#if u dont want to see it unfollow or filter

[nyukyujs]

keep your flirting in your dms pls it’s so cringe seeing it all over my tl

idk who u are but unfollow and/or block me hello???? maybe even filter my isiah tag if you'd like.

#!@ messages <3 . #!@ anon <3 . #i understand that u dont like it and i respect that but this is also my blog. #yall need to let ppl live cus like hello. its my rs and my blog respectfully i understand but im posting what i want on my blog. #im not letting anyone else control my acc. #you may unfollow and or block me. or filter tags you for posts you dont wanna see but do what you want lovey. #im sorry if it bothers you<3 have a good day. or feel free to spam asks abt being cringed out. i do not mind.

[red-dyed-sarumane]

theres a bit of nuance to whether or not i filter peoples interests i dont share. like if ur just rbing a lot of say enstars things i dont want to unfollow u for having fun but also i really dont want to see 2d idol boys every second online so im going to filter it. if ur into like say big name video game i cant care less about but have a lot of things to say on x character or the thematic significance of y gameplay mechanic then im probably not going to filter it bc while u will most likely never get me into said thing its entertaining to watch

#i feel like this is the general consensus but yeah #likewise i try to tag media things so people can filter them #like admittedly i only tag series posts so people dont have to see them #which makes it surprising when someone goes thru it on purpose #some of u people have fascinating interests i would never think of filtering btw. keep it up.

[gb-diesellok]

hi, saw ur posts earlier, just thought id lyk i plan to post some art later (as in, later this week) which u might not want 2 see . ik youve got the tag blocked but i thought id lyk in case u wanted to unfollow me (i wont be offended or anything ofcourse)

[you dont have to post this ask i just felt awkward dming]

Oh..I love your art!!!

If you tag it, it is fine and I can filter that tag! I don't dislike or unfollow people for my own traumatic experiences with what to you is a character but to me was a person I knew in my past life (if this is weird ..I know, meeting fictives can be strange). I really appreciate you saying this, I mean it!

I believe fully that people can be acquaintances and even friends regardless of that stuff... you know?

[saetoru]

hey tee, can i ask something? so ik how frustrating it can be when anons send hate, but what’s it like when other blogs do it?? how do you handle it?? & i dont mean when they’re like directly talking to you, but subtweeting in a way…am i explaining this well????? idk but something that i hate is when people will just ask & ask & ask you to write as if you’re a machine & not a human being.

there’s a particular account that never writes (which is completely fine), and they always ask everyone to be patient & etc. but they constantly talk abt how “no one writes like they used to” or just complain abt other people’s writing in general & it’s just so sad to see bc as a creator on this app, they should immediately understand tht people are not fucking machines & struggle with writer’s block & stuff like that. she just gives off big hypocritical vibes. idk if you’re mutuals w/ them or not (hopefully not).

her writing is fine, but as a person… idk. im not gonna say who it is, but they’re pretty known on tumblr. it really bugs me when she says stuff like that and then her followers just back her up like nothing’s wrong. generally speaking, i believe u can say whatever tf u want on your own blog, but some of the stuff she says just really upsets me, especially since im starting to write on tumblr. i have blocked her, but after seeing some the things she’s said, plus the amount of people that agree with her is making me real self conscious abt my work.

so yea, how do u feel when stuff like that happens to you?? im so sry for the long ask, but hopefully you can take the time to respond. it would mean a lot! ❤️

hi bestie !! i will answer under the cut:

i just block lmao. like deadass half of a lot writers on here ??? chances are i’ve blocked them and tbh that might sound bad but if i see a discourse or a “hot take” that i fully disagree with, or rubs me wrong, i block. and that’s bc i think all of us as writers, even if it’s the smallest part of our brains, compare ourselves to other writers. so i block writers that give me bad vibes bc i don’t wanna subconsciously start comparing myself to them in a manner that makes me question myself like you said. if a writer thinks majority of fanfic mostly sucks now, well i guess they’re not reading my sucky content bc they are b l o c k e d !!!

i actually have like two or three very strongly voiced ppl blocked that always say “fanfic isn’t what it used to be” or “all fanfic is the same now” and i think personally it’s a really entitled and annoying thing to say. if someone came into a writer’s inbox and said those exact things on anon, everyone would jump to attack that anon and say “it’s free content be grateful.” i don’t think someone being a writer gives them the right to dictate such strong opinions openly about other peoples fanfic writing styles/methods/choices. even if you provide content, you’re still consuming free content just as everyone else. it’s one thing to politely offer advice as one writer to another with good intentions, but that’s very clearly seen in your tone and how you word the message. if you think fanfic isnt what it used to be, then write what you want to see ??? it’s simple.

so yeah either way i would block that individual—maybe i already have them blocked too who knows LMAO i hope i do. but i wouldn’t let it get to you because tbh in my experience ppl who have the most to say about other writers have the emptiest masterlists 💀 the rest of us are too busy focusing on our writing to care about what other people are posting and whatnot. block them, block their friends that agree, block anyone else that agrees with them. LMAO i’m not saying this to act like “ur always right and everyone else is always wrong” but tbh if u just block all the ppl ur disagree with, then at one point ur dash will just be peaceful

take it from me !! the girlie that is blocked by like 75% of this app !! just remove people you don’t wanna see. filter their urls, unfollow ppl they heavily interact with, curate ur own experience without being a bitch. rant to ur friends, get it off ur chest privately but like don’t subpost them in a rly obvious manner and start more drama bc it’s just always gonna be a mess that way.

and tbh there’s a lot of things that ppl in a fandom community can and should come and discuss in a civil manner without peoples feelings getting hurt like meta and popularly flawed characterization patterns, but i think bitching about the “quality” of fanfic is a rly nasty thing to openly complain about bc it’s just unwarranted and discouraging. a lot of people are on here for fun, not to write new york times best selling novels, so just let them have their fun :/

#♡ — one new notification !! #♡ — unknown number. #long story short if u block immediately you won’t see all that stuff on ur dash often enough to bother u

[siarrawrites]

saw a bit of the first look of the loki show season 2, and honestly, ive just decided to filter any mention of it. like im happy for anyone who’s excited for it but im just not interested in seeing it on my dash, and i dont want to interact with it bc I know I’d be a negative nancy abt it and show fans dont deserve that. especially gif creators rip

anyways sharing in case anyone else feels the same way, to say that its ok to just filter it, block the tags, unfollow people who post abt it a lot, bc this is ur tumblr experience!! if viewing stuff you dont like just makes u sad u dont have to <3

#this has been a 3am siarra post #idk if this makes any sense #but yeah i should have done this with the first season a while ago #its just hard to block bc its. its called loki. #but ive mostly unfollowed series blogs already #and the lil season 2 makes it easier to filter #:) #loki show #loki season 2 #loki

[vampiremansionpoolboy-moved]

hey this might sound weird but UH i have a general issue (my issue) with characters from shows i watch being sexualized/objectified/idk what the right word is but like for example the post you reblogged calling eddie a poor little meow meow in the tags my brain just goes EUAOEKFJD /neg so is there maybe something you would be able to tag stuff like that so i could filter it?

again this is not personal it’s totally cool that you enjoy engaging with content in that way it just makes me really uncomfortable and i don’t want to unfollow you so yeah.

i’m also going to bed now so i won’t be able to respond right away but yeah sorry for the long ask and it’s okay if you aren’t fine with tagging the stuff i’ll just unfollow

oh hey sorry didnt see this !!! its totally fine but idk whwt to tag that as uhhh does that have a tag or do u want me to make u a tag thats like ”sparrow dont look” or whatever ?? its up to u !! but dw im always down to tag stuff for ppl

#also i’ve said some other stuff abt him before but does like calling him a blorbo bother u or just what i said earlier?? just want some #clarification so i can make sure to tag the right stuff !! #toad talks #we just got a letter #sparrow my beloved #tw caps

[okkottsus]

I apologize if I came off as rude. I just don't like seeing the same posts from the same users all the time. It is up to you if you want to tag them but I would rather have filtered those tags instead of unfollowing you.

its cool i get u, but if everyone blacklisted the self reblog tag like u do, it would result in a lot of ppl never actually seeing any creation on here, cause most ppl are active at different times. its important for creators to self reblog so their work is spread around as much as possible, esp these days where we dont get much interaction.

