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luminarai · 8 months

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hey, hi, I was just on the former bird app and came across this info from a brand new study and now I cannot stop screaming internally??? what the actual fuckkkk

theres' an article from the guardian here and here is the actual study:

#period products #menstruation #what the fuck what the fuck!!!#i know i probably shouldn’t be surprised but wtffff #idk what to tag this but #science #menstrual bleeding #heavy bleeding #period problems #reproductive health #alt text #described #physical health #blood mention tw #periods #edit: btw I skimmed the article overview and I’m glad to say it seems very inclusive #so once again: terfs can go fuck themselves in the not pleasant way <3 #it always bears repeating and I will ad naseum

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feminist-bitches-only · 7 months

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Hey @ trans inclusive radical feminists, how do y’all beat the terf accusations while also talking about sex based oppression as a form of misogyny? I literally highlight my support of trans people in my bio and my pinned post and just got hit with a terf accusation :/

#I’m thinking maybe it’s because I will reblog posts that discuss good feminist concepts without checking to see if the op is a terf???#or is this just not possible to do at all if you talk about sex based oppression as a major player in misogyny?#like I don’t wanna stop posting or reblogging posts that happen to discuss some issues between trans tumblr and feminist tumblr #ex like claiming the Billie eilish must be trans since she dresses in a gnc way #because like that’s a terribly misogynistic way of thinking and needs to be brought to peoples attention #but I literally never imply that trans people on the whole are the issue like there are gonna be misogynists and bad apples in any group #no matter their identity #so like what do ya do to not have people mistake you for a terf?#is it just bc people knee jerk react when they see radfem inspired non transphobic feminist takes because they have experience with seeing #radfem informed posts that are transphobic?#tirf #trans inclusive feminism #trans inclusive radical feminism #trans inclusive radical feminist

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ijichi-nijika · 9 months

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hi everyone, i know my reach is small, but a friend of mine needs help and this is the only way i can help myself, so please if you can spare anything, give her some help? if not, just spreading this will help too, i just want to make sure her and her mom will be okay!

#the girl with da gall #crowdfunding #i’m not really sure what to tag this as #trans #transgender #lgbtqia+#terfs fuck off

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let-them-fight · 3 months

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Oooo are you a terf? I love finding new terfs to follow and I saw you posting some terfy stuff! Lmk if you are :)

The only thing I’ll let you know is that I think terfs should jump in front of trains

#tw transphobes #No I’m not a fucking terf. Get the fuck off my blog you actual creep #tw transphobia #btw anyone else if I did accidentally reblog something like this tell me what it was & I’ll delete it.

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fishing-lesbian-catgirl · 7 months

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Going to miss all the good Yuri art you reblog, but your takes have gotten so low quality and shit that I cannot bare following you anymore, you genuinely radiate femcell energy and it's cringe as hell. I get that you are a lonely transfem just saying shit on the internet, but genuinely you need help and possibly some IRL friends or maybe just find some fucking empathy (though I highly doubt you have any left to share) maybe that will fix your miserable terrible life.

I usually try not to post anons like this, but it’s just extremely fucking funny that the only take I even posted today that was the last straw for you was about fucking danganronpa

Also the low empathy thing, is that really what you’re going with here? Like I literally reblogged low empathy girl positivity today, I’m very well aware of the link between being autistic and being “less empathetic” but that doesn’t make me any worse of a person. Not to use autism as a shield, I just don’t think you actually need to be able to put yourself in the place of others to be able to be a nice person actually.

Anyway my life has been going very well lately so I don’t really think I need to fix anything. If you were a mutual I’ll truly be sad to see you go, but otherwise bye bye anon~

#anon hate #I do understand where you’re coming from though #I have been a lot less reserved about posting about transmisogyny. which usually leads to people getting mad #and calling us femcels or terfs or whatever else you can think of for daring point out issues in the queer community #but I do think I’ve been a bit hostile about it lately so maybe I should be less combatative #or maybe I just keep doing what I’m doing because I’m honestly doing fine :)

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corrodedcoughin · 10 months

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court awarded a terf piece of shit 100k because she was seemingly fired for having ‘gender critical’ views and now everyone is congratulating her. so just to say if you are a terf get the fuck off of here. And anyone who doesn’t fall into the demands of ‘gender critics’ I fucking love you and I am so glad you are here

#she wasn’t fired. her contract just wasn’t renewed #and now ‘gender critics’ (read TERF) are protected by law for having anti trans ‘beliefs’#PIECE OF FUCKSHIT COUNTRY #what the FUCK. WHO DO THEY THINK??? THEY ARR??#the venom and vitriol people use to speak about trans issues is disgusting #‘it’s a matter of holes’ FUCK. YOU!#’so you think it’s fine for a man in a dress to be in a toilet with my 12 year old daughter?’#is a thing I had to read with my own eyes #WHY ARE YOU MAKING IT SEXUAL????#what the fucj is wrong with people of my fucking hod I just want to scream #social workers in my office making transphobic remarks about their clients. nurses homophobic about everyone #racist about their co worker #and discriminatory about a student on placement with additional learning needs #but it’s FINE because it’s a JOKE #im going to bite a chunk out of my arm and spit it at them #tw transphobia #tw homophobia #wil delete later sorry I’m just ENRAGED #I love you all so MUCH. ANGELS!!

