tears welled up, one, then another, a silent cascade, i wept for your absence
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don't u love feeling paranoid bc ur ex that you haven't spoken to in years found your Instagram (that they didn't know you had!!!) and sent several threats :D
on top of that I feel like shit because school is starting soon n I have to change in gendered locker rooms but I have very visible cuts on my thighs!!! and a ton of scars!!!
I also feel like my partners hate me because they didn't respond to the message I put in the group chat and have been v distant
overall feelin liek shit lmao
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official obbligato reading order:
the bible
the gospel according to jesus christ by josé saramago
the happy prince by oscar wilde
silence by shūsaku endō
the double by fyodor dostoevsky
obbligato
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I just feel like such a burden to everyone. Someone can scream in my face that I’m not a bother but my mind won’t accept it so there’s literally no winning anymore. I can’t cope.
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i hope qcellbit fails horribly in his goal to push everyone away from him. i hope they refuse to let him win i hope they make sure he knows that he's just hurting them and it wont stop unless he does because theyre not gonna leave. sorry i just hope this cubito heals so bad i need it more than anything
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i want to drench my arms in blood but then i remember i have to hide them and i don’t even feel like it.
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RANT ABOUT PEOPLES WEIRD ATTITUDE ABOUT SHANE STARDEW VALLEY INCOMING!!!
saw people complaining about shane today and saying he is a bad and awful husband and they divorced him after seeing his room and that he becomes boring after he starts getting therapy because the interesting thing about him is his struggle with addiction and after you "fix him" what's the point of being with him And just?? Why?? Did you even marry him?? Like?? I dunno, people are allowed to have opinions on characters but so many peoples' opinions are just?? Really bad and rooted deeply in ableism and misconceptions about mental health/addiction and are super saviory??
I have said this a thousand times but you can't fix people. That's literally not how people work. You can, however, be there for people and try and create a safe environment for them to be able to help themselves!! AND THATS EXACTLY EHAT FUCKING HAPPEMS IN STARDEW!! Shane gets help ON HIS OWN because he is being supported by both his family and the farmer. And to see that just fucking fly over peoples heads makes me so mad because DID WE PLAY THE SAME FUCLING GAME?? YOU DONT FIX SHIT!! YOU ACT AS PART OF A SUPPORT SYSTEM!! (Which is very important but like) YOU AS A SINGULAR PERSON CANT FIX PEOPLE!!
I also just hate the "I can fix them" attitude because, at least in this specific situation, the people saying this are the same people who divorce him because his room is ugly or because he is implied to relapse and still is depressed??? It feels like the same thing as when someone has "spread kindness!" or "love each other!" in their bio and then is the most rancid hateful person ever? The room thing in particular makes me mad because LIKE WHAT DID YUOU THINK IT WAS GOING TO LOOK LIKE?? YOU SAW HIS ROOM AT MARNIE'S, WHAT MADE YOU THINK HIS ROOM IN YOUR HOUSE WAS GOING TO BE ORGANIZED AND SPOTLESS???
Idk like, again, you can dislike Shane and even regret marrying him. He's not very nice to you until you really get his hearts up there so he comes off as rude and abrasive. You don't HAVE TO LIKE HIM!! But so many people just spout hateful shit and it's like god, I hope you never have anyone in your life who suffers from mental illness because even though Shane is a video game character, the stuff you're saying and the ideas you have surrounding addiction and mental health are super toxic and weird and I hope no real person ever has to be subjected to them.
edit (put this in the tags but then wanted to add it to the main post):
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you know I really didn’t have any cravings or anything the last six months but after my two big milestones (4 years for fentanyl, 6 months for meth), I’ve been having them almost every day. I’ve been fighting with myself again to not contact my old dealers or friends who are still using. I had a relapse nightmare about fentanyl the other night when I hadn’t even thought about it in years.
Idk what exactly is going on. I hate that these milestones that I should be celebrating are actually so triggering and that they’ve stirred up all of these old feelings.
But they’re probably still worth at least trying to celebrate. I’m trying to be at least a little proud of myself.
I haven’t been clean for this long since I was 20 years old. I’m 26 now. Almost 27. The last six years have been a blurry hell of drugs and withdrawal and pain. I don’t understand why I would ever miss it. I don’t understand why I would long to go back to it.
It feels weird being honest about this.
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