#how to treat a lady

[zoe-oneesama]

Pollen needs to reboot.

Episode 44 Part 12

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#like cute for Adrien and Plagg but my guy how DID your last holders treat you??? #scarlet lady #scarlet lady au #scarlet lady comic #sandboy #episode 44 part 12

[dirtytransmasc]

Alicent being ignored as a parent during those first few years. Alicent being expected to take care of aegon, while also allowing Viserys to take him whenever he so pleased, to show off and pass around like a model toy. Alicent being denied her child whenever lords and ladies were around. Alicent only getting him back when she was at her wits end, stressed after being separated from him for so long, watching people hold him wrong, play with him wrong, touch him wrong. Alicent only getting him back when he is fussy and no longer a source of entertainment for Viserys and his guests. Alicent holding her baby close to her chest during outings or events, stiffening when people ask to see him, hesitant to release her grip on him. Alicent biting her tongue when people ask to "give her a break" when she really wants to tell them that it's her baby and she's perfectly capable. Alicent being so exhausted from guests and Aegon being so little and full of energy, and her second pregnancy, causing her to doze with Aegon in her arms, only to nearly lash out when someone tries to slip him from her arms, engulfing him in her arms as if to fend him from hungry wolves. Alicent carrying him around, even as she grows tired, her arms burning and back aching, so she knows he is safe, away from prying hands and acrid whispers, away from his father's attempts to use him for amusement purposes. Alicent feigning a smile, feigning composure and enjoyment, when really, she just wants to be home, in her chambers with her son, where no one can bother them, where they aren't props meant to smile and wave for a man who does not love them.

(inspired by this reblog of my post from earlier. cause yes, @squgs [hope you don't mind me tagging] is right, she would very much go to war for her baby)

#protective mom alicent for the win #I feel like there isnt enough focus in how Viserys treats Alicent and Aegon like props in those first few years #he wasnt a parent or a proper husband unless he could show them off #he treated them almost like toys #and I feel like Alicent would want to rip her hair out over it #she hates feeling like shes on display. but she can suck it up and bute her tongue #with Aegon though? she's a lot less willing to just let it happen #but of course. what can she do? he's the king after all. she's just his little lady wife #just because she's forced to lie down and take it doesn't mean she has to like it or be willing #alicent hightower #aegon targaryen #aegon ii targaryen #hotd #house of the dragon #pro team green #anti viserys i targaryen #I hate that man so fucking much #people act like he loved alicent and aegon in those first few years #but he clearly didn't #he just pretended to #he was just using them for his own benefit

[xoxo-ren-xoxo]

how some of the traffic series / life series fandom treat the ladies is... hm. and how they treat bigb is even more... hm. (negative)

i would have more complex things to say but honestly i am very tired. im sure ill rant in the tags

#trafficblr #traffic series #life series #last life #double life #third life #limited life #can the fandom start treating woman + POCs like. normal #please #how come every time i see a roundup of cool designs for life series players. bigb is always the one boring ass human #how come he is literally ignored. as if he wasnt in evo and has partaken in like half the coolest storylines in the series #and the ladies are treated like the 'mom friend' despite mostly being murderous little freaks just like the guys #anyway. idk #do better i think

[obisamya]

4-5-1 Season 3, Episode 3 TED LASSO (2020-2023)

#ted lasso #tedlassoedit #tledit #shandy fine #ambreen razia #zava #maximilian osinski #gifs. #has it been long enough that we can acknowledge what they did to shandy was fucked and she was actually very fun and had potential? #it's like. the downside to colourblind casting where they think 'oh we're casting a woc yay diversity!' but then they dont change anything #about the role to fit the fact that the character is now a character of colour #so then you accidentally get shit like this. where they were trying for something funny with her storyline/how she got fired #but instead they've unintentionally made her an unfunny caricature that all her rich white lady superiors think is incompetent #treating the One woc we had for this season this way is just so nasty #but anyway on a lighter note. i love how unhinged shandy's convos are. this one and the one she has w roy. just love the energy she has

[bruciemilf]

wait I have got to hear your thoughts on bruce being lottie!!

Rewatching Princess and The Frog has got me in a chokehold! But basically, the AU as of now;

It's a well established, well know, well respected fact from the White House to the Bayou; If you ain't Wayne rich, you ain't rich at all.

