#i will actually sell my soul right now if sm tells me to

[crysdrawsthings]

Crys Reads Horus Heresy: False Gods

Started: 24.12.2021

Finished: 07.01.2022

Previous book: Horus Rising

And now for the assortment of my deranged notes. I am excluding some quotes I wrote down in Russian and might mix up names a bit where the translation is very different from the original:

Titans!!! Big robots go stomp-stomp! Hell yeah!

Ionah you are going into horny jail for this "raw male power" about your titan, yes this book had EC, but you are the one who will get bonk, I swear

99 virtues of Emperor, our beloved. Let me guess, good parenting is not on the list?

Loken has freckles, I repeat, Loken has freckles

Ah, so they left Kor Phaeron on Davin? Well, I am not surprised it turned into a shithole

Industrial catacombs of Cthonia. Interesting.

Horus sitting sad and alone in his room. Awww. Erebus is not good for your health, baby, come on.

Karkasy, ew, stop staring in the cleavages.

I am omitting several notes of myself talking about how I am going to get Erebus knees from here.

"At birth, I was named Erebus" LIAR LIAR PANTS ON FIRE

Ohoho, slipping about the blade with Loken noticing

Note to self: apparently, at least Astartes and in 30k were flying in the Warp with blinds open. Must have been beautiful. And trippy.

Switching from "For Teh Emprah" to "Kill for the Warmaster". Foreshadowing much?

Ah yes, Horus and Petronella and "behold, my closest friends" with the camera panning to Mornival trying to make Torgaddon shut up about bear jokes

I think that one moment with Legions being all "yeeeeah! MURDER TIME!" is nicely written in a somewhat chilly manner, like, bad vibes, man, bad vibes

Oh, Nurgle and rotten moon!

TITANS TITANS TITANS STOMP STOMP

"Puny mortals?" Ew, Eezy, ew.

Note to self: apparently, some old Terran weapons can sever soul from the body!

Yes, sure, why use giant battle robots you have with you to blow up an obvious trap, Horus. Because glorious melee is obvious the right answer. This is how you get stabbed and die.

Ten floors of free fall. Horus, this is not your day, baby.

"Astartes were flung to the sides like kittens" Excuse me?

Sword from Ferrus? Good lad Ferrus made everyone swords? That sounds about right.

To be honest to poor nurgled dude. He got some points.

MAGNUS MAGNUS MAGNUS YEEEEEAH SHOW ME THE BEST LAD

Magnus you damn disaster wizard, love you sm, dude, like, I am going to fistfight Emps for you. Emps and Russ both at the same time, I have two fists actually

Someone needs to do something about this rampant slavery issue in the grimdark space

Petronella trying to lift Horus up. Feels.

As I suspected at least part of why Magnus wanted to use the spell for contacting Emps is because he wanted to prove a point that magic can save the Imperium. This is prideful, but, like, touching. I admire his dedication to the craft.

Crying Abaddon is an interesting mental image I have never considered...

Stampeding Astartes is scary and dangerous for nearby civilians. Damn, dudes...

Horus tells stuff to Petronella feeling that he might die soon. They could have had so much more interesting screentime together. But no, damn plot.

"Night Haunter - a very grumpy lad, and Lion is also as hard to deal with as Angron" Woah okay there dude

Erebus came running on the faintest scent of drama happening, why am I not surprised

Upcoming, Horus Lupercal and his amazing warp trips, part 1

The ritual method is certainly... creative

F in chat for the priestess who tried to kill Erebus, she tried to do what most in fandom only dream of

Erebus is selling the Chaos to Horus like bank people advertising the very profitable and safe loans and I am reeling

Oh, a cool quote about XI!

I wonder if Astartes do not really age, why is Qruze is constantly described as like, damn grandpa?

Karkasy, you might not pass all my vibe checks, but you definitely say some raw lines at a time

Magnus' feathered cape makes its appearance. Swag check - passed.

So, this is now canon, that by reading aloud from Erebus' head you can summon daemons, and no I am not accepting critique on this skewed perspective on the written word in the book

Okay, fine, I won't let you suffer through every occurrence of me running on the ceiling and fangirling over Magnus. He is still the best tho.

Well, RIP for Auretian Technocracy, but Horus wanted your premium toaster to give to Regulus and Kelbor-Hal.

Also no, I liked earlier Horus better, this one is fun as an evil scheming villain, but like, a bit cardboardy at times

Horus staring at Regulus and asking how much of a machine he is... Dude, have you heard of personal space?

"Wise advice of Fulgrim" Listen, I know this is before he became a four-armed snake who is constantly high, drunk, and vibing, but still it is such an interesting phrase to see.

But I mean, deciding to stop fighting in a pointless war and instead leaving to chill with sexy daemons is not the worst decision. Should have not abandoned his Legion tho.

Okay, what is the story with Lucious and his scars? Also, I will probably ignore this, because I like smooth pretty face Lucius more. Precious himbo

"Oh, come on, he is Warmaster, he goes where he wants" - I swear it sounds funnier in Russian and to me

If I had a coin for every time Fulgrim got his hands on a very cursed sword, I would have had two coins by now, which is not much, but it is interesting, that it happened twice. And hey, maybe his return to 40k will be with this sword that Yvraine looks for because he and Slaanesh will be doing a little trolling?

You know, here is this sword you want. It goes in a package with a murderous snake man

So, it seems to be either old retconned lore or just "official version" that apparently earthen technology was able to remove Butcher's Nails just Angron was against this

And well, here we have another case of people living a nice and comfortable life before Imperium decided that nope, can't do that.

