#how to kiss

[cissyenthusiast010155]

🌴 with some more intimate questions

So I was reading your new bingo instalment, and I must say perfect as always! But it sparked some questions for me about kissing, and how you described that.

I’ve seen it described so many times in fics in similar ways and situations but how would that be put in practice. How on earth do you even kiss someone beyond the peck on the cheeks you can give. How does it work in order to “taste” your partner? The only experience I have in this subject is someone attempting kiss me like that and me being extremely unwilling which meant my whole lower face was just wet? It was not something that I’d ever want again!

I now have a wonderful partner but it’s getting to the point I know they want more than a sweet kiss on the cheek, so I guess my question is how?

Hope that made sense *runs off to hide in a hole out of embarrassment*

{Let’s Talk about Kissing…!}

Heyyy 🌴 anon…!! It is so good to hear from you again. Thank you for your kind words, sweet anon!! Thank you for stopping in again! And thank you for being vulnerable and asking more questions 🥰 I deeply appreciate your sharing, and I always look forward to your questions.

So, kissing— How is it put into practice?

Well first off, there are many different kinds of kisses. I believe you’re mainly talking about French kissing, as that is what’s often described in fics, but it’s important to note that French kissing isn’t the only kissing style. Check out this article for more types of kissing—Know All About the Different Types of Kisses.

By back to French kissing. French kissing is also referred to as tongue kissing, deep kissing, and sometimes making out. I want to make a note here that it’s okay if you’re not into French kissing. It’s not for everybody. Just because it’s written about a good amount, does not mean it’s for you. And that’s okay ♥️

French kissing involves tongue-to-tongue contact. It can include pecking, nipping, biting, and more, but the main part and crux of French kissing is the tongue-on-tongue contact. This type of kissing is often the most common when written and showed on entertainment for romantic partners.

In my personal opinion, a not so good kisser will just shove their tongue in your mouth (if it’s sounds gross, good because it is). A better kisser will ask for permission before by either using words or nipping/licking your bottom lip. A good French kiss is a give and take, with usually one person leading. They moved their tongue around and along your lips, as well as inside your mouth and around your tongue.

A bad kisser (especially French) can be horrendous. It sounds like you experienced something like that. I’m sorry ♥️♥️ I have as well. But the good news is, you yourself can become a better kisser so that hopefully you are never that bad kisser.

Next, what is “tasting” your partner?

“Tasting” your partner is when your partner has something or the flavor of something already in their mouth. This can happen if they just did oral on you, and you taste yourself, or if they drank alcohol, and you can then sometimes taste the alcohol on their tongue. Things like that.

Time to Explore, what next?

I am so glad to hear that you have a partner that you feel safe enough to want to try this with. I would recommend you ask your partner how they feel about kissing, have a conversation with them. See if they have had any bad experiences, see what they like, see what they don’t like, etc.

And when you do start, start slow. Start with simple pecks and go from there. You got this, sweet anon.

This made absolute sense. Thank you for asking, dear anon! You are very courageous, and I am very proud of you. No need to be embarrassed ♥️♥️ Hope this was informative! Hope to hear from you again soon!! 💞💞💞

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[leftyfrances]

the actual teenager experience:

#first post #pov #adrianne lenker #how to kiss #??? #lol jk #or was I

[sanri0girly]

Omg I can't believe my man was over and we didn't kiss we wanted to so bad!!! I could feel the tension TT!!! PLS HOW DO U EVEN KISS??? I've never has a bf💔

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[datingtip4men]

Kissing Advice

I'm sure you are familiar with that awkward moment at the end of a date when you're not sure on how to go about getting a kiss. First of all, it's very important to know that some women have a rule that they don't kiss on the first date. I don't agree with this rule and think a kiss would be a nice way to end a date. But, you must play by and respect her rules.

Sometimes you can just tell by the chemistry between you that you are going to kiss at the end of the date, if not before. Other times you will have to use your own judgment and read her body language.

If you start to kiss her lips and she turns away, offers her cheek, or offers to give you a hug instead, don't take it personally. She may not feel comfortable enough with you to kiss you. She may have the no kissing on the first date rule, she may have a cold, or she just may not feel any attraction towards you.

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Lastly, don't try to force a kiss. This will only piss her off. And she may not even want to date you again because you did not respect her wishes of not wanting to be kissed for whatever reason.

In closing, I hope you don't hold it against a woman if she will not kiss you at the end of your first date. There will be plenty of time for kissing and intimacy on later dates once you get to know each other and establish some physical chemistry.

It's really sad that some guys won't ask a girl out again if she won't give him a kiss at the end of the first date. Give romance a chance! Don't give up so early in the game! First dates are normally just for getting to know each other and not for intimacy. There are exceptions to the rule (one-night stands and sex on the first date comes to mind).

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[vertigorx]

#How To Kiss with Tongue for Your First Kiss? #How To Kiss with Tongue #How To Kiss #love

[itsreaditandwow2]

GET IN HERE AND FUCKING MAKE OUT WITH ME!

