A big argument against asexuality and aromaticism is the idea that you can be too young to know. I remember people being so put out by the idea of somebody under eighteen identifying as aro or ace, and they made it known how they thought it was bad.
However... I really don't agree with that outlook. I knew something was up with me when my friends were developing a "normal" identity in the eyes of amatonormativity, and I was under eighteen. Mind you, I didn't have words to express how I felt, so I was in a perpetual state of feeling pressure to be "one of the normals." It made my life miserable because I was being dishonest to myself and cloaking who I was behind a layer of shame.
My point is that... when you know, you tend to know. Sure, your identity might change, but is that more important than making sure you are comfortable in yourself? Would you rather feel the way I did at my age hearing about my allo friends? Because it was unbearable, and I don't wish that on anybody.
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affirmations or whatnot: i need to finish this essay in order to get my nose broken in a mosh pit and chop my tits off and start a band later in life
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Finally listened to the new dndads episode (might do some art for it later) here are my thoughts:
-you guys were right about those close family feels i am indeed sad now,
-did not expect Terry to be the one to shot Nick's arm off (thought it would be Grant) also i get the ship now, i do
-kinda glad that stampler thing was brief cause i think we tackled Scarys and Robs and Tjs relashonship before and it was nice for them to just be soft
-does Hermie age?
-the Wilson boys need to learn how to use the bathroom like normal people (its wilsons with their piss and the oaks with their stink and retainers i swear)
-Taylor had feelings?
-I love Glenn i really do, and i understand getting better isn't linear but god did he fuck up, i dont have personal experience with absent parents but god did it hurt
-Taylor and Norm gonna have to fight now i guess, its very funny
-yay i get an excuse to draw norm ugly crying and its canon now
-Scary is so so fun, i missed her, and Link,
-oh also, the Closes are so so ADHD (i mean id Jodie its canon, and honestly i headcanon most of the cast as autistic/adhd but the closes are the most adhd ones to me)
-do i have time to draw? Yes i think, will i? Hopefully
-i think that's it, this episode was fun, ended sooner than i thought, very good, stabbed me in the chest and took it
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Forces you to listen to my post-musical/body-switched azathoth headcanons you will listen you will listen you will listen you will li
-It lost it's omnipotence after they actually got to earth (Marly did too).. they could finally stop realizing /j
-It dresses so. weird. like .. some days it'll be in booty shorts that say 'INVADING DENMARK BE BACK SOON' on the back and a suit that's way too sparkly and some days it'll be in a crop top that says 'NASA' and neon green jeans
-They start modifying their mortal vessel as soon as they're able to understand the concept of money .. dying their hair, getting either Simon or Adil to help pierce it's ears, getting tattoos of strange symbols... a lot of stuff (of course it has blue hair and pronouns /j /ref)
-One day the band decides 'hey this guy really needs a makeover or something' and it goes through like. a Disney channel glow-up sequence kinda
-it looks fabulous btw
-its a better manager than bobby was i just know it
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"Vous n'avez pas assez travaill茅" l'茅valuation 茅tait cas茅e en plein milieu de 2 semaines o霉 il n'y avait que de 莽a et o霉 je ne pouvait pas privil茅gier une seule de ces mati猫res et j'ai fait de mon mieux sachant que la seule m茅thode que j'avais pour faire cette foutue analyse de doc 茅tait une fiche m茅thodologie assez abstraite.
"Une note g茅n茅reuse" j'aurais pu avoir moins ?!
"Il faut se rattraper pendant le mois de d茅cembre" 莽a fait 3 semaines que je ne m'amuse plus. Litt茅ralement. J'ai r茅ussi 脿 sortir samedi dernier et c'est un exploit. Je ne veux vraiment pas sortir de 莽a pour m'y replonger pendant les VACANCES o霉 il y aura d茅j脿 des devoirs et VOTRE dm.
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just hopped off a call w my boss where she told me that an author had personally reached out to her to say how wonderful it's been working with me this is my win for the entire week
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