#wh40k #wh 40k #warhammer 30k #warhammer 40k #horus heresy #warboss horus and his lads #horus lupercal #magnus the red #fulgrim #i am clearly inept when it comes to literature analysis #i am just here to fangirl over magnus #and be amazing at the size of fulgrim's brain at times #ah also dumb memes #crysandthings

[sanstropfremir]

i vaguely remember this when i was younger where jyp said that he told his male idols to "look at how a female dances and study their moves." (not sure if this was verbatim but something along those lines.) and the reason is because they are more fluid. this popped in my head when i saw a comment that said jyp groups, overall, have better dancers than the other big companies and sm groups have the worst dancers. e.g. although kai is widely known to be one of the best dancers from 3rd gen, exo are not good dancers (baekhyun, chanyeol, and d.o. struggling to keep up during debut). the same is said about taemin and shinee members (jonghyun and onew are not good dancers).

what are ur thoughts? i'm not entirely sure if the newer generation of jyp male groups were taught this (got7 + skz) because jyp himself wasn't as involved as he was with bi rain + 2pm. i don't follow got7 + skz to develop an opinion but definitely when i look at bi rain and 2pm, i feel like they're very strong dancers. bi rain - well, yeah. dude influenced a whole generation of male idols. and for 2pm, wooyoung is a really good dancer. acrobatics were 2pm's main selling point but as they progressed in their careers and their dances became less focused on that, his skills stand out.

i hate that you made me publicly admit that jyp was right about something but unfortunately, he does have a point. to be a good dancer means that you have to be fluid in your movements, but also that you have have the utmost control over all types of movements too. which does mean letting go of the more 'gendered' stereotypes that come with kpop choreographies. so yea, telling guys to watch how women move is great advice, because women historically have functioned under a lot of pressure to be fluid and graceful in their movements, regardless of if dance is involved.

and yes i broadly agree that jype groups are collectively the best dancers and sm groups are the worst, but i think it comes from the companies having two different methodologies when it comes to how they cast trainees and who even auditions in the first place. sm collectively has weaker dancers despite being a very prominent company because yes they are known for vocals, but this isn't the whole of it: sm tends to look for people who are standout in one specific area, be it in vocals, dance, or visuals. that's why sm has a lot of 'dozens', but at the same time some of the top tier standout idols in particular fields. and because they have the longest history and those outstanding idols, they attract the types of auditionees that fit that model. yes baekhyun and kyungsoo and jonghyun and jinki are not good dancers, but they quite handily some of the best vocals on the scene. and when you pair that with the best dancers on the scene, the lows don't matter because the highs are so high.

jype on the other hand, both looks for more well rounded talent and also tends to attract dancers because of rain. and yes i would say that both got7 and skz have very strong dance bases. got7 i would argue has probably the best collective dance skills of any third gen group and they also continued the tricking legacy started by 2pm; there's a viral 2x speed dance of if you do (from when they were basically still rookies) and they have three main/lead dancers: yugyeom, jaebeom, and jackson. some poor insane soul put together a carrd of the history of every boy at jype, which shows just how many of the core dancers in boy groups passed through at some point: jo kwon, shownu (who trained with got7), kino (pentagon main dancer), jhope (auditioned but didn't pass), seyong (myname main dancer), dongwoo (infinite main dancer), sungjun (boys republic main dancer), hansol (former toppdogg lead dancer and now an actual choreographer), byeongkwan and yuchan (a.c.e), u (onf main dancer), all the members of highlight, and all the members of ab6ix, just to name a few.

i don't know that either strategy is better or worse; they've both produced results that are good in technical skill and in popularity, i think it just depends on fans' personal opinions.

#kpop questions #kpop dance #idk why the dozen thing blew up again over the last few days but tbh it is a very good descriptor for this purpose #god i really hate that you made me admit this anon but jyp can dance pretty well #switch to me isn't a complicated choreo but he keeps up relatively well with rain despite being over a DECADE older than him #the 2x speed dances on weekly idol are actually only like 1.5x-1.75x but doesnt negate the fact that if you do is still hard af #also jyp was actually pretty heavily involved with got7. and when i say 'heavily involved' i mean 'very restrictive' #he basically banned jackson from promoting solo in korea #they fought for years to get creative freedom and even though basically the whole group was unhappy with their management #they were still ALL willing to resign in 2021 but jype wouldnt capitulate at contract negotiations #jype just has historically bad handling of their boy groups its a bit........hm #i think that skz is a bit more free because their whole thing is 'self-produced' but idk. theyre still young so who knows #answers #text #personally i think that broadly the sm model produces the thoroughbreds and jype produces the workhorses #not to generalize down so much because nothing is that simple but still #both are necessary and have their function in a horse-based economy

[sasorikigai]

@paindealt asked.... (aka the MK Kommunity Rambler)

Honestly YESSSS. That's what I love about Sub-Zero and Scorpion, and just Mortal Kombat characters. Is that they're IRONIC, and they have things about them that intentionally contradicts what character they're supposed to be. And that? Makes them feel more realistic imo. With a lot of characters in medias, they tend to fit one role/mold (like the stoic one, or the angry one, the funny one etc etc) which makes them feel one dimensional. But not the MK kast. Not only what we just talked about. 

Raiden is another fine example. Like, he's this wise mentor character -- yet he FUCKS UP so badly. In fact, lots of people blame Raiden for the key problems in the series. Like Earthrealm's defender, yet he led characters' to their deaths, technically tried to sell their souls, became a "bad" (or "dark") for a little bit. Like Raiden is that wise old guy, but he's far from perfect, and even his wisdom is of no help. And I just find that very interesting about the kast & why I love them so. 

The Mortal Kombat characters just SURPRISE you. And not in an ooc/bad writing sort of way. They're like REAL PEOPLE, and not only do they have a lot of history -- but you find out things about them you wouldn't expect. And it's why the MK games are my FAVORITE fighting series, just because the series really aced their characters and they're so good.

Like Kuai for example... when we see him older, it feels like he's actually aged. His younger self seemed more emotional, more liable to do something impulsive without thinking. (Example; going to straight on kill Scorpion for his brother without considering the circumstances). And then we see older Kuai and how much he's matured, how much wiser he became, and overall a man of peace. Yet... he STILL feels like the Kuai Liang we know. They did an amazing job with realistically aging Kuai up. 

