#i’m really pressed about this

[nightswatchdisbandmentera]

Yeah it’s cool and all that Lyanna Mormont and Wylla Manderly are such vocal Stark loyalists. But it’s actually quite important that they share names with two of the most important women in Jon Snow’s life: Lyanna Stark - his mother, and Wylla - his wetnurse and rumored mother in universe. Such stunning loyalty from these two girls who are named after women so important to Jon just tickles all the key parts of my brain. These are the women who gave him life. And it’s even more poignant when we realize that by ADWD, when the girls are declaring their loyalty, Jon is the KiTN who bears the name STARK per Robb’s decree.

#jon snow #asoiaf #valyrianscrolls #lyanna mormont #-> #lyanna stark #wylla manderly #<- #wylla the wetnurse #Lyanna couldn’t press her son’s claim and wylla had no power #so little Lyanna and young wylla step in for them #and do what they can with the little power they have #though they may not truly know what it means #I’m sorry but jon is like at the very heart of the gnc - however big or small #the conspiracy by itself is really about love - love the north has for the Starks and esp ned stark #but then we have Jon a product of love - lyanna’s wylla’s and ned’s #and he has been named KING #it’s why a stark comeback can’t be punitive vengeance #it has to be about restorative justice - the return of love to the north where fear and hate once ruled #let stannis do the avenging #but let jon bring love when all is said and done

[cruciomione]

another hope for the bear s3 is exploring carmys “celebrity chef” status. i don’t really consider this a plot hole because, it seems like carmy just quit EMP quietly and took off to chicago to run the Beef so no one would really know where he went off to after he left new york.

but i find it kinda weird how he was the most excellent CDC at the most excellent restaurant in the entire USA, but we don’t really get to see the extent of that or it’s not really talked about by anyone other than Sydney or Pete (aw😭)

obv famous chefs irl aren’t being stopped in the streets bc no one really knows them unless they are apart of that world too. but i do think now that Carmy is more publicly starting this venture with the Bear, we get to explore and have more perspective on his career overall

this has been explored in fics as well and i’m really hoping the writers don’t abandon this

#the bear #sydcarmy #like EMP chef visiting the bear is actually very likely and not just something only carmy can imagine #i’m curious if they will explore the press/media side of running a restaurant #i also remember watching tiktoks about the two chefs carmy is based on and it was apparently a. really big deal when they went off to start #their own businesses too after having similar careers to carmys so i’m expecting a lot of press

[theshadowrealmitself]

I got two thoughts tonight:

Vulcans who’ve become so good at regulating their emotions that they still have a pretty good hold on them even when compromised, like under the influence of chocolate, and being quietly happy about that fact

And

Human partners/friends/coworkers/etc, not just other Vulcans, understanding how important it is to the Vulcans they know to not show emotion outwardly, and how humiliating it must be to not only show emotion in public but to have that choice + control ripped away from them, so whenever a situation where their control slips, like chocolate/weird plant pollen/emotionally compromising event/etc happens, they focus on helping that Vulcan get away from people and into some privacy (even from them) instead of using it as an opportunity to “find out how that Vulcan really feels about them”

#I hope this is comprehensible #I am both tired and sick #and trying to think happy thoughts instead of thoughts that upset me #I’m a fan of like. Vulcans accidentally drunk texting people #I think that could be funny #but other people knowing that the Vulcan is drunk and actively trying to take advantage of the situation? #not funny #not fun #it’s about not taking advantage of your loved ones #but accidental confessions on their own when pressed by no outside force is okay to me #if any of this makes sense? #my brain is frying and trying to sleep rn I should really be passed out already #Star Trek #Vulcans #Humans

[cryptcoop]

hey, i've been sitting on this ask for a while since you've been getting into more twitter drama lately, so here goes. for the record, from an outsider, it looks just as weird of u to vaguepost twitter moicy's as all the shit you've been complaining about from them. like, i'm not even on twitter and i've liked your tumblr art for a WHILE but it's not a good look for you to just shit on other ships bc you're bitter ab your rarepair being called ooc. it's genuinely so lame of you and i'm disappointed to see an artist i've liked for years fall down this train of behavior. like, is it that serious that you have to be an asshole to EVERYONE just bc of a few 16 y/o's who are getting on your nerves? seriously?? it's super immature of you to vague a bunch of kids as a grown ass adult lmfao just post your shit and ignore them if it bugs you so bad. the block button is very accessible and useful (i'll actually be using it on your account after i send this ask). as an ADULT who has dealt with similar issues with kids being kids, you need to re-evaluate your priorities for real. be the adult that you want them to be instead of mimicking their behavior and saying that they're going to "be so fucked when they're 24" because you're 25 doing the same shit that they are. this isn't hate - like i said, i'm blocking after i send this - but i just hope this reaches you even a little bit and opens your eyes to your own hypocrisy. you're a human and you can make mistakes but i really just don't think this is the best option for you OR them. peace n love. stay safe.

