#i smell lesbophobia

[genderkoolaid]

https://www.tumblr.com/fite-club/732282106727858176/the-thing-thats-going-over-so-many-younger-trans

(link: post where op says discrimination against transmascs does exist, but is not targeted specifically against transmascs and goes on to give a bunch of examples)

too tired to go on about how wrong op is so im passing it over to you

wow another user i already had blocked [Obligatory Do Not Harass This Person Notice]

Yes, T is a controlled substance because of bullshit athletics laws. There being another reason that law exists does not mean it cannot and is not used to actively target trans people, ESPECIALLY trans people of color. This article goes over the numerous ways that T being a controlled substance opens the doors for a variety of abuses, & this one goes more in depth into, Stann Fransisco, a transmasc Two Spirit, who was arrested, sexually assaulted, and jailed after police found hez T and needles and hey had to out hemself as trans. It was not made a controlled substance because of transmascs, but they certainly use it to target transmascs & others and there's no reason that a transphobic government would be interesting in letting go on this control.

With trans people and pregnancy, its a similar situation- ATM might not be the reason people on T are taken off it during pregnancy, but it can absolutely be used by people (such as abusive partners) to detransition people. (Also, intersexism plays a huge role in this as well, since a lot of times the major "danger" of people being pregnant on T is the possibility of an intersex child). And the same thing for being left out of vaginal and uterine health care- even if the system wasn't directly set up to target trans people, it is used that way and kept that way regardless.

And as for being kept out of conversations? That can 100% be targeted. There are absolutely openly transphobic people who make the decision to use trans-exclusive language around pregnancy and abortion. And are you fucking kidding me with the idea that trans surgeries aren't less studied because organizations don't want to give money to support their research?

Frankly I'm tired of the idea that in Twenty Fucking Twenty Three, all transphobia transmascs experience is just the result of nobody knowing what a trans man is. Its been fucking decades since FTMs starting getting awareness, and there's a current moral panic that has transmascs as a central figure. Are you fucking kidding me? Do y'all really think nobody is out here targeting us specifically? And, on top of that, the idea that being erased means you can't be targeted is ignorant. Intersex people, from what I have read, experience something similar a lot: people not knowing what you are, you not being given the tools to know what you are, and yet you experience targeted violence for the traits of the thing nobody mentions. Hell, that's like... a ton of queerphobia? Being targeted for having the traits of an unmentionable condition? People not knowing what "gay" or "trans" is but smelling something socially unacceptable on you?

Ironically this whole thing is, imo, another example of the impact of erasure. Because erasure is fundamentally about not just the violence of being silenced, but silencing violence. Erasure puts into place the idea that transmasc invisibility is part of reality; transmasculinity is literally invisible to people. What that means is, erasure promotes the idea that transmasculinity is literally inconceivable: its just something people created one day, or its some deep hidden extremely rare thing that sometimes happens, but either way, there is no precedent for it and no preconceived ideas related to it. Of course there is no anti-transmasc violence, because when cis people see a woman trying to be a man, they have literally no preconceived ideas on this at all! Or, if that doesn't work, erasure will attribute any potential violence to misogyny and lesbophobia, squashing the idea that anything could happen as a result of "women becoming men" and the hatred around that idea.

In 2023, yeah, people do know we exist and, in fact, fearmonger about there being too many of us. Its vital that we are aware of this and realize that new forms of anti-transmasculinity will continue to take shape as we get more awareness. For example: in the past, people weren't aware of chest binding, but now you have transphobes who know to look for binders under people's shirts so they can attack transmascs.

But even without that, even before that, people don't need to know the name of something to hate it. A lot of anti-butch violence is done specifically to punish, in the minds of the attackers, a woman trying to be/act like a man/replace men; that's anti-transmasculinity*. Mothers insisting their tomboy children need to grow up and act like women? That's anti-transmasculinity. People only talk about historical transmascs who more or less lived well, but there are people who were outed and put in prisons and mental asylums and abused, and that's just the records we can find. There are articles written about the horror of a woman realizing her husband "is a woman." Steve Dain transitioned in the 1970s and was called "thing" "it", immediately seen as a sexual predator towards little girls, and had the school system do everything possible to fire him- and it worked. Those people likely had never heard of a trans man before- but they immediately reacted with disgust and targeted attacks. They didn't need to know what he was to hate him for it, because the cultural ideas that create and manage transphobia as a system are still there.

