There need to be more Gender fluid people in fiction. Gender Fluid people should be seen and see people like them. I open a book and look it is person with one gender, again. I want to see people we more than one gender. People who change gender. People like me. I don’t want to see someone who has a single fixed as much as I do. I want to see people like me! Why don’t I have that? Why don’t I see people like me? Hummmmm!!!??? I am valid. And I am here. So show me people who have many genders! Show me people who change genders like the sea changes! Like the wind and the land and the season! Show me people who are like me and like many other who are not seen ever!
Drink lots of water, I know a bunch of us are crying so keep hydrated.
Watch feel good stuff, tv shows, films, videos.
Read feel good stuff, I’m gonna be reading a whole lot of found family today.
Hug family, friends, pets and plants, please do not hug a cactus though.
Take any medication you might have, you do not want drawbacks when you are feeling low.
Donate if you can, if you cannot donate without cutting into funds going towards other stuff, then do not.
Take a break from social media, even if it’s just a few minutes away, even if it’s a whole month.
Talk about Techno, tell people about your favourite videos of him.
Cry, just drink water and refuel your tears.
Message online friends, this kind of contradicts taking a break, but still talk to them, let them know you’re okay.
Do things that make you happy, do not hurt others to do this though, so please don’t dropkick a child, even if it is self defence.
Joke, laugh, because that is definitely a big fuck you to cancer.
Be respectful of others grieving process, they won’t mourn in the same way as you, that’s fine, they may be joking or keeping busy, that’s fine, just be there for them if they need you.
Take a shower, or even just wash your face, it’ll make you feel better, more awake.
Take a nap, only if you can or just fully go to sleep if you haven’t slept yet.