I went to the International Conference on Business and Yapponomics and they all knew you bro

#I make a post saying moicy is ooc and you assume every post after is about that #you really think I’m that pressed. that’s crazy. #anyways I’m not going to give you a real response if you’re just going to block me #get off your high horse LMFAO

[firebound-press]

To be alone (with you) by Campanella!!

Very very proud of the typesetting on this one, I wanted to make each story feel unique while also staying consistent, and I feel like I was able to do that pretty well!!

The amazing artwork for the title page and playlist was done by @petriteru!!

Here’s some more pictures of the typesetting that didn’t make it into the video :D

Thank you again to cam for letting me bind this series!!! I really enjoyed working on it oh so much!!!

You can read the original work here: https://archiveofourown.org/series/2102925

#bookbinding #firebound press #ficbinding #persona 5 #shuake #akeshu #renegade bindery #hhh normally I’d put some more notes and stuff and talk about the book more #but I’m very tired and tumblr ate my first draft of this post #so here we are #anyways major shoutout to cam for being so so awesome throughout this entire process #and just being a really cool friend #man i love meeting new people through this hobby it’s so nice

[abastardworthknowing]

I was talking with @teacup-captor about Aziraphale in cute clothes and this really pretty person in a really pretty dress came up on my dashboard and I had to draw Azi in it 😭

#good omens #go aziraphale #aziraphale #good omens aziraphale #good omens fanart #good omens art #artists on tumblr #little nervous about posting this one… uhurhgr i dunno why ahaha #azaria.art #art #leoaa #also really enjoying how i’m drawing eyelashes at the moment hehe #hhhhh pressing post and ignoring The Fear

[goldkirk]

Got my first meeting with a psychiatrist in over a year since the last one demanded details about trauma when I was visibly sweating and shaking! Let’s hope today goes much better and that I have the prefrontal cortex online enough to leave if necessary instead of tolerating that kind of thing again

#note to everyone: if you say ‘I experienced xyz’ to a medical professional #on your FIRST VISIT #they are NOT supposed to require further and further details before moving the conversation along #they should take you at your word and realize that’s not the important part #the important part is hearing what symptoms you have had for how long and how they impact your daily life #so they can help you #NO ONE needs the details unless you choose to share them on your own time #and if someone is pressing you for things you’re not ready to talk about #LEAVE!!!! get up and LEAVE #i know that now #personal #this isn’t about sleep I’ve been going downhill in certain areas for weeks and haven’t gotten the boat to turn around #so I’m asking to start back on meds BEFORE things get really bad #i was planning to wait for the fall #but I’m struggling so much and I shouldn’t have to be #so. SSRI and asking about nonstimulant ADHD meds it is #the good thing is that while my self worth and competency and anxiety are in the toilet again #Im at least not feeling depressed and I’m not having all the sleep trouble I used to or the void feeling #my PTSD symptom improvement is still there it’s just anxiety and ADHD kicking my ASS

[tsuchinokoroyale]

How are you not someone's wife already???

I’ve licherally got no room for a man like where’s he gonna fit??

Not to mention…

#the real tea is that my brain operates purely on vibes and gets locked in very hard #if I’m interested in someone I tend to stay interested in them forever #but by the same coin if someone doesn’t strike my interest immediately they can’t do much to change my mind #I wouldn’t consider myself a romantic at all but all of my long term relationships began with sparks flying #I have changed my perspective on people before but only on a friendship level #my current fwb is a good example he’s poly so he left the door open for our fwb sitch to evolve if I was interested #and I def considered it for a long while but while he’s very hot and I get along with him great as a friend we did not have sparks #and trying to cultivate romantic feelings for him just didn’t happen much to my own dismay #he’s truly great I really don’t see where the disconnect between us is #I’m trying to therapy my way through this just because I get incredibly frustrated when I don’t understand something about myself #but I’m also really not too panini pressed about it love will come and go as it pleases #I got soooooo many baby to lovins in the meantime 😍😍😍