#if u see certain posts all the time from the same users like u say....then u're probs spending too much time on here. #and i apologise as well if this is coming off as rude

[katharine-hepburn]

2, 8, 11, 18

a compelling argument for why your fave would never top or bottom

for most of my faves it’s more like i want to argue that they wouldnt never top or bottom. we have talked privately about this but lets bring the whole dash in. jaskier would not only bottom w geralt. this is an issue of people being very rigid in the m/m dynamics they expect to see. it happened to my buddy will graham and my other buddy crowley. just go to fandoms with characters who are strictly bottoms and need their boyfriends protection/validation if u wanna write that!!

common fandom opinion that everyone is wrong about

i think the gomez master is their first female incarnation. i think people assume that they mustve been a woman when their daughter was born bc the doctor gave them a cameo brooch. like. idk cant a man like brooches. theyre aliens. also crowley wasnt raphael come on.

number of fandom-related words you've filtered

8, 14 if you count bands (cuz i guess u could talk about them in a nonfandom way on here more than a show). i usually just unfollow people if they post too much of something i dont like

okay then since u meant 13 not 18

worst blorboficiation

def gotta be jaskier or crowley. i dont even like calling him jaskier bc that refers to the fucked up version. but i also would rather refer to him as the correct flower. and i think crowleys fan characterization makes talking about gomens at all cringe. sad!

sorry i think these are mostly the same gripes as last time. i could try to dig something up from the vaults. hannibal wouldnt speak lithuanian. ive started thinking camille was right to try to break up magnus and alec. mostly just for laffs and supporting womens wrongs but also lbr magnus can do better. lets make something up rn. he shouldve been w maryse instead.

[hollyhorseheads]

hi hollyhorseheads all 3 of us. i want a sideblog just for them... fair warning this blog will probably not be used for very long but if you stumble across it like wayyy into the future u are welcome to send me an ask or a message or whatever because this is just a sideblog of my main & i still check sideblog notifs cause it bugs me if i dont make the notification symbol go away LOL

main blog if u follow me on here thats where ill follow back from!!! also where i like posts from (duh) and if you wanna see me yap abt / rb stuff ur free 2 follow

art blog if i post art of these guys it will probably be on my art blog (but ill rb it to here)!! i also post art from other stuff i like but be prepared for long hiatuses 💔💔💔 i tend to go through phases of drawing multiple times a day every day to not drawing for months on end LOL

writing / playlists tumblr this one was SUPPOSED to be my blog for posting fandom spotify playlists i made and then also fanfics i wrote but um. well i do just end up rambling on there occasionally. IF UR LEGALLY A MINOR (or just dont wanna see that shit) PLEASE FILTER OUT MY 18+ POSTS ON THERE THANK U!!!! anyway if i write anything / make a playlist for them (or just want to post abt music and them in general) itll be on there but i will of course rb it here :3

yeah ur free to follow any of my blogs idm!!! and ur absolutely free to unfollow at any time too no hard feelings <3 my final warning is that i do fixate on stuff and change interests sometimes (not, like, often, but a few times a year usually) so youre welcome to follow when im into one thing and unfollow when im into another! my point is that ur always getting a mixed bag with me LOL... the only constant is my love of nonbinary yuri headcanons. hashtag proud himejoshi for LIFE!

thats it i think. oh you can call me mona or ramona i think thats my most used name atm... idm about pronouns or masc/fem/neu terms. use whatevers funniest for the bit. ok? awesome :]

#what do i even make my original post tag #uhhhh fuck i dunno #.txt #going for something simple... i can always change it #l

[riaki]

RULES ( BYI / DNI ) hey, it’s nice to see you here ! please take note of these things first… :)

— interacting

to reiterate, i am a minor. i’m sfw + i dont mind who interacts/follows but please keep this in mind to avoid complications !

that being said, i do not write 18+/nsfw. some of my works may have suggestive content but that's it. if you're uncomfortable w/ that but still want to view content block the tag # - rs !

plsplspls communicate ! im dense so if for any reason you have an issue and/or want to break mutual, please send me a dm to let me know beforehand otherwise it just leads to avoidable misunderstanding and confusion on my end

