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[hufflepuffwannabe]

I just got accepted for my first job! I'm so excited to start working. Do you have any tips for me?

CONGRATS ON YOUR FIRST JOB! That’s so exciting! My advice would be to pay attention to their expectations and always try to go above and beyond when you can :) Be friendly with your coworkers. The moral support is nice to have.

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

Hey, I was wondering if you could help me out with this situation. There's this guy and he's in my German class, and I have spoken German for a few years before I started taking classes, so I'm much more advanced than him, and whenever we talk in German he just kind of watches me and... I don't know. he's really cute. but I've been out as a lesbian for a long time, and I don't know. can I like him but not guys? just girls and him? I have no clue what I'm doing. also, advice on how (part 1)

how to tell if he likes me back???? uh... just generally... help. Thanks! (part 2)

Even though you’ve been out as a lesbian, of course you can still like him. He may be the exception to your rule. Or you may be learning that your sexual preference is more fluid than you originally thought. Either way is fine! Don’t let labels hem you in.

I don’t, however, know if there is enough data to determine if he likes you back. It’s possible he’s just a friendly guy. I would just continue getting to know him and try to befriend him. Who knows? Something could blossom from there!

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

hello i have my jammies on and i got snacks! I'm spending the night at my grandparents and i brought all my books to get some serious work done tonight before my second birthday party tomorrow!! what are your plans this weekend?

WOW, two birthday parties? Lucky you! My big plans for the weekend are a study date with @ruggedstudyblr and cleaning the house. I was on vacation and then sick, so I’ve really fallen behind.

Happy birthday, btw!

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

Hiya!! So, I'm re-taking the SATs tomorrow and I was wondering if you could help me out. What do you think is the best that I could do tonight and tomorrow to ensure that I'm as ready as I can be for these tests? I've been studying throughout the summer but I'm still really nervous and I don't know how well I'll do!! Any pointers would help me out, I'm just such a nervous test taker, tbh. -Emery 💕✨

Hey, Emery! Since you’ve been studying all summer, I’d focus on getting some rest so you’re at your best when you go to take the test tomorrow. Go to bed early and wake up refreshed. Have a good breakfast so you don’t get hungry during the test. Review some vocab if you think that would help. But remember to keep telling yourself that you’re absolutely going to KILL IT tomorrow. Positive self-talk!

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

the whole sleepover ask thing is such a cute idea aw thank you for doing this btw i love this

You’re welcome! I love the occasional sleepover. I really do enjoy giving advice. What else is the point of having been alive this long?

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

Sleepover confession! I just found out that this guy I had a crush on was interested in me as well (rip to my friends who didn't realize I had the biggest crush on him)and we'll, he's vanished (that's college) and I'm so frustrated he was so cute and sweet and my literal first words to him were "wow, you're tall" after bumping into him 🤦🤦 goodbye cute boy, u will be missed

Awww, that’s a shame! It’s nice to know you were the object of someone’s affection, though. Another one will come around soon I hope!

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

would you agree that being friendzoned suckss ): i want somebody to rlly like me but everyone always considers me a friend and nothing more idk how to change this

Yes, I would agree that being friend-zoned sucks a lot. I’m sorry that that happens to you. I wish I had an easy solution for you, honestly. It may be a matter of patiently waiting for the right person who doesn’t just think of you as a friend. But perhaps you need to go out on a limb a bit more, make deeper connections, possibly flirt a little. Regardless, your person will come. There’s plenty of time, and I have no doubt.

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

hi !! Any advice on choosing a major suitable for your personality / learning style ? v stressed between all the options and v tired of taking so many career path quizzes that feel unrealistic for me. Feel free to ignore this but any help would be greatly appreciated 💖

It’s okay not to have it figured out right now. It’s okay to go with the major that feels ~most~ right. You have plenty of time to figure out your life. People change majors. People change careers. A lot. People go back to school even. Life is anything but linear. So, don’t put too much pressure on yourself right now. What do you enjoy studying?? Can you major in whatever that is? What do you enjoy learning about for the sake of learning? You can worry about making a career out of it later!

