#i hate that word bc im not religious and i think it sounds cringe af but i legitimately believe i was blessed to meet him

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one thing i’ve especially always hated about the gays who say shit like “you chose the wrong side!!” when referencing your “straight passing” relationship with a men as a bisexual woman, it always feels so fucking dismissive of my life experiences. like, no offense to the people who live in SoCal, but have you ever considered for maybe two seconds that perhaps dating women as a woman/female aligned person who lives in the deep south perhaps... isn’t a great idea? it just goes to show me how little these people consider others’ life experiences, like growing up and dating in high school, it was literally safer for me to pursue relationships with men than with women. i’m from fucking louisiana man!! you think that shit’s gonna fly in louisiana? IT JUST MAKES ME SO MAD when people INSIST you’re not really bisexual because you chose to date a man, when it’s like 1) statistically speaking there are more straight people in the world, so yes my chances of dating a straight man are higher than dating a bisexual/lesbian woman 2) im literally from one of the most conservative states in the fucking country? like im sorry i wasnt flaunting rainbow flags and dyed half-shaved hair and flannels and making out with every girl i saw during my childhood, i was just you know Literally Trying Not To Be Kicked Out/Shunned From My Family/Physically Assaulted By My Peers. but like! whatever i guess! homophobia doesnt exist anymore because SoCal!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

#sorry that i wasnt allowed to express my sexuality because of the very real threat of being kicked out or hurt by people #sorry that during the time where i wasn't completely out i fell in love with a man and continued a healthy relationship w him #which has lasted to this day lmfao #it always makes me laugh when jealous gays insist i've 'settled' when genuinely speaking my boyfriend is the best person i've ever met #he's such an amazing genuine person and the fact that i had the opportunity to meet him and be his friend and his lover... i feel blessed #i hate that word bc im not religious and i think it sounds cringe af but i legitimately believe i was blessed to meet him #he's just such an amazing person. i admire him so much tbh. SO IT MAKES ME LAUGH WHEN JEALOUS GAYS #INSIST I CAN'T BE HAPPY WITH A MAN AS A BISEXUAL WOMAN LIKE BABY </3 IT'S IN THE NAME </3 #but to me it just comes off as especially self-centered and like they can't imagine any other reality but their own #where they can freely express their sexualities without threat of violence. like im happy you grew up in a place where thats allowed #but not me babe! literally from southern louisiana! the people would kill me!!! #my own literal grandmother makes facebook posts about how my soul is damned and i need to be saved #SHE DOESN'T EVEN KNOW IM BISEXUAL!!! SHE'S JUST UPSET IM NOT A TRUMP SUPPORTER!!! #LIKE YOU THINK I'M SAFE TO EXPRESS MY SEXUALITY HERE YOU DUMBIE? AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH