#i may be aromantic asexual

[some---weirdo]

If this post gets:

100 notes I'll explain my gender to my friends and tell them my pronouns

500 notes I'll explain my romantic orientation to my friends (they think I'm aroace, I just identify as ace) ✓

1000 notes I'll come out to my sibling (they're agender, I know they'll support me)

10 000 notes I'll come out to my sister (she has pronouns in her discord bio, it'll be fine)

100 000 notes I'll tell my best friend I love her

1 000 000 notes I'll come out to my homophobic, transphobic conservative Christan family that I live with (they still talk to my agender sibling, so it'll just be very awkward for the next few years...)

#lgbtq community #lgbtq #lgbtqia #asexual #asexuality #gender #transgender #trans #nonbinary #enby #aroace #aro/ace #ace #aspec #acespec #asexual spectrum #aromantic #arospec #aromantism #aro #aroacespec #queer #agender #gay #lesbian #bisexual #biromantic #bi #pronouns #i may or may not actually do any of this. i can do whatever i want

[morallygay]

I could write 20 pages against exclusionist arguments but nothing I could say would be as efficient as this

[ID: a reddit comment by tomohawk12345 that reads:

"this sexual minority isn't part of the sexual minority group" 🤓🤓

/end ID]

#this was about asexuality but it can apply to others too #also i may have found this on reddit but please dont assume i go on there regularly #asexual #asexuality #aromantic #aromance #aroace #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtq+ #lgbtqia #queer #aspec tag #moralgayness

[ashh-tree]

aro/ace themed valentine's day teddy bears ^^ because i just recently found out i might be arospec but also just cuz like..... why not

#this may be out of character for me because just a few weeks ago i strongly disliked valentine's day lmao #now that i know im probably some kinda flavor of aro? i.. dunno how to feel #how i feel about the holiday is complicated #while i still dont like the romantic aspect of it.. at least i dont find myself rolling my eyes at valentine's themed stuff as much anymore #idk maybe i'll go back to disliking the holiday next year who knows lol #i guess its just the catharsis i suppose.. #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aspec #arospec #lgbtq #valentine's day #valentine's #teddy bear #digital art #art #ashton draws things

[batri-jopa]

I love my life highly satisfied just being myself

(Female version here)

#okey so as my 'I love myself' post is the most popular thing on my blog (500 notes already yet still growing and it's wild😆) #I decided to make a male version just in case anybody needed it😉 #anyone having more idea - pls go ahead and tell me I'd love to make it a happy queer series! it doesn't need to be aspec only😉 #aroace #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #aromantism #asexuality #aspec #a spec #a spectrum #aroace positivity #aro ace #queer #queer positivity #(I'm most probably only shooting myself in the foot giving two similar pictures but who knows where it may lead) #2K

[onesidedradiostatic]

doodled a dumb one-sided radiostatic thing that doesn't even comply with my hced events/timeline but I felt like drawing so I just drew whatever. enjoy

#osrs.art #radiostatic #staticradio #one sided radiostatic #one sided staticradio #onewaybroadcast #aroace alastor #aromantic alastor #asexual alastor #the way I draw alastor is going through development so it's a bit different from last time #hazbin vox #hazbin hotel vox #vox #vox hazbin #vox hazbin hotel #hazbin alastor #hazbin hotel alastor #alastor #alastor hazbin #alastor hazbin hotel #alastor the radio demon #hazbin hotel #this is a scheduled post. there is a chance I may not actually be here when it goes up

[thetisming]

"wow you must be so focused on school without crushes" incorrect! instead i am thinking about my special interest.

#i may not have a crush but i sure am in love with something (& Juliet) #aromantic #aro #asexual #ace #aroace #autistic #adhd #special interest

[fizzyoz]

aroace people are so cool because if they live without a spouse and it’s just them theres so much more room for pokemon plushies and other trinkets

#might live alone with may b a cat for this reason #not aroace tho i just enjoy my own company #aroace #asexual #aromantic

[thanks-for-the-emsomnia]

My life is officially all downhill from here

There is absolutely no way my life could get any better after being good girl’d by a random witch lady on tiktok. I’m sorry. It’s just downhill from here for me.

#tiktok #witch lady #witch #sacrifice #I’m dead #i may be aromantic asexual #but I know my place

[random-human-being2311]

i hate the stereotype that ALL aroaces are loveless because like.. no??

Loveless people are amazing and extremely valid, but I'm certainly not one of them.

I personally am extremely aroace and extremely loving. God was like "ah shit we forgot to put romantic and sexual attraction in this mf let's just platonically supercharge them to make up for it".

And to me personally, my aroace identity goes hand in hand with my being extremely platonically loving. The two aren't opposing forces, they're joined hand in hand, interwoven through each other to make a beautiful patterned fabric filled with many different beautiful colours.

My best friends are the loves of my life. They're my platonic soulmates. I would want to spend the rest of my life with them. I adore everything about them, and try to help their best side shine through so that everyone else can see their wonderful glimmer. I could spent eternity hanging out with my best friends and never run out of social energy because I don't have to attempt to conform or hide the weirder shades of my personality. Just being around them is so easy and freeing and just always fills me with such joy.

