#idk i just gender feelings as always lol

[hajihiko]

How do you feel about trans hajime agenda

Same way I feel about most gender, sexuality, and neuro headcanons: not something I *personally* really need to talk about or name, but anything that makes people happy is a thumbs up from me

#That first part isn't a no either btw. It's just a 'i already barely understand my own gender' #'im not gonna talk about or project gender on other characters when idk wtf to even say lol' #Same with neuro stuff. I know somethings wrong with me but I (and therapists) dunno what #So what would I have to say about it in a narrative? #I just draw how I feel and when ppl are like 'omg trans swag' or 'real autism vibes' I'm like oh? Hell yea ok! #Tldr I'm dumb about many things so I don't really think about them #except polyamory BC I'm spiteful abt that one lol #Wow this got long. Uh anyway #If you get mad at anything I say consider: asking forclarification. I'm not always very comprehensible #Can you tell I am a MASSIVE overthinker

[aeide-thea]

thinking abt (1) that post abt how most censorship is preemptive self-censorship¹ (2) bras²

⸻ ¹ wow, tumblr search actually worked for once??? ² i do understand and respect that for many people bras serve an actual structural function wrt support/comfort! however, for many other people (hi!) they do not, at least in everyday non-sports contexts, and that's the set of concerns i'm speaking to here.

#i mean for me personally it's also like. sometimes/often/always i don't want to have visible tits‚ for Gender Reasons #so rendering them more compressed & visually ignorable is a move in the right direction #but that's sort of seasonal (which sounds insane‚ but‚ idk‚ in the summer the visible body hair helps balance out the visible tits???) #so it's like. objectively very obvious that i ought to go braless more in the summer #when it would bother me less visually and dramatically increase my comfort levels #and i do‚ in the house! but like. when i go out i still feel the need to render myself Presentable and i'm mad about it #bc like. yeah it's partially a trans desire to hide my chest but like. is that actually separable from the way women are socialized #to manage their breasts to HOA-approved standard or else open themselves up to a whole gamut of inappropriate treatment. (no.) #and so it's really just like. reimposing many different shades of cisheteropatriarchy on myself simultaneously #but unfortunately the only way out is to just. accept all the bad reactions i'm living in fear of. but those DO feel bad! #as always it's like. hard when yr self-protective conditioning isn't serving you wrt being a free person #but IS a rational reaction to the hobbled reality of yr actual existence… #like. easy to say 'just ignore those worries.' and maybe i will‚ at least in the context of like. casual public appearances #but like. even if the material consequences are unlikely‚ for me‚ to be more than unpleasantly judgmental stares— #that's still a real emotional consequence that has an impact on my well-being! but so does the self-censorship. #anyway. too many tags & no novel insight. just like. sux lol #(also usually on here i omit any discussion of Tit Management Issues bc it's my space where i get to pretend not to have a body) #(but like. that's self-censorship of a kind too.) #embodiment (is violence)

[turtletoria]

do u still like good omens?

yeah

#ask #anon #they rlly formed a huge part of my personality ngl <3 #like not to be cringe or anything but you dont understand. if i were to kin anyone it would be aziraphale #gender envy: aziraphale but with crowleys color palette and shades #i always say this when good omens comes up but for real i cried while watching them be lovey dovey on screen throughout history #like idk! this rlly brings out the Yearning. me n who !!!!! me n who !!!!!!!! breaks chairs over ppls heads #kinda wish they didnt start a season 2 tho because 1. they have to live up to the book and season 1. and 2. it feels a little disrespectful #but thats just me lol! #hope season 2 is good! #arrrghhh this ask has got me all ooghghg abt good omens again #eee oo aaa

[vote2]

i do acknowledge i need to watch what i say wrt gender women men cis ppl etc just augh.

