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promptmaker · 5 years

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Sep/Oct Smut Prompts

I will be doing something different for the prompts for September and October. These will be suggestions based off of the prompts of the NaLu Lovefest 2019 event. Feel free to use them for the event. Just let me know so I can cross them out!

The NaLu Lovefest can be found here! Check it out for the prompt list and rules!

MAGIC (10/17):

1. Invisibility (1): Lucy and Natsu have left over Invisibility potion from a mission. What starts as an attempt to prank Natsu turns into something else when Lucy decides pleasuring him when he can’t see her is way more fun.

2. Invisibility (2): NaLu are taking a bath together when Natsu introduces a new bath ointment that he was sold by a shady merchant. Lucy recognizes what it is but it is too late, once it is in the water it turns both of them invisible. Natsu uses his new invisibility to mess with some guild mates but when he gets bored with that, he and Lucy discover their are other benefits to not being seen. They can now do it anywhere in the guild they want. Will they get caught? Or they could just do it in the bath.

3. Transform: NaLu are at home practicing transformation magic for a mission. Once they get the hang of it they start having some fun with it. But once one (or both) of them find a transformation that the other finds to desirable for the other to ignore, the real fun can begin. (Bunny or Cat girl Lucy? Dragon Lord Natsu? Whatever the writer wants!)

4. Clones: Natsu finds a magic mirror in the attic of Fairy Tail. When he looks into it and reads the inscription on the side, his reflection comes to life and joins him in the real world for ** hours. The Guild is quick to get sick of 2 Natsus so they send them home with Lucy until the magic wears off. Which is fine with Lucy since she can think of plenty of ways to indulge her time with the Natsus and fulfill some fantasies of her own. (Number of clones/reflections are up to writer!). Could also be used for the Mirror prompt.

5. Clones (2) When Lucy makes the mistake of asking Cana what to get Natsu for his birthday, Cana crudely reveals that she has a new multiply card that can multiply (x3) anyone she touches with it and she convinces Lucy it would be a great bedroom surprise for Natsu.

6. Pleasure: NaLu are exposed to a “Pleasure” spell from a dark mage during a mission. They are forced to leave the dark mage in the care of their teammates as they scurry off to find a secluded area where they can work off the spell. (Pleasure spell like Laracade’s, that sends a person into a heightened pleasured state until they reach completion with someone.)

Last Request (10/21):

7. When Lucy decides she wants to do a quick in town mission for some extra cash, she cannot find one on the request board until Mira hands her the last request of the day. The job is to simply go to the Rainbow Sakura tree at the park and answer a question from the job poster. There, she finds Natsu who then proposes to her (how is up to the writer). Assuming she says yes, they can consummate on the spot under the tree.

Memories (10/22):

8. It’s finally time for Natsu to move out of his cabin and into a new home with Lucy. Before they pack everything up, NaLu remembers all the fun (and sexy) times they’ve had in the place.

Reckless (10/23):

9. NaLu gets a little to drunk during a FT party and when they get home, have unportected sex that leads to a pregnant Lucy. They will love the kid regardless.

10. NaLu are put in charge of making Erza’s Strawberry Cake for her birthday. Things go wrong when playful banter turns into them getting heated in the Kitchen and them getting covered in what is left of Erza’s cake. Does Erza find out?...

Worship (10/24):

11. When Lucy gets back into their room after her morning shower, she finds a nude Natsu snoozing in bed right where she left him except the blanket has been kicked down to his ankles. Lucy takes the time to admire the view and appreciates that he is all hers. So she decides to give him a special wake up call.

12. When Lucy begins to feel self conscious after having kids, Natsu reminds her she is perfect just the way she is and proves it by giving her a special rub down/massage.

Forbidden (10/25):

13. When Lucy tells Natsu he can pick their next date location she knew she was asking for trouble and he confirms her fears by taking her to a nude beach. When she realizes he picked the location specifically to fluster her she decides two can play at that game and the two tease each other the entire time they are there. They of course get carried away and sneak somewhere hidden to go at it before they get caught. Afterward Lucy realizes that she really had fun there and is open to returning. Also works under the Secret prompt.

14. AU: Natsu works at the fancy Heartfilia Hotel. He enjoys working there but doesn't really get along with the boss Jude Heartfillia since he forbade Natsu to hang around his daughter Lucy. Little did he know that Natsu and Lucy are already dating and use their free time to “defile” various areas of his hotel.