Also bonus aphobia from the tags:

*and, for the record, "anti-transmasculinity" can be co-existent with misogyny and lesbophobia. they are all interconnected.

#m. #ask box #examples of transandrophobia

[dearbraus]

what kinda of lesbian that is attracted to men 🤔?

so if straight men and women are allowed to have same sex celebrity crushes why am i a lesbian not allowed to have a “crush” on a couple of pixels? hmmm i smell lesbophobia!!

#with love. #from. anon #also i heavily struggle with comphet and i use fanfic to cope #sooo uh go fuck yourself ! <3

[eds6ngel]

hi!! if you're currently taking requests, could you maybe write something with robin and reader where reader is very sick and robin takes it in her own hands to come over to their house and take care of them, just something very fluffy and sweet 🙏

hey!! of course i can do this! this is so sickeningly sweet, so i hope you enjoy <33

warnings: fem!reader. pet names. illness. r takes some pills. swearing. mentions of homophobia and lesbophobia. tooth-rotting fluff. comfort. just some cute domestic stuff [1.4k].

You woke up that morning with the most pounding headache of your life. Stirring awake from your slumber, you cough as the smell of your bedroom infects your lungs. A runny nose supports you, leaning over to grab a tissue from the box as you sneeze and blow your nose into it. It was safe to say that school was off the cards today.

Meanwhile across town, Robin was putting on her band practice uniform, the plaid blue shirt combined with white tie making it the most uncomfortable outfit known to man. But, nonetheless, she battled through it. After all, you claimed it was your favourite outfit on her, so she did it just for you. She would do anything for you.

However, twenty minutes into practice and you were a no-show, very odd for someone like you who was passionate about academics, that and the fact your parents were super strict. All hell would break loose if you told them Robin was your girlfriend. Even if you were straight, they would still ground you for apparently “prioritising” a love life at seventeen.

Robin’s foot tapped against the floor, the teacher even yelling at her a few times for messing up her notes. But, she couldn’t concentrate. What if you were seriously ill? What if you were dying?

So, as soon as that clock struck ten and the school bell rung, she shoved her instrument into her case, flying out of the classroom and heading out to the front of Hawkins High. She put her case on the floor, slotting her 25¢ into the machine and waiting for the receiver to be picked up.

You were currently surrounded by a million tissues, plenty scattered across your bed and more dotted across the floor where your lack of strength meant they were unsuccessful at being thrown in the trash can across your room. You were trying your best to relax, your eyes closed as the morning sun shone through your blinds.

You were rudely interrupted from your peaceful state by the sound of your pink phone ringing on your bedside table. You lean across and pick it up, having to scoot to the left so the cord could reach. “Hello?”

“Jesus, my love. Are you okay?”

You sigh at her voice, you forgot to even let Robin know of your ill state, the thought crossing your mind, the only two places you had alternated between were your bed and the toilet. A fit of coughs tickle your throat as you reply, “I’m fine Robs, just a tad sick, that’s all.”

“It sounds like more than just a tad,” she replies, worry lacing her tone. You continue coughing down the receiver as Robin makes a quick decision, “I’m coming over.”

“Babe, no, seriously I’m fine. You’ll have to catch a bus, plus… plus you’ll have to miss class. It really isn’t worth it,” you cough, “I’m sure I’ll be back on my feet by tomorrow.”

“Well, tough luck,” she says, “I’ve made a decision and Nurse Robin will over shortly.”

You don’t even get the chance to reply as the receiver was slammed down, knowing that Robin was most likely in a hurry to get to your house, and the fact that she probably didn’t want to spend extra money on the payphone.

Two hours later, you hear a faint knock on the door, although your body was not allowing you to move out of your comfy silken sheets. Robin always knocked, having to play pretend in case your parents were home. If she walked straight in with the bag of food, medicine and tissues she had tucked underneath her arm, the facade of friendship would be stripped back instantly, your parents weren’t idiots.

After waiting a little and knocking for the second time, she was met with more dead silence. Knowing the coast was clear, she opens the door, “Babe, you in here?”

“In my room, Robs,” you croak out.

You see the bedroom door slowly open, Robin appearing in her band outfit, your absolute favourite. She whines out with a frown on her face as she sees you all bundled up, your nose red raw as you kept coughing into the corner of your arm.