[kiwikiwiandkiwi]

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#at some point you make peace with the fact that that's harry’s image #he is a womanizer #but god why do these stunts always have to be with the worst people ever???? #i know next to nothing about her but i’ve seen the news about her and her latest dates #so it’s easy to assume she is not good news #but i really try to understand what’s their goal (and by their i mean harry himself and his team) #honestly after the mess that it was dwd and also holivia #and the way his comment about gay sex backlashed like so badly #and also after his grammy speech not being well received #i’d assume the best thing right now would be to keep things low and quiet #like he’s only touring right now nothing to promote nothing to be relevant about #so why not keep it this way #i just would think sometimes that would be for the best??? at least just for a little while #i guess i can answer my own question by saying they’re trying to keep his name relevant and keep people talking about him #just keeping his name in the news #so people don’t forget about him or whatever #maybe i’m being naive but not all press is good press #that’s more than clear now after how much hate he’s gotten in the last 7/8 months #so why do they always go back to the same route?? #we are all tired - not just his fans - but every single person that’s perceiving harry is tired #people start to resent anyone who is in the media for too long #specially if said person keeps giving you reason to maybe not like them #i’m not even angry or feeling anything really - by now i’m used to it #but you can’t tell me that the same M.O. over and over and over and over again is good #this formula has already proven (many times!!!) to not always being the right answer #like seriously what's their goal?? because harry being a womanizer is more than well established by now #i don't think we need 'proof' of it for people to say 'oh it's just an excuse for the storyline of the next album' #we actually don't need any kind of proof anymore for the rumors to exist lmao #i guess all of this is me saying that i really wish i could have the answers i'll never actually have #anyway rant over i said nothing new goodnight

[kittysauces]

Ok but LadyNoir is still alive TO ME

#miraculous ladybug #miraculous #ml #ladynoir #ml spoilers #miraculous spoilers #ml s5 spoilers #it’s just… they are so goofy and lovely and free as LadyNoir #and I get all the ‘knowing someone truely thing’ but #idk maybe my perception has been shifted by fandom #because really we don’t get that much LadyNoir content that relates directly to the feeling I’m talking about #it’s like loving someone for who they are and who they will be #and it’s finding a place for love #and making that love yours #and I can imagine that every rooftop in Paris has a LadyNoir story and that every little cafe that serves late night treats knows them #and it’s holding that love in the warmest part of you #it’s sunshine and strawberries #pressed roses and ice cream cones #and it’s love that tilts the world on its head #takes the mundane and fills it with light and uhg #I don’t think I’m even making sense #but love from a person that knows your purest self without the pressures of life and whom you trust without question #seems unattainable to me #so yeah it’s still alive to me #because I have to believe that it is alive #so that I do not become embarrassed about the thinness of my life #so I can still hope that my mundane may become magical

[fadingluminaryruins]

Max is so deep in his maxplaning, with Charles who tries to stay captivated.

They are like school boys who can’t stop talking, in class.

#charles leclerc #max verstappen #f1 #lestappen #lestappies #press conference #dutch gp 2022 #they really obsessed me #i’m a lestappie happy about all this content 🥹

[quietwingsinthesky]

what if. Amy “fix-it” because hallucifer makes sam so paranoid about dean leaving for no reason that sam gives in and follows him and is witness to the whole thing