Same with Johnny and his younger self. And I know I'm rambling now. But MK just does an AMAZING job with its characters and I am impressed by it. Yes, there are still some ooc stuff, or they didn't do a character justice... (such as the death of Hanzo). But for the most part, they're good at writing realistic & interesting characters and except for a select few (mostly from the ps2/3d games era) I honestly adore all the characters. 

I love that they’re both ICONIC and IRONIC, and despite their supernatural abilities and exceedingly and excruciatingly tragic lives, I believe they are two of the most relatable and characters who one can sympathize with the most. I called it their duality, but also, it’s their complexity and humanness that initially intrigued me to nab Hanzo Hasashi/Scorpion and Kuai Liang/Sub-Zero as my dual-muses (obviously)!

To begin, the premise of my blog’s creation (based on the word cathexis, which means THE CONCENTRATION OF MENTAL ENERGY ON one particular person, idea, or object (ESPECIALLY TO AN UNHEALTHY DEGREE - which I headcanoned here). Basically, it has to do with Hanzo’s most woeful tragedy that only has brought him a vicissitude od descension; with the loss of his life, his family and his clan, he has lost self-control, governance, freedom and humanity. By accepting the hubbed hell and excruciating suffering by letting himself be forged in hellfire, Scorpion not only lengthened his life (if he were to simply accept his fate without vengeance, then Hanzo Hasashi obviously would have not existed ever), he found the sole, one-track mind to seek out the one who annihilated his life to charcoal dust and exact revenge, to cause equally excruciating suffering against anyone who had been complicit in his clan’s demise (most notably Bi-Han, Quan Chi, Shinnok and Sektor, amongst the others who are subordinates under them). 

Despite Scorpion’s motive being immoral and wrong, I cannot help but to let it justified, because he too, is inwardly and outwardly suffering through his own hubbed hell and chaos and insanity. Through anger, there’s an associated sorrow and suffering and through vengeance, there’s self-destruction and emptiness that’s so humanly relatable and connect to. It’s also the universal idea that the concept of self-sustenance and familial love is what serves as the foundation of anyone’s fueled desire, responsibilities and duties. 

Through his suffering, depression and PTSD that continue to haunt him, despite taking more than two decades to free himself from the shackle of the past and let Harumi and Satoshi’s death become the fuel for his fiery passion to protect the Earthrealm at all the cost and regain his humanity and redeem himself, Hanzo’s redemption arc is essentially what drove me towards Mortal Kombat and especially MK11. It is a poignant, emotionally-changing makeover of an individual who literally has gone through hell and back, to be killed multiple times only to be resurrected and come back even more stronger, and gradually purified towards the good side with his solemn vow becoming evermore stronger. I especially like the fact that the franchise’s quintessential antihero got a huge transformation, to serve the side of good for seemingly the first time, without wrath and revenge, only to meet the most noblest death one can suffer through the all (through the allegory of retelling of The Scorpion and The Frog). 

Kuai Liang is one of those people who you immediately feel sympathetic for; he’s your quintessential good guy who has also suffered so many hardships, yet the stacked experiences of the past has only made him kinder and wiser; he IS perhaps the most miserable character (next to Hanzo) in my opinion. 

His clan (or most of it anyway) gets forcefully converted under Cyber Initiative. And that's after Kuai Liang rebuild it piece by piece, to add insult to injury.

His protégé Frost absolutely hates his guts, betrays him, cyberizes herself and even leads the new Cyber Initiative that perverts everything his Lin Kuei vision stands for. He's obviously hurt by it too, as seen in one of his intros ("Was I such a bad mentor?").

His friend Cyrax has to be put down literally right after he's freed from the cyber mainframe.

His other friend Smoke is trapped in Netherrealm according to Noob Saibot (Bi-Han) who taunts him with his.

According to his Story Ending, his biggest wish is to redeem his brother which is quite obviously not happening anytime soon without the Hourglass and in the main story line.

From many of his intros it seems that as a Grandmaster, he lives a lonely life. He straight up tells Cetrion that "love gets in the way" and both Jax and Johnny note that he doesn't socialize much outside of his Lin Kuei duties.

He makes peace with Hanzo and both become respected equals and brothers in arms. Hanzo then gets promptly killed by D'Vorah and Kuai Liang is understandably upset about it ("This is for Hanzo" intro with D'vorah).

In a lot of his intros with Jade, he constantly badgers her to join the Lin Kuei and she always refuses (funnily enough, in her intro with Scorpion she's more than eager to prove she can join the Shirai Ryu, despite not being from Earthrealm).

He keeps getting his ass whooped in almost all trailers or promotional videos.

Add on top all he had to endure throughout MK9 and the MKX comics (forcefully cyberized, killed by Sindel, then painfully "remade" again into a Revenant, gets tainted by the Kamidogu dagger, Scorpion almost kills him etc.).

Sub-Zero deserves major respect. He’s been through all this, and wasn’t seduced by Kronika’s promise of a new era and still remains resilient and headstrong and a beacon of hope in Raiden’s army against the Keeper of time. 

I obviously concentrated on Hanzo and Kuai, because I love them much more than the other MK rosters (obviously), but I definitely agree that Netherrealm Studios has done such an amazing job not only fleshing out their characters and giving them relatable growth and development, but different facets of their characters that become so intriguing and contradicting in a sense. Hanzo could be stern, hot-headed and intimidating outward, yet he’s perceptive, astute and compassionate to those who deserve his trust, loyalty and love. Kuai is your ever-stoic, phlegmatic individual who hides all of his pain and suffering inward, yet he’s so open about his philosophies and is able to crack ice puns or partaking in pranks, etc. They’re so multifaceted and the possibilities are endless, which makes them two of the most amazing characters.

 TL:DR; I FUCKING LOVE THEM SM.

#✗ the ineffable testimony of spawned hellfire (scorpion) #✗ bone-deep chill of despair (sub-zero) #✗ breathing iron and rust (outofkombat) #(take this morning ramble) #paindealt

[xingchanseok]

11 Questions

I was tagged by @leaolivia (holy hell am I honoured btw) to answer her questions so here goes!

