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blazeofbrownie · 2 years
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Flames and Cosmics
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Loss changes a person, and I've suffered many losses to last me more than a lifetime. The family dynamic I'd grown up in, no longer existed, following Dad's infidelity, I wasn't surprised to hear of their divorce, with Dad uprooting his life to the South of France and Mom jet-setting away to the Caribbean. I was foolish to believe it would stop there, but then I lost a piece of my heart and soul, causing me to change, for better or worse, only time would tell.
Like a phoenix rising from the ashes, a new life taking birth, is what it felt like as I closed the doors on New York permanently, and took roots in a small quaint town in North Dakota. No one knew who I was and I didn't know anyone either, I found this quite refreshing. The ability to be someone other than the reporter I used to be, someone other than the daughter and wife I was, the ability to be me.
I'd never openly practiced my craft, having learned of who or what I was in my early teens, the magic passed on from my Grandmother, skipping a generation, transferred to me. Mom never knew a thing, I guess Grandma thought it better that way, why discuss something that she would never understand? My Grandmother's passing meant I couldn't learn everything from her, but it's always better late than never.
Books sprawled over the bed, wiccan history, myths, legends and conspiracies, all leading to the truth, I couldn't learn this alone. Modern day witches had an advantage, the internet, so I continued my research online, reading about different covens and factions, were they real though? Or just made up by the world? Surely an actual coven wouldn't have their information readily available for the world to see.
My research continued until I found a spell, one to locate someone, or a place. I followed the steps involved, keeping the printout of the sigil I'd come across, one of two snakes wrapped in flames, resembling the letter S, mirrored on itself. I didn't expect the candles to burn brightly and a trail of black to lead to a specific place. Had I hit the jackpot?
After gathering my things, I followed the directions to the spot on the map, and came across an ancient building, the sigil standing proud on top of the gate, a hand connecting with the steel to push it open but I'd only taken a few steps before someone appeared before me. I took a moment to explain who I was and what I needed but this guy looked at me strangely. Nevertheless, he led me into the building and I could already feel the magic around me, I was definitely in the right place.
It was a few minutes before he made me wait outside a room, emerging moments later and ushering me inside. That's where I met Lincoln Scofield, I was told she was the Legacy of the coven - The Sacred Flame. I introduced myself and she extended her hand to shake mine, but the second our hands connected, I felt a burst of energy through my form, and I could tell she felt it too. With our hands still joined together, a flame appeared around them and I felt a burning sensation on my arm, I pulled away as soon as the fire dispersed, and looked at my arm. The sigil was there, I could see it was on her arm too and I didn't know what this meant but she did. Her hand found my shoulder.
"You're one of us, the coven chooses the members, and the Flame has spoken. You clearly have the gift, you just need guidance and support."
That encounter changed my life, it happened over a month ago and since then, I'd delved more into my magic, learning everything I could, mastering simple spells until I could perform them without incantations. Sacred Flame were key to unlocking my potential, but I couldn't stop there. I needed more.
My research continued, if there was one thing I was good at, it was research, I had it perfected during my years of being a reporter. I was thorough in my exploration, I looked into everything with a fine tooth comb, until I was satisfied that I'd found the right one. There was nothing in the lore and studies to suggest I couldn't learn from another coven.
She called herself Saiph, I'd watched her for a while, when she'd emerged from the shadows in which she dwelled. She appeared like a phoenix, crimson haired and beautiful, I knew I had to approach with caution. It's not like she knew me or could believe if I could be trusted, but once I showed her my magic, I could tell she was intrigued.
"You have a fire within you, if used right, then it can be as powerful as you want, but you'll need to be careful not to get burned along the way. Cosmic Coven can help you find the right path."
That was it though, I wasn't sure I wanted to be on the right path, of course I wanted to hone my magic and skills, learn everything there was to learn, I wanted to be free and simply exist and not feel. Most of all though I wanted power, and I would do anything to get it.
I got this feeling, yeah, you know, where I'm losing all control, cause there's magic in my bones.