#hallucifer: wow. big brother really trusts us. (beat) so something’s up right? we know it’s never this easy. #sam: (visibly restraining himself from saying shut up. about to grab his scar.) #hallucifer: (aware he’s about to be banished) don’t listen to me if you want but. I’m just trying to help. #don’t blame me if you look in the papers tomorrow and find a obit for your brain-eating girlfriend. and… what was her kid’s name again? #sam: (touching the scar. not pressing down. face all screwed up.) || hallucifer: :3 it’s not like it’ll hurt anyone #if he really does trust you he doesn’t even have to know we’re following him. *and* you’ll know your brother still trusts you. #even when I’m here. maybe he won’t even punch you again. that still hurting? #sam: (grimace. because yeah. it does.) || hallucifer: door number two - he thinks you’ve lost it and he’s going to stab that woman to death. #so what’s it gonna be Sam? ready to gamble your friend’s life on if Dean gives a shit about your opinion? #[and that’s the point where sam goes to follow dean. still doesn’t talk to Lucifer. not there yet. but oh hallucifer is sooo pleased with #himself about this. because he’s Sam. and he picks up on what Sam doesn’t. and he could see all of Dean’s little giveaways that Sam was #turning a blind eye to. and now here’s the perfect opportunity to put a wedge between them and get sam to trust him more <3) #GOD. FUCK. IM UPSET NOW. WHY WASNT HALLUCIFER IN THAT EPISODE. MOST OF THE EPISODES? #such a good fucking concept. squandered. #anyway. idk if sam saves Amy but he DEFINITELY here’s Dean’s little speech to her about how she can’t change. #hallucifer with faux sympathy like (sigh) damn. well. i always told you what he was like. Michael. Michael-sword. no difference. #both of them want us dead the moment we step out of line. #and Sam just frozen there in horror with Lucifer’s voice sinking in. and he believes him. how can he not. with dean proving him right #hallucifer #spn #sam winchester #amy pond

[mineonmain]

Jaewon Breaking Through The Fog Of Depression [LONG POST]

So throughout the last several episodes, we’ve got Jaewon, and the reactions of the various people around him, trying to get him out of his funk one way or another. Let’s go through the list of failures, before we discuss who succeeded:

Taehyung. I’m not gonna waste any word count on that man, he doesn’t deserve it. He had no idea what Jaewon was going through much less why, so nothing he said was helpful or relevant. He was the one person actively trying to instigate Jaewon, thinking he’d banter back and not realizing how serious he considered the situation. Taehyung’s lack of empathy and ‘nunchi’ makes him unpalatable.

Eunji. She’s an interesting one. Unlike Taehyung I think she understood more of why Jaewon was so affected (not because of his past but because of his present with Jihyun), but was afraid that she would lose him so she manipulated him in his vulnerable moments so that they stayed together. She kept trying to tell Jaewon that he was fine now in an attempt to convince him that he was, when in fact that probably just invalidated his feelings more than ever. Instead of encouraging his recovery it just made him feel misunderstood and alone.

Jihyun. While Jaewon trusts Jihyun and knows that Jihyun knows him, he can’t believe a lot of what Jihyun says to him because he KNOWS that his opinions are biased. Jaewon may be thinking that Jihyun is saying what Jaewon wants to hear, not that he actually means it, and so Jaewon is automatically disinclined to believe him. He wants to believe him so badly but he’s convinced himself that there’s no way that Jihyun truly believes what he’s saying. Isn’t that the worst part.

His Therapist. I know she means well, she’s the one other person who knows everything about Jaewon. But her job is to try and ‘cure’ him to the best of her abilities, and sometimes in trying to do that she missed what needs to be done. It’s unclear whether she’s being able to treat the symptom or the root issue. She tells Jaewon what he needs to do, but that’s easier said than done, otherwise he would’ve done it by now. Her telling him isn’t the point, he had to come to that conclusion by himself so that he believes it, before acting on it. It didn’t help that she was getting so visibly frustrated at his story and his reactions.

Now. Who succeeded? It’s the most expected and most unexpected persons around Jaewon:

Yoonwon. Yoonwon is probably Jaewon’s one true friend, someone who knows what he’s like and doesn’t judge him for it ever. He genuinely cares for her and loves her. They’ve absolutely got each other’s backs, and if there’s one thing these two do it’s never lie to each other. Seeing Yoonwon break down after Jihyun gave his ultimatum was probably the first time we saw Jaewon get out of his depressive trance and react with energy. His hubris is his desire to take care and protect those around him (often to his own detriment), and that instinct kicks in for Yoonwon. Until now, Jaewon did what he thought was best to prevent Jihyun (or anyone else) from getting hurt, but seeing her he realized that people were getting hurt despite, or even because of what he was doing. It was the first step of many towards his change in attitude and perspective. What he was doing was not only not helping but it was actively hurting someone he loved, so something had to change.

Restaurant Ahjumma. She’s a legend, she’s an icon, and she is the moment. Jaewon only knows her as a close friend of Jihyun, but has nothing personally connected to her. Even with leaving out specific details, he’s able to share his worries with her, and she (quite literally) smacks some sense into him, reminding him to look at the bigger picture and remember what’s actually important. Loving the ones you love, and pursuing your own happiness is more important to living than drowning in guilt, and taking care of yourself is the first step in that direction. She used the most simple of words that everyone understands to help Jaewon clear his mind. She knows nothing about Jaewon and he finds there’s a comfort in getting support from someone who doesn’t know you and had no opinion of you beforehand. Her combined street smart wisdom and maturity remind Jaewon of a more hopeful future.