“You look beautiful baby,” you whisper out, Robin approaching you and putting her soft palm against your forehead, “Yeah, you’re burning up, my love. Good job Nurse Robin is here to aid you back to health, isn’t it?”

“You gonna keep calling yourself that?” you softly chuckle.

“Sorry,” she clears her throat, “The beautiful, spectacular girlfriend who is also known as Nurse Robin will aid you back to health. That better?”

You try to laugh, but are met with yet another coughing fit, Robin springing into action as she lifts your pillows up, lying you back against them, your body now sat upright.

“Firstly,” she begins, “I’m going to get you a fresh glass of water, as this looks like shit,” she says, lifting up your half-full glass from the previous night, little bits floating around in it. Disgusting.

“And then, you’re gonna take this Tylenol for me, okay?”

You nod, “Okay, thank you pretty girl.”

Robin beams at the nickname, “My pleasure,” placing a kiss on your forehead as she heads to your kitchen to re-fill your glass. Whilst she is there, she unpacks her grocery bag and takes out the can of tomato soup, grabbing a bowl from your cupboard and tipping the opened can into it, placing it in your microwave and warming it up for the required time.

Robin hears a creak in the floorboards as she turns around from taking the chocolate bar out of her bag, seeing you standing there all bunged up, a fluffy pink blanket wrapped around the entirety of you.

“Hey, hey, hey,” she softly coos, walking up to you, “What are you doing out here?”

“I heard the sound of the microwave, so I was wondering what you were up to,” you reply, almost toppling over from where the blanket was covering your feet, struggling to maintain your balance.

“I’m just warming up some soup I bought for you darling. Just, head back to bed, I’ll bring it all to you in five minutes, okay?” she asks, rubbing your arms softly through the blanket.

You cough again as you reply, “Okay,” heading back down the hallway and to your room.

Robin shakes her head, chuckling to herself as she mumbles, “Stubborn girl.”

Exactly five minutes later on the dot and Robin returns to your room holding a tray full of an array of items, her beginning to list them all off. “Okay, so obviously your soup is in the middle, I just got tomato as it’s plain and simple, easy to swallow and does the trick nicely. Glass of water, as I said. Tylenol is next to you on your beside table when you are ready. A Hershey’s bar, just in case you feel peckish, and a pack of tissues. I also bought some lemon and honey, I’ve heard that helps too, but they’re still in the grocery bag in case you want to give them a try.”

“Thank you ever so much Robs,” you say, taking the spoon and collecting some soup, blowing on it and letting the liquid slide down your throat, basking in the warm temperature. As you kept eating, Robin was there wiping your nose, the heat making it run like crazy.

Once you finished your soup, you took the Tylenol, struggling a little as you always do, them getting stuck at the back of your throat. But, you power through regardless, knowing that the sooner you took them, the quicker you would feel better.

“Robs?” you say, Robin humming as she looks at you lovingly, “Can I request one more thing?”

“Of course,” she softly replies, “Anything for you, my love.”

“Can we snuggle?” you shyly ask, knowing that without your parents home, this would be one of the rare opportunities that you got to do so.

She doesn’t verbalise her answer, instead wrapping herself in the same cocoon as you in the silken pink sheets, you leaning your head into her shoulder as you unwrap the Hershey’s bar. Robin places a soft kiss to your hairline as you hold up a square, asking, “Chocolate?” which she happily takes from you and bites into.

Despite being sick, basking in the domesticity was something you truly loved. And although you recovered from your cold two days later, the closeness meant you passed on the nasty bug to your girlfriend, allowing for you to give her the same treatment she had done for you. But, it was okay. You got to spend extra time with the girl you loved, and that was your favourite thing in the world.

thank you for reading!! this is so cute, i just can't :')

#robin buckley #eds6ngel #robin buckley x fem!reader #robin buckley x you #robin buckley x reader #robin buckley fluff #robin buckley comfort #robin buckley x y/n #robin buckley fic #robin buckley fanfic #robin buckley imagine #robin buckley blurb #stranger things

[slightly-gay-pogohammer]

