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olderthannetfic · 8 months
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To all those comments
Yes i do forget my cis friends pronouns. Especially when they are suddenky trying something new.
But the thing is i dont have visual indicators for alot of them, and it wouldnt matter if i did because someones looks dont determine their pronouns. All my friends are online or penpals. Sometimes i get voice but that doesnt mean shit when i cant remember who is talking half the time. Or that i remeber the persons whos talkings pronouns
Alot of my online friends have their like... Birth pronounss aswell as something else. Some of them prefer the other thing. Mate im in a discord server i cannot remember every single persons pronouns in there.
Some of my friends put their pronouns in their username. And that helps, sometimes ill remember it longer because of the repitition of seeing it. But even then i am still able to forget it. Its harder when im focusing on a game and not able to focus on remembering someones pronouns.
For my pen pals we spend so much time emailing or mailing eachother that we dont even talk about pronouns. Our own pronouns rarely ever even come up ive even had ny first one admit they forgot mine and was too afraid to ask at that point and avoided it at all costs because theyvdidntvwant to risk lossing me as a friend. It wasnt a big deal.
And you know what? They dont have so much of a problem with it as yall do. I forget things. All the time i forget things. Most of my friends also have disorders or disabilities of somekind so they understand. I just forget things.
Sometimes i have to look back at discord to see the name of whoever is talking to me. Like i said i forget peoples names.
Im sorry yall cant understand that i really do forget things.
And even then. Even if my memory werent so trash. People forget things all the time. Even people with a good memory. Sometimes you get so absorbed in something your talking too fast and focusing on something that you use the wrong pronouns for someone or who your talking to. This happens to one of my friends occasionally.
Its not a big deal. My pronouns get forgottem all the time too. Honestly i dont care personally about it becaise i prefer to be called by my name instead. Newer people get my pronouns wrong all the time. Its nit a big deal. Hell i dont even know if my sister even knows what my pronouns are.
I get that it can be frustrating. I do try. But i cannot help it if i cant remeber something.
"just ask" i do. But sometimes i dont think before i talk or think ive remebered them correctly and i get them wrong.
As someone with the worst memory on earth, you can tell whos doing it on purpose and who has actually just forgotten.
Also thanks for jumping to conclusions and getting mad because you cant comprehend the life of someone other than yourself. I have bigger problems than remembering my friends pronouns specifically. Its not like i dont try to remember them, but like with everything else i just forget them. I forget things about my long term friends because our lives and friendship dont revolve around remembering eachothers pronouns and then berating eachother for forgetting. Most of what we do is talk about games or books we read. What shops weve been going to or bad snacks we try. In between all the actaul stuff we do its normal to forget things that arent talked about.
And i prefer it like that rather than some big art discord i tried joining a while back and there was almost twice weekly drama over someone forgetting someones pronouns. That level of stress and worry over pronouns is not normal for anyone. And. Yeah some of those times it was people dping it on purpose bit most of them from what i saw was usually teenagers antagonizing others for not focusing their entire life on what pronouns they were using. Even when someone apologized it wasnt enough. It was disgusting to see and stressful.
Idk what to tell any of you.
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Frankly, I think a lot of the disagreements are actually over what 'friends' implies.
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ithisatanytime · 11 months
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Deontay Wilder Knocks Out Internet Troll Charlie Zelenoff In Real Life
 this sums up my feelings about the whole sam hyde simmons thing, in case you are unfamiliar thats charlie selenoff and hes not a fucking “troll” its been actaul fucking years since ive seen troll used correctly, it makes me fucking cringe for some reason, anyway this guy has some kind of SERIOUS mental disability, what he does is go to gyms like planet fitness and go up to strangers asking if theyd like to do some “light sparring” and the moment they put their gloves on he just unloads on them, catching them completely unaware and then he claims it as another win in his “three hundred and O” boxing record or whatever the fuck. thats clearly not fucking cool at all and the guy is a menace, but again he CLEARLY has a serious developmental disability, the man hes fighting is a fucking former heavyweight UFC champion who has too much of a smooth ape brain to realize that fighting this guy makes him look like a fucking idiot. Zelenoff NO DOUBT brought this on himself by calling his daughter the n word and god knows what else, but again hes a FUCKING FORMER UFC HEAVYWEIGHT CHAMPION, he should be so far above this that he doesnt even know charlies name, he OUGHT to be humiliated by this but frankly hes just too low IQ to understand why this is wrong, and i say that to his credit im sure hes actually a decent man but i dont think hes bright. sam on the other hand is bright enough to know that its not fuckin cool to bully an autist just because you can make him look like hes a pedophile based on snippets of his book out of context or edgy instagram jokes that dont land, thats literally what severe social autism is, and if medical books were honest one of the main symptoms would be “seems a bit like a sex pest” they dont have the ability to socially filter what they are saying or more they dont know how what they are saying is gonna be recieved that IS autism. im not saying the dude isnt a creep, its just fucking mega lame to see sam and frank bully some little shrimp dick autist over fucking nothing. if they believed he actually posed a threat to kids its their fucking duty to do something about it, not talk about it and mock him like fucking women. shameful display
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slowlydyingsilently · 3 years
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Lol what a question. Like if u answered with I'm a republican they probably would have chewed u out calling u names and they u followed u. So sad how people go by what side ur on and not what type of person u are now a days. I'm a republican but I'm for gay marriage I believe in equity not equality. It seems the left is taking over the government GOD help us all in america. Idk how they r getting all these votes when they where calling what those rioters where doing in the city's burning the stores, looting, destroying privet property. Even beating the shit out of people that where just trying to protect there small stores from being destroyed. Y would u support people that would do that? Y would u vote for a party that was started by people who didn't vote for women having the right to vote or to give the blacks the right to vote. The REPUBLICAN party was STARTED BY FREE SMART BLACK MEN. They knew the government had to much power. They knew that the American people no matter the color or sex should have the right to freedom and not to be told what u can and can't do or say by the government on anything. The Republican party is about less government, more money for the people cause they want people to have jobs, own there own business, we believe in family. Not all are against gay marriage that's just stupid if to people want to get married then go for it no matter what is between ur legs. We are not transphobic we don't give two shits about ur sexual organs or who u fuck. We just dont want it thrown in our face ever damn chance u get. And the obortion thing there are people who believe if ur going to have unprotected sex and get pregnant then u should stay pregnant and then if u dont want the baby give it up for adoption. I believe a women has the right to an abortion up to 8 weeks after that u keep till u can put up for adoption. Cause I know shit can happen. Just there are so many ways to not get pregnant. And if u wait till that baby has a heart beat or could survive out of the womb to terminate the pregnancy then that's murder. I was believe on lower taxes less government, less laws, term limits on all people in office. I don't believe in life long politics. Like biden he has been in power for close to 50 years that's wrong cause he doesn't have anything to show for. I believe the American people shouldn't be told what drugs they can or can't have. I don't believe in the war on opioids. There are actaul humans that need them to get by everyday be it work or even just getting around. The Human body sucks and it can be extremely painful. And telling us well because people us them to get high and some die you can't have any is fucking messed up.people smoke weed, take crack, acid, mdma to get high. Who the fuck cares. The damn government pro idea places and free needles for drug users the even give them free methadone. So Why is it the governments right to tell me I can't take something that will help my chronic pain so I can get around and do my job cause other people die off it. U know almost every drug out there can kill u if u take to much. U could take to much aspirin and die. So to sum this up I fucking hate the government and think we need a new haul of everyone.
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