Secret (10/26):

15. Modern AU: NaLu are happily married with kids and every other weekend (or whatever schedule the writer wants) they drop the kids off at a friends house and have a date night. Usually this means dinner, a show, or a fancy hotel stay. But on rare occasions, they like to secretly indulge on the adventurous side they once had in their youth and visit a sex club. This is about their latest date to their favorite sex club, Fairy Tail. (Just how “adventurous” they get is up to the writer but i can give suggestions).

16. Lucy is pregnant and is looking for the best way to tell/surprise Natsu with the news so she has been keeping it a secret until she figures it out. Or that was the idea until she just blurts it out during the afterglow of sex.

Reunion (10/27):

17. NaLu have been married for a few months and they experience their first time spent away from each other when Lucy goes on a “girls only” mission for a week. When Lucy gets back she finds that Natsu was not handling the separation well since his dragon instincts are not used to her absence. When she reunites with him they become inseparable and told to get a room before they go at it right in the guild hall.

18. Natsu and Lucy dated in High School but were forced to go their separate ways. Now, at their High School reunion years later, the two re-connect and fall for each other all over again. The two then sneak away from the party to further “catch up” (in a classroom, office, locker room, or wherever the writer wants). Suggestion: When they hook-up again, they admire how much better they are at it then when they were awkward teenagers.

Mirror (10/30):

19. FT City Hero: Officers Lucy and Natsu indulge in a fantasy of theirs by doing it in the interrogation room. That part of the building is closed for renovation so they think they are safe from prying eyes. They get so into it that they don’t think to check the other side of the one-way mirror in the room or they would have seen one of their co-workers enjoying a quiet lunch (or drink if its Cana) and accidentally getting a free show. (Optional:NaLu are pressed right up to the mirror at one point)

20. Fairy Nail is touring in Fiore and FT is hired as their security/guides during their stay. Natsu and Lucy are assigned to Nack/Lucia. NaLu quickly gets annoyed at how much and how often Nack/Lucia sneak off for alone time. Another FT member points out to NaLu that they are just as bad and states that they are mirror images of each other in look and insatiability. After a few weeks on tour with them, Nack/Lucia are assigned rooms next to Natsu/Lucy and after several nights in a row of having to listen to them go at it next door, NaLu decides to make some noise of their own. (Optional: Instead of seperate rooms, the couples share one room with two beds)

Cravings (10/31):

21. AU: Succubus Lucy only intends to seduce Natsu and feed off of his sexual energy for the night when she “selects” him at the club (or location of choice) they are at. She did not expect to become smitten with him in such a short time and Natsu enjoys her company as well. So she decides to really rock his world but Natsu gives as good as gets and they become addicted to one another.

22. Do to some comments from guild mates about them being insatiable, NaLu make a bet about how long one can resist the other. The one that caves first loses. So for almost a week there is a back and forth between Natsu and Lucy of them trying to seduce each other and trying to resist (via sexy clothing, innuendos, ect.). Who gives into their cravings first?

#nalu #smut #lovefest #natsu #lucy

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chelsorz07 · 5 years

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I posted these as asks four years ago and never got to answer any so

THOUGHT YOU WERE DONE SEEING THESE FROM ME, DIDN’T YA? Me too, I’m so sorry

1. First thing you wash in the shower? Hair.

2. Are you more of a coffee or alcohol drinker? I have like two cups of coffee a month but have only drank booze twice in the past year so coffee I guess.

3. Would you kiss the last person you kissed again? Many times.

4. Do you plan outfits? Sometimes I’ll want to wear a specific shirt but it’s rarely ever clean and I never pick out clothes sooner than right before my shower.

5. How are you feeling RIGHT now? Tired but I still have to put the garbage out before I can go to bed and my neck and knees are killing me so I can’t get off the couch. But I’m in an okay mood.

6. Whats the closest thing to you thats red? Throw pillow.

7. What would you do if you opened your door and saw a dead body? Idk I’d like to say I’d be a badass about it but honestly I’d probs scream.

8. Tell me about the last dream you remember having? I legit don’t remember. I dream every night but they usually fly right out of my head when I wake up.