#its like. im a trans man 100% i want nothing to do w being seen as a women i acknowledge that. i also acknowledge that I am putting #literally zero effort in my irl life to present as a guy at all. partially lack of resources and embarrassment etc stuff like that partiall #the autism i literally look in a mirror and see a guy #and i go to class go to work and until soemone explicitally refers to me as a woman i think of myself as a guy. so like its this weird #disconnect of what i actually do vs what i percieve as expieriencing in my daily life where i am objectively living #as a cis woman who just dresses and acts a bit masc. lol. #and like that doesnt bother me atm until i get to a setting where i am gendered frequently. then i feel nauseas etc but whatever ill deal #so i always hesitate whenever i talk abt women feminism men makeup beauty expectations etc (also i am mixed thai and white which #def plays into everyhting ofc ofc) as i dont know rly what is like. not fine idc if i say smthn uncouth just i dont want to at all #seem like im doing what these other trans guys do and latch onto my femininity and 'girlhood growing up' etc or like #its all dumb to me ofc im a feminist i consider anything i speak abt feminism free the nipple being against gender essiantialism etc etc #as in feminism (not that women arent/cant be femnists just in terms of im not trying to sound like a woman) and #ofc growing up as and my current life experiences have obvi had a large impact on myself how i veiw the world my political beliefs and all. #but like. im always scared it sounds like im idr the phrase someone else used but a i dont want to seem like im latching onto girlhood as #a failsafe or whatever. its just mm ykwim its a weird feeling. cause like im a 21 year old man and read my posts as such el oh el. #idk its all weird and idk if its a specific to me thing or whattttt it just like. i feel silly sometimes and i dont want my points to be #misconstrued :) anyways me posting this after rewatching and posting abt pearl has nothign to do genuinly lmfao just timing its been #on my mind after that dumbass trans guy posting abt the lonelyness he feels abt abandoning womanhood #after watching barbie. lol and then i saw someone in the comments of some ig quote it w like 30 replies all positive like get a lifeee #i understand it can feel isolating being trans and everyones relationship back to womanhood is diff and complecated but by god. shut up #anywayyyyyssss mmm okay im done whateverr #maybe all a fear in my head and literally none of this has every crossed anyones mind however it bothers me :(

[desktopmermaid]

I’m not a lesbian but I wanted to say that your art is some of the most awesome and beautiful and cool ever. It’s been so cool seeing you flip the bird to gender norms and create characters that feel so genuinely truthfully human. Keep up the amazing work 💖

Awwwww, this is such a warm thoughtful message, I’ve been rereading it a lot this morning. 🥺 thank you so much!! 😭 I’m so glad they come across that way! I rly hope for my ocs to come across as very genuinely themselves and just ppl living their lives, so I’m glad you can feel that!! Thank you sm and I hope U have a lovely day!

#ask #this also reminded me that it is quite funny that #my art not adhering to gender norms has followed me throughout my life #I remember back as a kid a teacher was like doing student interviews #and they were like would u say that ur art is breaking gender norms by remaining androgynous #me jsut trying to survive being a child and not even knowing what that even means: yeag? #Not saying it’s revolutionary or anything and ppl have always been doing that but I’m just wow. #out of everything That is a theme that has stuck around huh #anyway THANKIEEE!! i feel energized LOL #edit: the teacher wasn’t asking me if I was androgynous it was my art of characters #who I never rly gave gender to I was jus. idk

[unusualshrimp]

hmm gender thoughts

#the people who made pronouns page have another website right #and one of the options there is you can pin your gender on a gradient that goes hypermasculine -> androgynous -> hyperfeminine #and it's like a linear gradient and i hate that SO MUCH. this is hostile architecture for Me Specifically #[disclaimer that if you find that type of thing helpful that's completely fine] #but anyway my gender is like. im a guy but not in a trans guy way #and im a girl but NOT in a cis girl way and i call myself girl in my head a lot but i am a bit Sensitive about how other people use it? #and im always thinking too hard about ''are they acknowledging my 5D chess gender or subconsciously saying it because of my appearance'' #if someone called me androgynous or whatever im stabbing them though. idk that just feels so... gender neutral? and im not gender neutral #do ya feel me. #i feel a bit silly typing all this but ah this is the transgender website i think u all would understand me #im a guy like. you know the weird guy who shows up overdressed to casual events but he looks nice so its fine really #and also like. guy who always wears black and looks cool [the cool might just be in my head but thats fine] #and. i might have to think harder abt how i feel regarding Girl ™. i dont want to discard it because i do love doing my own thing with it #but also like being perceived as a cis girl (intentionally or unintentionally) makes me want to jump out of my body. lol. anyway #this is all so sucks honestly my favourite gender is just creature. #you see a thing so weird you just go '' oh god what is that'' and not gender. although i do like the flavour of it/its that is so niceys... #like yeas i want to be a scary looking thing (unattainable) but also.... what if i was jus a lil creature. #and i sat at your door and made 🥺 faces until u let me in and then i sat cosy near your fireplace for a bit... thatd be nice #i dont want to worry about gender anymore i want headpats....................... #oh jesus uhh #long post #<- for the tags