What group would you give your life savings to see?

EXO 100%, I literally love their asses with my whole ass heart oml

What kpop song did you use to hate but now love?

Red Velvet Russian Roulette, tbh I wasn’t a fan of red velvet until this song came out like literally the week before it was released i fell in love and i was so disappointed when i first heard russian roulette bc i hated it sm but then I kept seeing it on my insta explore page and now I love it with my whole heart

If you had to rescue your bias or a ham sandwich from a bear which would you choose?

Yixing, loml

What’s your fave memory of 2017?

Sitting in my back garden completely drunk around a fire pit with some of my best friends (not my ex who was there though, i pretend he wasn’t there)

Who do you look up to?

you know what, there isn’t anyone I specifically look up to but i fuck with demi lovato and amber liu

What is one thing that makes you unique?

I have a mole o the back of my right hand like right between my thumb and pointer finger, never seen anyone else with it so idk

What is your guilty pleasure song?

don’t really feel sorry about it but all up all night era one direction songs but i do feel guilty about wolf (before lucky one came out) being my favourite EXO song

What’s your go to comfort food?

Sticky toffee pudding and KFC chicken

Have you ever left the country?

Yes, a fuck ton of times actually

If you got a second chance at life would you do anything different?

save all my money lol

Who is the funniest idol to you?

tbh i don’t really find any idols ‘funny’?? BUT jessi makes me giggle and heechul has made me laugh a few timesis the most fashionab

I’m just gonna tag random people i guess???

@got7 @kawaiiianimegirls @what-if-yixing @fykimtaehyung @royal-jungkook @kpopmademyday @cheolyans @pawjimin

My questions:

what is your fave kpop mv?

What would you change about your bias groups debut song?

Who do you think is the most fashionable idol?

If you could tell your bias one thing what would it be?

would you sell your soul to satan to be in anyway involved in your bias/ bias groups life?

Who are some popular youtuber (kpop related or not) that you think are overrated?

what kpop groups do you think are overrated?

which entertainment company to you dislike the most and why?

if you had a plane ticket that took you literally anywhere in the world where would you go?

coke or pepsi?

what is your native language?

[superfluffycool]

How The Bloody Hell Did We End Up Here?: A Rant

The problem is that Starz does not respect it’s audience.

Fans of the OL books are predominately female, and older. Not much in Hollywood caters to that demographic, though the few networks and studios that do produce content for them earn quite a bit of money.

The leak of the Print Shop still is the latest display of Starz’ ignorance of how to treat an audience. It was not a leak. It was a “leak” in the same way Rihanna’s last album “Anti” was available for free on her website if you clicked on the right icon. They’re backpedaling now because people are angry that such an anticipated moment was spoiled.

Comic Con was another example of not understanding their core audience. When you think of OL and the beautiful love story between Jamie and Claire, do you think of a dozen, buff, kilted men running around San Diego so people could get pics of them while they flexed their biceps? Or a t-shirt that says “It’s a Sassenach Thing”? Or gold temporary tattoos that say “Outlander Forever”? JHRC. This isn’t fucking Twilight, okay?

Or how about starting a Lost Love letter writing campaign that encourages people to share deeply personal information with Starz, a corporate monolith with no feelings and dollar signs instead of a soul? Then, they instructed Sam and Cait and the whole cast to slip in an out-of-place relationship denial by bringing up a fan letter as “their most awkward fan encounter”, but have them record a video asking for these emotional and personal letters the very next day. Are you fucking kidding me?

The biggest piece of disrespect: the IFH and everything that came after, but mainly that summer. They are THAT calculating that they would force their stars to deny a romantic relationship on camera, and then have them revert back to the behavior that led people to believe they were together in the first place to generate interest in the show. I am going to take off my tin hat for a moment and say that if they are really not together, said it, stopped acting like loved-up teens, and introduced the public to their actual SO’s in a normal, un-trolling way, we would not have this epic fandom clusterfuck. People are confused, and have every right to be.

I do not hold Sam responsible for using the “fans think we’re really Jamie and Claire and can’t tell the difference between real life and TV” during the IFH, and then “if me and Caitriona were together, we wouldn’t say…” two months later in a print interview. He says what he’s told to say, and if Starz wanted another outright denial, we would have gotten it.

Sam and Cait’s chemistry sells the show and generates huge amounts of goodwill and publicity. That they went back to behaving all lovey-dovey and flirty shows that Starz didn’t mind, and maybe encouraged it because they knew how well it would be received. But God forbid we read into it and ruin the “official” narrative they’re selling. Enter Cap Kirk. He bullied and harassed and shamed anyone who believed such a far-fetched idea. And what did Starz do when they learned some of OL’s biggest fans with the most popular fan blogs were targeted and hurting? NOTHING. We can be sure that they told the cast not to speak out on the issue, too. After all, they control everything.

I don’t think that Sam and Cait are fake and that their banter and affection is all for publicity. But I do believe that Starz knew it was a good tool for marketing and encouraged them to share what came naturally to them. Go on acting like a couple, flirt on SM but deny, deny, deny. Bring some dates to events to confuse the matter, but don’t publicly mention them. Sam and Cait have been used and now they are taking the fall for Starz’ contempt for their audience. It’s really, really sad that a production of such talented actors, technicians, writers, and craftsmen is not honored with a marketing and PR team of the same caliber. Starz is shitting it’s own bed and I hope that after S4 another network picks up the show and gives it, and its audience the respect it deserves.

