#i been watching Anne with an E n thinkin a lot about this one line

[pottedfairies]

quICK QUESTION why am i uncomfortable with the thought of being a wife to a man but not being a wife to a woman

#i been watching Anne with an E n thinkin a lot about this one line #‘ive always imagined myself as a bride but never as a wife’ #and im like #Oh There It Is #like is it that i dont want to be associated or linked to men?? is it the expectations put upon wives by men?? #is it the fact that being married has been fated to me by literally everyone and i dont want to be a wife out of spite basically? #ajxhchdhdhdidj #the dialogue that follows that line is #‘then get yourself a white gown and wear it whenever you want’ #tbqh im gonna do that #i rlly heckin will #im gonna get myself a fancy ass ‘wedding’ dress and wear it whenever i get something good in life #like a job offer or promotion or an award or smth #personal #still aro tho lol dont trip