#i think today is appropriate

[alexturner]

MELANIE LYNSKEY InStyle magazine Photographed by Gizelle Hernandez

#melanie lynskey #melanielynskeyedit #mlynskeyedit #tloucastedit #flawelessbeautyqueens #fashionedit #picturesedit #the last of us cast #photoshoot #please i read today that she got bodyshamed because her figure wasn't apocalypse appropriate according to some old next top model winner #and she mentioned that first photo #anyway ms lysnkey already took care of it on twitter but #all i could think about was how she looks like a literal goddess in that picture and i need it on my blog #mine #edits2023

[hellspawnmotel]

drew this last year for a zine that didnt work out..... happy mother 3 day everyone

#i guess its also thematically appropriate for the other thing that happens today #mother 3 #mother series #lucas #claus #tanetane island #art tag #idk if i should tw this as anything. its creepy but i cant think of any specifics #anyway im glad to be sharing this pic finally im rly proud of it

[windslar]

current project: streamline my editing process

#i've been using other people's psds forever #today i decided i'll make some of my own #ts4 psds #ts4 templates #i thought about what i would realistically use for my own posts #and this is what i came up with #one day i'll upload and share but i don't think she's quite ready yet #the weather and location things have FOLDERS of the appropriate icons #i even made pngs of a few world icons bc i couldn't find any past komorebi #:(( #i plan on introducing new characters using the name tag lol

[crabussy]

IS ANYONE ELSE FEELING KIND TODAY!!! IS ANYONE ELSE FEELING GENEROUS TOWARDS OTHER PEOPLE!!! IS ANYBODY ELSE BEING KIND AND TRYING TO UNDERSTAND EVEN WHEN ITS HARD!!! IS ANYONE ELSE ASSUMING THE BEST OF OTHERS INTENTIONS AND RESPONDING IN KIND!!!! CAN ANYONE HEAR ME

#having a day ^_^ #I love being kind I just wish other people loved being kind more #people on the internet are SO FUCKING MEAN TO EACH OTHER???? its a terrible phenomenon #I have never seen people in real life treat others badly with the horrifying proportion of hate I see online #please. try to be kinder try to be more patient even when its frustrating #I have changed minds and deescalated arguments SO many times by being kind. #if someone is spouting misinfo in a furious rage and they're saying hurtful things? try responding with patience and kindness #even when you don't feel they deserve it. because one of 2 things usually happens #EITHER. they immediately shift their tone because you're talking to them like an equal and not an idiot #OR they continue to be horrible and it makes them look really nasty. its not a good look!! most people won't do the second thing!! #hateful online arguments has turned my mental health into a disgusting stew in the past #since I started being kind out of sheer frustration my mental health has improved a thousandfold #listen. sometimes its okay to be mean. if someone tells you to kill yourself I dont think its appropriate to give them patience and kindnes #BUT. if you treat someone like they're stupid. even if you're right!!! they won't listen to you or consider your words!! #because admitting you're right means admitting that they're stupid like you think they are. that feels bad so people won't do it #my wisdom. today I am so tired

[hey-scully-itsme]

congrats to the happy couple and a happy 'sherlock holmes is fully in the public domain' day to all who celebrate

#yes i know it was already almost entirely in the public domain #and the doyle estate had very very little actual control #but that's not the point #the point is they are gay #(i usually prefer ace readings of holmes myself but this is just for fun) #i think it entirely appropriate that this is the first kiss i have ever drawn #sherlock holmes #john watson #(i assume most people here go with john and not james?) #i'd have put more time into this but i wanted to post it today #edit: whoops wrong background

[friend-crow]

Maybe it's time to examine that instinct to automatically one-up or otherwise try to invalidate people who mention hardship, whether that be pain, illness, trauma, grief, etc.

Suffering isn't a zero-sum game. I assure you, there's enough to go around.

#maybe you think you're commiserating #but immediately explaining how you think you have it worse is not an appropriate response #not everyone has an easy time bringing these things up #and this kind of behavior really just shuts down any trust they were putting in you #I stuck this in my drafts months ago but apparently today's the day

[amphibianaday]

day 1221

#amphibian #salamander #amphibidextrous #happy pi day :D #i made a key lime pie but i forgot it has to cool down so i will not be eating pie today #i love pi day because i am secretly a math nerd #also i just think its fun to be excited and have a little treat for any reason #my math teacher in grade 6-9 (who was the best teacher i ever had) always made a thing of pi day if we had math class that day :) #we would bring cookies/cakes/etc anything you wanna as long as its round and calculate their volumes and stuff #and then everyone got to eat the circular treats while doing circle math :) #as in like any math at an appropriate level that uses pi

[autogeneity]

highly discomfited by how normal it apparently is in my environs to be openly judgemental about the [un]healthiness of other people's food choices

and furthermore how much of these judgements are literally just vibes rather than any real assessment of health impact

#like these are people you just met!!! #how is it okay for you to make these kinds of comments I really didn't think this was considered appropriate #anyway you obviously have some kind of. problem 💀 #and are trying to make it mine? #man today I was to meet someone for coffee #and he was like 'do you want coffee or should we rather get something healthy' #??? #we got smoothies instead? #since when is coffee unhealthy??? #I mean yay fruit I guess but like? huh? #m

[silverfoxstole]

Latest sketch dump: some Eighth Doctors, a couple of recent Pauls and a random Mark North.

As always, I recommend clicking to see the bigger versions as some of my sketches tend to look weird as thumbnails. I have no idea why.