Damian Sanders-Baron (MakeMeBad35)

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[freeonlineworkouts]

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[mcworm]

JUST SAW A FED-EX DRIVER JUMP OUR OF HIS TRUCK AT A REDLIGHT AND RUN UP TO A SECOND FED-EX TRUCK (THREE CARS AHEAD) AND THE GUY LEANED OUT AND THEY JUST KISSED ON THE LIPS? HELLO?

#i was having such a rough day but i think this cured me #you dont understand how hysterical i was after watching this #homies is it gay to kiss another truck driver at a red light

[inkskinned]

because sometimes there are invisible tests and invisible rules and you're just supposed to ... know the rule. someone you thought of as a friend asks you for book recommendations, so you give her a list of like 30 books, each with a brief blurb and why you like it. later, you find out she screenshotted the list and send it out to a group chat with the note: what an absolute freak can you believe this. you saw the responses: emojis where people are rolling over laughing. too much and obsessive and actually kind of creepy in the comments. you thought you'd been doing the right thing. she'd asked, right? an invisible rule: this is what happens when you get too excited.

you aren't supposed to laugh at your own jokes, so you don't, but then you're too serious. you're not supposed to be too loud, but then people say you're too quiet. you aren't supposed to get passionate about things, but then you're shy, boring. you aren't supposed to talk too much, but then people are mad when you're not good at replying.

you fold yourself into a prettier paper crane. since you never know what is "selfish" and what is "charity," you give yourself over, fully. you'd rather be empty and over-generous - you'd rather eat your own boundaries than have even one person believe that you're mean. since you don't know what the thing is that will make them hate you, you simply scrub yourself clean of any form of roughness. if you are perfect and smiling and funny, they can love you. if you are always there for them and never admit what's happening and never mention your past and never make them uncomfortable - you can make up for it. you can earn it.

don't fuck up. they're all testing you, always. they're tolerating you. whatever secret club happened, over a summer somewhere - during some activity you didn't get to attend - everyone else just... figured it out. like they got some kind of award or examination that allowed them to know how-to-be-normal. how to fit. and for the rest of your life, you've been playing catch-up. you've been trying to prove that - haha! you get it! that the joke they're telling, the people they are, the manual they got- yeah, you've totally read it.

if you can just divide yourself in two - the lovable one, and the one that is you - you can do this. you can walk the line. they can laugh and accept you. if you are always-balanced, never burdensome, a delight to have in class, champagne and glittering and never gawky or florescent or god-forbid cringe: you can get away with it.

you stare at your therapist, whom you can make jokes with, and who laughs at your jokes, because you are so fucking good at people-pleasing. you smile at her, and she asks you how you're doing, and you automatically say i'm good, thanks, how are you? while the answer swims somewhere in your little lizard brain:

how long have you been doing this now? mastering the art of your body and mind like you're piloting a puppet. has it worked? what do you mean that all you feel is... just exhausted. pick yourself up, the tightrope has no net. after all, you're cheating, somehow, but nobody seems to know you actually flunked the test. it's working!

aren't you happy yet?

#almost wrote the champagne line as ''effervescent'' but legit could not write it without saying ''effervescent like a snail'' #ah tumblr... #writeblr #warm up #idk . having trouble writing rn #ps i don't like to talk about it . it is my medical information. but before you ask. yes this is about being on the spectrum #i really don't like when ppl make my writing about how im [whatever ID]. i want it to ring true for the people who it rings true for #i don't want it to be like ''awwwww look at this person!!! she's the EXCEPTION!!! :)" ..... #no.... not really..... #idk something gross happens whenever i admit to certain conditions and i turn into like inspiration p*rnography #like yes they actually let us use keyboards these days #furthermore i just... dont feel comfortable talking about this part of me. i had too bad of a childhood. adhd is one thing... #this one im like. still coming to terms with. which is like. my own journey. #idk. just please be kind. some things are more private than others. this one feels private to me. #i do not know how to help others w/this . and i do not know how to help myself. i will talk about it if im ever ready. idk if that will #actually ever happen #ty in advance i love u im kissing you we are kissing somewhere on the spectrum

[ash-and-starlight]

humble contribution

#basic: interpreting mizu’s gender based on what u think fits best #based wired inspired: interpreting mizu’s gender based on the ship so that it’s always a gay relationship #also whoever drew taigen’s nose Like That.. #i am forever thankful i need to kiss them with tongue #ode to taigen’s nose: page 1 of 204737835737493 #did i spend too long on this instead of just simply grabbing screenshots? look away #blue eye samurai #mizu #akemi #taigen #taigen’s top knot before it met its early end teach the angels how to sing baby 😔🙏 #ringo #my art #yuri is when there’s blood and themes yaoi is two blokes who do fuck all

[fanfic-gremlin-ft-trauma]

Zuko’s swt visits throughout their relationship :)

#zukka #zuko x sokka #atla #zukka fanart #atla fanart #swt zukka #I’m just…. #I’m so soft for them u guys 😭 #this is the progression of their hugs into a kiss when they finally Get Their Shit Together #you’ve probably noticed how often I draw them hugging + in the SWT #but like…. I can’t help it #it’s just my favourite concept

[hinamie]

surprise it's yuri!!!in 2024

#my art #yuri on ice #yuri!!! on ice #yoi #fanart #katsuki yuuri #victor nikiforov #victuuri #yoi fanart #this was the secret 4th thing that lost the poll jdsfgsdfjj #id been thinking about doing a tribute since getting that one ask but i didn't anticipate how Into it i would get once i started #the way i flew through this piece .. just over 1 day??? insane #yuri is /that/ ingrained in my muscle memory #I was looking at refs and ?? id forgotten how wild this show was #we just got all of that?? a pole dance a proposal a kiss a pair skate....and it was ALL canon? incredible #AND YEAH UNPROMPTED HISTORY MAKER PLAYS IN MY YT MIX #dean fujioka jumpscare #also looking back at my old yoi pieces was so wild. that ws really 8 years ago huh. #little bit of an ego boost looking at how far ive come #but also im just grateful idk sry 2 b sappy on main #i hope 16 year old me is happy that i did this bc im happy i did this #edit bc i forgot a bunch of white outline i am a fraud

[urfriendlywriter]

How to write smut ?

(@urfriendlywriter | req by @rbsstuff @yourlocalmerchgirl anyone under the appropriate age, please proceed with caution :') hope this helps guys! )

writing smut depends on each person's writing style but i think there's something so gut-wrenchingly beautiful about smut when it's not very graphic and vivid. like., would this turn on a reader more?

"he kissed her, pulling her body closer to him."

or this?

"His lips felt so familiar it hurt her heart. His breathing had become more strained; his muscles tensed. She let herself sink into his embrace as his hands flattened against her spine. He drew her closer."

One may like either the top or the bottom one better, but it totally depends on your writing to make it work. Neither is bad, but the second example is more flattering, talking literally.

express one's sensory feelings, and the readers will automatically know what's happening.

writing, "her walls clenched against him, her breath hitching with his every thrust" is better than writing, "she was about to cum".

here are some vocabulary you can introduce in your writing:

whimpered, whispered, breathed lightly, stuttered, groaned, grunted, yearned, whined, ached, clenched, coaxed, cried out, heaved, hissed

shivering, shuddering, curling up against one's body, squirming, squirting, touching, teasing, taunting, guiding, kneeling, begging, pining, pinching, grinding,

swallowing, panting, sucking in a sharp breath, thrusting, moving gently, gripped, biting, quivering,

nibbling, tugging, pressing, licking, flicking, sucking, panting, gritting, exhaling in short breaths,

wet kisses, brushing soft kisses across their body (yk where), licking, sucking, teasing, tracing, tickling, bucking hips, forcing one on their knees

holding hips, guiding the one on top, moving aimlessly, mindlessly, sounds they make turn insanely beautiful, sinful to listen to

some adjectives to use: desperately, hurriedly, knowingly, teasingly, tauntingly, aimlessly, shamelessly, breathlessly, passionately, delicately, hungrily

he sighed with pleasure

her skin flushed

he shuddered when her body moved against his

he planted kisses along her jawline

her lips turned red, messy, kissed and flushed.

his hands were on his hair, pulling him.

light touches traveled down his back

words were coiled at his throat, coming out as broken sobs, wanting more

he arched his back, his breath quivering

her legs parted, sinking into the other's body, encircling around their waist.

+ mention the position, how they're being moved around---are they face down, kneeling, or standing, or on top or on bottom--it's really helpful to give a clear picture.

+ use lustful talk, slow seduction, teasing touches, erratic breathing, give the readers all while also giving them nothing. make them yearn but DO NOT PROLONG IT.

sources to refer to for more: (will be updated soon!)

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[vertigorx]

How to French Kiss?

#How to French Kiss #how to kiss #kissing #french kiss

[a-frog-in-a-bog]

that poll going around asking how often you smoke weed and almost a third of ppl saying they’ve never smoked before, and that poll that revealed that over a third of tumblr users have never kissed anyone before, proves to me that stoners who have gay sex are a small but imperative part of the tumblr ecosystem. Keystone species

#I was SHOCKED when I found out how many people had never kissed anyone before #virgins? on MY gay sex website? #I was less shocked with the weed poll but still a lil surprised #mine #peer reviewed

[leqclerc]

Azerbaijan Grand Prix 2018 -> Saudi Arabian Grand Prix 2024

#formula 1 #f1 #f1edit #charles leclerc #sebastian vettel #oliver bearman #ollie bearman #does it ever drive you crazy just how fast the night changes #same canal+ presenter at the scene of the crime in both 😭 kisses to my c+ gang love your coverage pls stop paywalling ur content #azerbaijan gp 2018 #saudi arabian gp 2024 #* #*mine: gif