#housework at home**

[j-nn-ly]

I enjoy doing housework, ironing, washing, cooking, dishwashing. Whenever I get one of those questionnaires and they ask what is your profession, I always put down housewife. It's an admirable profession, why apologize for it? You aren't stupid because you're a housewife. When you're stirring the jam you can read Shakespeare.

- Tasha Tudor

#quotes #quote #reading #literature #books #life #lifequotes #christian #homemaker #cottagecore #housewife #wife #homemaking #feminine #marriage #home #house #housework #woman #profession #job #education

[barefoot-a-pregnant]

#housewife #housework #traditional family #stay at home wife #stay at home mom #tradwife #tradfem #traditional feminity #traditional marriage

[whumpfish]

Conditioned whumpees who respond realistically to being on the outside

Whumpees who display appeasement or avoidance or incessantly apologizing or fleeing when they think someone might be upset with them

Whumpees who are afraid of the punishment they've become accustomed to

Whumpees who recreate lesser punishments to reassure themselves that they will not get the worst option

Whumpees who yell and berate themselves loudly when they make a mistake because in their mind, as long as there is yelling, the consequences end there

Whumpees who inflict small violences on themselves, hitting and pulling so that their caretaker won't have to

Whumpees who hide all the knives/potential instruments of torture if they suspect someone will be angry when they come home

Whumpees who take the initiative to try to influence or control how people respond to them and what they do

Whumpees who push boundaries, who test the waters by doing things that the whumper would have punished them for

Whumpees who keep pushing, for whom life becomes about doing the most terrifying thing they can think of just to see if no one will hurt them for it

Whumpees who do this to the point of self-detriment because their concept of what constitutes dangerous behavior is completely fucked

Whumpees who are people thrust into a world with rules they no longer know with people whom they can no longer read

Whumpees whose stories are about them and their journey into that world, not about their caretaker's shock and horror at their condition

#y'all ALL I DID after i got away from my ex was shit she wouldn't let me #i listened to my own music in my own car #i blasted it as loud as i could #i put my purse on the table when i got home #i waited till tomorrow to do all the housework #on the other end i would scream and yell at myself #about how useless and stupid and unreliable and embarrassing i am #if i was late or forgot something #because if she was yelling she wasn't plotting 2 weeks extended punishment #and if i did not hear yelling i assumed the 2 week option #conditioning does not turn you into a sniveling obsequious pile of jello #it just leaves you completely unprepared for life once you're out #whumpblr #whump #whump prompt #whump scenario #whump tropes #whumpee #whumpee should be the focus of whump #do not ever and i mean ever forget that #whump community

[satans-knitwear]

Maybe this year i will finally be able to get another tattoo...

Treat me ~ Tip me

#My housework look for today. Cant put makeup on my face bc of the agonies. But at least my body looks ready to party #I need to buy new duvet covers bc my big dumb golden baby has eaten a hole the size of her head into mine. #Dogs are expensive and ridiculous creatures #My parents return home tomorrow and i get to make the 'i havent seen you since 2022' jokes. If my dad doesnt make them first. #Satans knitwear #Alt pinup #Pinup girl #Pretty lingerie #Fishnet lingerie #Fishnet tights #Underbust corset #waist cincher #Black lingerie bodysuit #Strappy lingerie bodysuit #bi girl #uk girl #cheeky #wlw

[tchaikovskaya]

Even working from home is emotionally bad for you and I will stand by that. “I love the freedom of WFH tho!” The problem here is working (presumably white collar jobs if you can work from home to begin with) for employers who refuse you the freedom to leave the office for urgent non-emergencies or doctors appointments etc etc etc. The problem is the bosses!!! (Or capitalism at large but unless you have a magic wand that could whisk our whole economic system away just like that, as much as i would love for that to happen, that’s not really realistic as a response here!)