[babsaros]

How did you know you were gay?

ah, couple reasons i guess. some that only became obvious with like 15 years of hindsight, and only after pulling myself out of the deep dark pit of compulsory heterosexuality.

like. classic symptoms of lesbianism include shamefully staring at the floor when you pass the women's underwear racks in the department store, even though you're not quite sure why you're uncomfortable. that sort of thing.

i have memories from early elementary school of accidentally glimpsing down a girl's shirt at recess and then bottling up that feeling and refusing to think about it. any time i had a crush on a boy, it was from an extremely idealized and safely non-actionable distance. the one time i did have a boyfriend, it was just my guy best friend from middle school, we dated for barely a school year before i ended it and the most physical intimacy i was ever comfortable with was holding his hand when we walked to class. i went to a different school's prom because a guy i was kind-of friends with asked me, and spent the whole night uncomfortably avoiding eye contact.

basically i started questioning my sexuality towards the end of high school, when i noticed myself getting like. jealous about my guy best friend's girlfriends?? like. i wanted to date them. i wanted to steal them from him lmao. i thought girls were pretty and soft and nice and cute and i was too afraid of being a predatory creep to do anything about it besides have far-fetched daydreams, but there was no heterosexual explanation. like, i hugged a girl i thought was pretty one time and it did things to my brain. that memory got locked in for life.

i identified as ace/pan early on, but again- compulsory heterosexuality. the idea of being with a guy romantically or sexually was never actually appealing. i had just been told that was what i was supposed to want my entire life, and the movies do a great job of selling that fantasy. but really i was just a lonely depressed helpless romantic teenager that wanted to be loved lol.

a large part of why i identified as asexual was because i was so sex-repulsed by the idea of penetration, honestly? (which i have since gotten over, but specifically Only with girls. the idea of having sex with a man still icks me out, and my preference is definitely femme-presenting ppl) a bit of it was probably also because i hadn't unpacked gender yet either. it made it very difficult to actually imagine myself having sex with anyone ever lol. this is gonna sound so cringe to say, but reading gay smut did awaken things in me.

in conclusion, tldr, i just like to think about tits and kissing women sometimes, idk. thanks for coming to my tedtalk.

#my paranoia is making me think anon is my mom or smth lmao #say something my mom would never fucking say. *gun.png* prove ur not my mom!!!! prove it motherfucker!!!! #if ur questioning ur sexuality my advice is just to explore #look at lots of different porn. try to figure out what attracts you and why #a lot of my kinks are actually divorced from gender tbh #at the height of my teenage repression i was actually reading gay voltron smut nightly #and in total denial like 'this doesn't mean anything about me. im so cis. i would know if i was trans.' #as if i didn't think the exact same shit about being gay. 'i would totally know if i was gay. i don't think about having sex with women' #because i didn't *let* myself think about having sex with women lmao #because i didn't *let* myself think about being trans- because it wasn't *safe* to be trans at the time #and figuring out the difference between 'do i want to look like this person or am i attracted to the way they look' is very tricky #and figuring out that you don't actually genuinely feel any of these implanted emotions about the opposite sex is hard too #sometimes it takes a while its okay #like looking back on my childhood fictional character crushes- it was always the women! i liked the way women looked!! #but i had been TOLD that i was a girl and so thought i HAD to be that and fall in love with a man #idk does any of this make sense lol #im a little sleep-deprived atm #i've been up a solid 24 hours #anonymous #ask #god the way i broke up with that boyfriend was so bad too oughhhhh #i've wondered a few times if i should shoot him a facebook message like 'hey sorry i dumped u like that and then we never talked again.' #'it turned out that i was neither a girl nor heterosexual. so. hope ur doin good!'