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tdicksupreme · 2 years

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the gendering of abuse is part of how abusers retain cover. I’ve seen powerful women use gendered narratives to retain and wield power over people. I’ve seen powerful men use “it’s terrible, no one believes that men can suffer abuse” to recruit and groom other men to abuse, and flip the script on women they’ve abused

In general i just feel like this gendering of abuse always ends up hitting trans people hard, because we get painted as both evil femme fatales and evil men in sheep’s clothing

and i think cis abuse victims who are particularly prone to falling for that gendered abuse messaging—I don’t think they always get that such messaging is part of the obfuscation abusers use to avoid accountability

#ask to tag #ranting #like I think it’s worth noting HOW MANY toxic communities I’ve seen jump on the depp heard case #both extremist terf and MRA communities are obsessed with it in the most extreme ways #which exemplifies what I’m saying better than I ever could

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multiversegideons · 8 months

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Weirdest take I saw today on here was a lesbian blogger stating that “most TERFs are straight and not lesbians.” Like…. Who do you think is being called a “terf?” Most lesbians aren’t radfems, that’s true, but we also don’t like penis and that fact is what’s getting all of us called TERFs, whether we’re feminists or not.

#she just wants to distance herself and be one of the good ones I guess #who is a terf is so subjective and has no meaning whatsoever #I’m not a radfem yet I’m on this side of tumblr for a reason #I was literally told by transactivists that something is wrong with me for being homo #that I should go to therapy to try to change that #I’m just a normal woman whose lesbianism is what made others decide I’m a terf #distance yourself from me all that you want #but if you’re a female homosexual you’re not that different from me #we’re hated for the same reason

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worms-in-my-brain · 5 months

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“Kill all men” (and variations) isn’t feminist.

The goal of feminism is not to reverse the gender hierarchy. The goal of feminism is not to eradicate half the population.

The goal of feminism is gender equality.

If you legitimately believe that men, as a group, are uniformly and unequivocally bad just on the basis of their identity, something they cannot control, and that, due to that, they cannot be trusted, ever? If you believe that only women are trustworthy or good and men and inherently bad, then you do not believe in some of the very basic foundations of gender equality.

And like. The belief that women are inherently trustworthy and good is also bad. Like, I kinda thought it was common sense that putting somebody up on a pedestal is bad because it has one of two possibilities: a) the possibility to set them up for failure (because no person is perfect, always good and pure, and everyone makes mistakes), and b) the possibility to provide abusers with shields; if you believe women don’t abuse people, even if it’s not an explicit belief, guess what you’re more vulnerable for?

And these thought patterns aren’t just anti-feminist. They’re pretty bad for multigender people, too. I’m genderfluid, but on average I am usually somewhat a man and somewhat a woman, just in varying degrees. So when you say that all men are evil, am I to assume you think people like me are, too? If yes, that seems pretty cold-hearted. I am not benefiting from the patriarchy; I am intersex and transfemasc. I am androgynous in a visibly trans way. In a misogynists’ mind, I’m not a man or a woman, I’m a thing. If no… why make an exception for me? It feels like you’re erasing my identity as a man— just because I am a woman does mean I am not a man.

If what you mean when you talk about these things is that men have to be aware of their societal position with respect to the patriarchy and vigilant for unconstructed misogyny? Then say that. Don’t say you wish men would die, don’t make fun of gay men and bi women’s attraction to men, don’t say vile shit about trans men just because you think it’s ‘punching down.’

#idk what to tag this tbh #it wrote it while thinking about how I feel when I’m being perceived as a woman #and somebody treats me like I’m this good pure angel #because it’s actually infuriating and yeah it’s sexist as hell #I want my capacity to be my own person acknowledged #what if I don’t want to be pure #and yeah I know it’s positive and I also don’t want to be a bad person #I just want to exist without assumptions being shoved down my throat constantly #and it’s bs that this shit is framed as feminist cause its NOT #also really not fun when I’m seen as a man for ppl to act like I’m evil #and btw in both contexts im specifically talking about like leftists who were #on the surface #accepting of diverse identities #so its not like this happens only with bigots or TERFs or whatever #this happens with ‘feminists’ and ‘trans-positive’ ppl all the time

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fleshdyke · 10 months

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oh am i intersex

#i don’t want to intrude on intersex spaces bc i haven’t experienced any medical abuse related to being intersex. but from what i’ve seen a #lot of intersex ppl consider pcos to be an intersex condition. and i have facial hair and higher testosterone levels than perisex cis women #and have had terfs think i’m amab bc of my appearance. which in hindsight is intersexism. erm #idk. if you’re intersex and i’m like wrong entirely. tell me to stfu and i will #but idk. much to ponder #rambles

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cannibalkisser · 3 days

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I am rotting at 20

I still fight my tongue saying 17

My tea isn’t as sweet

Lying awake at 3am brings ache

I’ve outgrown a porn genre

But I’m still wearing my sophomore panties

brown soda hurts my teeth

calcium gone before I can move onto stronger juices

I am gorgeous

I’m trying to learn I always was

Never sexy

But pretty

pretty little baby

yearning for breasts

Now, also, still,

sit in a changing room for 2 decades

with padded cups empty

I’m not rotten

But feeling every sore muscle

7 hour school days turn into 16 hour shifts

even still there’s time to feel

I am not old enough please be patient

my prime hasn’t left my fingers

Prayers be damned I am still young

Hair soft

Perfume sweet

Newly 20

Three years past 17

- me

#self rambles #ramblings #god I am so dramatic #u have been 20 for barely a week #this writting isn’t good either #but I was feeling like shit physically #and it made sense #also make art no matter what etc etc #meow #the edge of 17 #seventeen #the edge of seventeen #hell is a teenage girl #twenty #I’m #tired #no terfs allowed

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glitterxfemme · 9 months

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Fuck off and stop interacting with my blog you fuckin terf

gotta be one of the more confusing asks i’ve gotten for 2 reasons, the first being if you don’t want me to interact with you block me then lol, the second being calling me a terf which is literally laughable