But you won't catch Thomas Wayne bragging and boosting and yapping about hot cars, or big mansions, or pearly white yachts.

Thomas' pride and joy is one tiny, fawn eyed, overly energetic boy that made Gotham collectively swoon.

"And I want a princess when I grows up!" Bruce is just prancing around in his pink prince costume, adjusting a paper crown that Alfred made, " Or a prince! Can you get me a prince, papa?"

"You know the deal, Bruce; You wish it, daddy grands it; Ain't that right, Martha?"

Martha Kent chuckles in that warm, knowing way of hers. Her friend is infamous for the way he spoils his boy. But the Waynes are good people. And not just because they keep her farm afloat.

"Yeah, you're good on that front. But you know, sweetheart; It doesn't matter if you marry a prince or princess. As long as they make you smile, that's all that matters."

Lois, just a bit older than Bruce, makes a disgusted noise, " I don't want no prince or princess. I just want Princess money."

Bruce squeals, " But a PRINCE. I'd love to marry a Prince. We'd have a big big wedding and the sweetest cake in the world, and everyone would have fun, -- Clark! You gonna be at my wedding, right?"

Clark, dressed up in his blue overalls and paper sword, to fit the knight Bruce always calls him, nods, with a smile that doesn't match his words, " Course I will, Bruce. If you'll have me."

Now. Bruce is so very good at forging fantasies. But when a princess from a far away island rumoured to be populated entirely by women comes into town, it doesn't look like make believe at all.

"Women only? Lucky."

Lois doesn't have the time for dreams; She's a bonafide, concise, straight to the point realist. Taking truth by the throat and brings it to light.

And often enough, truth isn't pretty. And ugly truth, as Parry said, right before booting her right out of her job, doesn't sell.

Luckily, Clark's folks were nice enough to give her a delivery job cause Clark can't drive worth a damn. Still. If she's gonna watch him contain another dreamy sigh for Bruce, she'll blow chunks.

"Did you see her in them papers?! That's the prettiest woman I ever did see!"

Mr. Wayne growls behind his newspaper (that Lois could've written better than fucking JIMMY) and Bruce doubles down, " Um. After mama."

Mr Thomas smiles. "Hm. Guess you're finally getting that princess, huh, Brucie?"

Even in adulthood, Bruce squeals like a strangled kitten, " Where's Clark? Can't have the perfect wedding without the perfect best man!" Lois bites her lip and stacks up the peaches in Mrs. Wayne's Cafe.

After all these years, she just refuses to let that old place go. Lois has to respect that. Martha gives her a sympathetic look, warms her up with a mother's love. " How's work, Lo?"

"It's work, Mrs. Wayne. Thank you for that big order for the masquerade ball. At this point, you're the only ones keeping that farm alive..."

"Give those apples some credit," she winks, but squeezes Lois' hand, " If you ever need anything..."

"Thank you. But I don't take handouts."

"Pride won't buy you food, honey. But I guess I gotta wait for you to open your own newspaper. Then I'll make you rich. You'll see."

Bruce is just hugging and squeezing on Clark's arm, ranting a mile a minute about his wedding colors, his cake flavor, the honeymoon, all while nuzzling Clark's toned arm.

And Clark does what he does best; Hide behind a smile.

Alfred sighs, " If he wasn't mine, I'd whack that boy's head with a pan."

"You'll do no such thing, or so help me!"

"Save it for the after party, Tommy dear," Martha chuckles, " But I gotta understand, -- this Diana lady's making waves. I never even seen a woman talk to the mayor before. Let alone yell at 'Im."

"That's cause Tommy Elliot only wants women under his desk," A roll of the eye, a coil of disgust fanning resentment In her gut, Lois takes the box. "Sides, little miss princess probably ain't better than he is. "

The problem with always looking back is you're never ready for the forward.

When Lois bumps up in something tall, solid, and warm, she thinks its Clark. Except neither she or Clark smell like vanilla ice cream and clean air and blue oceans.

Clark certainly doesn't have long, majestic hair gracefully dancing in the winds. He doesn't have blood red lips, or strong blue eyes.

Clark's eyes were summer sky blue. Not a blue Medusa herself couldn't stone.

And he certainly doesn't make her heart stop with a smirk.

