Could you add the Shakadolin cuddle pile+Renarin to inprint as well? And that one with Tien and Kal (https: // at.tumblr.com /stivya / 636752642861940736 /0tedndnpv0g9)? I love them all too much, I can't decide which to geeet
Thank you!!💖
I added both of them here
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Dude! I just discovered you and I'm wondering where the hell you've been all my life! Sonic was one of my first fandoms and your designs are some goddam awesome! Look at ur Thomas! He's so stylin'! Ur art is awesome!
Thomas: “Thanks for the kind words!”
But seriously, thank you so much for the very kind and generous words. They mean a lot to me! 💖💖
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I believe you, too. I still can't bring myself to tell my mother because I don't think she'll believe me, especially not over my father. I'm so, so sorry you were trafficked. I hope each and every person involved with what was done to you dies a horrible, painful, and humiliating way. like dysentery.
Thank you for saying this anon and I'm so sorry that something like this has happened to you. I can't tell my mom either, when I have told her about other things before this that happened she didn't believe me then so how can I expect her to believe this.
I'll be completely honest with you it's hard for me to use the T word, I know that sounds so dumb of me to say but it's like when I think about it there's just an added layer of cruelty of what it really was and it hurts. It hurts me to know what really happened to me and when I give it it's name it makes it so horribly real. I can't believe the person I love the most was the one who set all of that up for nothing more than his own pleasure.
Thank you anon for your support and your kind words, it really helps me to hear them.
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[ID: Tweets from Emily 'Soup Lesbian' Gwen (@theemilygwen) on twitter with the following text:
Well, just left a job interview crying because the hiring manager told me they liked my application but were disappointed that I didn't bother dressing appropriately. I tried to explain that I haven't been able to afford new clothes in years but I just couldn't handle it.
That comment and my reaction was one of the most mortifying moments of my life. I thought I put together a decent outfit for the job with what I had, and hearing her say that just destroyed me.
Anyway I'm still looking for work and struggling a lot. Even $5 would help pay for a meal. ko-fi.com/emilygwen
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Please help Emily Gwen, the creator of the lesbian flag. If you show me that you donated any amount I will draw you something. You can also support them by buying something from their Threadless store!
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hey look this might be totally weird i’m so sorry if it is but i saw your tags about feeling not femme enough, and i felt that a lot, but also it reminded me of this quote that made me feel very seen. it’s from "Femme-Dyke" by Arlene Istar, featured in The Persistent Desire: A Femme-Butch Reader (there’s a post about it somewhere on this app but i couldn’t find it sorry :’)
"A few years ago, I bought a pair of warm winter boots. I worked in an agency where all the women wore heavy femme drag, and even if I hadn't been out, my differentness was apparent. I wasn't sure if the agency would even let me wear boots to work. I walked into my office, and two male co-workers immediately began playfully whistling. "Ooh, new boots — how butch," they teased me. Later that evening, I met my lover and another friend, both butch identified. They too teased: "Ooh, new boots — how fernmy," they said. And I suppose that's what being a femme-dyke means. The boys think I'm butch, and the girls think I'm femme.”
being femme isn’t just feminine and isn’t just being like. a trad wife. it’s such a complicated expression of gender/masculinity/femininity and a rejection of the rules of traditionally femininity. anyways, basically, you’re slay. don’t let others convince you otherwise.
So it took a long time to figure out how to respond to this.
First off I'll say that this isn't weird at all. One of the biggest things I'm an advocate for is community building, the lowest level of which is simply offering support and kind words to our fellow queer brothers and sisters whenever we can. Thats the most amazing human instinct and you should never appologize for it. 💙
My feelings on this subject are...... confused I guess is the best way of putting it. I suppose its important to clarify.
I'm not a blue collar union worker by choice.
To make a long story short, I'm from a lower middle class family of 7 in central Ohio. College was always going to be a longshot for us. My parents gladly cosigned on college loans and helped out my two sisters in their pursuit of going to college. This wasn't extended to me and my brothers.
Thus I did the stupid thing a lot of kids in my position do.
