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hey the "it's ok this person is doing [weird but harmless behavior] bc they're autistic" attitude isn't actually helpful. The behavior itself needs to be destigmatized regardless of who's doing it.
I'm autistic, and:
I sure as hell don't feel like having to constantly whip out my Autism Membership Club Card™ to justify my atypical quirks to strangers. That's private medical information, actually? No one should have to choose between being seen as autistic or as a jerk/weirdo.
I don't enjoy being made self-conscious and having to wonder "if this weird thing I'm doing is wrong when allistic people do it, does that mean there is something inherently wrong with being autistic? is my 'bad' behavior excused bc I am already assumed to be a bad person, who can't help being bad?" That's ridiculous and I don't need that energy.
And what about the many people who are undiagnosed? The many allistic people who have other mental health issues? Are they just weirdos until a medical doctor says otherwise?
What about neurotypical people whose behavior is non-standard for a thousand other reasons, medical and nonmedical? HoH people with unusual speech patterns? People from different cultural backgrounds? People who just have some random weird habits, because it's actually normal to deviate from the norm in some way? At what point is someone no longer required to seek your permission to behave weirdly? Who qualifies and who doesn't?
These are absurd situations.
There's an easy solution: destigmatize weird but harmless behavior, period. People who speak, act, walk, or otherwise behave in a way you find unusual are still people (whose diagnoses are none of your business btw), and we deserve to exist in the world without you judging or punishing us. Choose your battles wisely, because I see a lot of you attacking people who are already walking wounded.
TLDR stop being a judgemental asshole and the world will be a slightly nicer place. mind your own business and let people be weird.
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dean fucks me up so bad. he fucks me up so bad. he took the angel. of the lord. soldier of god. and he said. ill call you by this little name. you're cas now. you're huggy bear. you're sunshine. he took the angel and he said i'll show you my favorite movies :) and I'll put a silly hat on you. come here. I'll take you to a bar cause I know bars, and I'll take you to a strip club, cause i know strip clubs and thats how I know how to show you something I deem important, something I understand. he said I'll call to a messenger of god on a cellphone and i'll chuckle about it. 'cause it's funny. 'cause he's funny. cause I like him. he said I'll pray to you, Cas, even though I don't like the whole praying business, I feel stupid doing it. You know I'm not one for praying. but I'll pray to you. in an empty parking lot. in the middle of the apocalypse. in the land of monsters. in a hospital church, on my knees. even when you can't hear me. I'll pray to you. and when you're gone. I'll pray to you then, too.
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Hey so it’s not easy asking for help like this, but my first paycheck from my new job was incredibly messed up. It was missing 75% of my hours, all of my time and a half pay I’m supposed to be receiving and all of the overtime that I worked. My manager has reached out to HR, and is waiting for a reply from them but told me most likely it will be added onto my next check. I’m praying that won’t be the case, because I’ll need to pay my car payment before the next paycheck as well as get my medication. I don’t know how to make this work with the $240 I have. If there’s any way I could get the $360 I’ll need for the bills/medication and just a little extra for gas, you can even let me know your info to pay you back when I get paid if you’d need.
For those who don’t follow me, my parents passed away (mom was diagnosed w terminal bone cancer, dad passed unexpectedly from respiratory failure from his sleep aid and blood pressure medication interacting, and mom passed a few months after) so I don’t have any family I can turn to for help (only child) and am just trying to get by until I’m on my feet with this job. My PayPal is paypal.me/jpd05 and you can message for Zelle. Reblogs are always appreciated!!! Thank you for any help and your kindness.
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I just think it would be really funny if origins!Techno was fully human and his superpower was being cracked at Minecraft. Imagine you’re like an explorer or a lone warrior and during your travels you stumble across this place where hybrids of all kinds congregate and live in semi-harmony, and they see how good you are at fighting and survival and gathering resources and are just like “Yes, you’re one of us now.” And you don’t really get it cause you’ve been alone all your life but you decide to humor them anyway, and before you know it for the first time in your life you start to feel at home in a pub in the sky made for everyone except humans.
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Stay safe, and surround yourself with people who love you! 🏖
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So the twilight corridor in maruki’s palace has a lot of stairs in it. like a LOT
Hey guys, long time no post! I’ve been really busy trying to finish my senior project for school....so much so that I really haven’t had a lot of time to draw things for myself :( But!! Here’s something kind of experimental I did to unwind a little in my downtime! I’d like to add (full) color to this eventually, but knowing me there’s a very high chance that I won’t! So I’ll just post this now, I guess.