^ this also goes if you're uncomfortable with me interacting w/ you or your content

warning -> block

strictly nsfw/mdni blogs can follow but should have a set tag for nsfw to filter before i can follow back

criticism is welcome but please be polite !!

if we’re not already mutuals please feel free to ask ! dm/inbox is fine

please check out my carrd ! always linked under my name in pinned

i block spam likers (5+ if ur not following)

all the serious stuff outta the way i'm always open to chat !! feel free to send me any thoughts or just ramble… my inbox is always always open to u pretties

— request rules

no nsfw - it'll just be trashed. if ur not sure whether it counts just send n i'll respond appropriately

slightly suggestive reqs are okay- same guideline for above

i do gn / fem reader only

i try to post every weekend but i don't have a schedule when it comes to requests

if i don't want to do your ask for whatever reason i'll respond privately n let you know

please don't spam my inbox! give me time and i'll get to your ask

lovely mooties r always welcome :3

p.s. i might accidentally unfollow u by misclick or tumblr glitches so if i do and we’re moots please let me know! if i haven’t said anything to u it’s not intentional . lest this happen

my (riaki) stuff. don't repost and/or plagiarize !

#i totally knew what a softblock was wdym. shhh #nav. #rules #but is it ever that serious #yes. sometimes #not doing softblocks anymore cus they honestly just don’t seem very smart to me n confuse people :l

[hoeranghae]

You can unfollow, block and/or filter people's urls if you don't want to see their posts but keep following them for whatever reason (just unfollow. It's better in the long run lol. but you could do that). I mean you still see the word you filter for on your dash but not the actual posts so yeah

i just dont wanna unfollow longtime mutuals yk 🥺🥺 it's okay tho, it doesnt really bother me that much to like softblock them or anything like that, but thank u for the suggestions !! 🫂💕

#i was mostly just talking to wind hdgkfj #but thank u tho !! 🫶🏼 #asks #anonymous

[uranium]

hey jack r u gonna view this bc as ur jewish friend its very concerning to ignore

oh shit sorry i didnt see the reblog before and also havent seen the stuff in it?

afaik theres some stuff i cant exactly speak on about xiii, regarding sex work and the n word theres people who have confirmed he's been a sex worker and is mixed with a black dad (and is just really white passing and always uses pale filters) so. as i am neither of those things i feel weird policing his opinions and actions on those.

as for the aot stuff i do know that he has spoken about it being problematic in the past but i definitely find the shit here to be in really poor taste, especially because i dont think hes jewish. im pretty sure most of this stuff in the callout are just really really bad jokes but thats definitely not an excuse for putting that kind of shit out there. and then with the transmisogyny stuff the kurapika post seems very much like another shitty joke but im actually at a loss for why hes straight up associating with actual terfs.

ill be unfollowing him since its making people uncomfortable and i dont really want to be buddies with anyone making those kinds of jokes, regardless of what i think their actual politics may be. i also generally have a habit of blocking people who reblog straight from terfs so gotta follow that policy anyways here too

#sorry for not noticing yr post before im busy with school stuff so my online stuff is really sporadic rn and my notes have been wack lately

[bubblecarr]

there should be like a recap thingy or something for the new people. like u cant expect everyone to be caught up / know about the discourse that they werent around for but it is exhausting to see the same discourse happen over and over again

#idk #ig its kinda related to tn? but its mostly a thought thats been bouncing around my head #idk i get the frustration of people who have been in the fandom for a fat second but also like #i think its unfair to get like. idk. mad at people for having discourse that they personally havent talked about? #like youve had it #but they havent #how can they know this has been resolved if they're new #they're new! they dont know jack shit #obviously doesnt apply to certain things #because its not rooted in like irl oppressive systems but for like fandom stuff #i just think u should let people have discussions and explore stuff #if u dont want to see it unfollow or filter

[dykesymmetry]

literally why would ppl come onto ur blog to argue with u like... there are plenty of things u rb or whatever i disagree with to a point. i am a certified c!tommy enjoyer of course i'm gonna disagree w/ shit. but like. who cares lmao? it's Your blog, you can rb and post what You want, and i can literally like... scroll past. if what aim is posing bothers u That Much then the unfollow button is always there like. c'mon.

also absolutely based takes on the unfollow post or whatever they're literally all just like. true. they aren't even opinions they're just Fact. i literally have the word passerine filtered bc i'm sick of seeing it everywhere.