As a non homestuck, what deos that mean👀

ough i wanted to be vague and quick but no i wasn't im so sorry fnsdmag tw for transphobia mostly i guess

homestuck ends. it's a somewhat open ended ending and they dont show the "proper" final battle, but it was implied in the comic already how it was going to go. a lot of people remained disappointed in that, but i personally think its a good one

people keep pestering hussie, creator of the comic, to continue the story

hussie, well known troll (haha) who more often than not both praised and made fun of the fandom directly in the comic, writes the epilogues. they're mostly awful and they're the umpteenth big fuck you to the fandom really; one is the "shipping" ending where everything goes bad bc everyone focuses only on shipping, the one is the "fighting" ending where everything goes bad and everyone fucking dies basically. it has some good ideas, there's more fourth wall breaking, but overall its an inconsistent sexist and misoginistic mess made out of spite by someone who clearly didn't want to work on homestuck anymore

it also features character assassination, be it "this character who's entire plot was about not wanting to be alone anymore is now a sex-crazed maniac who doesnt take no as an answer", "this character who was groomed all her life to be a dictator actually becomes hitler" or "this character who a lot of people hc as mtf is now ftm, but specifically in a timeline, in the other they still identify as female". you could argue it's bc the story is about one of the characters having a villain arc and managing to take control of the story and rewrite them, but he's also regressed to be someone who's obsessed with a character we were told he wasn't in love with anymore AND also says transphobic stuff so.

hussie actually opens the epilogues with one of the character saying pretty clearly that they're "beyond canon", and makes sure that everyone known that anything written outside of the comic itself, including sidecomics, videogames and the epilogues themselves, is as canon as you want it to be. unfortunately homestuck fans cant read and that + the fact that the epilogue end in a cliffhanger, homestuck 2 has to happen

hussie wants nothing to do with it and leaves the project to someone else. they give little to no details of the plot if not a few plotpoints, one of which being the fact that a character must be named yiffany

one of the people who was supposed to work on hs2 and the tie-in visual novel games "friendsim" starts fights with readers on twitter and is later on outed as a really bad person of the biphobic and ableist variety

on a minor note, some updates are patreon exclusive, and not in a "they'll eventually be posted" way, but in a "either you follow the patreon or you dont get the whole experience" kind of way

the story also has to follow the aformentioned sexist transphobic racist bullshit, to which they add terribly written "bury your gays" plot and also cheating!! no matter the timeline my girl kanaya gets shafted and cheated on and by now im gonna be real it really smells like lesbophobia in here

also futa jokes. like we all agree that the candy jade situation is fucked up right

in all of this, "what pumpkin" actually starts drama with a youtuber or something. idk. it's the team that sells the hs merch it's even more complicated. oh and also the videogame being so delayed that's a whole can of worms too.

anyway hussie actually says that they dont give a shit no more about homestuck and sell the rights to someone else. first thing we're told is that they're going to drop the 2 from the title of homestuck 2, turning it into homestuck: beyond canon. pretty much openly saying that no, this has nothing to do with homestuck, and it's officially Not Canon.

#gio replies #i love shitting on anything homestuck after homestuck

[old-school-butch]

here is my second anon, on same-sex attraction and the fuckery i've experienced around it in the trans community. i wonder if any ex-TRAs and TIFs will recognize this, or if it's only me who managed such a convoluted mental somersault? also, please forgive me for venting in your inbox, i have no better place. but alas.

i thought myself a gay man for 10-ish years. and yet i had... very clear sexual attraction towards women, clear enough that i've genderswapped 80% of my fictional male crushes so they would have breasts and vaginas, while still considering them "men" because i kept their he/him pronouns. seeing females as men allowed me to tell myself i was only attracted to males. i think a mix of biphobia and lesbophobia, stirred into gender-think. i was only allowed to love women if they were actually "men". because it was ok to love men.