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laguera25 · 3 years
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An Open Letter to Richard Z. Kruspe on the Occasion of His 54th Birthday
When I was born, ten weeks prematurely and weighing a scant two-and-a-half pounds, the doctors told my parents not to bother naming me, as I would likely die very quickly, and even if I were to survive, I would likely be blind and helpless and profoundly retarded, unaware of, and unable to engage with, the world around me. Best to leave me be and let nature take its course. A few days of benign neglect, and it would all be over. If they were fortunate, there would be other, better children.
Fortunately for me, my parents gave the double-fingered salute to that bit of medical advice and took me home to do the best they could with very little money and no one to guide them through the strange and terrible country of life with a disabled child. I survived because my very country grandmother chucked out the baby formula that I wasn't digesting and fed me the cow's milk the doctors so solemnly swore would kill me.
There was so many milestones I missed, and of which my parents were deprived. I didn't sit up by myself until I was two. I never walked, never ran, though there are a few faded photos of me gamely pulling myself upright on chairs and the edges of coffee tables, trying to do what my brain said I ought, but my body too weak and miswired too obey. No play with other children, who were stronger and more rambunctious and would have bowled me over in all innocence. And as I grew older, no first dates or driving tests or prom dresses. No thought of an independent life.
What there was was endless rounds of physical and occupational therapy. Hours and hours on a brown vinyl mat, trying to lift my leg or raise my ass off the ground or make my hand write the words in my head. Hours and hours putting change into a slot or trying to tie shoelaces or forcing my hands into uncomfortable plastic splints for a chance at a fraction of more bodily control. While my school friends were out playing in the sun, I was inside beneath fluorescent lights, learning to button my shirt and comb my hair and brush my teeth. To hold a pencil. No time for joy, for peace, for figuring out who I was beyond this collection of aches and pains and deficiencies, just the endless tedium of learning to "be normal" and less of an imposition on the world around me.
And I did go to school. Despite the doctors' dire predictions, I was neither blind nor idiot. I was perfectly aware of the world around me, and smart. So much so that when I was nine, the school ordered an intelligence test. The score was so high that they thought it an error and made me take it again in front of witnesses. When the same score came back the second time, they wanted to move me two years ahead, but my mother, afraid it would both isolate me further and give me airs, refused. So, I stayed, face in the mat and hands in splints, learning advanced history and English, yet forced to put blocks into holes and put colored rings on a stick.
And so I lived this strange paradox for my entire childhood, the genius child that my mother crowed about to all her friends and anyone who would listen, and terrible burden who still had the coordination of a toddler, and who had ruined her dreams of ribbons and curls. When I was nine, she was convinced I could be made "normal"--or closer to it--any road, with a surgery. And so, the surgeons detached the muscles and ligaments in my legs from the bones and stretched them in an effort to relieve the spasticity. The surgeons were doing a kindness to relieve pain; by then, the muscles were so tight that when I was stood on my feet and held up, my feet rolled onto the instep and my knees pointed at each other. It was a measure of dignity.
To my mother, it was supposed to be a miracle, the cure that gave her the daughter she deserved.
I woke up screaming. The muscles and ligaments were unhappy with their new positions and weren't afraid to register their protest about this new state of affairs. They tried to administer morphine, but the levels needed to control the pain were dangerously high for a child, and so I was left to ride it out. I screamed and screamed and screamed. For thirteen hours.
My mother. who was so sure she had found her miracle, was taken into another room by an exhausted surgeon who had done the best he could, and told that at most, I might be able to walk across the room on a walker and take myself to the toilet. She screamed, too, then, at this man who had been on his feet for nine hours, trying to undo the mistakes of the hands that had formed me from the dust of the ground, and who would try to make me laugh every day when he came to check my progress. She called him a liar and a bastard and a son of a bitch, and family lore has it that she would have hit him had my father not intervened.
They tried to tell her. Kindly and patiently and incessantly, but she would not listen. God had told her I would be cured, and dammit, I would be. The day they cut my casts off and sent me home, they told her not to push me too hard, that my muscles needed time to adjust and build endurance. She said she understood, but when we got home, she ordered me to walk uphill to the house. I tried, I truly did, but it wasn't long before I hit muscle fatigue and started to cry. I want to stop, wanted my wheelchair.