#like doing housework on your ‘lunch break’… bad! its a break u ideally shouldn’t be doing anything but eating and chilling! #not loading a dishwasher not folding laundry !!! that’s legitimate labor but it’s a distraction #my point isn’t that you shouldn’t be doing it On Company Time it’s that ur better off separating those spaces physically! #house chores shouldn’t be something that’s on ur mind in the background (and could feasibly be done) u should not take work home with u #work stays at work and home is at home they should not mix and that separation is impossible if you WFH esp with small kids

[xamaxenta]

Omg fam ur so not alone about the sleeping thing, my partner has both some health issues and also just a completely different sleep schedule from me that makes us sleeping together difficult, and a small apartment that makes it difficult to separate ourselves. And like. It's not his fault but its FRUSTRATING so I feel u ❤❤

😔😔😔Its frustrating bc its not her fault but also it kinda is bc i keep asking for basic communication

Im like hey are you coming to sleep in the next hour

And shes like in twenty mins

Which turns into two hours and im not going to dog her or ask again so i have to roll with the concept shes showing up whenever

I also sleep light so without fail if she comes in three hours later i wake up and it takes a while for me to return to sleeping

Its just a combination of stuff that makes this scenario like she doesnt say anything like dawg all i want is for u to poke your head in or msg me like im not gonna sleep yet but she gets mad abt it like its not super late!! FOR YOU ITS NOT you also work from home :/

Thats it and ill just bury myself under the covers n hope i dont wake up when she does come in

#ahh nothing like tumblr morning venting w the lads #i dont care that we have different sleep schedules #at the end of the day #i just want COMMUNICATION 😭😭😭😭😭 #i know im ass at it in other ways but im always initiating convos like this and i keep telling her im not nagging u i dont want you to feel #like thats what this is but my god it will be if she keeps this up #i think im just annoyed that she uses the not late excuse but its like yeah i know but some of us have to go to an office to work and need #to mentally be on their A game. like constantly which is what Sleep assists with #not all of us have the luxury of working from home post covid #like dont give me a fakeass time that we both knkw you arent keeping #and shes always like WAIT FOR ME!!! #SO I DO???? #AND THEN U PIKACHU FACE WHEN IM CRANKY AND SLEEPY AND AWAKE WHEB I COULDA BEEN ASLEPE????? #😭😭😭 im PRAYING FOR NO BS TODAY AT WOEK I SWEAR #also not to be slightly petty but i do all the goddamn housework

[rubiesintherough]

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#(( ooc. )) #venting tw #negativity tw #gonna try to do some writing today but motivation is real low. #i guess that's what happens when you get called stupid useless and lazy to your face by someone who then expects you #to bow and scrape and wait on them hand and foot #and also now im expected to pay the electric bill on top of doing all the housework. literally all of it. in a home of 3 #fucking adults. and bow im also the one having to handle a lot of maintenance work around the place on top of keeping #it spotless bc no one else 'feels like doing it' #and the whole time i get to be insulted and told that im fat. stupid. lazy. while im cleajing up their messes. and fixing stuff for them. #and doing a bunch of cooking bc they get pissy if i dont also feed them on top of doing literally all the housework. and maintenance work. #and also now being expected to pay half the electric bill. again house of 3 people. and im not even allowed to take a hot shower when i need #to in order to get the pain spikes under control from yknow. flaring up my fibro from overworking myself CLEANING AND TAKING CARE OF THE #DAMN HOUSE FOR THEM #bc it takes too much electricity. the electricity i mostly paid for last month #sorry i needed to get that out #suicide tw #abuse tw #not me debating offing myself bc theres no end in sight and no way out and i cant keep going from one abusive situation to another #and just trying to survive. almost 30 yrs old and ive never once felt safe or at home anywhere ive ever lived. not once. in almost 30 #years have i ever felt safe. or like im my own person. or that im valued. or wanted. or listened to. not once in almost 30 years #have i ever felt like im actually loved (wanted) beyond my usefullness. #shit sucks man. anyway sorry for the spam of negativity lately. im not trying to be a downer. #gonna go hang out in my inbox for a while and see if anything pops out that my muses wanna jump on 🤞