What I absolutely love is how Jaewon only managed to connect to two women for entirely opposite reasons, but with a similar result. Jaewon believes Yoonwon because they know each other so well and he knows she wouldn’t lie, and he believes the ahjumma because they don’t know each other at all and as someone Jihyun trusts she has no reason to lie. While on opposite ends of the spectrum, they are both people that Jaewon doesn’t have to put up a mask around, there’s no pretention. It tells us so much about Jaewon, what he values in a person and in a relationship. Yoonwon makes him realize what he’s doing is wrong, and the Ahjumma gives him the courage to do what is right.

To stop running away from what scares him…

…and face it head on.

#the eighth sense #korean bl #bl drama #jihyun x jaewon #jaewon x jihyun #inu baek #werner du plessis #can you guys tell how normal I am about this show #bc I’m so normal about it #really truly #frothing at the mouth rn #i have so many more thoughts buzzing around in my brain #at least I managed to pen this down #hope it doesn’t lost in the tag sauce #how do I move on from this #what next #if Korean netizens on average could stop being homophobic the we could get some press and promotions #and maybe sponsors and money to make a second season #i want an Aeri-centric season

[lesbiciousbeginnings]

I want to be able to utilize a therapist but I also want to be able to say, “I don’t want to discuss that,” without it becoming A Thing that they need to pry into

#mine #I’ve tried therapy multiple times but there are some things that I just don’t like talking about #some things are big like. I had a therapist who was convinced that all of my problems stemmed from me being trans so I had to flat out say #’I am more than just trans. that is not my issue right now.’ #and there’s little shit like. I don’t like to talk about what books I’m reading unless I really know a person. it’s my little escape and #I like to keep it for myself and I don’t like being asked what I’m reading in every single session. #I wish I could be closed off on some topics without them feeling like they need to press

[sadiecoocoo]

Treat this like the button game on hermit craft, keep it alive.

#palestine #free palestine #I’ve never really spoken about everything goin on before #and i wish I hadn’t waited so long #even though I know anything i say won’t make much of a difference #but please at least press the button whenever you can #I’m not entirely sure how it works #other posts explain it a lot better #but it works to help people

[is-the-owl-video-cute]

the origin of the two wolves meme is racist theres been a few people pointing that out in the replies of your post

It really isn’t, though?

It started as a meme someone posted on a “failed meme” Facebook page in 2018 based on either something a Christian weirdo said (I think it was Billy graham?) in the 70s.

Billy graham was being racist for making up a legend about a culture that white people think is mystical or whatever, yes, the origin of the “legend” is racist. That doesn’t really make the meme racist imo?

Billy graham cracker didn't make the meme. He made/popularized a fake proverb. The meme was making fun of his use of his fake proverb. A parody of a racist isn’t inherently racist, especially because the meme has by now removed the link to native cultures by just saying “there are two wolves inside you” instead of “in the Cherokee culture there are two wolves” or whatever. It’s racist and harmful to still go on and say “oh yeah in Cherokee culture they say there’s two wolves inside you one evil and one good and the winner is whichever you feed” because first of all the “evil” traits graham cracker described were more or less the seven deadly sins of Christianity and the “good” traits were more or less the heavenly virtues which should already be a hint that it was a Christian invention.

Beyond that though? It was never a legend in Cherokee culture and the guy made up a different tribe at random each time he retold it because he was either incompetent or just didn’t want people to realize he was just lying. The racist is the butt of the joke, not Native American cultures. I fail to see inherent racism in flippantly parodying the weird fake legends he made up to sound cultured or whatever.

#Idk man this is giving ‘’owlvid prove you’re black bc saying my brother in Christ is racist’’ vibes #The only post I can find on it being racist is by someone who blocked me for being an evil anti tho lol #there are some forums where natives were discussing it but largely just to say the two wolves aren’t part of their culture #To me it’s really not any different than clowning on conservatives who say some nonsense on Twitter or whatever #not that I’m the grand authority of what is and is not racism in all contexts #but I really think there are more pressing instances of racism on this continent than whether people use #the meme from 2018 to make a goof about anime in an untagged post on tungle.hell