And my mother, this woman who had once told the doctors who would have let me die to go fuck themselves, picked up a stick and started to beat me. "Be normal! Be normal!" Screaming and sobbing and flailing with this stick, and me screaming and begging and trying to stay upright. I don't know how long she would've kept going, but eventually, my stepfather appeared, wrested the stick away and threatened to beat her with it, and carried me into the house.
Here I must give my mother a sliver of credit even if I will carry the memory of that beating for the rest of my days. She was right, after a fashion. I did do more than walk across the room with a walker and take myself to the toilet. For a while, I even graduated to forearm crutches and quad canes, which might not sound like much, but when you were expected to do nothing, that's like climbing Everest in your underpants. My wheelchair gathered dust for years, but soon I had to choose between the demands of my education and the demands of my body. The latter simply lacked the energy to fuel both my mind and my muscles to the best of my their abilities, and since school was the only area of life in which I had ever excelled, there was no choice at all. Back into the chair I went. By the time I graduated high school, I could no longer use crutches, and by my third year at uni, even the walker was too much. These days, I cannot move myself without help, and arthritis has set in. I made my choice, and now I pay its price.
I tell you all of this to illustrate that whatever the fool doctors might have said as they clucked and tutted over my incubator, I was keenly aware of the world. Of everything I was missing while my mother insisted I just bootstrap myself out of my disability and be normal. Of her seething resentment of all that I was not. Of her wish that I was someone else.
There were two bands that got me through, kept me sane and kept me moving when all I wanted to do was just lie down and not get up. The first was Metallica, whom I discovered at thirteen, and who told me it was all right to be angry about my circumstances, to kick and scream and argue with God and call him a rotten bastard--as long as I kept living, kept getting up in the morning and trying to inch down the road. I didn't have to swallow my anger for fear of upsetting God and hurting my mother's chances of getting into heaven(my mother believes that I am a test she must pass in order to get into heaven; therefore, my suffering is irrelevant and should never be questioned, lest it anger Him. Don't ask; I don't get it.)
If Metallica was the band that gave me permission to be angry as long as I kept trying, it was Rammstein that told me it was okay to want more from life than an endless regimen of therapy and prayer and gratitude to a God that had, or so it seemed to me, sent me into the world with a ramshackle body and precious little armor or defense against the assholery of my fellow human beings and yet still expected me to praise His holy name allelu. To want joy and friends and human contact. To have a libido and ogle whatever flipped my switches. To, in short, be human, and more than just a symbol of all my mother's broken hopes.
I discovered the band through a book, believe it not. I found a copy of Tom Reynolds' <i>Touch Me, I'm Sick</i> in a Barnes and Noble I had gone into to browse and hide from a cataclysmic thunderstorm, and in it, he began to talk about a band called Rammstein and a song called "Heirate Mich." The more I read, the more gloriously improbable it all seemed, and the harder I laughed. By the time I got to the line, "As the music pounds like a collapsing factory...", there were tears streaming down my face, and I was having trouble breathing. The saleslady must've worried I was having a stroke.
And so it was that I found the key to everything that would come after. From the book to my creaking dial-up Internet(don't laugh, it was what I could afford as a broke-ass cripple on the government dole) to the CD shop, where I blew my food budget on Rammstein CDs and lived on Hamburger Helper for weeks. This is a terrible dietary choice, by the way, but at least I had Rammstein music in my ears all day, every day. A few weeks later, I put another dent in my food budget buying all the DVDs. Ah, the vigor and stupidity of youth. If I tried that foolery now, I'd be semiconscious on the floor in a day and a half. Back then, I had a more stalwart constitution.
I knew by the second song I heard that Rammstein was going to be special to me. My German, which consisted of a year of study in high school and a disastrous two years in college, was pretty poor, but thanks to snooping around Internet forums and squinting at grainy videos, I knew much of your catalogue dealt with taboo subjects. I didn't care. For all its dark subject matter, the music made me want to dance. It made me feel something other than apathy and a persistent wish for this whole mess to be over and my soul to be recycled into a body that didn't make me want to scream until I was too tired to do anything but sleep.