[kaeyachi]

gonna talk about kaveh thru the tags in case people dont wanna get spoiled

#also not tagging the kaveh tag in case someone forgot to block the tag due to spoilers #kaeyachi randoms #so anyway here we go #wtf is that back story why is it so painful #its incredibly realistic as well coz that can happen irl #also since we are going to fontaine i genuinely wonder if kaveh has a half-sibling there that will become a playable character someday #imagine the angst hnghh #loathe his mother so much sorry shes depressed but that has never been an excuse to be a POS #i have the same opinion about huffman btw like yes life is tough but who tf leaves a kid alone to do all the housework while u drink #even his specialty food has a backstory can yall believe it? #someone really enjoyed writing kaveh. good for him #now i have 2 depressed alcoholic babygirls who have a hard time accepting love and affection because they dont think it will last #what does that say about me when i kin them? who knows. im just a random internet person with specific tastes apparently #kaeya and kaveh meet and just start supporting eachother pls #they would be besties fr coz they would know how to ease eachothers troubles #kaeya and kaveh: no home? same. cheers to that mate #kaeyas bio dad and kavehs bio mom sweating as they feel kaeya and kaveh fans curse them to hell and back

[stardew-bajablast]

people on this site regularly talk about domestic labor in a way that reads shockingly similar to the way radfems talk about sex work, and it seems like everyone here has just decided that’s ok for some reason

like “it’s bad to force a woman to be a housewife and sometimes being a housewife can lead to abusive/exploitative situations; therefore no one should ever be a housewife/stay at home parent/etc EVER or else they are dumb and don’t understand feminism”

is shockingly similar to terfs saying that because forced sex work is bad and sometimes sex workers are abused/exploited, therefore no one should ever be a sex worker or else they are dumb and don’t understand feminism

like… you’re all just cool with recycled terf rhetoric being barfed up ad nauseum during every single discussion of domestic labor??

#domestic labor #housewife #stay at home parent #stay at home mom #feminism #housework

[wri0thesley]

alhaitham’s and kaveh’s interactions and dynamic is so so funny. i love kaveh so much

#nat.txt #im down bad u guys #genshin impact posting #his reponse to alhaitham bringing traveller home is like a wife who's like YOU HAVE OTHER FRIENDS? #he does all the housework. #he cleaned the living room and alhaitham didnt even say thank u... #he thinks alhaitham's decor sucks so so bad

[yohankang]

besties i gotta be real one of you has to visit me or i'll go insane

#i can't keep having convos about weather and housework any longer #i'm going a little bit insane bc i feel so lonely here. like i do have friends in this city and my colleagues are v nice but. #coming home and talking to my aunt made me realize just how much i have to pretend every day #my coworkers know shit about me even though we get along well #my friends living here know me better and i feel comfortable around them but still. they are not my /best/ friends #and i feel like i haven't been myself since i moved #god. i feel stuck already and it's been only 2 months #maybe it'll pass.... #soon i'm going to meet a lot of people so there's a chance i will meet someone i naturally click with #i don't think i mentioned this but i'm joining a political party agjsfjsjd #so i'll be around people who care abt the same stuff as me and who are actually tolerant etc. #i just miss the times when i had a lot of close friends around me #k.txt

[bumblingbabooshka]

Father and Child

#Tuvok #trans Tuvok #//blood #Had this image in my head and couldn't get it out v_v #do /not/ tag this as f*tish art =_= #trans Tuvok has one child with his husband then meets T'Pel and the two of them immediately fall in love and start seeing one another #in secret (gasp!) then one day Tuvok shows up at T'Pel's home and challenges her husband for her hand in marriage (gasp!) #and T'Pel obviously wants Tuvok to wiiiin~ she shaves his head in the bathroom and doesn't even /look/ at her husband when the fight begins #Tuvok wins (of course) and the two live happily ever after~ #Sek is still the oldest - he's T'Pel's son and he becomes a big brother when Tuvok and T'Pel marry one another #Tuvok had one child and it went..................stressfully so he decided he didn't want to have any more biological children v_v #T'Pel was more than willing to get pregnant again bc Sek was such an easy pregnancy (and an easy baby...and an easy child...and-) #Tuvok is a house''wife'' and T'Pel is bad at housework so Tuvok offers (insists) on helping her since her husband complains #and at first T'Pel is very irritated by him bc he acts very high-and-mighty but she eventually gets to know him better and sees that he's #actually much less uptight than he seems...he's just frustrated by his life...and they fall in love <3 #they're both looked down on because T'Pel is a bit unorthodox and also from the country while Tuvok used to be very wild and is considered #strange even now...unsocial....but they understand one another <3 #Tuvok in this picture is holding Elieth in his hands and all the stress&pain is temporarily fading as he looks into his child's eyes #All of Tuvok's children were met with an unsmiling face and so much love they grew sleepy from it...like milk #bea art tag #Tuvok art #st voyager #st voyager art #trans star trek