[arabellaflynn]

Update

Rat antibiotics (ratty-biotics?) ordered. That's the thing that was worrying me most. Rats die of respiratory illness. I mean, they have limited lifespans to begin with, but with pets the aim is to keep them alive long enough for them to die of inoperable tumors and senility instead. You know, just like your human relatives. The people who sold me illegal Amoxi-Drops last time are gone, probably because they were selling illegal Amoxi-Drops, so this time they got a bottle of Fish Mox. No one in their right mind is going to bring a tank of fish into the vet's office to get them diagnosed with fin rot, so the vendors just sell you capsules of amoxicillin powder and conspicuously don't tell you it's the same stuff you use on your own kids. They kind of figure either you know what you're doing, or you know where to get replacement fish. I can work Google and do basic algebra, so I just compound it with honey or something and un-snot my rats without supervision. [The down side is that it makes them all burbly, same as people. You can buy probiotic supplements for small animals, or you can do what I do, which is smear everybody in the cage with Yoplait and let nature take its course. It may or may not bother you that the rats come out of it smelling like peach yogurt. YMMV.] Keyboard borrowed. More of a relief than it should be, honestly. Onscreen keyboards are kind of terrible. Not being able to write anything of any length was driving me insane. I actually went through the craft cabinet at one point and dug out a notebook and pens. PENS. Argh, my electronic little soul. I got half a thing written and then gave up, because handwriting is grindingly slow when you type everything at dictation speed. The phone is staying on. Although the idea of being completely incommunicado freaked me out enough that I've signed up for one of those free SMS app things, that give you a phone number so you can get texts on an untethered tablet. It only works when I'm in range of wifi, as the phone is not smart enough to run it and the Android Kindle has no 3G access, but at least it's something? Anyone who has my regular phone number is welcome to text me and ask what the new one is. Theoretically I can also make calls with the app, but I don't have a proper headset and I think that might cost money. SMS is ad-supported-free. I want to thank Cat, Catherine, Kat, Kath, the other Kat, Cathy, Kate, Kitty (Jesus -- can I just start calling one of you Brunhilde or something?), Noe, Cari, Phoebe, Anne, Toni, Stephanie, Brenna, Vickie, MB, somebody who signs his emails 'Thor', and anyone else I've missed because I'm tired and their name isn't popping up in my inbox, for donating money and food and info and time and and and. Truth be told, I've been living on peanut butter sandwiches for months, trying to hold out until I could get things fixed without committing a federal crime, and when you do that long enough you just sort of forget that better meals exist out of self-defense. Even the critters are getting kind of tired of it, and one of their favorite treats is ketchup packets. I feel very guilty when I post things like that and people respond by trying to help. I only do it when that gets outweighed by the guilt of not posting anything and knowing that nobody knows why, including the people who throw a dollar a month at me on Patreon. I start going 'the dog ate my homework' and I get paranoid that nobody will ever believe that, so I better come armed with proof that there does exist a dog, the dog's official pedigree, photos of the dog in context at my house, the slobbery worksheet, notarized testimony from a zoological odontologist that the tooth marks thereon are canid in nature, etc. I should probably just post photos of critters instead, but mine are double rexes and it's summer, so they all look like toddlers who have just discovered they can cut their own hair with safety scissors. Lord Dimwit Flathead the Excessive technically only has one bald spot, it's just most of his backside and part of his underbelly. They're all perfectly functional rats, less the WHRNK noises and the usual hay fever, they just look defective. Now that I have a way to type again, I'll try to get back on some sort of regular posting schedule. from Blogger http://ift.tt/2wNgJLH via IFTTT -------------------- Enjoy my writing? Consider becoming a Patron, subscribing via Kindle, or just toss a little something in my tip jar. Thanks!

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Why so many people type 'lol' with a straight face: An investigation

There's a deceitful act I've been engaging in for years—lol—but it wasn't until recently, while texting a massive rant to a friend, that I became aware of just how bad it is. 

I'd just sent an exhaustive recap of my nightmarish day when a mysteriously placed "lol" caught my eye. Not a single part of me had felt like laughing when I typed the message, yet I'd ended my massive paragraph with the words, "I'm so stressed lol."

I had zero recollection of typing the three letters, but there they were, just chilling at the end of my thought in place of a punctuation mark. I hadn't found anything funny, so why were they there? Unclear! I scrolled through my conversations and noticed "lol" at the end of nearly every message I’d sent — funny or not. That's when I realized how frequently and insincerely I use the initialism in messages. I was on auto-lol.

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The next day, I arrived to work with a heightened sense of lol awareness and took note of my colleagues' behavior on Slack. They too, overused "lol" in conversation. Chrissy Teigen tweeted about the family hamster again? "Lol." Someone's selling a jean diaper? "Lol." Steve Buscemi's name autocorrected to Steph Buscemi? "Lol."

It was ubiquitous. And though some made audible chuckles at their desks throughout the day, the newsroom remained relatively silent. People were not laughing out loud whenever they said they were. It was all a sham!

As I'm sure is true with everyone, there are times when I'll type "lol" and smile, chuckle, or genuinely laugh out loud. But I'm also notoriously capable of assembling the three letters without moving a facial muscle.

Curious to know why so many of us insist on typing "lol" when we aren't laughing, I turned to some experts.

Why so serious? Lol.

Lisa Davidson, Chair of NYU's Department of Linguistics, specializes in phonetics, but she's also a self-proclaimed "prolific user" of "lol" in texts. When I approached Davidson in hopes of uncovering why the acronym comes out of people like laugh vomit, she helpfully offered to analyze her own messaging patterns.

On its surface, Davidson suspects "the written and sound structure" of "lol" is pleasing, and the symmetry of how it's typed or said likely adds to that appeal. The 'l' and 'o' are also right next to each other on a keyboard, she notes, which makes for "a very efficient acronym." In taking a deeper look, however, she recognized several other reasons one might overdo it with the initialism.

Davidson often sees "lol" used in conjunction with self-deprecating humor, or to poke fun at someone in a bad situation, like "if someone says they're stuck on the subway, and you text back 'lol, have fun with that.'" And in certain cases, she notes, "lol" can be included "to play down aggressiveness, especially if used in conjunction with something that might come across as critical or demanding."

"For example, if you're working on a project with a co-worker, and they save a file to the wrong place in a shared Drive, you [might] say something like, 'Hey, you put that file in the Presentations folder, lol. Next time can you save it to Drafts?'" 