#seems appropriate to post this today #i’ve been doing this for nearly two years now and i still spend half my time trying to get his jawline right #you’d think i had it down pat by now but no #paul mcgann #doctor who #eighth doctor #8th doctor #my aft #dw art

[ilovebeingaturtle]

87 turtle birth order is whatever's funniest this episode

👏

#see yeah I love this headcanon I see it all the time and it’s so perfect AHAH #I do think in canon they simply don’t. even have an age order #but like the idea that they just wake up and one of them goes ‘bets on the oldest today!’ while the others all go Aw mannn is so funny #I’d imagine it’d still be unbalanced #with Leonardo getting it the most due to being the only one who sincerely wants it #Donatello would probably get banned for a week from being the oldest after the incident #in any episode where Raphael is trying to herd them like cats or seems particularly exasperated by them? he’s the oldest #Michelangelo thinks being the eldest ruins his party vibes so he’d only try get it when he wants to get away with something AHA #that turned into a different headcanon but yeah no the turtles’s ages just being whatever works for the bit is very appropriate AHSJAHA

[theminecraftbee]

I feel like Stress would be the only one taking proper care of the mini-hermits

"Oh, have you come to our tea party?" Stress says, delighted. She sits at a hastily-constructed birch wood table, with several other mini-hermits sitting with her. Concerningly, it is not all of her mini-hermits. It's only about ten of them. Jevin is not sure he wants to ask where the other eight are. Jevin is very sure he won't like the answer.

"Yeah, sure, tea party," Cleo says, carefully folding herself next to the table and taking a sip of the tea that that a very pleased-looking mini-Iskall has poured for her. She looks around. She stops. "Do, uh, most of your tea parties involve... are those player heads? ...do you have extra?"

"Oh, yes, most tea parties involve a little bit of murder. We're practicing poisons."

Oh, no. Now Jevin has to ask, if he wants to be responsible. "Is that where the others...?"

"Oh. Oh no, good heavens no!" Stress says, laughing. "We just tested them on adult-Iskall."

Jevin and Cleo stare at Stress for a moment. Slowly, Cleo puts down her cup of tea again.

"So I'm to presume this isn't almond tea?" she says weakly.

#answered #doiyi-yt #jevin's egg disaster #...today i learned that i think a lot of people have a VERY different perception of stress's character than i do #because every time i watch her she is chaos incarnate #she's just cute and giggly about it #anyway. no all of the hermits are in some way neurotic about this in this au. yes that includes jev and cleo even as they straightman #they're all just terrible at this in different ways #so stress thinks its important for the kids to know how to be appropriately adorable and polite at a tea party AND poison people #truly important life skills.

[sonego]

really devastating news, i hope aryna gets a lot of love and support and i wish her the best in recovering from this. and that she takes the time she needs

#i don't think i'll be online today #also dealing with (“old”) grief on this day so i'd rather step away it's already hard #i posted something on main but now it doesn't feel appropriate to share it here so it'll stay there #see you

[lrdvyke]

how does one know they're doing well with a character if said character never speaks / does much aside from fight

#gonna be a lil vulnerable for a second here hgjksdhkgshk #tbd. #like ngl sometimes i look at his characterization here and go 'are u more self indulgent than appropriate' #but is that wholly wrong / bad in the first place? probably not #anyway idk where this is going but ive been thinking and squinting at some of my writing #u know how it is #with work being slow today-- hgkjsdhg

[ossifer-bones]

dear mutuals,

send me a 💌 and I'll tell you what i like about you <3

#ask away #think people are feeling shitty today about that post going around so i think this is appropriate #plus i want an excuse to be unabashedly nice

[mustangs-flames]

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#took my anxiety meds and did my cbt exercises and am doing a bit better now #turns out i had forgotten to take them today #and a bunch of random stuff triggered a bit of a spiral #one of those being about horror story creation and how anyone who writes/makes horror content is- #inherently an evil person and shouldn't be making it. so yeah. uh. seeing that during an anxiety episode didn't help out at all lmao #i got scared thinking i had hurt everyone in the world by writing a horror series #despite. you know. tagging all my stories age-appropriately. tagging content. and even providing content warnings on each chapter #like. i think i do a lot more than some creators do when being responsible about horror or handling certain topics in my writing #especially because of the religious trauma #and the bad childhoods and parents. and the fear of god and how it can negatively impact one's queerness and identity #and i mean. i've always been clear that if i ever forget to tag something that all you have to do is let me know and i will fix it asap #idk. not saying i'm like a beacon if perfection but i try to rationalise to my anxiety that i am doing the most i can #if that makes sense? #anyway. sorry about my break earlier #tw: vent

[jennycalendar]

had a cup of coffee last night — i do not usually drink coffee, not for any big reason, just because deviations from my routine have to be planned and when other drinks are on offer i default to the one i am most familiar with, and because i don’t usually drink coffee i didn’t realize that the caffeine would actually make my brain function the way that i am now certain my brain should be functioning. like i usually take an entire day to shower or cook or whatever it is but i cleaned the entire apartment and made my salad as well, and there was none of the “lying down for 3 hours for no reason doing nothing” in between? and now i am feeling very tangled and sad because i honestly did not realize my brain full on does work different on a lot of levels, and will need accommodations for things

#musings #lately for whatever reason i have been seeing a lot of posts across platforms #about how people are appropriating and co-opting certain mental health conditions when they don’t really have it #which is 80 percent of the reason i have not talked directly to most about my experiences here in the first place! #but like two therapists and multiple people in my life have been like ‘’hey this is probably a thing with you’’ #and essentially my entire family has one or the other or some combination of both #i guess i just sorta feel like i have found so many workarounds that at this point it doesn’t count? #like if it is not stopping me from living my life then why should it be a thing i think about? #but yesterday i experienced what it could be like in general #and realized how hard it has been across the board #to an extent i don’t usually think about #so yeah. maybe today is a bummer now that i am not Experiencing Caffeine