9. Three of your current feelings? Tired, hungry, in pain.

10. What are you craving right now? Cheeseburger and onion rings.

11. Turn ons? Um...intelligence, wit, shoulders, eyes, ginger beards.

12. Turn offs? Arrogance, chauvinism, people who don’t like cats.

13. What comes to mind when I say cabbage? Coleslaw.

14. When was the last time you cried? Why? I was doing a concert in my living room last night, as I often do, and some of the songs got me a little emosh.

15. If you could be a superhero, who would you want to be? Black Widow or Loki.

16. Did the one person who hurt you most in your life apologize? No but she did change the way she treated me so I’m taking that for what it is.

17. Do you bite into your ice cream or just lick it? I don’t eat ice cream because it hurts my teeth no matter which method of eating I use.

18. Favorite movie ever? Bring it On.

19. Do you like yourself? Depends on the day. Actually it changes even more frequently than that.

20. Have you ever met a celebrity? Many. None will top Jensen Ackles though. Well. Except Misha. Note the double entendre lol

21. Could you handle being in the military? I definitely could not. I’m also too old to enlist even if I wanted to.

22. What are you listening to right now? Walking Dead, season 1 episode 2. Because every time I start the series over, I pick up from episode 3 since I don’t really care about anyone but Daryl until Jesus happens. But today I felt like a refresher from the beginning.

23. How many countries have you visited? I went to Canada once.

24. Are your parents strict? They were while I was being raised. Then my little sister had like no rules.

25. Would you go sky diving? No way.

26. Would you go out to eat with George W. Bush? Hell yeah.

27. Whats on your mind right now? I’m really just trying to gather the motivation to get up and pee, then take the garbage out so I can go to sleep.

28. Is there anything you want to say to someone? Ehh not really.

29. Have you ever been in a castle? No but I would tour the shit out of some if I had the opportunity.

30. Do you rent movies often? Almost never because who does that anymore? But we did just rent Mile 22 from the Redbox a few weeks ago. It was pretty meh for Wahlberg.

31. Whats your zodiac sign? Leo.

32. When was the last time you had sex? A month ago. Purely by circumstance. My husband is currently on week four of a five week work rotation in Texas.

33. Name five facts about yourself. Lord. I have rapidly deteriorating joints and it fucking hurts everywhere all the time. I’ve spent the past 48 hours going back through my entire tumblr, over 300 pages. I only make homemade mac n cheese, not boxed. I’m almost finished rereading every Desus fic on AO3 for the second time (some more than two but I mean going through literally every page). One of my cats is sitting above my head and purring really loudly and another is sitting to my left snoring.

34. Ever had a near death experience? If so, what happened? Got caught driving in a blizzard. Spun off the road several times, including once off of an on-ramp. Like do not enter, wrong direction. If I hadn’t made it to the hotel right next to the on-ramp I really would’ve been fucked.

35. Do you believe in karma or predestiny? Not really.

36. Brown or white eggs? White.

37. Do you own something from Hot Topic? Most of my material possessions are from the hot topical, yes. Clothes, jewelry, funkos, makeup, miscellaneous other merch. It’s like a lot.

38. Ever been on a train? I have not.

39. Ever been in love? I am.

40. If you were paid 1 million dollars to spend the night in a supposed haunted house, would you do it? I hate this question. Of course I want a million dollars. But I’ve always wanted to stay in a haunted house anyway.

41. If you could trade places with any person living or dead, who would you trade places with? JJ Ackles. Except that I wouldn’t wish my life on her. Can we just be siblings instead?

42. If you could shorten your life expectancy by 10 years to become more attractive, would you do it? I’m already attractive. And my life expectancy isn’t that high as it is.

43. Whom do you admire and why? My husband because he does crazy shit like work 35 days in a row when he’s only supposed to work 14 just to make sure all our bills are paid and we have savings because I’m too crippled to work at all right now.

44. What was your favorite bedtime story as a child? I didn’t get bedtime stories.

45. You’re walking down the street, you come across a burning building. A woman says her baby is trapped inside, what would you do? I am literally capable of doing nothing, except maybe let her use my phone to call 911 if she hasn’t already.

46. If you could choose the future profession of your son or daughter, would you? No. I can’t even choose my own profession.