[austerulous]

Gentle reminder that I’m very slow and inconsistent both ic and ooc, and that the speed of my replies ≠ my interest in them.

#i work part-time i'm the primary caregiver of twins i do all the housework all the cooking all the gardening #i'm in the middle of some hefty home renovations i have a dog i have depression and very likely undiagnosed and untreated adhd #mental load is real and it's insidious #( i'm actually this 🤏 close to quitting my job because i can't Do It All ) #all this is to say sometimes i'm here sometimes i'm not #sometimes I focus on ic stuff sometimes ooc convos #very often i'm just here to like posts / leave comments / reblog aesthetic stuff #this is stated in my rules and if it's something that makes me and my blog incompatible with you that's absolutely fine! #no hard feelings #some folks need consistent momentum but i can't offer that #i owe in 67 threads right now and i have 170 asks in my inbox #i'm trying to streamline things and choose a handful of threads to focus on but the fact remains i have more to do than time to do it #anyway! 99% of people understand my situation and i'm so grateful for your patience and understanding ♡ #if we're mutuals please know i like what you're doing and i'm interested in writing with you #◈ — ooc; puffin speaks

[aneverydaything]

Day 2109, 1 April 2024

#abstract #vacuum cleaner #vacuuming #hoovering #housework #motion #home

[crownedinmarigolds]

You're with your grandmother right now playing in her backyard but now I wish you were home playing in ours.

#my daughter is staying the night at nannys and we are doing housework we normally cant do when she's home #but now that everything is so nice and fixed up i wish she was here now #love her miss her #personal

[rubiesintherough]

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#(( ooc. )) #venting tw #negativity tw #i know ive been bitching about this a lot lately but just let a girl vent pls #husband just got home and said 'you look tired you should go lie down ' #and i told him i cant. i have too much housework to do. 'well lay down after that ' #cant. because then i have more housework after that. #and he got all huffy at me like i was being dramatic #and he said 'how am i supposed to snuggle up with you if you arent laying down? c #and i shot back ' who's going to do the housework if i dont ' #and he rolled his eyes. straight up rolled his eyes. #this is the man that is constantly telling me to just ask him for more help. just make a list #yelled at me and stormed out of the house whej i told him to pls just use his eyes #bc i dont have time to make him a list of chores #and also the man who if i do ask him to do smth it doesnt get done #examples just from today. he was heading into town and i asked him to please bring the recycling with him. he didnt. #he yells at me for doing the cat litter bc its bad for my asthma. but then leaves it until its bad enough i have to do it #bc its unfair to the cats to expect them to use a litter box that bad. and then he gets mad at me for not just asking him to do it #like. its in the bathroom. right next to the toilet. he has to look at it when hes taking a shit every day. and youre telling me #he doesnt notice it? i have to remind him??? #and then i get yelled at and reprimanded for just doing it myself #' ASK FOR HELP DAMMIT! ' #i do. i do all the fucking time. i ask you to empty the garbage bc bending over makes my back scream. but you dont #and i have to power through and do it. #i ask you to bring the recycling into town to drop off. and as soon as you leave i find out you didnt even gather it up. #i ask you to please clear out the bathtub drain. for two weeks. and you brush it off until the day i decide to #do it myself and you get so passive aggressive about it and ' no ILL DO IT. the tool is back in my mom's room #guess I'll just go WAKE HER UP FROM HER NAP so i can grab it since you need it done! ' #im so tired of asking and then just being disappointed anyway. #if im gonna get yelled at anyway id rather just do it all myself so at least its done. and not sit there and beg for help and do it anyway