Also, here’s the original sketch I was going off of before I realized “shit man I can’t draw backgrounds, how tf am i gonna animate/color that” and changed it:
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im not too good at drawing kris falling out of a window lmao
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An oil container in Lebanon exploded just a few hours ago and there are already dozens dead, Lebanon is already facing a severe fuel, medicine, and electricity shortage nation wide and the Lebanese Red Cross needs all the support it can get, if you can donate, please see the link below: https://linktr.ee/lebaneseredcross
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not sure if you draw suggestions but raine and hunter hugging because raine would be a great parent for hunter. sorry if you dont draw suggestions i just wanna say i love your art!
yeah they do deserve a hug tho
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Noblesse Men Sept/Oct 2021 Issue with Jinyoung
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Disabled Black Nonbinary Trans Person in Urgent Housing Crisis
hi hi, my friend Evergreen is currently homeless and needs some immediate help keeping her sheltered!
donations help most, but if anyone in the state of Arizona (pref the valley and surrounding areas) can help keep her sheltered temporarily please send me a message! It's still blistering hot here and our shelters are not the greatest nor is it easy to guarantee their safety as a trans person there. here's their links:
Solidarity friends 💝
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Alright I bite… where can one watch miraculous
this is the dedicated miraculous site that's pretty quick
this is the best general cartoon site in case the above goes down
if you are on android, here is an app specifically for tv/movie piracy
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Emotional support hedgehog
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hi angel and im ebegging bc my savings arent enough 😐!!! I'm leaving an abusive household and turns out moving expenses are....more than anticipated + some unexpected things have come up so I need some help getting outta this shithole!! If anyone can spare some cash I'd be eternally thankful but please don't feel guilty if you're not in the place to donate pls! pls rb if u can n Thank u so much. <3
cshapp n venmo r both tendernessed !!!
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So in here we stan ancient misogynists just because they were not hetero? How many of those homoerotic men paticipated in our opression? How many of them were our pimps and trafficked us or used us as baby machines? Why are there not accountable for that? You think you fight hetero patriarchy with gay patriarchy? We have cancelled so many historical figures for their bigotry, but men can get away with that if they ride some d*ck. Tired of all those women in here with zero class conciousness, thinking they fight patriarchy by reblogging some ancient homoerotic meme. Please, educate me.
i love misogyny and sucking dick actually. thanks for understanding
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FOR THE PERSON YOU MISS MISSING NOW AND THEN!
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please for the love of god help me that garlic bread on tuesday was the last solid meal i ate. I was supposed to receive 5k in backpay that keybank and unemployment services completely LOST. I have no money for food or bills. if u could help pls reblog or consider donating. my cashapp is $cruelmercy
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Me whenever I see a new behind the scenes photo of Jessie and Ben:
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OMG I LOVE YOUR WRITING SO MUCH
I was perhaps wondering if, since so many of the boys are so protective, how they would react while the reader is on her period, and keeps flinching and whimpering in pain in the middle of interviews. This is definitely only if your comfy writing it, your super talented!!!❤
Awe thank you so much ^^ that really means a lot~
I was debating about this one but decided I don't mind trying to write something. I hope you don't mind that it's general reactions vs individual.
This is a HEADCANNON!
Warnings: Uhhh, period stuff. Mild yandere themes.
I wrote this Gender neutral ^^
When they see you constantly flinching and groaning in pain, their brows furrow, worry washing over them. They ask whats wrong and you tell them it's nothing, just cramps. Their hands twitch, desperately wanting to comfort you and give you tummy rubs but their restraints prevent that. So now they're sad psychos 😔:
BAKUGO, Shoto, Tokoyami
They start to freak out a little bit, worried something was seriously wrong. They ask you why you keep making those noises and when you told them it was cramps, they whimper and reach out to help you. Their restraints stop them and their anxiety spikes. Their precious darling is in pain and they can't help???:
Kirishima, TAMAKI, Denki, Midoriya
They see you double over a few times and ask what's wrong, slightly worried but not really. You tell them your pains are just really bad today and they kinda smirk. Start teasing you a little, telling you that they could end those cramps easily with an orgasm or 2 or 5:
DABI, Shinso, HAWKS
Seeing you in pain doesn't bother him. Almost not at all, actually. If he did have to see you in pain, he'd rather be the one to cause it 🙂:
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Caitriona Balfe teams up with Choose Love & Cameo to help raise money for those in Afghanistan and Refugees everywhere (x)
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