1. identify your values: determine what is really important to you in life. by clarifying your values you can better choose where to invest your energy and attention.
2. accept what you cannot control: there are things over which you have no control like the opinions of others or unforeseen events, learn to accept these aspects and focus on what you can control like your attitude or actions.
3.develop self-confidence: cultivate strong self-esteem by recognizing your strengths and achievements. This will help you feel more confident in yourself and not give too much importance to the opinions of others.
4. Eliminate unrealistic expectations: a lot of stress and frustration comes from unrealistic expectations that we have of ourselves or of others. Learn to detach yourself from expectations and accept imperfections.
5.focus on what really matters: identify the things that are important to you and focus your energy on them. by doing this you will be able to free yourself from the constant worry of what others think or insignificant things.
6.learn to say no: do not feel obliged to respond to all the requests or expectations of others. learn to say no when it does not correspond to your values or your priorities.
The “Idgaf” mentality is not about being dismissive or insensitive towards others. Rather, it is about prioritizing your own values and priorities and not letting external circumstances dictate your thoughts, emotions or behavior.
I honestly don't give a fuck that Gosho has confirmed that they're cousins. I'm too emotionally attached to this ship. What other ship can be so perfect like I can rant all day about how great this ship is. Like they understand the importance and sacrifices that, is necessary to make to keep a secret for the sake of protecting their loved ones and in a way, losing a part of themselves, but also discovering new things that in reality are also a part of themselves. They would understand the reasons behind the decision to keep the secret and also support each other and honestly no one gets hurt like they would in the canon ships. Also, I feel that it's so special and important being able to have someone that is your equal in skill or intelligence, like they are and like I can't imagine them not wanting to have someone that will always challenge them and keep up with their train of thought and i just love their dynamic..... so yes, nothing can make me stop shipping KaiShin and them being my otp will not change.
But Gosho really went for our fucking throats. I wouldn't even wish this upon my worst enemy. ALSO HOW CAN YOU DO THIS ON KAISHIN MONTH LITERALLY 10 DAYS AFTER KAISHIN DAY.
Actually, now that I have your attention... Drop some fic recs
I´ll start, my forever favorite fic and one I always recommend even to people who are not in the fandom or don´t know much about it