#i need a queer tag

[hypermania]

i feel like there's been this trend lately of people being upset that a queer storyline isn't catering specifically to what they personally want out of queer storytelling and i find it utterly baffling. it's like people see one piece of media do it in a way that speaks to them and their experiences and then when any other story does it differently in any way whatsoever, they're disappointed and view it as a failing. and that's just silly to me. the reason different pieces of media are doing it differently is because they are different. being queer is not a one size fits all situation. there is a reason that these stories are being told differently and that's good. the cut away from colin hughes coming out was not the righteous fury that james flint needed was not the soft oh moment that stede bonnett needed was not the building realization and catharsis that nick nelson needed was not the monumental unburdening that castiel needed was not the quiet broken admission that chiron needed was not the loud acceptance and declarations that eric effiong need was not the–

#colin hughes #ted lasso #ted lasso spoilers #i need a queer tag #mp

[demonophilia]

i need to have weird depraved gross sex or im going to fucking die

#mine #subposting #domposting #ftm nsft #trans nsft #queer nsft #ftm t4t #t4t nsft #t4t kink #t4t sub #ftm sub #ftm switch #trans sub #trans switch #bd/sm community #bd/sm masochist #t4t switch #t4t dom #ftm dom #trans dom #i used both tags bc well tbh this isnt either. i just need to either Get dommed so very much Or dom somebody so very much.. #well ifff im being honest rn i do need to get dommed . ive been thinking wayyy too much and i need to shut off 4 a bit but i havent been #able to. Due to my maidenless nature (joke)

[3lostyears]

until i recently read posts on here about how there is an inherent queerness to the doctor and rose's relationship in how it's unspoken and filled with yearning that i'd never really considered that element, despite knowing for ages that RTD is gay but. man. it's just reframed a lot of the series for me, like the idea that you have this lonely man who's just watched his people die and is self-destructive and misanthropic and traumatised and he can love again and he wants to but it has so many risks.

but especially S3 and how it adds even more weight to the doctor's grieving widower status. how he tells martha that he and rose were together but martha refers to rose as a friend to tallulah; the fact that he can only say they were together once she is gone; how the only other person that both can feel how he feels but also understands the depth of his feelings is jack, a queer man himself. and I've been thinking to myself lately oh, it's ok, the doctor and rose probably accidentally got married on at least one planet or something but also the point is that there was no official title that could convey to people the extent that they meant to each other, that the doctor can really only tell donna that rose was his friend even though it is so wholly inadequate and she comes to see that by the end of the episode (and martha too of course). how people who saw the doctor and rose together assumed they were a couple, like on krop tor, but once there's no more physical evidence of the relationship it becomes more vague (and simultaneously clearer).

anyway something about how christopher eccleston said he based his portrayal of nine on RTD and something about RTD saying that his husband is "in every good man i write now" and how the doctor and ruby seeing each other in the club mimics his first meeting with his husband aka the one moment he would use a time machine to go back to hmmm

#doctor who is fundamentally about grief and then i watch rtd era 1 and it's about grief like :0 oh my godddd #sidenote grieving widower ten needs its own tag on ao3 #it's about the grief and the loss and the mourning and the loneliness #also this is not martha slander there are a million reasons to refer to rose as a friend #both real world and canonical and she was never directly told anything #but him not actually telling her what happened to rose and their exact relationship is kinda the point #doctor who #timepetals #meta #also yes rtd's husband was alive when he wrote end of time but. ten seeing rose at his end but their beginning... #yay queer readings of dw nay rtd as a person btw #dw meta

[em0-opossum]

"can I be [x gender] if I..." "can I still call myself [x term] if..." yes. yes. if you like the term then use it. do whatever you want forever. labels are just little words we use to categorize our infinitely complex existential experiences on this floating rock !! no two people who use the same label are going to experience it the same way and that's the beauty of it !! use "contradictory" labels, use labels that don't make sense to anyone, change your label every day or not at all, explore anything and everything, use no labels at all or every label under the sun, confuse people or correct them or let them assume things rather than explaining, I promise nothing other people think about your identity is worth your happiness !!

#ofc there are some situations where this does not apply (ex: terms connected to a specific culture or race such as 2 spirit) #but in general people need to be more chill about labels #lesbian #nonbinary #bigender #lgbtq+ #gay #trans #multigender #trans joy #asexual #aromantic #bisexual #queer #demiboy #demigirl #2 spirit #pansexual #demisexual #too tired to tag all the genders and sexualities and other things i can think of but yeah

[jojo-oliver]

Buy a patch, help me pay my rent

$25 CAD Only 25 of each design available, 50 total Click me for Etsy link I have moved from Germany to Canada, where my mom had been homeless for 3 months. I placed myself in homelessness with her and we stayed in a shelter for 1 month. We have: ✅found housing (after 30+ viewings that all rejected her) ✅gotten hired (mom increased to full time, I have found part time) ✅registered with every assistance program we can However, after fronting the deposit and first month's rent and all the bills myself, I'm worried about making ends meet at the end of the month. Mom is escaping an abusive relationship and has very little. I'm having iron-on patches printed by a local business and they're currently past the proof stage. They will be 4x4 inches big and will look absolutely sick on your jacket. Or your jeans. Or your bag. If you go buy a patch, I'll send it in the mail to you as soon as they're done(could be a couple weeks). You will be supporting me and my mom getting back on our feet. And you'll have a badass new patch.