~nonbinary-enderman

YEAH like. admittedly i havent been tagging posts today bc the goal is to get ppl to unfollow me and tbh all the shit ive been talking about is shit i bitch about regularly so if u dont like it u probably wont be sticking around long lmao but. u can just block tags tjejfhrke stop adding ur shit onto my posts i dont wanna hear it </3

#and in defense of c!Tommy Fans (tm). BY FAR the worst replies ive gotten have been in response to me saying c!techno is fat #so i cant bitch about yall too much #nonbinary-enderman

[alcremie-opiate]

Figure I should probably make a pinned post, so

In general, this blog is a mess. I try to keep an aesthetic but overall it’s just stuff I find fun/random half-asleep thoughts. If I wind up frequently reblogging a kink or content that’s a big no for you, feel free to block me or just unfollow. :)

That said, I do have two tags for filtering things I feel like more people won’t want to see:

- ‘#cnc tag’ - this is what i use for cnc and stuff that to me feels related like kidnapping specifically, anything to do with intoxication, noncon force-feeding and coercive feeding

- ‘#guro tag’ - this is what i use for gore, drawn gore, knives/medical play and hard cannibalism related things. Guro rather than gore as that’s what it tends to be

(I also use the tag ‘#my partner’ to celebrate things that remind me of partners i have <3 they could be from any pov so if something seems weirdly unlike me to post and i tag it that plz know i’m thinking of a partner >.<)

I dont care who follows me (you better be 18+ though or youre gettin blocked) but if it looks like you’re using other people’s content unjustly then all i can say is please refrain

So yep that’s just a guide lol! If there’s anything it seems useful for me to start tagging plz let me know as well ^u^

[lapata-lupt]

the desiblr post, sometimes it feels like the group of girl bloggers that exist on desiblr are a bit overaffectionate with each other, yes?

like, i can't imagine being like that with my irl group of friends and here they are making out on my dash (i had enough of it and just unfollowed some of them)

also sometimes it feels like "mean girls", as in "you can't sit with us"

plus half of them are like 13/14-

hajsgquxba are u gonna make me bitch about them fr? ksksgdja um about the "overaffection", it's cool they feel it for each other I have that with couple friends here as well so i get it, but I wish they didn't advertise it so much on the dash because it gets superficial and lame and yeah I unfollowed a bunch of them too. Honestly, some of them (the older ones like kansha I think and the grilli one) i was like I can get along real well with them and I enjoyed their posting I think, but then some things started getting really annoying so I was like I'll let u have ur fun but I will leave uk which is fair because it is their tumblr they can do whatever.

yeah some of them definately have that protective we are the cool girls dont sit with us vibe, and it is easier to fall for that when u r 13 14 15 cause that age is insecure as fuck, but I mean idk what u want me to say honestly everytime I see them i just get sad because I am like ugh I used to do that use the virtual world to escape and it is going to make their lives shit they need to reconnect with reality but idk how to say that without sounding like a douchebag. Like trust me I love some tumblr friends I got, and I really appreciate them and I love the concept of internet friendships its incredible but thats a topic for another day, and like I always want to make more internet friends and etc. I love how it it is so much easier to get good friendships here than irl. I get why it is easier to connect with people on tumblr it's cause the extra filters are gone and you directly listen to everyone's head and it's easier to recognize we all share more than we would have predicted if we met each other irl cause of the social bubbles. but there's different kinds of support that tumblr freinds can give in life, and the type of support irls can give. so it is important to make sure u don't balance one out against the other. and especially since the pandemic and schools being shut for 2 years, i am scared for life for those desiblrs cause man it's going to get really hard if they didn't keep in touch with irls.

also anon, I know it's hard as fuck, but u should try getting affectionate with ur irls. it pays. it hard as hell tho best of luck.

have water 💗💗 btw I feel like I sound pissy am not I enjoyed this 🌸