Extremely relatable.

Admitting we have a problem

After hearing from Davidson, I set out to analyze a few of my own text messages. I found several of her interpretations applicable and even discovered a few specific to my personal texting habits.

When telling my friend about my stressful day, for instance, I realized I'd included the lol that anchored my message for comfort, like a nervous giggle. In my mind, it meant I was keeping things light, which must mean everything's OK. In many cases, I also add "lol" to a message to make it sound less abrasive. Without it, I fear a message comes across as cold or incomplete.

On occasion, I'll send single "lol" texts to acknowledge I've received a message, but have nothing else to add to the conversation. And as much as it pains me to admit, the lol is sometimes there as a result of laziness. I experience moments of pure emotional exhaustion in which I'd rather opt for a short and sweet response than fully articulate my thoughts. In those cases, "lol" almost always delivers.

A poor soul removing his "lol" mask after a long day of pretending to laugh.

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The realization that "lol" has become a sort of a conversational crutch for me is somewhat disturbing, but I can take a shred of solace knowing I'm not alone. As previously noted, many of my colleagues are also on auto-lol. (If you need some proof, 3,662 results popped up when I searched the term in Mashable Slack, and those are just the lols visible to me.)

When I brought up the topic of lol addiction in the office, offenders quickly came forward in an attempt to explain their personal behavior. Some said they use it as a buffer word to fill awkward silences, while others revealed they consider it a kinder alternative to the dreaded "k."

Several people admitted they call upon "lol" in times when they feel like being sarcastic or passive aggressive, whereas others use it to avoid confrontation, claiming it "lessens the blow of what we say." 

"I've also noticed a lot with my friends that if they say something that creates a sense of vulnerability they'll use 'lol' or 'haha' to diminish its importance," another colleague noted.

While there are a slew of deeper meanings behind "lol," sometimes the lack of audible laughter simply comes down to self-control. You can use the term to communicate you genuinely think something's funny, but you might not be in a physical position to laugh about it — kind of how people type "I'M SCREAMING" and do not scream.

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Understanding the auto-lol epidemic

Nearly everyone I spoke to believed the auto-lol epidemic is real. But how exactly we as a society arrived at this place of subconscious laughter remains a mystery.

Though "lol" reportedly predates the internet, a man named Wayne Pearson claims to have invented the shorthand in the '80s as a way to express laughter online. As instant messaging and texting became more popular, so did "lol," and at some point, its purpose pivoted from solely signifying laughter to acting as a universal text response.

Caroline Tagg, a lecturer in Applied Linguistic and English Language at Open University in the UK, favors emoji over "lol," but as the author of several books about digital communication — including Discourse of Text Messaging: Analysis of SMS Communication — she's very familiar with the inclusion of laughter in text.

"Over time, its use has shifted, and it has come to take on other meanings — whether that's to indicate a general mood of lightheartedness or signal irony," Tagg confirms. "These different meanings emerge over time and through repeated exposure to the acronym."

In some cases, the decision to include "lol" in a message might be stylistic — "an attempt to come across in a particular way, to perform a particular persona, or to adopt a particular style." 

Ultimately, Tagg believes everyone perceives "lol" in text differently, and makes the conscious decision to use the initialism for various reasons, which are usually influenced by "conversational demands."

As for the increase in frequency over time, she noted that if you engage in conversation with someone who's a fan of saying "lol," you could wind up using the term more often. "Generally speaking ... people who are in regular contact with each other do usually develop shared norms of communication and converge around shared uses," she said. 

Think of it like a vicious cycle of contagious text laughter.

Embarking on an lol detox

Now that I'm aware of my deep-seated lol dependency, I'm trying my best to change it. I encourage anyone who thinks they might be stuck in an lol rut to do the same.

The way I see it we have two options: Type lol less, or laugh out loud more. The latter sounds pretty good, but if you're committed to keeping your Resting Text Face, here are some tips.

Try to gradually wean yourself off your reliance on lol by ending messages with punctuation marks instead, using a more specific emoji in place of your laughter, or making an effort to better articulate yourself. Instead "lol," maybe, "omg that's hilarious," for example. 

At the very least, try changing up your default laugh setting once in a while. Different digital laughs carry different connotations. If you're ever in doubt about which to use, you can reference this helpful guide:

LOL/HAHA — I really think this thing is hilarious as shown by my caps!

Lol — Bitch, please OR I have nothing to say.

lollllllllll — Yo, that's pretty funny.

el oh el — So unfunny I feel the need to type like this.

haha — Funny but not worth much of my time.

hahahaha — Funny and worth my time!

hah/ha — This is not amusing at all and I want to make that known.

HA — Yes! Finally!

Lmao/Lmfao — When something evokes more comedic joy than "lol" does.

LMAO/LMFAO — Genuine, impassioned laughter, so strong you feel as though your rear end could detach from your body.

Hehehe — You are softly giggling, were just caught doing something semi-suspicious or sexting, or are a small child or a serial killer. This one really varies.

heh — Sure! Bare minimum funny, I guess! Whatever!

In very special cases, consider clarifying that you are literally laughing out loud. As someone who's received a few "Actually just laughed out loud" messages in my lifetime, I can confirm that they make me feel much better than regular lol messages.

One of the major reasons we rely so heavily on representations like "lol" in digital interactions is because we're desperately searching for ways to convey emotions and expressions that can easily be picked up on in face-to-face conversations. It works well when done properly, but we've abused lol's polysemy over the years. After all the term has done for us, it deserves a break.

If we make the conscious effort to scale back, we might be able to prevent "lol" from losing its intended meaning entirely.