I joined the military
This was easily one of, if not THE, worst decisions I've ever made in my life. If I'm being frank I believe my parents pushed me towards this due to a combination of rose colored glasses with the armed forces, outright misogynistic veiws of men and women's career paths, and the thought that perhaps the military would beat some semblance of "discipline" into my ADHD self. In attention to a misguided attempt to break up me and my now wife, who at the time wasn't sure if we were going to be able to make long distance work. (Spoiler we did)
Now being 6 years post getting out and having settled into a new state, having recently hit the 10 year mark with my lovely wife, starting my transition, and doing so many other wonderful things I never thought I'd be able to do, I've unfortunately found I don't have any marketable skills that aren't in blue collar industry.
I signed on for an office job and wasn't told till I'm already trapped in BMT that my ADHD disqualified me for that job. I was assigned to be a maintenance technician without much if any consultation from me.
I did most of my time in my contract. Frankly got physical abused more than you'd assume they do nowadays, and generally just tried to learn my job and stay out of the way. When they found out I wasn't going to re-enlist (Duh) they used my ADHD once again as an excuse to revoke my medical waiver and kick me out without giving me access to my GI bill, the whole reason I joined at all.
Blue collar industry is notoriously homo/transphobic and as such I'm still stealth at my place of work, even in a significantly more blue state than I was born in. This is just a fact of my life.
So I'm left in a very awkward position. I have a lot of reasons to love and hate my job and my career in general. Reasons I love it include:
-I can support my families finances
-I can stand up and support my fellow queer brothers and sisters when others mistreat them
-I provide good insurance and stability to my family
-I can help out around the house, fix simple things, rewire outlets ect. Very useful things to know
But at the same time everything related to my job and career is a very painful reminder that:
-I do genuinely enjoy the work, it gives me some level of fulfillment
-I'm only in this situation because of my own families treatment of me pretransition
-I'm only able to keep this position because I stay closeted at work
-I was never in a situation where I felt like I had other options available to me
-I'm here because of my own stupid decisions and my time loaning my soul to an imperialist war machine
-I generally feel trapped in this position and like there aren't really other options for me to pursue
So by connection when I do stuff relating to my job and career outside of work its..... bittersweet? I think thats the best way to describe it. Its my last real big teather to my "old life" as it were and functions to remind me of all the things I wasn't allowed to and still can't have to an extent.
-I likely cannot ever "come out" at this or any other worksite without MASSIVELY affecting my earning potential and my ability to move forward or even get jobs
I appreciate the passage exerpt and I really love how other queer people see me outside of work, and frankly I've been told at work by some that I'm only "stealth" because the old men I work with are dumb as all hell. Stuff like this makes me feel wonderful and much more secure in my identity 💙
But I guess its more of an internal issue of how I veiw myself and how and why my life has gone how it does, rather than one of how others veiw me.
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5K DTIYS! I cannot believe there's so many of you now!!! I am positively flattered and tickled, so I wanna give out some prizes to thank y'all! Winners will be randomly selected-- Artists and writers alike are welcome to participate and get added to the raffle pool! Further details/rules below the cut.
Not an artist? That's OK! Write something that you think could be in this magazine-- an article, an interview, a quiz, etc-- and that will count as a submission!
Deadline is Halloween, 'cause it's fun. 10/31/23. There's no deadline for participating-- that's just the deadline to be added to the raffle pool to get a Fun Prize.
I'll draw two winners ('cause Gemini, get it?) I'll draw a small comic (2-5 pages) for 'first' place, and I'll do a sketch for 'second' place! I do reserve the right to decline any requests that I'm not comfortable drawing.
Submissions don't stack. Drawing AND writing something won't get you in the raffle twice, though you're welcome to do both if you feel so inspired!
Please tag me and use #gemini5kdtiys ! Otherwise the submission may not be counted. If you tag me and it doesn't seem like I've seen it (I don't like and/or reblog it,) feel free to nudge me!
You gotta be following me to be added to the raffle pool!~
THANK YOU GUYS FOR THE SUPPORT AND FOR 5K FOLLOWERS ; w ; this is a rule.
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