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

1. Hey so I saw you were answering stuff and thought you might fancy giving your opinion on this situation of mine.....

2. So I was working at this festival and met this amazing guy just friendly stuff ya know, and anyway we hit it off so well like couldn’t stop talking about life together and everything but we were just acting like friends nothing more, he clearly liked my company so we exchanged numbers because he said there was a dj he knew playing and asked if I fancied going later on so I was like yeah why not?! So we went and it was really fun just dancing around and stuff (tbc...)

3. I just felt really comfortable with him! There was no flirting or anything and I was thinking to myself like this is so nice just making friends with a guy that’s just so chill and wants nothing more bla bla, anyways he’s text me during the day like “how’s your work going” and stuff and like “what you doing later, fancy a drink at the bar if you’re free after?” So just general chit chat, and I met up with him every night just to chill whatever, and then one night at the bar (tbc)

4. He was being more friendly than usual but kinda flirty, like he would hold eye contact more and touch my arm and rest his feet on mine under the table and told me my lips looked nice in red lip stick?! Which is cute but I was like oh okay so does he want more???? Because I was just happy being friends... anyway we went back to my tent and we ended up chatting about previous relationships we’d had and he was like my last girlfriend I was with was for 12 years and I was like shit thats(tbc)

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6. So do I not meet up with him??? Or do I just like normal even though I feel like there’s chemistry between us? I don’t feel like I should because of the way he was with me on the last day... ugh I don’t know

Oh, no! I think tumblr ate the fifth installment of the story, and now I don’t know how to answer! I feel like I’m definitely missing an important piece. Please send me the missing part, and then I can respond!

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

i do really want to date him esp. bc i’ve had a crush on him for so long but also rejection is scary and he’s become someone i enjoy hanging out with and i’d miss him if we weren’t friends anymore. everyone says he likes me if only he could be the one to say it so i wouldn’t be so nervous

Feeling nervous at this stage is totally normal and understandable, but if you’re getting strong signals that he likes you and other people think so too, it may be worth investigating this further. You can tell him that you like him and leave the choice up to him: either he likes you back and wants to date you or he doesn’t. If he doesn’t return your feelings, it doesn’t mean you have to stop being friends. Make it abundantly clear to him that you want to be friends no matter what if you do decide to share that you like him. 

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

hey, i can't sleep so i thought i'd say hi! it's 1am here and there's a party here somewhere which keeps me awake haha, but since tomorrow's saturday it's not too bad. what are you up to today/tomorrow? :)

Hey! I’m sorry you can’t sleep, Meike. That really is the worst. Do you have any earplugs to block out the party?

Tomorrow I have a study date with my friend @ruggedstudyblr ! I also have some errands to run and cleaning to do. Good stuff.

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

So like over the summer my crush blocked me and suddenly on the first day of school he wants to say hi and all this and im like???????????im pretty sure he still hasn't unblocked me so wtf

If this crush is blocking you for an entire summer, he doesn’t sound worthy of being a crush!

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

i have a crush on my friend and sometimes i think he likes me back but other times he acts like i have the plague? he’s so weird but i really like him oops he’s actually pretty nice? the crush has been going on for like a year now

Sounds like a serious crush. Are you interested in dating this person? If so, you may want to consider telling him how you feel so you can know whether or not it’s time to let go.

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

what's your fav tv show??

Since I am a watcher of anime, you’re basically asking me an impossible question. But I guess my favorite live-action TV show is Brooklyn Nine-Nine, and my favorite anime is Yuri!!! On Ice.

ask away! it’s sleepover time!

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

I've been in the studyblr community for a while but I am having a hard time to find friends, do you have any tips for me? And I also get very upset when I don't get reblogs, I feel like my posts are not good enough and that I shouldn't be part of this community.