i had crushes on girls as a teen and i'd always feel gross and predatory when i shared the locker rooms with them. i remember so badly wanting to sneak looks at my crushes but doing all i could not to. bc i "knew" that it was wrong. however i never developed into accepting this same-sex attraction as normal, because i got swept up in genderism, and became a "man" and... all my attraction towards women suddenly felt EVEN MORE predatory and violating. i swept it away as male gaze, objectification, leering, still predatory. etcetera etcetera. genuinely did all i could to suppress/explain away my obsession with female bodies. i centered my male attraction, and as the trans movement is very male-centered to begin with it was only encouraged. people (straight females) calling themselves f*gs left and right. every time i started thinking about breasts (i'm boob obsessed for real) or having sex with women i pushed it down as male depravity. i also thought me wanting to fuck women had been conditioned into me by advertising. like, yes, of course everyone wants to have sex with women bc they are trained by society to want this :)) logical. this totally happens to all female people. oh you love the smell of pussy? advertising taught you this. -_-

obviously as a TIF, i felt somehow that male identity and pronouns was a prerequisite to be fully human/be the way i was inside. misogynistic as fuck. it seems i felt this for other women, too. you told me i'd feel the weight of the harm i'd done along the way, when i sent the first anon; this is a heavy one. having viewed women and myself this way for so long. and having written off my same-sex attraction (i salivate when i see bare chested women lol) because, well, i'm a "man" and i violate them with my eyes.

the power dynamic between TIFs is funny/tragic too. ssa ones being treated as if they're straight males and culpable for everything those do. osa ones being the ones with more social capital. bisexual ones centering males bc well, the whole movement shits on women and you don't wanna be "straight" or bi ending up in a "straight" relationship. a lesbian TIF just enters a world in which her attraction (which she's likely felt predatory for her whole life already) is REINFORCED as bad. because now she's a straight man. and when a real heterosexual male is not accessible to shit on, she will be the target of the "gay" ones. god, the trans community is such a complicated type of homophobia...

i feel so good now to be out of it. i've been butch my whole life, i had a buzzcut since i was 14, up until my 20s. tomboyish always. now i have a long braid, and i considered cutting it off when i peaked, but i can't bring myself to do it. i miss my breasts very much and my braid is a body part as well, one that i can still hold on to. i can't let it go. it means something to me, i suppose, symbolically. but i don't feel like i'm a man anymore, and my attraction towards women is not to blame for their oppression. it is so liberating. i no longer feel like i'm degrading or harming women by being attracted to them. and most of my friends who dropped me were osa TIFs, binary and nonbinary... they have a lot to lose if they should give up that identity. they'd get booted out the "queer" community, lose the oppression they built their identity on. it's weird looking back at them. ah, i ramble so much, but thank you, even if you don't end up posting this, for having a space open here to go to. it feels so valuable, and it helps to read others anons.

Oh, I've definitely read wilder somersaults. It's amazing how confusing it is when reality is upside down. A lesbian becomes a gay man, or a straight man depending on the identity of the women she's attracted to. All nonsense, but I do wonder if it allows people to contemplate relationships they had rejected previously. Like, if you're a straight man who decides he's a lesbian but then meets another TIM then you're supposed to also include him, or women might have idealized views that relationships with men might not be so bad if you can escape 'being the girl'. Women, according to the stats, are the most likely to twist ourselves into these pretzels, of course, female socialization at work. So, we must forgive ourselves and each other for our roles in all this.

I'm glad things are working out well for you. There are times when I feel isolated being gender critical, but then I remember the headache-inducing mental repression I had to endure to make myself believe all this and I feel much more free and real.

[lostryu]

Look. I think you need to get outside more and talk to actual gays and theys. No one cares about your little war going on with mspec lesbians. If I were to go down the street and ask a guy if it’s valid to be romantic with men as a lesbian they would agree that it is. People can do what they want. You need to go to a gay bar, get drunk, and you’ll see sexuality is pretty fluid after a few shots. You’ll probably end up sleeping with a few femboys and femme gay men. You keep talking about transwoman rights, and there’s not much difference between their body and a femboy, and your body won’t know the difference when it comes down to it. All this hate is just in your head. Stop being gender essentialist and learn to love. You probably won’t read this, but seriously. Take my advice and you’ll be happier for it. I myself learned that everyone is a little mspec and not in solitary boxes all the time.

Let’s see how many boxes we tick on the “How Homophobic Are You” meter

Lesbophobia (you insist i need to be fixed by fucking men, along with your bi lesbian garbage rhetoric)

Advocation for corrective rape (drunk people cannot consent to sex)

Transphobia (you literally said trans-women are men)

Homophobia (gay men can be fixed by sleeping with women)

And the list could go on, but honestly reading your dumpster fire has me a little nauseous from smell

Literally no one thinks that lesbians can and want to have sex or be in romantic relationships with men. This is a tumblr phenomenon that comes from being chronically online. I genuinely think you should put a bullet through your brain before speaking again to spare us all the misery of hearing your gross thoughts.

