#i'm tired to see this quote in a romantic context <3

[depressedcoffeeaholic]

1. What music genre fits your tc the most?

Dad rock or 2014 pop, there is no in between with this man.

2. What's your favorite personality trait for your tc?

The way he actually cares about you and making sure you succeed 😌

3. Do you think they fit into a certain aesthetic or two? If so, which ones?

Dark Naturalism, and no I will not be providing context.

4. If you could, how would you comfort your tc? (Like if they seem to be having a rough day)

I would probably just make him take a nap or something because he seems super tired and stressed out lately.

5. What type of winter activity do you think is their favorite?

Staying inside to watch a movie while it snows for sure.

6. If you could (or have) what book or movie would you recommend to you tc?

Australia with Hugh Jackman

7. What's their sense of humor like? Is yours similar?

It's somewhat similar, for sure. I hardly ever made jokes with J last year because I was so shy, but light banter with him is always fun.

8. What's the nicest thing your tc has ever said to you?

Well, it's not necessarily a compliment but I really like it when he calls me darling and you can hear a slight accent to it. (I can't mention any actual compliment because my friends might find this...)

9. What wintery activity would you love to do with them?

I think it's be fun to go skiing if I wasn't so bad at it

10. What do you think your tc's love language is?

Words of Affirmation, he really strives toward trying to gain acceptance with people.

11. Do you have a quote or poem that you associate with them?

Poem: Age Difference by Lang Leav (please for the love of goodness's sake, check it out, you'll see why)

12. Do you prefer emailing them or talking in person?

Talking, because for whatever reason it may be, I hate sending emails.

13. Do they have a signature cologne or perfume?

I don't know what he wears but it smells like a mix of mint, coffee, mahogany and new leather.

14. Is your tc someone you can go to for support?

Yes, he really helped me out a lot last year and I'm very thankful for that

15. Have you ever pictured yourself with their last name or vice versa?

No, I actually haven't.

16. Is there anything you don't like about your tc?

He's a lot less personal than he used to be and he's not so talkative when other people around me are also trying to talk to him as well.

17. Have you ever seen them in a really bad mood?

Yes, he's been angry more times this year than I've seen him be like. And he's not a moody person at all-usually.

18. Does your tc ever laugh differently when they're with you?

He does! It's deeper, and he always looks me in the eyes when he's laughing at something I said.

19. What's your tc's staple drink? (If they have one)

Dark coffee

20. Is there anything that the two of you have in common? Is there a lot?

We both have a few things in common, and I remember one time when he mentioned how he noticed a few specks of blue in my eyes just like him (well his are blue and mine are dark green) and it was a really cute moment.

21. Have they ever targeted you directly in class or in the halls?

Definitely, especially because I'm easy to tease.

22. Have you ever said anything that might have given away your feelings?

He asked me if I thought he was funny and I said yes (except my voice had a very flirtatious tone that I did NOT mean to use.)

23. Do you dream about them often?

Not really

24. Is your tc more physically or verbally affectionate? Or not at all?

Verbally, for sure.

25. If you could, (or have) what would you get your tc for Christmas?

I saw this one really nice mug awhile back that I really regret not buying.

26. Do you like them in a romantic sense or in a more platonic way?

Definitely romantic now, but it did start platonically.

27. Are they a cozy sweater person?

No, he's a polo person.

28. What color looks best on them?

Grey and navy blue. Although he does occasionally look absolutely sinful when he wears a black shirt and jeans, I don't know why.

29. If you could see yourself the way they see you, would you take the chance?

Ummm, yes. Partially because of the amount of embarrassing things he's caught me doing.

30. What little habit they have is your absolute favorite?

I love it when he immediately waves and smiles at me the moment he sees me in the halls.

31. If it was legal, would you share a midnight kiss with them?

...yes. At the same time, only if he is was single. I do not support cheating nor do I support pedophilia.

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[furby-organist]

Hey I saw that post you made about people captioning fanart/fic with stuff like "I know Alastor's ace but I'm ignoring it" and as an ace person myself, THANK YOU. It's so annoying to see "I know he's asexual, but" disclaimers or "Alastor's asexual" comments on ship art, especially when it isn't even sexual. Speaking of, I think the reason people do that is that they think ace people can't/don't want to be in relationships at all, therefore even something purely romantic would contradict his asexuality. I know some people probably aren't trying to be hateful and are just uneducated but GOD it's so frustrating. So yeah thanks for making that post!

// Hey anon, thank you for the feedback and I’m really glad to know my sentiments resonating with someone!

I think you’re right about that -- a lot of people confuse aro & ace and ignore that ace people can be romantically inclined. I did want to stay on topic for the post, but, my opinion actually goes a step further. 

His aroness has been tentatively confirmed by one of the comic artists & longtime friend of Viv’s, Faustisse, though I hear rumors that may not or may no longer be the canonical direction? Not sure, don’t quote me. 

BUT. I feel like people consider things that aren’t inherently romantic to be romantic, and consider that to be contradictory of his asexuality. Alastor having his arm around someone in a drawing, putting a rose in their hair, engaging in any form of physical affection, isn’t necessarily romantic without the context of the work suggesting it as such. Even nsfw intimacy. (Aros have a notoriously bad delineation of what gestures of affection are platonic & which ones are romantic. I’m aro, hi.)

So it tires me off when people take the leap from 1) Alastor is doing X/Y/Z (particularly, some tame-ass sfw affection), to 2) it must be romantic even if the context doesn’t suggest it, and 3) thus is contradictory to his aceness.... it’s. A Mess.

#Anonymous