure how it makes you feel. and remember the examples i gave are not universal. compare how you feel with many other histrionics, everyone’s experiences are different and varied.

there’s also a histrionic subreddit, it can always be helpful to skim through it if you haven’t already!

and again, a reminder that if it helps you have every right to use it! manage your symptoms not the overall disorder, disorders are too broad and varied, choose the coping mechanisms that align with your symptoms, there’s no use trying coping mechanisms for symptoms that don’t affect you. this is about you personally, never the disorder. we don’t have a hive mind, we’re all different, so it’s really all coming down to what helps you and how you can feel better. some things will help, some things will make it worse, it’s a long process but it’s a process worth doing

#hope this helped!! #cluster b #actually hpd #hpd #histrionic personality disorder #actually histrionic #honestly histrionic

[claireunoia]

hiiiii, i was wondering how u make images so small for ur fics? whenever i add images to my fics they’re always so big :(

hi love! so if you have one image, no matter what it will be big

like this

but the more you add next to it will make the image smaller in size

like this

and with three it will be even smaller

like this

#hope this helped!! #› ˴ 𝗉𝗈𝗌𝗍𝖼𝖺𝗋𝖽 ˚̩̥̩ 𝗌𝗁𝗂𝗉𝗉𝖾𝖽 ˖◛⁺ ˖ ࣪

[stormyoceans]

Hi there, I’ve been watching secret crush on you on drama cool, but Ive noticed that I’m seeing gifs of scenes here that don’t seem to be in the show, are episodes of scoy cut? If so, do you know of a better place to find the uncut episodes?

hey, anon!!

OH that's actually really surprising to hear because i didn't know SCOY was being censored and i very much did not expect THAT site to have the cut version of it

I HAVE A GOOD NEWS THOUGH!!!!!!! secret crush on you is actually available on youtube on idolfactory official!!!! you can find it all conveniently organized for our watching pleasure in this playlist!!

#hope this helped!! #and im starting to wonder if censored version on that site are more common than i thought #it did happen to me with remember 15 but i thought it was just because it's a pretty hard show to find #🤔 #secret crush on you #scoy #scoy the series #m: txt

[jonathan-cranes-mistress-of-fear]

How was named the comic where Jonathan goes under redemption arc and returns to being professor and even befriends a lady and it’s all nice until the lady was assaulted by her man and it makes Crane return to being Scarecrow?

It's a story called Study Hall, and you can read it in Batman Adventures Annual #1 (with other stories included!)

#MIstressAnswersYourLastWords #hope this helped!!

[plush-rabbit]

Question, did you ever write the third part of the series “Can I ask you something?”

Yes!! If you go to the link on my bio, it'll take you to the ao3 of it! im sure if you go on my blog and like the type the keyword or ' ciays ' it should come up as well!!

#anon #hope this helped!! #let me know if you couldn't find it!

[hansoeii]

look at you, you're gorgeous!

#and nothing bad ever happened #this might've been what aziraphale imagined when he asked crowley to come with him #I have returned to tend to your wounds good omens fandom #hope this helps you heal #good omens #good omens 2 #good omens spoilers #good omens fanart #good omens 2 fanart #aziracrow fanart #aziracrow #ineffable husbands #ineffable idiots #ineffable husbands fanart #neil gaiman #david tennant #michael sheen #aziraphale #crowley #my art #digital art #fanart

[willgrahamscock]

Why bother arguing in support of trans people if you’re not trans?

very simple concept called believing in human rights

#alex answers #hope that helps

[callisteios]

i made a character uquiz. i 100% promise you that you will get a character you know AND like

#that's my guarentee #ignore the quiz description #features some of my favourite characters. eg. ianthe tridentarius. jaws. sonny!dog day afternoon. nicolas cage. kendall roy. hope this help #im not going to tag every fandom that's rude #uquiz #quiz #personality quiz #mine #i don't know why i put the sport question i hate the sport question. #wasted like half a day asking stupid questions like 'do we think vriska serqet would prefer football or hockey'

[ibtisams]

“But I’m just one person” WRONG “me buying a drink from starbucks won’t make a difference” WRONG “I’m not able to donate so I can’t help Palestine” WRONG “posting doesn’t matter” WRONG “boycotting won’t actually do anything” WRONG “it’s the government that’s funding the genocide, so I don’t have a way to help” WRONG

#hope this helps 👍👍 #🦢

[wewontbesleeping]

the weirdest fucking thing to me is how men will be like "it's so hard being a man. no one cares that i'm sad. the loneliness we experience could NEVER be understood by a woman" and then also be like "btw i never talk to my friends and i don't know their names and i love hanging out with men because they don't talk about their stupid emotions all the time. women could never understand a bond like this." like ???

#this thread was so rancid lmfao #my favorite was 'we don't care if someone wants to relax on the couch!!! STOP NAGGING US!!!' like ???? #go take care of your kids you deadbeat???? #also SO many guys complaining that no one compliments them #ok so compliment another man..... #oh no you only want a woman to compliment you? ok. #women compliment each other that's why we get compliments lol #we do not want men to 'compliment' us hope this helps