#lesbophobia #homophobia #transphobia #this is literally what every bi lesbian sounds like and thinks btw #every time they’ve come into my askbox it’s been a riff off of this ask #you guys aren’t progressive or clever #you’re still shoveling the same shit the cisheteropatriarchy wants you to #lost.txt

[crackinwise]

Just read a tumblr user's absolutely rightfully dragging an essay or something by a James Somerton (who?), basically about his view art and film have been shit from the 90's onward because only the best gay artists got laid and died of AIDS so all that was left was uncool virgins with bad taste who wanted to be boring normal straight ppl with marriage & military service rights. (Woof)

And while the post thoroughly ripped to shreds that offensive, very-tired take, by a dude who doesn't even remember anything about the 80's, I didn't read one mention of the implied misogyny & lesbophobia in it. The vast majority of lesbians did not get HIV. Were they not artists to him? Did they have nothing good to contribute to art and film culture? I wasn't allowed to comment on the post, so I'm just venting here.

The tumblr then started to rip into Fran Lebowitz for some reason I didn't follow. Maybe because she also said AIDS took away a lot of amazing people from America's art scene, but she didn't say the grotesque idiocy that Somerton did. If he was inspired by her words, he twisted them. She was there and witnessed her friends, many gay artists themselves, die horribly. And she's a lesbian, so obviously her comments on the impact of losing so many great talents never once hinted lesbians offered nothing of their own. So the complete vitriol that tumblr user had more for Lebowitz than Somerton smelled like a way to redirect hate towards a Jewish lesbian over quotes unrelated to the original discussion.

Because this site will support hating on some men, but if you give them a woman to hate, your post interaction definitely skyrockets.

#don't mind me #homophobia

[sunfforest]

don’t you just love reading hot takes by people trying to desperately justify why they only read or write m/m fanfic (for the record, that’s fine, you don’t need to justify it). but you can always tell which of these people have even attempted to read an f/f fanfic and who hasn’t by the sheer misogyny and lesbophobia they spout in justification of it, saying shit like “m/f and f/f are often misogynistic and fetishistic”. are they? if fanfiction is predominantly written by women and marginalised genders, CAN they really fetishise their own communities and experiences? as someone who basically ONLY reads f/f fanfiction, i promise you these ideas you perceive about misogyny being discussed at length in fanfic and the fetishisation of f/f dynamics just do not exist in f/f fanfic (or if they do crop up, because i’m sure there’s a fanfic out there for everything, it’s not the MAIN themes most f/f writers go for). i think for people who hold these opinions that there is something more sinister in play, and it smells very strongly of internalised misogyny and discomfort with your own gender. but that’s a conversation for another day.

if you’re not drawn to consuming f/f fanfiction that’s fine, it’s your internet you’re allowed to consume whatever media you want, and i’m sorry if there are people out there who make you feel as though you have to justify the reasons why. but for the LOVE OF GOD stop using this reasoning for why you don’t read m/f or f/f with pure lies, especially towards writers of f/f. i’m so tired of having this conversation.

#p

[menalez]

i'll bet your stalkery anons are friends with or mutuals with "problematic" women in radblr. most of them are. this lovely community has a massive racism and homophobia problem that never goes away like a bad smell. if people are so bothered by who you interact with miss mena there's a thing called the block or unfollow button! you won't have to yell at her for not hating women you don't like!

it’s bizarre too bc i reblogged a handful of posts at most in the past month, we don’t even follow each other, but we are assumed to be besties because ????? and this is not the first time someone assumes this too. another OSA woman dmed me once like “ur bestie desisapphic did this and that and go tell her to stop 😤” and it’s just like… what is the basis here to calling us besties? ._. is it that we both are brown lesbians and speak out a lot about racism & lesbophobia? what is it

[holdmecloserlesbian]

I posted 6,296 times in 2022

That's 6,296 more posts than 2021!

