#i am on my period

[firenati0n]

wip wednesday <3 :)

hello :) happy wednesday, hope everyone is having a nice week so far! thank you to @heybuddy-drabbles @hgejfmw-hgejhsf @zwiazdziarka @itsmaybitheway @bigassbowlingballhead @wordsofhoneydew @ships-to-sail @eusuntgratie @captainjunglegym @theprinceandagcd @getmehighonmagic @songliili @nocoastposts @magicandarchery @sherryvalli @littlemisskittentoes @kiwiana-writes @suseagull04 for the tags :)

here's a snip from "the full spectrum of human emotion" aka the proposal au aka my child aka my beloved:

They go back and forth, questions flying to fill the flight time. Alex learns about Henry’s morning routine (rigid, a bed-maker through and through) and his favorite cologne (something expensive he’s currently wearing, clean linens and fresh grass meant to drive Alex completely fucking insane), and Henry learns about Alex’s guilty pleasures (eating cajeta straight from the container while watching trashy reality tv) and the last thing that made him cry (an Instagram reel of baby goats). Many opinions are exchanged, numerous jokes made—mostly at Henry’s expense, he makes it way, way too easy. It feels a little too natural and lighthearted and Alex is free falling as he learns more and more about Henry Fox-Mountchristen, little details that add color to his life, softening the harsh edges and melting the cold exterior. Alex feels pretty fucking good about it all, until he realizes they haven’t touched on a major topic, one that is relatively uncharted territory for the both of them.

xoxo roop

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#rwrb #rwrb fic #roop writes #my post #fic: tfsohe #i need to be more like henry and make my bed more diligently #i try i swear #also i did cry the other day over a reel of baby goats don't fucking judge me okay i was bleating right alongside them #i am on my Period #that is my JUSTIFICATION #i cried five times today and one of them was from HORNINESS AND ALSO YEARNING #thanks for that nicholas galitzine fuck you too #xoxo

[cumtastiics]

considering that yan inquisitor lives in (i assume) medieval/ancient times.... how would he react if a fem y/n got her period? would he think it was witchcraft 😂

reader on their period

tw: yandere

thinks you're dying at first.. really embarrassed when you explained to him what a period was.

really doesn't care at first. (yes, he does. what the hell does he need you to do to stop crying?)

buuut acts like he cares (only a little bit) when you barely respond to him, only mumbling when he gave you your food.

will try his best to relieve the pain, even if he is grossed out by the thought of blood just being there.

#yandere #yandere x reader #tw yandere #yandere x darling #yandere oc #yandere x you #yandere male #yandere x y/n #male yandere #angst #fem reader #period #i am on my period #it hurts #yandere inquisitor #i am cumtastic

[bloodfreakcastiel]

the devastating realization that destiel was never going to make it. they were never going to get their happy ending

#mine #i am on my period #if you couldnt tell #at least they keep falling in love in fan works #destiel #*txt

[fortnightthere]

ohnoo

#elyn speaks now #i AM on my period

[momiji-kitsune]

Speedbumps are made to torture people with uteri/people taking oestrogen* who are pregnant or on their periods. There is nothing worse than being in severe pain, only to have the vehicle your in hit something hard, bump around a little, and jolt as it makes contact with the road again.

* https://us.modibodi.com/blogs/womens/transwomen-period#:~:text=Many%20trans%20women%20have%20periods,the%20form%20of%20feminising%20hormones.

#periods #period pain #in case you can't tell #I am on my period #I am in pain #fuck speedbumps

[pallor-parlor]

I love being off oral hormonal contraceptives; it totally slaps. What I am a bit bummed to find out is that I have a 24 day cycle; which totally does not slap.

#i am on my period #i feel horrible #the blood moon rises once again #parlor talk

[hierneneuro]

Man who looks like ted beneke gave up his seat on the train so a woman n her child could sit together swoooooon...........

#i am on my period

[mercurys-in-retrograde]

There's no such thing as mental illness or rather it's not different from conditions affecting the rest of the body because so called mental illnesses also affect the rest of the body i hate doctors I hate psychiatrists I hate everything

#i am on my period

[vannahfanfics]

Happy One Piece Live Action Day!

#I can't believe that I work ONE DAY a week this rotation #and it just so happens to be Thursdays #I AM WORKING TODAY #THE UNIVERSE HAS CHOSEN VIOLENCE AGAINST ME #I am the big sad #and even worse #I am on my period #I crampy #:(

[andthebeanstalk]

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need. #the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist. #the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28! #a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents. #they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong. #and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives. #you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead? #or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of. #no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow. #i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong. #just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

[eddiekinkston]

today was putting billypony through the horrors

#i am on my period

[maryse127]

Skipping my aunts birthday on account of thesis and period but in truth I am gearing up to play Tears of the Kingdom the second my parents leave

#in my defense #i AM on my period #and have spend my usually strictly non study weekend so far on my thesis #so i think i deserve a break

[helpimcoveredinbees]

I’ve fallen ill of the wretched curse of my birth

#i am on my period #bees speak #I’d like a hysterectomy pls cus GOD I do not know how I’m ment to endure this forever

[aheavenofhell]

Aziraphale raising his wing for Crowley hits so different with the S2 context. I feel like we all looked at it as, here’s this sweet little principality, he’s kind and naive so he’ll shelter even a demon—but it wasn’t really that, was it? It wasn’t just some random act of kindness.

It was a message.

When Crowley slithered up that wall, Aziraphale was nervous. Because he gave his sword to the humans, sure—but also perhaps because he was seeing this angel again for the first time since he had fallen. He learns Crawly’s new name (Crowley never asks him for his name, he knows it already) and they have a brief exchange that was probably a lot like the ones they used to have.

Then when the thunder starts, it’s Crowley who’s first to move to him, to shuffle hopefully to his side.

I think when Aziraphale lifted his wing up, it was almost a way to say I remember who you are, I remember the kindness you gave me. I’m still here.

He wasn’t just playing umbrella. He was letting Crowley know he hadn’t been rejected by all of Heaven.

#Am I just insane at this point #Like i’m looking at their foot movements this can’t be healthy #me when a piece of good storytelling consumes my life #and i live for it #period #good omens #ineffable husbands #crowley #aziraphale #aziracrow #good omens season 2 #analysis

[hauntedmilkshakeghost]

Reading smut instead of dealing with my feelings

#Jill’s diary #I am unable to sleep #I am on my period #so many things on my mind #my cat is being an asshole #started reading smut #can’t stop #half way through a fic I lost it and just started crying #and then just picked up where I left off #it’s the mental illness

[sneak-a-cat]

the blood keeps going where is it all coming from

#i am on my period #help