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11 questions tag

i was tagged by @s-lay-ing @jeonghhan and @momjeonghan a thousand years ago but tysm all of you ily <3

rules: answer the questions, then come up with 11 of your own questions and tag more people!

i’m tagging @maybehao @andpegqy @spasticstars @cheonsajeonghan1004 @jeongjarsofhannie @leetaeiil and @jisoostar! :))

from @jeonghhan

what pets do you want in the future?

all the shelter pups?? i want at least two pups and also a cat to sleep in my bed with me

do you like sweet foods or salty foods?

both at once omg like caramel corn or the salty edges of good pancakes

link fingers, high five, or make a pinky promise with your bias given the chance at a fanmeet?

VIV STOP

um

i guess i’d want to hold his hand in whatever way i could

at the same time tho i’d be shaking so maybe the high five is better

what’s your favorite thing in your room?

my press it poster with taemin kissing himself... it’s my prized possession 

do have a lucky charm?

i have these two necklaces that i never take off that were both gifts and they’re really special to me, i feel naked without them

cereal first and then milk? or milk and then cereal? or no milk at all?

cereal first and then rice milk and then chocolate sauce ignore me

would you rather eat breakfast, lunch, or dinner with your bias?

breakfast breakfast breakfast! not only is it the best meal of the day but also :))) coffee in the morning with sleepy hannie :)) all bedheaded and yawning into his cup :)) please

are you good at gardening/taking care of plants?

yes yes!! i’m a total plant mom i love all my chlorophyll babies :)) they all have names and stuff

who’s your lol least favorite bias wrecker?

i’m usually v loyal but with pentagon i just... can’t

so i guess we could call dawn a bias wrecker but that would mean i would have to admit that yan an is actually my bias first

what are you grateful for today? :^D 

warm clean bedsheets

from @momjeonghan

what’s your middle name (if you have one) and why is it that?

it’s campbell, like the soup. it’s my mom’s maiden name. olivia campbell ___. 

what’s your favorite kind of weather?

warm and sunny but a little chilly? like you could wear a tank top if all you were gonna do is lie in the sun but if you’re going anywhere best put on a jacket

if you could meet your bias (from any group) what would you say to them?

i’d just want to tell him how happy he makes me :)) just that i smile every day because of seventeen 

but let’s be realistic it would probably be something more like “ohhoohohh my god”

favorite board/card game

i don’t know any card games omg i can play bullshit but that’s pretty much it

a historical figure you think is underappreciated and what they did

tbh i don’t know i’m sorry

i feel like in general if i’ve heard of them they probably have some staying power

how long have you known your oldest friend?

18 years :))))

what’s your favorite concept any group/solo artist has ever done?

GOT7′S JUST RIGHT :)))))))

one book you read when you were younger that had a strong influence on you

a tree grows in brooklyn! 

if you could dye your hair any color what would you choose? 

i would love to go grey but my hair is too dark and i don’t wanna damage it

do you have a favorite quote/saying? what is it?

“fuck that. fuck that idea like the fucking captain of the thai fuck team fucking at the fucking tour de fuck.” - david wong, jdate

please react to the following: onion

delicious in all forms i love onions :))) caramelize that ish and put it on my pizza

from @s-lay-ing

Have you ever seen a ghost or something weird?

when i was a kid i used to get like ESP premonitions but i haven’t had one in a long time

Do you know any more languages? which ones and how did you learned them?

i speak french relatively well, and i can read and understand russian and speak a little. i can get by in danish. 

i studied abroad in denmark, and i did french in high school and russian in college. 

Would you binge travel?

i mean, traveling is fun, but i can only really handle short bursts. i get stressed too easily to really adventure out there. 

Are you the kind of person who barely remembers their former classmates and the stuff they did on the classroom or you’re the kind who remembers at least most of them and some of the stuff they did?

istg i graduated high school and i swear i’d never seen half my grad class in my life

If someone gave you one billion dollars with the condition of spending it in a week, do you honestly thing you’d do it?

shit yes, dude

like obviously i’d wanna donate most of it but like...

i would literally just buy gold

stock up in my gold futures and sell that shit when i needed cash got a bank vault fulla gold bars like a cartoon character

get myself like five extra houses with the change left over

What’s the major event/concert/sports event/other you’ve ever been to?

it really depends on the point in my life we’re talking about, like the first concert i ever went to was blessthefall on the fearless friends tour, but i think the best show i’ve ever seen was darlingside

but there was also kcon so...

Is there a kpop group/artist everyone insists you should stan yet you just can’t because it doesn’t ring your bell/it’s not your cup of tea? 

like all yg artists tbh, with maybe the exception of mino and winner and lee hi. i know blackpink is the thing right now, but they’re just not really... anything special... i’m sorry

If you could create your own sm station and make a group with five members from any kpop group that exists (girls, boys or even mixed), who would you pick and what would be the concept of the group?

a coed supergroup with a blues rock concept

cnu from b1a4, sungjin from day6, hyoeun from stellar, choa from aoa, and junho from 2pm

like a hiiiiiigh budget supergroup but i digress

i need all my soulful voices up in here

my questions for you: 

if you and your bias were together, what would be “your song”?

how did you meet the last person who texted you? 

how many songs are in your favorite playlist, and does it have a theme?

if you had to move to a foreign (as in, not where you were born and not where you live now) country, which would you choose? 

do you think you could take your ult in a fight? ;)

would you rather play another instrument perfectly or speak another language fluently? 

you and your bias are the main characters of a cheesy romantic comedy. how do you see yourselves meeting for the first time?

what’s the one song by your favorite band/artist that you think everyone should hear?

what’s the one thing you hope people notice about you on the first impression?

sleeping in socks: yes or no? 

if you could create a new national holiday, when would it be and how would you celebrate it? 

#tag game #thank youuuuuuu <3

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Simon Cowell's 5 year plan...

Guys, it is important that you understand, this is all part of the bigger plan. Lauren, Dinah, Normani, and Ally did not write those statements. Management wrote those statements, signed the girls' names to it, and sent them out over their SM accounts. Camila wrote some of the statement released on hers, but not all of it. She put in the personal touches, but I imagine Roger wrote the rest.