[skrunksthatwunk]

ouhohoohh wait. sorry gender moment. changing my pronouns but it's like a werewolf transformation scene where their clothes stretch and rip and tear as i become the evil transtrender i once feared. adding it/its to my bio lol

#makes me feel like im a dog getting scratched on the head it feels affectionate and familiar and nice #which is generally the opposite of how ppl view those pronouns but hey who give a shit #it's like. idk. it's nice being treated like a creature sometimes. like the opposite of if you cant beat em join em #like on purpose dehumanization. i am detached from this shit entirely #look if im gonna feel like the Other all the time i might as well be treated like an Entity yk #kinda works for me im realizing #which is weird bc it's never really struck a chord with me. but ig i never really considered it that much before now #and i mean ig thats the fun/trouble with genderfluidity is the impermanence thing. gotta keep checking in on it #and neopronouns have never really worked for me but they isn't really great either (except for the once in a blue moon where it's perfect) #but i still need smth neutral... yeah.... yeah ok #ok!! #yeah.... gender getting weirder by the day all right!!! #not getting rid of the other pronouns im just adding to them lol #wow yeah. i feel way more seen like that rn wowza. ok #probably not an always thing bc nothing is with this godforsaken gender (affectionate in a shitty first car way) #but like. yeah :) #at least something came out of today (<- was supposed to do like 8 things and did not) #got mildly upset early on and everything just fell apart. whyyyyy im gonna fail my french exam TOMORROW #did not study hhhhhhh but whatever #i was so ready and willing too i had a fucking plan i erased the rgg guys on my whiteboard (rip) to draw a chart and everything #whateverrrrrr it's fine. augh

[hua-fei-hua]

*flopped down on a couch w/a glass bottle of apple juice to make it look like i'm drinking beer*

yeah... yeah i'm fine.... just coming to terms w/the fact that i must use javascript in order to achieve my vision w/the neocities...

#the main reason i haven't just abandoned this particular aspect of the Vision(tm) is bc it would be useful for like. #more than one thing. so it's like. le sigh. #(reading the documentation for tippy tooltips tonight so that i can sleep on it n try to implement it tmrw or something) #why is it always js.... please god spare me at least a Little bit of suffering here i'll never sin again etc etc #speaking of sin i've started speaking more candidly abt my queerness w/the kids at work this week #it's nice to talk to the older kids (as in fifth grade or older) bc even tho like. nine years old is when they start to be tolerable #they lack awareness n life experience. today i told the older kids that i like men but in a gay way #n one of them was like 'i don't get it' n then i reminded her of Gender:tm: n she was like 'ohhhh i get it' #n the two guys also listening were like 'what. i still don't get it.' ONE OF THEM ASKED ME IF I WAS AMAB ACTUALLY LOL #n i was like 'what? that's not important.' but that was really surprising! kids usually read me as female #so it was kind of flattering in a way to be asked 'were you born a boy?' like idk how he's trying to process my gender #but i'm going to flatter myself into thinking the question comes from him like. idk clocking some kind of innate masculinity or w/e idk #花話 #anyway it's Crazy that it took me almost a year to not feel like i'd get instantly fired for telling kids i'm queer #Not going to lie it really felt like i'd never get to this point but it really is kinda just once you start it gets easier #(though to be fair i also wouldn't have told Any of the kids Anything had one of them not started acting like 'gays' was a dirty word) #(n i just Looked at him n said 'you know i'm a queer right?' n he was like 'O_O') #when i worked at homophobic summer camp i do remember daydreaming abt telling my boss i was a 'flaming queer' #i'd have put my feet up on her desk n everything as i made direct eye contact w/her but ofc i never did anything like that. #anyway! i will slep now so that i can get back to work on my projects tmrw morning

[xamaxenta]

Stresses me out alot that i cant physically bind anymore idk what happened in the last few years but any kind of compression hurts and it sucks it was the only thing i could do now i cant even do that

#so i think abt my faves with huge honkers to make myself feel better #it doesnt work really but i guess the fictional solidarity as a concept helps #dysphoria #another day of absolutely hating my body and the government and yknow just being poor in general #idk what i can do #nothing ??? nothing hurts so much tho #i yearn for absolutely fucking nothing i just want to be blank straight edges no discernible gender features #looking at my body makes #me want to throw up die bury the parts i dont like #structurally its all wrong but im already biologically an adult the fuck can i do about it now #being trans is an absolute nightmare for me i hate every second of it honestly because i have nothing #i can do to help it or fix it or progress it #im angry and upset to say its dangerous for me to do anything about it. #and that im not brave enough to go fuck it. im envious of the people who love themselves enough to say fuck it we ball we do this our way #because i love myself and im doing it to be my authentic self #i envy those people a lot #wish that could be me. #but. also wish i could be algae or smth lol #same shit same woes #same as always and no money to afford professional help

[arolesbianism]

I'm still not over h2woah they're so funny to me. Especially the octoling, they rly managed to make the whitest ass character in the entire splatoon universe, I hope they explode <3