47. What was your best experience on drugs or alcohol? Idk about best but my most recent one was pretty good. I hadn’t had alcohol in over a year but a few weeks ago my sister turned 21 and we had family game night at my parents’ house so I got a little buzzed on some grapefruit White Claws and for about four hours I wasn’t in physical pain. Plus we all had a really good time just hanging out and playing games and everybody got along. That has 100% never happened in my family before. Also the last time I smoked weed, which was MANY years ago, like 6 or 7, it had the same effect and reduced my joint pain.

48. What was your worst experience on drugs or alcohol? Worst with drugs was the night I smoked an entire joint just in my living room alone and it must have been strong shit because I threw up immediately. Worst experience drinking was probably all of 2010.

50. As you’re walking down the street you find a suitcase full of money sitting next to a parked car, would you take it? Probs I’m desperate and not that great of a person.

51. If you found that a close friend has AIDS, would you still hang out with them? Yes? WTF kind of question is that? It’s 2019, AIDS isn’t cooties.

52. In front of you are 10 pistols, 5 of which are loaded. If you survive you’d receive 100 million dollars. Would you be willing to place 1 to your head and pull the trigger? Depends what kind of pistol. If it’s a revolver you can see the rounds in the barrel.

53. How old were you when you lost your virginity? 20.

54. Do you believe in ghosts, werewolves or vampires? Nope. Well I still haven’t ruled out ghosts but I also know how to dispatch them so.

55. If you could live forever, would you want to? HELL naw.

56. Which fictional movie character most resembles who you are? Janice Ian.

57. If you could go back in time, which time period would you visit? We love a renaissance.

58. If they were to televise a live execution, would you watch it? Probably.

59. If you could be the president of the USA, would you be willing to do it? Not even for like a day.

60. If you could choose the sex of your unborn child, would you want to? Yes. I want a girl. Come for me.

61. Would you rather live longer or be wealthy? I want that money beech.

#not spn #personal #about me #bring back myspace surveys 2k19 #i probably won't do any more though

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jeffybruce · 3 years

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Allow me to introduce you to Jonzu Jones

I know I have said this a bazillion times but I can never stop praising the internet for allowing me to expand my web, pun intended, of “friends” to include some of the most prestigious, gracious, intelligent, talented, beautiful and creative people in the world.

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My latest addition, complements of Instagram, is Jonzu Jones! You might say ... who? You might say what is a Jonzu? But, all of your questions will be answered by reading this very articulately written interview.

I am one of those weird people who use Instagram not only for visual stimulation but also as a search engine since I have this peculiar habit of actually reading the hashtags, following them and it is that little idiosyncrasy which leads me to people like Jonzu. Needless to say, the first thing that caught my eye was his incredible physicality and then via countless conversations…. I have to come to learn there is way more to this young man that just his outward appearance. He is a hive of talents and aspirations.

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That old adage about not judging a book by its cover is particularly apt here as this man is so much more than just skin-deep beauty and yes, I am occasionally taken in by that beauty but this time I feel confident that I have made a friend who deserves attention both as model and stylist as you will see in his images.

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So, now that I have gushed about him, he is going to tell you about his life, some of which is hard to believe, and then … well you’ll have to read all of it to find out more… and believe it or not ... this know it all namely, ME, … actually learned something from what he had to say ….

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Jeffrey Felner: Let’s talk about your career path... was this the plan? How did you arrive at your present working situation?

Jonzu Jones: I feel like my career is always taking twists and turns. I had a vague idea from young of what I wanted to do and it has always been in the realm of art and fashion. I am still learning and growing, figuring things out along the way and to be honest just winging it. I will say I had a distinct vision of the man I wanted to be and more and more I became this idealized version of myself that the 12-year-old drew up. Currently I am a freelance fashion stylist, which I’ve been doing for around 7 years and I’ve been lucky to work with some truly incredible artists during that time. Styling came about as a kind of extension of me wanting to be a designer. I studied fashion design in high school and college and for so long I truly believed that was my true innate calling. I may revisit design in the future but styling has really been my big passion. While studying design, I was assisting fashion editors and stylists for school credit and to mold my approach to design. After doing that for a bit and loving it, I branched off as a freelance stylist and the rest is history.

