#how to build a sex room

[voluptuarian]

So I binged the entirety of How To Build a Sex Room last night and this one scene just cracked me up

The designer's at a western leather/tack store looking for supplies to make a rustic-style sex swing and turns to one of the store employees for advice, which initially goes about as amusingly as you would expect

So then she pulls up some pictures to give him an idea of what she needs

And he's Immediately like

The professional disgust, I'm living

#how to build a sex room

[machtaholic]

I just finished watching 'How to Build a Sex Room' on Netflix and ... it is probably one of the most sex positive shows I've seen. The soundtrack is completely awesome and every song they play use is a bop. Also, the designer, Melanie Rose is lovely and so accepting.

And she and her contractor are a fucking kick when they're together - and for as much as they joke, her contractor is just as open and accepting as she is. And the people that are featured on this show are such an amazing cross-section of America.

More vanilla couples, people on their second wedding, gay couples, lesbian couples, nonbinary, polycules, a single woman finding her way after 22 years of marriage, a couple where the man was raised super conservative so is far newer to kink than his wife, highschool sweethearts who have been together 17 years where the woman tops ...

This 8 episode 'design series' actually does an amazing job of showing that kink comes in all shapes, sizes and flavours.

I highly reccommend it.

#how to build a sex room #netflix #sex positivity

[hungerpunch]

no but really how to build a sex room is delighting me. the host meets people where they are without shaming them, helps prod what they’re curious about, and takes people to get real demos of bdsm and other various kinks from actual real experts. it’s home makeover and education all in one go. it is the antithesis of 50 shades. there’s actually a lot about how she handles sex and desire that i find really powerful but i don’t have time to get into it 😂 def try it, i think!

#i just finished the ep where she designs a room for a polycule of 7 and she took each one of their interests & needs into account #emphatic rec from me atm #text post #driveby post #how to build a sex room

[asleepinawell]

this show is delightful

#how to build a sex room #some guy didn't know what a st andrews cross was #and I was like I forgot for a moment that I lived in a world where a lot of people don't know anything about kink #mp

[goddammitstacey]

Just watched the first ep of “How to Build a Sex Room” and I would now die for Melanie Rose

#the Mary Poppins of sex rooms indeed #how to build a sex room

[libbyangelofthelord]

Friend: *walking in after a long day of work* OMG WHAT ARE YOU WATCHING?

Me: *snacking on some chips and lounging on the couch* It's on Netflix it's called how to build a sex room

Friend: But your asexual! Why would you want to watch that?

Me: I find it fascinating. You know how you like to watch serial killer docs but you don't want to kill anyone?

Friend: Yeah and your point is?

Me: It's the same thing here. I find shows or movies like this interesting but I don't want to have sex.

Friend: oh okay...but do you have to watch it in our living room?

Me: *groans as I stand up gathering my chips and blanket, before saying jokingly* and people call me a prude

Friend: Touché

#asexual #how to build a sex room

[hella-gay-pegasus-666]

Anyone: "I guess I have a lot to learn and explore."

Melanie Rose: "Have you ever tried a sex swing?"

#how to build a sex room #melanie rose #she cracks me up #I wish I had a house to build a sex room in

[ultrasmallville35]

"So, I hear you want a sex room 👀"

We're both former Monster hunters and want to truly enjoy our retirement.

My husband likes to wear panties and be dominated. I like to be slathered in honey and bees, and we just want a room where we can truly be ourselves.

#how to build a sex room #destiel #supernatural #dean winchester #castiel #castiel winchester

[dont-offend-the-bees]

Binging the sex room show while the heat wave fucks up your sleep is all fun and games until you watch the very much in love queer couple who trust each other to the ends of the earth experiment with shibari together and you get taken out at the knees by a baseball bat made of Yearning

#how to build a sex room #And then you go on tumblr dot com and find your og mutual posting about The One That Got Away (perfect gay show cancelled before its time) #And have More emotions lmao #Seriously though I wasn't fucking expecting it but I had fucking tears in my eyes what the fuck #mr. bees speaks #It is six in the fucking morning

[sam-crevellari]

#guess what I just binge watched #how to build a sex room #so positive and beautiful and empowering and… god #such a good show

[heygingergirl]

To my “old” tumblr friends…I have no doubt we would all like to hire this woman to design our dream rooms.

New and improved Netflix and chill.

#how to build a sex room #netflix #recommend

[superwholockednico]

The idea that a sexless marriage is a failing one always makes me so uncomfortable

I'm watching how to build a sex room (which is great btw) episode 3 and the host lady was asking how many times a week they have sex and the guy was like.... none. and they all like... wince. And the lady was like 'i understand a marriage can't sustain without sex'.

And it's something I've heard so many times that makes me so vastly uncomfortable. Even if both parties aren't asexual, it's still a weird way to think about marriage to me.

Also, the idea that having sex every day is a sign of a healthy marriage is also just weird. Like, sex every day? for your whole life??? until you die??? That uh. idk. i don't vibe with the idea. weird. sorta horrifying.

i get that if one person wants it and the other doesn't then it's a matter of like, how do you deal with being in a relationship where two people want different things. or if both want to but it just never happens.

but in general why is it just the norm to think this way?

#how to build a sex room #sex positive #should include being positive about not having sex #thoughts

[quinnfebrey]

“we love that this space is so secret” you are on netflix, actually

#* #how to build a sex room

[terresdebrume]

Just started "How to build a sex room"

The transition between flogging and the car wash is sending me tbh

#Matt watches #How to build a sex room #10n #20n #30n #40n #50n #60n #70n #80n #100n #200n

[clustermuck]

#see? #I just memed it #how to build a sex room #Netflix #meme this now y’all #while you still can #American politics #leftist meme #separation of church and state #like…DUH #our country was founded on it

[viking-raider]

Look, I'm just saying, if you're writing smut and need a little kick, watch "How to build a sex room" there's no sex in it. But good lord, does seeing the fabulous Melanie Rose and her design skills are inspiring.

(It got the juices for this August fic going wild!)

#Melanie Rose #Smut #how to build a sex room #henry cavill #viking-raider fics #August Walker