But oh, because I don't want to kiss them it's not real love and somehow less meaningful than romance???

Fuck off, amatonormativity.

(THIS POST IS NOT TO BE USED AGAINST LOVELESS AROACES IN ANY WAY, EVER. YOU GUYS ARE VALID, YOU'RE ICONIC AND YOU NEED MORE APPRECIATION. SENDING INFINITE GOOD VIBES YOUR WAY.)

#aromantic #asexual #aroace #platonic #aromantic asexual #aro #ace #sorry to any aplatonic or loveless aroaces this may accidentally reach #i just felt that if allos can go on about romantic love every minute of their lives I can go on about platonic love once in a while #that one's ramblings

[meaningless-mayhem]

Being asexual and possibly aromantic but also being a huge shipper and hopeless romantic is such a wild experience ngl. I'm always freaking out about my favorite ships and giggling internally reading ship fics, getting invested in characters finally kissing or reading about their pining and their love and I think "I want what they have!!"

But then sometimes you have a slamming realization that your sweet shipping scenarios you imagine in your head look totally different irl and that you are extremely aspec.

One time I went down a YouTube rabbit hole and stumbled across Vsauce's "Why Do We Kiss?" video and let me tell you. When I saw that stock video footage of two people kissing each other I was a little flabbergasted lmaooo

#i mean this doesn't apply to all aspecs obviously but like #that stock video footage #they were kissing but it was more sucking each others faces and i was like wait #do people actually do this #lmaoo #it lowkey repulsed me oops #it hit me so hard but it also kind of validated my asexuality a bit too lol #ace #asexual #asexuality #aro #aromantic #aromanticism #aroace #this also may be because i dont watch live action shows or movies that much but still #does anyone else feel like this #ill be hardcore shipping something but i see one minute of irl relationship stuff and feel extremely disconnected #idk if im making sense #id like to hear some thoughts #might delete later but just wanted to get my thoughts out there #someone's probably said something like this before #edit: adding tags #yeah for me imagination of my ships kissing 👍👍👍💖💖 #vs #footage of irl people kissing/live action kissing scenes 🫠 #fandom #fanfic #fanfiction #my rambles

[aceforwhatevenisthis]

no because it’s actually so important to me, as an aroace girl, that barbie maintained her boundaries of not being interested in any romantic relationship

#i may not look like barbie at all but i saw myself in her #i felt her struggle with ken so much #ace speaks #aromantic #asexual #barbie #barbie 2023 #aroace

[skeleton-squid-boy]

im queer as in no part of my gender or attraction can be explained. im queer as in i don't know what the FUCK is going on.

#queer #lgbtq #gay #transgender #asexual #aromantic #nonbinary #bisexual #pansexual #idek #all of those tags may or may not apply to me i dONT KNOW #squids bullshit

[fanvergent-bookworm]

guyss this is my first Valentine's day being aroace so let's get this thing trending!!!

#aromantic #aroace #asexual #trendingnow #valentines day #alastor #trending #if aroace isnt trending i may cry #first valentines day aroace #new #lgbtqia #lgbtq community #lgbtq icons

[chaggieslovechild]

love loses (sex loses too)

#alastor #alastor hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel alastor #asexual #asexuality #aromantic #aroace #acespec #arospec #aaa: aroace al #hazbinhoteledit #hazbin hotel gifs #tlofml #*cantando* amoooor da minha vidaaa daqui até a eternidadeee #nossos destinos foram traçados na maternidadeee #the idea for this gifset came to me late night and i'm actually surprised how (1) it worked and (2) how much i like it #new magnum opus just dropped #alastor é meu novo blorbo de estimação #do not be fooled by this edit btw i may be a fellow aroace happy with alastor representing me but i'm still thirsty for him

[meowzet]

“it’s okay if you don’t want that now!”

is it okay if i don’t want that ever? is it okay if i never desire sexual relationships, or engage in romance? am i only ‘redeemable’ if i entertain YOUR ideals of sex and/or romance? will you still view me as human?

#this isn’t support #and #this isn’t about hypotheticals. we aren’t talking about what i may or may not want in the future. let’s talk about now #please #sorry for [maybe] overtagging #i just gotta give my As some love <3 #aromantic #arospec #aro pride #aromantism #aroace #acespec #ace #aro #asexual #ace pride #amanormativity #queer #lgbtq #my meows

[fnafs-ex-boyfriend]

Told my irls this today but if I catch fuckers saying that demisexuals don’t count as ace or aroflux is not valid I will be throwing hands

#asexual #aromantic #demisexual #aroflux #lgbt+ community #lgbtqiia+ #lgbtq+ #I may be painfully short but I’ll kick ur shins or smthn idk #also #this post only refers to specifically these identities by name because those were the ones me and my friends were discussing #obv aceflux and demiromantic is valid too #as well as aplatonic identities #and all the other weird A identities as well #I just don’t wanna list them all