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My second career which is fairly new is being a model. I by no stretch of the imagination believed this could be me as an angsty teen. I was the weird kid most of my life and still in a lot of ways am that same kid. I grew up hating my body, uncomfortable in my skin, shy and awkward as fuck. I was content aiming to be unseen and more behind the scenes but still having a name. Being on set more and more as a stylist and dressing in my outlandish garb, I would on occasion get snapped by the photographer. These unexpected instances unlocked something in me and I guess deep within me was a craving to be in front of the camera more. This was short lived and after a 2 ½ year stint playing house wife, gaining 80 pounds, and losing a lot of confidence, I needed a reboot. After leaving my marriage at 24, I did a full visual reset, getting tatted, ripped from home using Thor’s (Chris Hemsworth) app Center, and jumping full on into modeling. Side note… at this point I binge watched Top Model and was also religiously studying the model greats of the 80s to present times. While on set as a stylist I found myself studying models more than usual as well as photographers’ notes on poses. I am still figuring shit out as a model for sure but I’ve definitely learned a few tricks of the trade that have come in handy. The path continues and not sure where exactly it’s going to lead but I’m sure as hell having fun on this journey.

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JF: Do you or did you have any style or any type of mentors or those who continue to inspire or inspired you as you have matured and why them?

JJ: One of my biggest stylist inspirations is Patti Wilson**. She truly knows how to do avant-garde but also make it sexy, dark, and accessible.

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JF: If you could invite any 5 people to dinner, who would they be and why?

JJ: Lady Gaga for sure. She’s a fellow Aires and I think we’d connect on weird and obscure references.Daphne Guinness because she is a major style icon for me and I need any excuse to roam her probably never-ending closet.Cody Fern because he’s a cutie and his personal style is pretty damn amazing.

If she were still alive, Edie Sedgwick because she really inspired me as a kid as being my glamour girl. It wasn’t Marilyn or Judy; it was Edie with the sickening Smokey eye. Someone not here anymore but David Bowie. Still a huge inspiration to me, visually and aesthetically.

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JF: If you could choose any collaboration or situation, what would it be and why? would it be as model or stylist and why?

JJ: I would say to work with Steven Klein. His work is a huge inspiration to me and I pretty much reference at least 1 of his images in every shoot I do. In an ideal world I’d model for him with Patti Wilson styling me. She’s the one stylist whose decisions I’d never question.

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JF: Can you tell what was your most amazing experience doing what you do and what was the worst experience you encountered and why?

JJ: I think my most amazing experience so far was shooting with Robin Lord Taylor a few years ago. I’ve worked with quite a few celebs and high-profile people but I’m pretty much a comic geek and mega fan of Gotham. Robin’s character Penguin was one of my top 3 favorite characters on the show and having the opportunity randomly to work with him was so amazing. He also really rocked it on set!

Worst experience was working with a specific photographer whose name I shall not mention out of respect but that whole day ended up being a nightmare. His first words to the team was “I usually have a better team I work with normally” so that kind of set the bar for the shit show of that shoot. There’s was a moment where he chucked a pair of shoes because they were not Prada or luxury enough. Besides the fuckery of that day and being that it was a non-paying TFP shoot for a known NY magazine, he actually tried to sue me and a couple other team members from that day for copyright since we posted the final images in our portfolio. Twas messy indeed and in retrospect, I should have probably handled things differently at the time like packing up and getting the heck outta there. New, evolved, and candid me probably would have ripped him to shreds but I was younger and a lot nicer…. still nice but don’t take as much shit as I used to.

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**Patti Wilson has worked with Steven Klein, Steven Miesel,mmmm

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hippohierarchy · 7 years

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Valentine’s Day Ask

1:Do you have a crush at the moment? I think I have like two and a half crushes right now 2:Have you ever been deeply in love? Yeah, but nothing will really come of it but I’ve accepted that 3: Longest relationship you’ve ever been in? Oh god. Only like 3-4 months 4:Have you ever changed for someone? Fuck no 5:How is your relationship with your ex? The most recent one is a dick and I’m literally afraid to see him on the streets 6:Have you ever been cheated on? Not that I know of 7:Have you ever cheated? Fuck no 8:Would you date someone who’s well known for cheating? Yeah, we’d need some ground rules though 9:What’s the most important part of a relationship? Having fun and not stressing out 10:Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings? I’m not really sure? I guess serious? I haven’t really had either 11:When you are dating someone do you believe in going on “breaks”? I think it’s fine with the right understanding on both parts 12: How many people have you ever hooked up with? 3? 13: What’s one thing you regret saying/doing in a previous relationship? I didn’t talk to someone when I was feeling stressed and instead ended things abruptly 14: What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex? When ever they feel comfortable. 15:Do you believe in the phrase “age is just a number”? No to an extent? But there needs to be a limit to the age difference. 16:Do you believe in “love at first sight”? I believe in attraction in first sight that can be fostered into love? It’s been so long but I’m pretty sure I may have fallen for you at first sight? I don’t remember anymore lol 17:Do you believe it’s possible to fall in love on the internet? I don’t think it could happen with me but sure it could happen with other people 18:What do you consider a deal breaker? The other person not understanding my point of view 19: How do you know it’s time to end a relationship? If in a given week you have more bad days then good days 20: Are you currently in a relationship? Sadly no. 21:Do you think people who have dated can stay friends? Yeah, needs good communication though 22:Do you think people should date their friends? The person you date should be your best friend 23: How many relationships have you had? 2 in middle school 2 in high school 4 in college 24: Do you think love can last forever? I don’t really believe in forever anyways. 25:Do you believe love can conquer all things? No. There’s some unavoidable circumstances you can’t avoid 26: Would you break up with someone your parents didn’t approve of? No. My last boyfriend was a literal drug lord. And emotionally abusive. I told my parents everything and they didn’t say anything, even though I guess I was kinda hoping they would so it would give me an excuse to end things. Anyways, because of that they lost their rights to have an opinion. 27: If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be? It may be cliche but “communication is key” and “you don’t owe anybody sex” 28: Do you think long distance relationships can work? I don’t think for me personally it would because I crave physical touch. But my best friend seems to be making it work 29: What do you notice first about another person? Their eyes and jawbone 30:Are you straight, bi, gay or pansexual? Bi 31: Would it bother you if your partner suffered from any mental illness? I have mental illnesses too so it’d be a dick move to not be okay with my partner’s 32: Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? A haha. Yeah. Emotionally abusive. Dear lord that was a terrible couple of months. I’m literally still afraid of this dude. 33:Do you want to get married one day? Heck yeah. I already have my great grandmother’s flapper wedding dress I’ve laid claims to. 34: What do you think about getting your partner’s name tattooed? I could get maybe just a visual representation of them and not the actual word. 35: Could you be in a relationship without sex? Yeah. Sex isn’t a deal-breaker for me 36: Are you still a virgin? Not for a couple years now… 37: What’s more important: Looks or personality? I’m kinda shallow so I might have to say looks? I can handle a lot of shitty personalities 38: Do you enjoy love films? I like the ones that aren’t super cliche 39: Have you ever given anyone/received roses? I don’t think I’ve gotten any but I buy my friends and family them a lot. If I like them then dammit I’m going to make sure other people like them. 40:Have you ever had a valentine? Never :( 41: What’s your imagination of a “perfect date”? Being outside when it’s sunny. Eating food. Maybe being in a park or something. 42:Have you ever read “Romeo & Juliet”? Yeah. 10/10 would not recommend 43: What’s more important: Your partner or your friends? Matt is the most important. 44: Would you consider yourself “romantic”? I’m way too romantic for my own good 45: Could you imagine to date one of your current friends? Not really? Not the ones from school anyway. That aren’t my crushes 46:Have you ever been “friendzoned”? I THINK YOU ARE FRIEND ZONING ME. I just put that together 47: Which “famous couple” is your favorite? I don’t keep up with this sort of thing 48:What’s your favorite love song? “Hello by Ima robot”. It’s really nonsensical and my favorite game is sending lyrics to my partners to see how they respond 49: Have you ever broken someone’s heart? Yeah but he was obsessed so there was no way to cleanly break off. 50: If you’re single, why do you think you are? I’d like to believe my dashing good looks and wit is intimidating. But I’m closed off since I’m introverted and focusing on school. And in love with someone that I can’t stop. 51: Would you rather date someone who’s rich but a douchebag or someone who’s poor but a nice guy? Definitely poor and nice. Money doesn’t matter to me. 52:Are you good at giving other people advices regarding dating/ relationships? If you ask me for advice I’ll literally tell you just to break up. 53:Are you jealous of couples when you’re single? I try not to be, but sometimes I am 54: How important is it to make a relationship official (p.e. on Facebook)? None of mine have been official 55:Would you consider yourself “clingy”, “overly attached” or “jealous”? Definitely jealous but I keep it to myself 56: Have you ever “destroyed” a relationship? Not that I know of. Maybe in middle school? 57: Do you think it’s silly to consider suicide because of a broken heart? I think you should not be that dependant on someone else. But I can't really speak for experience so I can't say anything 58: Are you the “dominant” or the “submissive” part in a relationship? Overly submissive. But there's a small dominant side of me that I keep hidden because I think my partners would judge me. 59:Have you ever forgotten important dates like your partner’s birthday or your anniversary? I have them all saved in my phone. I still even have my ex's 60: What’s your opinion on open relationships? It wouldn't be open on my end but I'm OK with it for my partner. Again, we'd have to have rules so I don't get jealous but it'd be OK. 61:Who’s more important: Your partner or your family? Matt is the most important 62: How do you define “cheating”? Holding secrets about what you do with other people 63:Is watching porn while being in a relationship inappropriate? I'm not a big porn person so I wouldn't know? I'd definitely not feel any sort of way if my partner wanted to watch it 64: Do you think Valentine’s Day is overrated? No. I can't wait to have a partner so I can spend the day spoiling them and reminding them how much they mean to me 65: Would you consider yourself a “cuddler”? I like skin-skin contact but I fidget and move too much so I think I annoy my partner if they're trying to cuddle for a long time

