I'm still thinking about a post I saw where the OP was legit afraid that they were "allophobic" (Something you cannot be) and then continued to explain sex repulsion and I just.... I think about how this is very much a real conclusion a lot of sex repulsed people find themselves believing because of how much negativity there is surrounding the idea of sex repulsion in general.
I mean, sex repulsed people are shamed for being repulsed. We're told we are sex negative, that we are puritans, that we are childish, that we don't belong in sex positivity. We are constantly pushed out of spaces, told we don't belong, that our feelings aren't normal and need to be fixed. that we need to conform to allosexuals who are uncomfortable with our identity.
we have to always make allo people comfortable. We can't express our repulsion because they take it as a personal attack. Our repulsion is seen as an attack of them personally, on their identity. How dare someone not like sex like they do?
with so little positivity it's no wonder so many sex repulsed people start to worry if they are "allophobic". that start to worry that they are wrong and need to fix themselves to make others around them comfortable. it's always repulsed people having to compromise. No one ever tries to compromise for us.
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ohhh god. oh no. tangle is CLEARLY super nervous here- she's sweating, and has no idea what to do- but she's making jokes and trying to smile and even laugh, because first of all, she wants to be a hero-
does trying to be witty to divert attention away from disastrous situations remind you of anyone. anyone with blue quills and pronouns.
-And she even did this during the metal virus arc, when she literally fucking died. Tangle is desperately trying to keep the team together- she doesn't want it to fall apart, and won't let that happen- she's trying to reassure everyone, but Lanolin's just done with it. Every mission they've ever been on- From the metal virus (Where a pissed-off Lanolin appeared in the background) to Surge,- they escaped by the skin of their teeth. They're barely scraping by- and Lanolin was on the sidelines then. She's now being referred to as boss, by Tangle, trying to cheer her up- basically Tangle's way of saying 'oh god. we're completely fucked. we need a plan or we're all fucking dead' (i mean. im exaggerating a bit but whatever) and Lanolin...just gave up.
She doesn't think she's cut out for it. She was desperate, needed help- maybe a distraction from life- or a way out of this place- or was done with all the destruction- I'm not sure yet, I don't exactly know her origin story, but either way, she joined the restoration and watched it crumble.
She watched leaders quit and falter, she watched the metal virus destroy their last 'bastion of hope', she watched the restoration that was supposed to rebuild, razed to the ground, forced to start all over again.
Tangle's terrified and she doesn't want to show it.
Lanolin's gave up and lost any hope.
Sonic's struggling, but trying to hide it.
And Blaze & Silver only just arrived-
And Whisper?
She's hurt. Not physically, atleast yet- but she's clearly emotionally hurt, her relationship with Tangle clearly strained at the moment-
But Tangle's struggling too, and she can't always be upbeat and cheery, but she can try, except the Whisper being upset with her isn't just painful for Whisper- it's painful for Tangle! She had no idea about Surge! She was trying to be nice- trying to honour their memory- and while it was a stupid, maybe even out of character decision- her intentions were pure, and she doesn't know why Whisper is so mad about it. Whisper has a right to be upset- but, for things to be fixed, they need to push past this and have a moment to talk about it.
The thing is, though?
Tangle already tried.
She tried talking to Whisper, but she's too mad to even want to talk.
Either they'll have a big argument, maybe eventually sorting things out, or Whisper will finally calm down- and they'll be able to talk things out.
But right now? The former seems more likely.
She just wants to fix things, but it seems like everyone else is too busy watching the flames burn it all down to try.
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also you know ngl, the bit where Darius stops to save Eberwolf?
i think about 50-50 odds Raine would not have.
they’ve demonstrated ample willingness to sacrifice themself, people they know but think are on the other side, and people they really care about for the cause
and i think at that moment? with everything going wrong? with the Day of Unity underway?
they might look at that threat, the death of one of the coven heads, one of the necessary components for the draining spell to work, and do the math about how long the eclipse is going to last vs how long it’s going to take to find and get the replacement up there now that Belos is nowhere to be found
and decide they can bear that weight on their conscience if it means everybody else lives.
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Okay GOOD I was going to ask what u thought was hotter:
Olly/Adam tying Hoffman up and riding him whilst threatening that they want him to knock them up
Hoffman finally losing control and pinning Olly/Adam to the ground and threatening to breed him
:3
@theflirtmeister so i read this at the family function and at least 3 ppl heard me literally groan aloud...
either of those scenarios would destroy me in the best way possible... but u got me really thinking abt omega hoffman now and alpha adam (and lawrence?? they're an alpha/alpha couple and they love to toy with hoffman whenever possible) tying him to the bed and talking about how bad they wanna knock him up... (i could absolutely see ollie doing this as well of course, but mark would definitely turn it around and threaten to breed Him lol)
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