Sometimes reblogs just don’t happen. I’ve posted enough to know this. You can’t let it get to you or take it personally. Your worth as a studyblr is definitely not determined by likes or reblogs. However, there are some things you can do to help get your posts seen, like use popular tags. You can also use some of the bigger studyblr’s tags, so they will see your posts. I follow #hufflepuffwannabe and try to check my tag pretty regularly. Find out what other tags studyblrs are following/checking and tag your posts accordingly.

As for making friends, you just have to be really friendly. If you stumble across someone’s blog and notice that you have some things in common, message them and point that out. Use it as a conversation starter. The Internet is no place to be shy. You have nothing to lose by reaching out to other studyblrs :)

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[hufflepuffwannabe]

OKAY sleepover I guess I can spill then, so last year I was in my last year of high school and I was gonna take the UMAT, and to prep for it I signed up for these classes. My tutor for those classes was a second year med student and DAMN he was so cute, like he's so frikin awkward and nerdy and just ahhhh he was so soft like idk everything he did, he was always stammering and going off on tangents, one moment we're talking about attack rates and then he's telling me about his family. (1/?)

He was actually adorable, and on the last session we had together we kinda went off topic for half an hour talking about how funny we were when we first learnt how to drive. – tutor anon (2/?)

Like he was telling me (idk how the system is in different countries but in my country, when you get the second level of driving license, you can drive yourself places but you can’t drive other people unless they have the third level of driving license and when you driving you can’t drive past 10 pm or before 6 am or something but none of my friends follow that rule) – tutor anon (3/?)

he was telling me that he was at a friend’s place and when he looked at the time it was like 10:10 and he was like see ya I gotta go I’m not allowed to drive past this time, and literally left his friend’s place and tried to get home as fast as possible – like he’s a total geek it’s so cute. So yeah I had the biggest crush on him over that period of around 4 months. – tutor anon (4/?)

I knew I had no chance with him so I was just trying to lay low and get over that crush (I literally could never even breathe around him like he was just so cute). AND THEN last week I signed up for a little pre-uni course to prepare me for uni and guess who was teaching Chemistry… YEP HIM. I firkin stopped breathing when he entered the room (HOW DID HE GLOW UP LIKE THAT) but he was still his geeky self ahhhh – tutor anon (5/?)

when he saw me he was like Hey! AND ME BEING THE AWKWARD PERSON I AM went ‘h-hey’ and MY VOICE CRACKED IN FRONT OF THE OTHER 14 STUDENTS THERE. I got so embarrassed omg. BUT YEAH I literally was so proud of myself like December-ish when I finally got over him and NOW this just had to happen fml. – tutor anon (6/?)

He comes to lessons in like DRESS shirts, last year at our one on one tutoring sessions he just wore simple shirt because it was casual but here it’s more formal so he has to dress up and DAMN idk I keep forgetting how to breathe. The first day he came it was scorching hot (it’s summer here rn) and his firkin shirt was like light grey and he was sweating through it it WAS LITERALLY SEE THROUGH idk how someone’s back can be so attractive EVERY TIME he turned to the board I melted. – tutor anon (7

And my friend next to me kept enlightening me about how great his butt looked and I’m just here trying to learn chemistry but my heart kept wanting to burst out of my chest. AND THEN he just had to be such a nerd while teaching he kept going off on tangents, he was speaking about benzene rings one second and then giving us a lecture on history, like he’s such a geek it makes me soft.- tutor anon (8/9)

AHHH idk how to focus in chemistry anymore I’m just gonna have his face pop up every time I try to study omfg – tutor anon (LAST) OKay I'm so sorry that was so long it was not intentional I just started venting I'm sorry hahahaha

Wow, that was epic! Haha. This sounds like a super fun crush, actually, because there isn’t much at stake. He’s older and your teacher, so nothing can really happen, so you can just enjoy it and enjoy him from afar!

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