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daddysliltoot · 7 years

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Day 9

30 DAYS OF JOURNAL WRITING FOR LITTLES 1. As a Dom/sub/switch do you have a little side?

This is fairly simple to answer, since this list is for littles ^.^ Yes! I have a little side and I love her! She’s been quiet lately and I miss her. That’s why I’m doing this challenge, so my Daddy and I can reconnect and rediscover our Daddy/little sides! 2. List your favorite little activities kinky or otherwise.

Video games, coloring, spankings, Daddy fussing, Daddy making my stuffies talk, shopping, dressing up all cute, ZOO DAYS, video games. Did I say video games?

….video gaaaames

3. What early experiences, looking back hinted at you being a little?

Daddy and I talk about this a lot, but I am having the worst fibro fog and can’t remember any specific examples. I’ve always loved stuffies and Disney movies and collected coloring books all the way through college. I’ve always been a little, but it wasn’t until I met my Daddy that she felt comfortable enough to come out and play. She belongs to Daddy through and through. Without Daddy, my little wouldn’t exist. <3

4. When did you realize that you were a little?

Ages and ages ago, Daddy and I started out as Mistress/slave. We were in an LDR and I flew out to spend a few weeks with them. One day, we went out and ran some errands and by the time we got back to their apartment, I was exhausted. So Daddy put me on the couch, wrapped me up in a blankie, and put on Wall-E for me to watch while they did a few chores. I was asleep within minutes. That was the first time we were DD/lg, though we didn’t know it. Fast forward to shortly after our wedding, and Daddy quietly asked me one night if I would call them Daddy. And that was it. They’ve been my Daddy ever since and that was about 8 years ago. 5. Do you have a Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver? What do you/did you look for in one?

I answered this yesterday for another prompt, but I do have a Daddy, @tootsdaddy! I never looked for a Daddy, it was something we found after we got married, but I know I want someone to help me grow into a better person, to take care of me and who I can trust to take care of things so I’m free to be little.

6. What are your personal aftercare needs and are they being met by your Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver?

The honest answer to this one is I don’t know. Partially because it’s been a long while since my last spanking (fibromyalgia diagnosis) and partially because I’m just not sure. Things I didn’t like in aftercare before (being held against Daddy’s chest (too hot and sensory overload), bright lights in the room, humming) may not bother me now that I’m getting the fibro under control. But I think, what sounds the most comforting to me, is me laying on my Teddy on my tummy, lights off, a fan blowing on my skin, while Daddy strokes my hair and back and feeds me grapes. Daddy held me and stroked my hair the other day while I was trying to rest and it was awesome. So I guess the answer to the second part is yes and no. I mean, how can my aftercare needs be met if I don’t even really know what they are? But when my booty owie heals (and we’re back in our own home), I think we’re going to try and get back to spankings and see how things go. Spanking are the only times I’d need aftercare, because I’m ace and my Daddy is super good about that <3. 7. How do you combat negative thinking/emotions?