It's also important that you realize, no matter what they put out there, Camila was not kicked out by the group, nor did she choose now to leave. The timing was chosen for her. She was always going to be the first to leave. That was part of Simon's plan from the very start. They just had to wait for certain things to happen, before they could start fully implementing the plan.

As I mentioned in my last post, I'm almost certain Simon built 5H around Lauren and Camila. They told Camila from the start they wanted her to concentrate on Pop Music. That's why the basically made her the "stand-out" of a female Pop Group. When the group finally breaks big in the Pop scene, you break your pop star out of the group.

The other four girls, especially Lauren, can't stand Pop, or the Genre as a whole. Once you break your pop star free, you can concentrate on making other types of music. The girls/LAND, and the fans, have been begging Epic to let the girls do R&B for a while, now. Their vocal styles all match R&B much better.

The Labels did not want Camila to be involved in much R&B, they want her to concentrate on Pop. Without Camila, they can now revamp 5H/4H, to a more soulful R&B group. That's why Camila is no longer a member of 5H, and is now concentrating on her solo career. It was time for her to do so. It was all part of the plan.

The next step in the plan, is to make Lauren and her husky lower register, the focus of the next album. Why? Because Lauren was Simon Cowell's chosen "it girl", all along. They knew they were going to use Camila all along, as the "bad guy", when the transition time came. They needed to preserve Lauren's image to continue building her brand.

That's also why they have gone above and beyond, to kill Camren. No one would believe the narrative they are trying to sell us now, if Camren were real. No one would believe that Camila would just betray Lauren like that, and no one would believe that Lauren would take part in a statement that was basically calling Camila a backstabbing bitch, if Camren was real. (The sun must take it's leave, for the moon to shine it's brightest)

No one seemed to notice, the two songs they spent the most money and time promoting, were the two most successful songs of 5H's career. "Worth It" and "Work From Home". Back to back releases I might add. "Worth It' was the last single released from their Reflection album, and it was Camila centric. "Work From Home" was the first release of their 7/27 album, and it was Lauren centric.

When 'Worth It" hit it big, like they knew it would, it was time to start distancing Camila from the group, and start building her solo brand. That's why we got IKWYDLS, and later on, BT. To promote her potential as a successful solo artist away from the group.

In December of 2015, is when the wheels began falling off the bus for the group we all fell in love with. The success of IKWYDLS was all Simon needed to know, to put his plan into full go mode. Part of that plan was to create tension within the group and make it appear Camila was absolutely miserable. It worked. Everyone fell for it.

December 2015, is also when they hired Dina LaPolt. They knew then they were going to break Camila free of the group, and they hired a good Attorney to handle the legal side of things. Sometime between April and June of 2015, Roger Gold was hired to be Camila's solo manager, and to handle the legal side of things for her.

Dina was hired to represent Fifth Harmony, the group, and the Brand. I don't think the girls have enough money to hire someone like her, on their own, so I think she was probably hired by Simon Cowell. Like I said, I believe she was hired to handle the legal issues, and to lay the ground work for Camila's exit from 5H. Her and Roger probably worked together on some of it.

Yesterday, I found out that the girls now own the brand Fifth Harmony, Fourth Harmony, and H4RMONY. Apparently Simon Cowell sold the Brand to Lauren, an actual partner of the Brand, for 10$, plus other considerations. Now, Simon Cowell is a business man, and I don't think for one second he gave up all his rights to the Brand he created. I think that's why he probably hired Dina to represent the Brand and the girls. The "other considerations" probably had to do with his side of the deal.

The trademark stuff should be opening everyone's eyes to something much more important than it really is. It proves to me, and should prove to everyone else, this stupid fucked up narrative they are trying to sell us, is a huge load of CRAP. It tell me, that everyone knew, all the way back on April 11, 2016, that Camila wasn't going to be a part of 5H anymore. EVERYONE KNEW BEFORE 7/27 WAS EVEN RELEASED!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why would the girls try and convince Camila to remain part of a group, she was no longer a Trademarked partner of. The Trademark was sold to the partnership of Lauren, Dinah, Normani, and Ally. Camila was no longer a listed partner at that time. THAT WAS IN APRIL BEFORE 7/27 CAME OUT, AND BEFORE THE 7/27 TOUR.

That's why we didn't see Camila in the Ads 5H was associated with. That's why we didn't see Camila wearing any of the 5H merchandise. That's why we didn't see Camila promoting 5H on her social media. She did the whole damn tour with them, and she wasn't even a partner of theirs. SHE DIDN'T GET TO PROFIT OFF OF THE 5H BRAND THE WHOLE 7/27 TOUR CYCLE, YET SHE'S CONSIDERED BY SO MANY AS A FUCKING SNAKE. REALLY!!!!!!!! Camila's contract wasn't up like they keep telling us. It was all part of the fucking plan.

So, what is this 5 year plan, and why does Simon Cowell keep manufacturing these groups of potential solo artists on his talent shows? It's actually a brilliant business plan.

It can take anywhere from 4 to 6 years, sometimes more, to break a solo artist into the mainstream. It takes a lot of time and a shit load of money, to market and promote a single person into a successful solo artist. Simon created a method to promote and market 5 potential solo artists, and break them all into the mainstream, at the same damn time. I can't stand the SOB, but he is brilliant.

It sucks for us fans, who fall in love with the group, but it's a great business plan. He takes these young talents, locks them into long term contracts, through his talent shows, and when he feels the time is right, he begins breaking up the group. He doesn't break them up completely, though. Hell, he still hasn't dissolved 1D, yet.

When the time was right, they broke Camila loose of the group, and will hopefully have a successful solo career, and they still have a successful Girl Group. Epic/Syco will not only be making money off of 5H/4H, they will now be making money off of Camila Cabello, the solo artist. They locked her into a long term contract, and they did the same with Lauren. But, like I said, she is the original "it girl" and it wasn't her time, yet. It will come, though. Now they get to build up her solo image and brand. We get to watch it all over again! 

#fifth harmony #fourth harmony #camren

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