35 posts created (1%)

6,261 posts reblogged (99%)

Blogs I reblogged the most:

@soloh

@fluent-in-lesbianism

@firebirdbs

@hotwenchesummer

@elderring

I tagged 1,874 of my posts in 2022

#aloto - 468 posts

#art - 211 posts

#mood - 72 posts

#did you mean me - 72 posts

#drawtectives - 68 posts

#aww - 60 posts

#gaming - 53 posts

#faves - 48 posts

#ffs - 44 posts

#the accuracy though - 43 posts

Longest Tag: 111 characters

#you get the feeling if one more thing went wrong for her thatd be it and shed be a serial arsonist or something

My Top Posts in 2022:

#5

I want to go get starbucks on my way to work tomorrow but we have a covidiots protest in town that I want to avoid with no way of knowing how far into town they'll spread

A protest is fine but last time it was literal abuse and torment of a city for multiple weeks and I'm so sick of their shittttt

3 notes - Posted August 22, 2022

#4

Chapters: 1/1 Fandom: A League of Their Own (TV 2022) Rating: Teen And Up Audiences Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Greta Gill/Carson Shaw Characters: Greta Gill, Carson Shaw, Lupe García, Jess McCready, Beverly (A League of Their Own TV 2022) Additional Tags: Drunk Greta, This is pure fluff, like seriously, Love Confession, Post-Canon Summary:

As Carson took each of the pins out, as each of the meticulously placed curls fell around Greta’s shoulders, she could smell the shampoo she loved so much. The smell she would miss nuzzling her face into when she awoke over the next few months while they were sleeping separately. Before she shifted Greta’s position, she brushed the hair away from the back of her neck and laid several kisses just above her neckline.

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The first night of the second season, Greta gets very drunk and Carson has to take her home. She battles a very touchy and flirty Greta to get her ready for bed, before being sworn to secrecy about her love.

8 notes - Posted November 8, 2022

#3

If A League Of Their Own doesn't get picked up for season 2 despite all the good vibes and good press and general *vague hand waving* internet storm it created in just the last week I'm straight up calling lesbophobia

50 notes - Posted August 20, 2022

#2

Is it just me or would Eugene Finch absolutely kill at the Met Gala

192 notes - Posted May 3, 2022

My #1 post of 2022

Thought Conrad came out of nowhere? He was hinted at in Episode 7…

TLDR: Julia is a symbolism genius, S02E07 is an allegory for the relationships and identities of the main characters.

Like many viewers, I thought Episode 7 (the episode with Villainius) was a fun ‘filler’ episode, until I realised that there must be more to the character design than just aesthetics. My theory is that the ‘God Punisher’ game is an allegory for the relationships between the main players in the Celestial Spear experience and confirmation of the identity of the ‘mastermind’ behind everything. I got as far as working out the metaphor before the finale but not the identity of the master mind so I’ll take this as a theory win!

Let’s start with Villainius. 

Firstly, his helmet and shoulder pauldrons are very reminiscent of Felix’s/The Ticket Taker’s helmet. The main areas of interest here are the curves/horns and the one central eye. 

Secondly, he is referred to as the protagonist’s ‘childhood best friend’, just like Felix is to Eugene. 

Thirdly, he goes in between the protagonist and Liticus Guysus (more on him in a bit), just like Felix/TTT did between Eugene and Conrad. 

Finally, his name is Villainius the God Punisher. Up to the final episode, we thought The Ticket Taker was the villain and we were told that his main job was to punish those who misbehaved during the experience.

Now on to Liticus Guysus. This one is a little bit tricky, but now knowing that Conrad was behind everything I can see there was a hint to his identity all along! 

Liticus Guysus was the ‘evil’ advisor to Villainius, just as Conrad was instructing Felix/TTT. This gives us confirmation that to confirm the identity of the ‘mastermind’, we should have looked at Liticus Guysus. 

Now I was thrown by the red gown/armour as I assumed this referred to Harvey’s waistcoat, however, Liticus Guysus clearly has four stars on the front of his gown/armour. Where else do we see those exact four stars in that arrangement? On the very front of Conrad’s uniform. Liticus Guysus’ helmet also follows very similar lines and angles to the front of Conrad’s uniform. 