Honestly, not very well. But when I feel them threatening to take over, I always tell my Daddy and they help distract me and cheer me up. Sometimes I vape to make it fade away, and that helps too. Coloring and getting lost in the design can help, but it’s also kinda dangerous because my form of self-harm is writing mean things on my skin with sharp pens until I bleed. Right now there are LOTS of bad thoughts in my head, but getting back into our home/away from judgey in-laws will help with that. One of our cats always seems to know when I’m having a bad brain day and he sticks close to take care of me until Daddy gets home. That cat literally saved my life when the negative thoughts were too much after I got some bad health news. 8. How have your needs and wants changed since you started exploring the lifestyle?

Oh Lord. Well, we entered into the lifestyle as Mistress/slave. Then it shifted to Sir/slave. Then we realized that I am super bad at slave and Daddy was super bad at Sir and Daddy asked if I would call them Daddy and it was perfect. Still is perfect. We’ve only been dipping our toes back into the lifestyle, since we’re still living with Daddy’s parents (WE MOVE HOME TONIGHT AAAAAAAAH), but even just that taste is everything we’ve been missing.

One thing that has really changed since the beginning of our Daddy/girlie journey is sex. In the beginning, our relationship was very sexual, partially because we spent a lot of time on Fetlife and that site is all about the sex. But over time we began to realize that we were having sex because it was The Thing To Do, not because we craved it. We delved a bit more and realized that I’ve never really enjoyed sex, it’s just always been something I did because it was expected of me. So I’m in my 30s and slowly embracing an ace identity, which Daddy 300% supports, which i am so grateful for.

So yeah, what I look for now is for my Daddy to care for me and protect me and spoil me, not for Daddy to fuck my brains out. I realized my favorite part of sex was the aftercare. I love spankings, but they just aren’t sexual anymore. I remember thinking “I wish I could dress up cute and bounce around and be super little without it leading to sex” and now it doesn’t. And my little feels safe and happy and free since we decided to take sex out of the equation. It seems strange, but it helped our marriage immensely. We’re both happier and that is all that matters. 9. How have your needs and wants changed within your current or previous relationship?

For me, the answer to this is pretty much the same as the answer to yesterday’s, because this is the only Daddy/little relationship I’ve had or ever will have. 10. How do you recover from the ending of a Big/lil relationship? 11. How do your Daddy/Mommy/Caregivers ethics/morals match or differ and how do you handle these differences? What would you do if you realized that they were drastically different? 12. What are some things that you would never do and do not want to even think about? This can be your hard limits or other aspects in your life. 13. How do you vet a Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver? Describe your process of checking them out before you meet or play with them, or any new or potential play partner. 14. Do you think that being in love with your Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver will change the dynamic? For the better or worse? 15. If you could clear up any misconceptions from the public about the relationship between littles and their caregivers, what would that be? 16. How has being part of this lifestyle helped improve your life? 17. Is there any aspect of the lifestyle you are curious about or that you would like to try to learn more about? 18. How does this type of relationship differ from a vanilla relationship and how do you keep it fresh, vital and strong? 19. What are your feelings about long distance relationships and the lifestyle? What about on-line relationships? 20. How open are you about your lifestyle, to your family and friends? 21. How do you express your little side? 22. Write a love letter to your Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver or future one, letting them know how thankful you are to have them in your life. 23. Do you test boundaries at times, to see how far you can go? If so, what are the consequences? 24. What are some of the small things that your Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver can do for you to make you feel special? 25. Is it easier for you to be honest when it does not cause pain to another? If so why? Do you have a harder time being completely honest if it will hurt someone? 26. How do you know if you have the time or energy to be involved in a 24/7 dynamic? 27. How do you feel about being shared or given to another for a specific period of time by your Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver? 28. How often do you take on to many tasks and then find yourself drowning in them? 29. Have you ever broken a rule in your current or previous dynamic? If so, what was the consequence? Did you learn your lesson? 30. Is trust absolutely necessary in your Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver to be able to give over complete control and your total submission?

(taken from here)

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