#rat rambles #splat posting #also points to the sight. stop agressively gendering characters before we know. thanks. #also I will not lie to you despite my teasing with their reveal I actually do rly like aquasonic it alas is catchy as hell #anyways Im excited to learn more abt them I wanna know what their dymanic is like #also how old they are cause they definitely seem young but I wanna know if I have to bully them extra hard cause theyre like 14 or smth #they definitely both have collector flavor autism to me tho I feel like they collect knockoff furbys or smth #the coral is always making sure theyre all nice and clean and the octoling does most of the skin bathing #since the coral feels too bad skinning them unless its for mechanical maintenance #the octoling makes them all ugly lil tshirts with horrible lil logos on them for their hypothetical future projects #oh and the coral in my minds eye also collects a few other types of old toys #mostly like small figure like ones that they clean up for fun #the octoling is mostly just in the offbrand furby game but loves any toys that use mechanical parts #any toy with a shitty voicebox and a skin of fur over hard parts will win their heart fast #well maybe not fur but yknow what I mean #idk maybe theyd still use fur for toys? at least in squid japan where they have the judds #actually maybe thats what the offbrand furbys they collect are like fluffies or smth that have a fluffy thing going on #anyways I should stop pulling hcs out of nowhere for an eternity and go shower lol

[sanguinaryrot]

gender can be so confusing :/

#me when im always agender but my alignment changes #but it changes so infrequently that i will often begin to feel detached not only from one alignment #but from genderfludity or bigenderism as a whole #ive been in transfaggotry territory for so long that im like. its literally not a thing that im sapphic #and i know that i sometimes shift that direction. i know thats a part of my identity #but im so not over there that its like. i want to give up on that label. but i know im genderfluid. ive done this enough times now #idk... #its like. im so proud and happy being a trans bi agender achillean #that im like. oh yeah.....there are other parts of my identity. :/ #and sometime ill have a shift and be the other way. thats how it goes #but like i said. im so happy where im at that i dread having a shift. i know that once it happens ill be like wooo agender sapphic lets goo #but for now im like. lets pretend that wont happen #im not embarassed or ashamed or anything #i just. am so happy with this gender right here #idk. im always happy with my gender its just that when im x im always like i dont wanna be y #and then im y and im like this is the best thing that ever happened. and vice versa #this is lowkey about me being like should i change my pronoun page to reflect that im not currently identifying as a dyke. lol

[moonsnogger]

His room smells like it always has, and we lie across his bed like we always do. Our bodies look like railings on a train track. Dust collects on the frames of Hayley’s portraits like the sand dunes. Their eyes don’t follow me. But mine follow the shape of his hair when he tucks it out of his face.

The second drawer of his dresser houses a sleepy orphanage of dolls Pippa used to build. I think about the body I inhabit - its spine contorted to hide what I asked it not to do, its bones shaped for some destiny I’ll never fulfill. Can it ever sit there too?

I think I’d let him keep it, should he ever want to try it on. Maybe in exchange, I could have his hands and height, but he wears those well. There are limitations to that sort of pottery.

He shows me hentai he’s read. We laugh. We kiss. I get him hard as a sort of game. Neither of us are particularly invested. But my fingers still know the dips in his stomach. My mouth knows his as a child knows a swing set. My eyes are greener here. I wished his hips were wider.

His brow furrows when I adjust my binder. I’m not sure which of us said it first. But he knows it as I do.

“I pretend you’re a girl when we kiss.”

I feel the corner of his mouth tilt upward against my own.

“Dude,” he begins, and I see a chuckle building at the base of his neck. “I would be a great girlfriend.”

He wouldn’t. His hands would wander toward the waist of another and it would be over fast. But I didn’t even mind the sarcasm. Secrets pass through the space between our chests like water. I poke his side the way he does to me. But he smiles, and so do I.

I wonder how much of me is a woman to him. He probably wonders the same.

“I’ll put you in one of my old dresses,” I reply. “I’ll make you very pretty.”

He winks. The bastard. “I’m looking forward to it.”

He never lies to anyone.