#please reblog i need help #i love you thank you for your time #talky tag #trans artist #queer artist #trans art #queer art #lgbt art #lgbt #lgbtq #transgender #pride #trans #queer #queer punk #queercore

[roseyjustice]

Lambzuli gets sharp teeth, as a treat for Nari <3

Also bonus doodle cause the latest update is the best for the sole fact the red crown gets its own tent to match the leader tent

theyre taking a little nappy uvu

#self ship #self ship community #self shipping community #romantic selfship #self insert #romantic f/o #queer selfship #cotl spoilers #cult of the lamb spoilers #cotl lamb #cotl narinder #cotl narilamb #lambsona #cotl lambsona #doodles #s/i: lambzuli 🐏😈 #i still need a ship tag for them 😭 #jescove scribbles (art)

[finleycannotdraw]

and here’s the full image :)

tfw your boss is dad shaped, lonely, sweet, and puts in effort to make you feel accepted and understood

alternative caption: YOU’RE MY DAD!! BOOGIE WOOGIE WOOGIE

guys just think about it. has she been hugged even ONCE since gloreth?? I kind of doubt it. ballister had better get on top of that YESTERDAY.

oh yeah!! here’s the playlist :) (subject to change)

why is his prosthetic arm easier to draw than his mustache

#nimona and ballister #nimona #nimona 2023 #nimona movie #nimona netflix #ballister boldheart #finley cannot draw #nimona fanart #THEYRE SO SWEET YALL. THEYRE EVERYTHING TO ME #what do you get when you put two affection-starved queers in an evil lair? snuggles. that’s what. also probably a food fight. and adoption #do I even need to include a ‘do not tag as ship’ disclaimer? I hope not #anyway I WILL be drawing more of them just you fucking wait #and also more ambrosius because he’s my girlfriend

[stbot]

I've been thinking lately... maybe I should stop worrying so much about why I feel something and just feel it.

#grease rise of the pink ladies #grease rotpl #rise of the pink ladies #rotpl #cynthia zdunowski #grease spoilers #cynthia rotpl #shy guy rotpl #short king ‘wait does this mean i’m a thespian?’ cynthia #shy guy 'i'm jewish though?' edward #baby boy shy guy!!!! my son my child!! #queer solidarity love to see it! #i think i need a gif tag #not to prev tags myself but uh: #cynthia and shy guy are like Peak high school gays trying to date each other bc they can't accept they're gay but know the other is Safe #like i really didn't expect for this to be where his v obvious crush was going but i'm here for it! #love them love this #love to see cyn getting their shit together to apologize #cannot wait for next week!

[punk-pangolins]

i cant think of any more; what else if not these, you fucking aliens

#i need sleep #idk why im tagging everything i need answers #neurodivergent #neurodiverse #audhd #actually neurodivergent #neurodiversity #neurodiverse things #tumblr polls #polls #shitpost #neurotypical #lgbtq #bookblr #booklr #books #lgbtqia #lgbt #queer #not a poll #my polls #poll time #send help #mental illness #therapy #is what i need #spending to much time on tiktok edits of ofmd

[tyquu]

girl help, people are asking about the shirtless Kanan art stash.

#kanan jarrus #star wars #Uhm uhm uhm #if ur curious abt the background babble kanan is gender queer to me so #she her and he him #sorry i don't make the rules #do i need to tag shirtless?? #shirtless

[hotsingledemonsinyourarea]

#lgbt #queer #gay #lesbian #poll #i need to know but ill die before adding the reblog begging to any poll of mine♥️ #sorry for the vague ass tags tho 😞 #adrian actually says something

[hypermania]

what if we stopped devoting time and energy to discussing who should be excluded from the queer community and instead focused on the people trying to kill us

#i need a queer tag #mp

[thepartyishere]

aro in a "cant feel a difference between friendships and romance" way

ace in a "too trans and dysphoric to even think about sex with another human person" way

#fr tho i was dating my ex bf for four years and it felt like a friendship with extra actions unlocked the whole time #aro #ace #aroace #slippery slimey #asexual #aromantic #thats why im queer aroacespec #back to the bf he was also ace so sex was always off the table but we barely even kissed #not that i minded i dont like kissing #i need a new tag for personal talk #lore lore lore #there we go #i wont remember it tho

[mj-makoshark]

I'm partway through season 2 and here's my takes

#some of these are very silly headcanony but im 90% sure the jeff one is just true. #no idea if britta bi is just something my brain made up or not #my art #nbc community #queer headcanons #jeff winger #troy barnes #abed nadir #britta perry #annie edison #shirley bennett #do i even need to tag pierce. does anyone care #senor chang #ian duncan #dean pelton

[spacelazarwolf]

also it’s not a coincidence that a lot of the ppl who are weirdly obsessed with me and my ramblings are white, and that a lot of the ppl who are also targeted by their harassment are jewish or not white. when your entire worldview, including your view of things like gender and transness and oppression, is based in your own experience of racial and cultural whiteness, jewish and non white voices threaten that. when that happens, you have two choices: change your worldview or lash out. and historically white gentiles have always chosen the latter.

#atm #antisemitism #queer gentile bullshit #feel like i need to start a tag for that

[okidenshi]

I don’t think Joel is homophobic or “against” The Gays, but rather just. doesn’t quite understand queer culture or anything about. And it’s so funny cause like, in tlou 2 when Dina kissed Ellie, he was just like... “i don't know what the words are.... or how any of that dynamic workds but uh... yea... if this girl likes you Ellie thats ok with me.” And now in the show, when Joel and Tess meet Bill & Frank, Joel so desperately wants to connect with Bill on how their partners make decisions for them, but like... doesn’t know how to refer to their relationship. You can see on his face, Joel’s like “Not.. wife... parnter??? person?? h... husband,???” so he just says... “if mine (as in my person i guess) did that” LIKE that shit is so funny. Two braincells Joel

#the last of us #oki watches hbo tlou #im putting this in the tag because I need to know if others feel the same. like very supportive father for his Queer Kid but has NO idea #what queer means lmao