"Well," Diana Fucking Prince says, voice satin and velvet, "I don't know about being a better. But I could change your mind about that."

#dc #bruce wayne #clark kent #lois lane #dc comics #superbat #diana prince #diana of themyscira #lois x diana #basically diana goes undercover as a civilian to see how the mayor treats his citizens or maybe shes running from something and lois #has to help take your pic!!! #text #text post #also bruce has little babies!! jay and dickie ^^ lois employes their help to stop wonderbat from happening bc clearly CLARK should marry #the princess and save the farm #jay isnt down!! she wants the cool lady as his mom! and dick wants uncle clark as his dad!

[clonerightsagenda]

Protector of the Small had to make Kel close personal friends with the next king and queen otherwise she would've ended up leading a peasant revolt.

#Kel's innate sense of fairness and treating everyone equally #vs. being stuck in a fantasy novel with a monarchy #which will win #yes I KNOW part of the genre is accepting the whole 'good king' concept as part of the setting #however how long can Kel keep going 'well there are SOME good nobles'... #iirc her family was only elevated possibly even within her lifetime or right before her birth #which influences her perspective #my point being if you take away the convenient friendly good king #Kel's sense of fair play and tendency to accumulate adoptees would put her at the head of a rebellion by the time she's 30 #the only other thing stopping her is her choice to remain stubbornly loyal to systems that don't treat her well #tortall #perpetual perpetual ladies night

[manuinout]

They'd have little tea parties together 😭💞✨

#I still don't know how to feel about Nostalgia #But I still love her! #also I feel like she'd treat Empathy like her grandchild #She's a sweet old lady and I LOVE SWEET OLD LADIES 😭💞✨ #inside out #inside out 2 #inside out oc #inside out fandom #gacha #small creator

[strrwbrrryjam]

another reason you should all be grateful for miss grimshaw, arthur wouldn't be the gentleman he is without her

#you just know she was the one to tell him off when he was rude and snarky #and taught him how to properly treat a lady. i mean. we see how dutch treats woman. hosea helped susan sure #but you know susan was the one who ultimately moldedhim into the gentleman he is #rdr2 #red dead redemption 2 #rdr2 arthur morgan #arthur morgan #rdr2 miss grimshaw #miss grimshaw #rdr2 susan grimshaw #susan grimshaw #strawberry speaks

[sad-emo-dip-dye]

Kunikida with her organized financial plan and very strict budget at a loss for words when Bram comes home and tells her he bought groceries and a castle for them to live in

#new house new car whole new wardrobe #I’m about to start pushing my sugar daddy Bram agenda #he’s been alive how long? #he has to have amassed a fortune #gotta treat the lady #bsd #bungo stray dogs #kunibram #bsd kunikida #bsd bram

[thebirdandhersong]

Respectfully. I am tired of being helpful :)

#hold on let me have the five seconds of indignation out and i shall be sane again #i taught the first engineer boy to buy flowers for his performing significant other at a concert #i taught him how to roll up his sleeves and fix his darn shirt. and how to dress for this kind of event #i stayed with him because he was a little antsy about meeting the girl's parents #i taught him to offer to hold a lady's bag on the walk home #and that was just today. i did not need to do those things WHY did i do those things #i am thankfully not in love with him anymore so that's not the problem #the problem is that im sick and tired of being the one who Helps and the one who Aids and the one who assists in smoothing the way for his #happiness. and that is a bit of a blanket statement im not claiming to have formed him like pygmalion and galatea or anything #it is just. i know i HAVE smoothed the way and i know there is no thanks for it not that im asking for it #i just resent the fact that this is my role. stagehand in other people's stories #again!!!!!!!!!!!!! #like why am i the one teaching you how to treat a girl well. considering the history and circumstances

[snackugaki]

memory lane pizza

#tmnt au #my tmnt au is just me reconciling a bunch of things #i don't know what to tell the kids #they were born in the 80s #so i'm letting them grow old #and I'm gonna give them a reprieve #are Karai and Leo gonna face the utrom invasion tomorrow? #mayBE #but for now they ate some gnarly greasy pizza #and washed it down with cocktail of 8 different sodas #jonin deserve to eat gross fast food #as a treat #I almost want to go on a spiel on how ninja work and their role in my au #but it's gonna get in the way of me drawing them doing dumb shit #like turtle hockey with Casey #original Karai was a smidge too much of the Dragon Lady stereotype #...that reminds me there was a literal Lotus Blossom character in TMNT too #yeesh #Helen Zia and Sunny Woan compel me #the yikes compels me #Leo doesn't eat the crusts