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[fruit-teeth]

When I see someone refer to lesbians as “perverts”:

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[jeniffercheck]

You literally called her a comphet, then you calling her gay and suddenly you saying you never said that? Smells like biphobia to me.

wow. good morning! ok. this is a lot to unpack, so i will try to break it down for you as best i can, because i don’t want to leave any room for more confusion. 

first, in the very first ask when i said abby “could be gay,” it was meant as an umbrella term. if you don’t like umbrella terms, i’m sorry, but i do and you don’t have to look at my blog if you don’t like that. i really won’t be offended. when i said that, i meant that she could be a lesbian, she could be bisexual, she could be pansexual, literally any sexuality that would make her gay. (because let’s face it, with those arms? she’s gay) in that first ask when i mentioned compulsory heterosexuality, i brought it up as an example of how abby’s feelings for owen could come across (in context with how anon asked their question pertaining to their headcanon). i basically said that her attraction to owen was more one of convenience. when you’re young, sometimes if someone likes you you just like them back. you don’t think about it because there’s nothing to think about, you just act. (similar to but obviously not the same thing as compulsory sexuality, which she wouldn’t have had in that context because i was analyzing her under the pretense that she’s actually straight)

next, compulsory heterosexuality is literally a thing. it’s an objectively bad thing, because it forces you to repress anything that doesn’t fall in line with the needs of the patriarchy, but it’s not an insult. it’s literally a thing that happens to young people because they might not have the worldly or personal knowledge to be able to practice anything other than heterosexuality (hence why it’s compulsory, because they might not actually WANT to be doing it). in the SECOND ask (not the first one!) when i said that abby might have experienced compulsory heterosexuality, the original anon asked with the notion that they headcanoned her as a lesbian (we explicitly said “not straight” but i interpreted that as a lesbian, since anon was suggesting that her relationship with owen WAS comphet. that is how i interpreted their ask and they didn’t disagree with me) so we had a discussion that her interactions with owen were a product of compulsory heterosexuality. in that scenario and that analysis, i was looking at her as a lesbian. not as bisexual. i’m sorry if it didn’t come across that way, but next time you could ask instead of going right to calling me biphobic. if you’d like to have that discussion of what it would mean for abby if she were bisexual, that’s great, i’d be more than welcome to. (because i wouldn’t erase a bisexual character’s bisexuality in a discussion about their bisexuality. but we don’t have to talk about the fact that i was talking about abby as a lesbian specifically in the second ask.)

if anyone is reading this and is confused why saying that a bisexual has compulsory heterosexuality could be biphobic, it’s because you’re essentially saying that their attraction to the patriarchy’s preferred partner for them is compulsory and essentially not real, playing into the stereotype that bisexuals will eventually “pick a side” and end up being either gay or straight, when we all know that is not the case. gay men and lesbians are most likely to experience compulsory heterosexuality in its truest form, but it’s not wrong that even the knowledge of compulsory heterosexuality can confuse people who identify with other sexualities in the way that it could make them question the validity of their attraction to the patriarchy’s preferred gender for them. (anon, it’s like you thought i didn’t know this?) (also, compulsory heterosexuality is inherently homophobic. it’s not only biphobic or panphobic. it invalidates all sexualities other than straight, because it makes the person feel like their identity is wrong, and that there is something wrong with THEM and not with society. that being said, saying a bisexual is experiencing comphet, is VERY wrong and VERY biphobic, because you are explicitly erasing that bisexual person’s valid romantic and sexual attractions. when a bisexual is dating the opposite sex, they are still an lgbt person in an lgbt relationship, even if it LOOKS like a straight relationship, it’s not.)

last, i’d like to remind everyone reading that first and foremost, abby is a canonically straight character. whatever sexuality you headcanon her as having is valid, but just be mindful of her experiences (that we know about) as you headcanon and the way you speak about her. she was with owen, and headcanoning her as bisexual shouldn’t be something you’re afraid to do if you’d like to keep owen a part of your stories. that being said, it is NOT okay to erase actual bisexual character’s experiences (like if you were to ignore jesse’s role in dina’s life) and that would be biphobic

TLDR; actually read it it has valuable information and i worked hard to form a coherent response on a sunday morning :/

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[arospecsyourblockdudes]

Me, age 13: Yeah, girls are super pretty. My mom said sex is when a d*ck goes in a v*gina and I won’t ever do that, that sounds nasty. All the boys at my school are ugly. All the guy celebrities are kind of average or ugly, I don’t know why girls my age think they’re attractive. Objectively girls are better than boys in every way. I’m bisexual

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[nothingbutbuttons]

why do some people say glbt instead of lgbt i dont get it

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[m0nstergf]

god damn why do people hate lesbians so fucking much

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[sniperct]

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