#writing #transmasc #trans #idk man #this is about one of mt best friends #a cis-ish straight-ish guy who is basically just me we are very similar people #and some complicated feelings i have about him that arent that intense but theyre still interesting to write wbout #this particular event happened like last year? or 2021 idk #quite soon after i came out to him as trans masc #weve always had a very weird relationship lol but we love eachother a lot #idk i was very mildly attracted to him at one point #but also very envious of him #ye #hes probably not gonna see this he hasnt been on tumblr in years #queer #anyway #gender #the experience of having what could be called a homosexual experience but #neither of us were perceiving the other as a man LMAO it’s complicated #mlm but like weirdly

[allhappyandgay]

i didn’t like barbie oop

#i know better than to think i actually DISLIKE a movie simply because it didn’t connect w me or feel like it could apply to me tho #so instead I didn’t ENJOY watching the movie #if that’s any better #idk I thought it was rlly annoying at parts #but I get Im just not the target audience #I thought it would be funnier and better in general cuz of the hype #but honestly—and I hate to say this it makes me feel old—I didn’t rlly get it #like I get the message they couldn’t make that more clear with the amount of times they said patriarchy men women etc #but as a trans man I felt like it made huge generalizations every other line #but I understand that it’s somebody else’s experience of oppression #cuz everything’s happening cuz of what the mom is going through and how she’s being affected by it #but jesus #I was trying not to feel offended or cringe lmao reminding myself that I am a man who happened to not be socialized female growing up #and I prob just don’t understand the depth of the specific feelings they brought up #but yeah it did make me feel p dysphoric and uncomfortable the whole time cuz I just felt like it was putting men and women into boxes and #as always acting as if they experience all of the same experiences because of their gender #which they do not #also thought it was weird that stereotypical barbie and ken were the main barbie’s seems contradictory to the message #got yr one disabled barbie one fat barbie one trans barbie and the rest can be normal but the main ones gotta be white #like I almost feel bad saying it cuz of the whole male gaze issue the movie brings up but I only rlly liked the ken parts lol they were #actually funny n the rest was eh #idk movies like that they try to get that message across but still lack somehow #they still allowed barbie to cry and have the audience sympathize with her and give her sad music to cover it #but any time a man cries it’s as per usual a dramatic humorous exaggerated thing yr supposed to laugh at and not a lot of ppl notice it #also felt like any characters that were supposed to represent me were brushed aside like how queer ppl are irl #the daughter was fucking annoying I hope she died #greta gerwig rlly said yeah she can say “reality challenged” without even an IMPLIED disapproval. when she said YOU FASCIST I held my face #in my hands oh god #they’re like we don’t have genitals aka that’s not what defines sex or gender *ends the movie with going to a gynecologist* #anyway love that karim from the OA was in it talk about range jfc

[polaraffect]

the term boymoding changed me fr. it feels so gender. boymoding. i'm shifting into boymode.

#damien.txt #emphasis on boy #lol gonna have a bit of a gender talk in the tags here for a moment #uhhh kinda have a love/hate relationship with the word boy #in the sense that it's actually the ideal gender term for me. boy. i really really like it #man feels Bad and i could take or leave guy #but boy. just really hits y'know? #but also! there are some problems #like first of all the connotations with the infantalization of trans men.... oof #secondly. there's definitely something to unpack w/ it about like. the fear of aging. #bc like. for sure i cannot be referred to as a 'boy' after like. 30. #but also! who knows how i will feel abt it then #maybe i like boy now and then i'll grow into liking guy/man more as i experience life as a guy more #something something experiencing childhood late bc you never experienced it in the correct way something something #uhhh but yeah idk. boy stays hitting tho. could afford to be called boy more. #in every way possible. and yes i mean that lmao #there's always something to unpack w/ my gender tho so. it's just gonna be like that

[theloveinc]

Hey bestie please tag your fics with the gender of the reader. I'm going to go insane if I'm in the middle of a bomb ass fic only to get misgendered one more time 🤠

next time please ask nicer bc this is phrased a bit mean-spirited in my eyes, but I’ll be sure to do so next time! Probably won’t tag it but I will put it up in the little comment I make beforehand…… normally I do try to point gender out on my longer stuff, but I apologize for not realizing the shorter stuff needed it too. Similarly if u ever notice an inconsistency, feel free to point it out so I can change it :)

You’re referring to the icks, tho, right? I realized I think a couple nights ago that I gendered it without realizing and I felt bad… so I sorry!!!❤️‍🩹

#sorry this just feels a lil passive agressive fo me #and it’s 5 30 am LOL so I groggy #but I’m always happy to do so!!! #gender triggers squicks whatever you need u can tell me #I honestly usually try fo write gn so idk what happened #ur included tho! #caitie answers #anon