[replaybf]

tomorrow i begin cat sitting for my ex-neighbour’s cats again and this time… for the entire month ❤️

#txt #idk how many babies there are this time bc this lady’s situation is… Odd #but it’s either two or FOUR cats <33 #and with my darling coming over next week too… what a treat. maybe life is worth being scared all the time

[wigglesdtuff]

#and what if i played around on premiere with some clips i have gathered now that i know how to do so somewhat efficiently #nico robin #one piece #lady jesus #idk maybe i'll figure out some more sometime lol #you can have this little baby edit as a treat 'cause idk what i'm doing

[thebibi]

Honestly, I can't help but think Van Helsing chose garlic flowers over bulbs because he thinks it would suit Lucy's image more. Like yeah she may not care for the smell but wild flowers in a woman's bedroom is so much more pleasant to look at. Also, ordering flowers would be much less suspicious than ordering a whole box of garlic bulbs. But I mostly think he did it because they look better, and therefore, more palatable.

#dracula daily #dracula (novel) #abraham van helsing #lucy westenra #something something something about how a young lady should be treated #thebibi on vampirez

[fromtheseventhhell]

arya’s “culpability in lady’s death” what THE FUCK??? what did arya do??? not let Joffrey hack mycah’s face off??? practice sword fighting with her friend??? people are seriously arguing Arya was responsible for lady dying I hate this fucking fandom, leave Arya alone Jesus christ

I mean...yes that's exactly how they think 😭. This fandom isn't big on using logic. They just think Arya is wrong and hate her character altogether. They only talk about her when it's time to make Sansa look better. That's how we get takes like "Arya not being classist is a bad thing!". You see, the ones who make claims like this are all Sansa stans. They aren't going to say anything that has a chance of making her look bad. So instead of blaming the people actually at fault, it's Arya who should've acted differently. If they blame Cersei and Joffrey, the ones actually responsible, then that means Sansa looks bad for continuing to trust them and later revealing Ned's plans. This is also why Ned gets the blame for Lady's death even though she would've been killed either way because Cersei demanded it. They also think Sansa is always right about everything so her blaming Arya is the ultimate proof. Arya's POV is always wrong and Sansa's POV is the most trustworthy in the books🙄. What's funny is that George himself has placed partial blame on a Stark sister for Lady's death and it sure wasn't Arya...

#ask #anon #arya stark #asoiaf #anti sansa stans #honestly I don't even place blame on Sansa for Lady's death because I understand why she lied #I just dislike how she treats Arya afterwards and excuses the Lannisters #but the fact that the author himself is like /yeah she played a part/ is very telling #they aren't going to like how her story plays out I fear

[akiizayoi4869]

The most horrific Mai and Ty Lee take that I've ever heard:

Is the one where for some reason, people seem to believe that those two faked the friendship that they had with Azula for years, and secretly hated her. And this is somehow seen as a good thing because it's being done to Azula and she totally deserves that because*checks notes* she was mean and "abusive" (spoiler alert: she was not abusive you dumb fucks).

I shouldn't even have to say that this is extremely fucked up, and yet I have to. Like, do y'all not realize that this happens to people in reality? And that it can completely fuck the person up when they eventually find out about it? So to use this as a way of saying that Mai and Ty Lee were secretly good all along is horrible because guess what? THIS MAKES THEM LOOK WORSE THAN AZULA EVER WAS IN THE SHOW. HOW DO YOU NOT SEE THAT????

Seriously, if you think that this friendship was fake from the start:

Then you need a serious wake up call. The friendship between them was a lot of things, but "fake" isn't one of them.

#atla #azula #mai #ty lee #seriously wtf is wrong with you people??? #saying that these two faked their friendship with azula was A GOOD THING #is just entirely fucked up #and makes me question what kind of childhood did you have to even THINK that this is ok #because it isn't #NOBODY deserves to be treated like that #I don't care how mean they can be at times #fuck that shit #dangerous ladies meta #I guess? #akiizayoi4869 meta