And I did dance. Constantly. Seldom in public because dancing in a wheelchair often looks like the Devil is trying to stick his finger up your ass, but often at home, just shimmying away until the chair developed some alarming creaks and the bolts needed adjustment. Rammstein made me happy. It made me curious. It made me want to see just how much was out there.
And, if I am honest, it made me want to see those silver MC Hammer pants for myself. The combination of those pants and the diaper rash cream in your hair was a striking look for you, if I may say so, though perhaps not so grand as the black spikes and the lion pants you wore with such swaggering panache on the Reise, Reise tour. Alas, this was not to be, as I suppose you had wearied of slathering ass cream for infants in your hair. I can't blame you, though I suppose it must've been a sad day, indeed, for the ointment companies. Still, those Hammer pants and their Reynolds Wrap, space-age splendor will always hold a special place in my heart.
Stymied in my hope to witness for myself the wonders of those Hammer pants--and those lion pants as well, as it turned out, oh, unhappy hour, long may they reign in the storage closet--I nonetheless wanted to see a Rammstein show. Not much chance of that, the morose American fans assured me. The band hadn't come here since they foolishly took the American commitment to freedom of expression at face value and Till and Flake landed in the Puritan pokey for playing Loose the Dachshund into the Badger Burrow in front of delighted fans. Besides, the band's management had scant interest in repeating that little experiment.
Even so, I held out hope. I hung out on message boards and kept me ear to the ground. You can imagine my delight when the MSG show was announced. I wasn't so foolish as to think I could attend, mind you; New York might as well have been the moon for someone who cannot safely fly, but it was fun to indulge in a bit of wistful what-if? What if I could find a way to get there that wouldn't give me a lethal clot? What if I could score tickets? What if I could afford a hotel in Manhattan where the rats and roaches wouldn't kill me in my sleep or carry me off to be devoured in the sewer system? These were all very big ifs for someone who lived in the boonies and was only supposed to spend money on medical expenses and basic bills. Besides, MSG was going to sell out before I could gimp my way to the phone.
Knowing all of this, I took to my blog to whine and moan and feel sorry for myself. It wasn't fair, I whinged to the ether. I had wanted to see Rammstein for so long, but it just wasn't possible. It was too expensive and too far and too haaaaard. And woe is me.
And then...
And then...
And then a bossy German lady dropped a punk alarm in my inbox.
I don't remember now how or why she came to my blog. Maybe she was drawn by an unconventional perspective on life and fandom and moving through the world, or maybe she just wanted to snortle at my friend and I's discussions of your sartorial splendor and the ridiculous dramas going on in the Rammstein fandom at the time. Either way, she'd been been watching my sulking and stropping for a few days, until she'd reached her limit and this woman, who had never said an unkind word to me in years, called me a coward. Just straight up said that I could either find my spine, stop pissing and moaning, and try my hardest to see Rammstein in New York, or I could keep being a coward and making excuses. But make my choice and stop sniveling because she was tired of hearing about it.
At first, I was stunned. Of all the things I had ever been called, a coward was not one of them. Then I was mad. How DARE she call me a coward when she had no idea how much pain I was in most of the time or how difficult it was to move around a world that had never been designed for me and been but grudgingly retrofitted by handymen who thought that grab bars fixed everything!
So I stewed and pouted for a few hours, but the longer I thought about it, the more I realized she was right. I hadn't tried very hard to research my options. I hadn't checked hotels or called the venue or gotten my finances in order. I had claimed Rammstein was so important and meaningful to me, but I hadn't shown it. I had assumed defeat before I'd even started the charge up the the hill and wallowed in self-pity. Sure, maybe I was right and I wouldn't be able to go, but I'd never know if I didn't square up and try.
Before I proceed, a word about the tried-and-true deutscher Fuss zum Arsch(not another aside in a letter full of them, I hear you cry as your eyes begin to glaze. I know, Mr. Kruspe, believe me, but if you speak to the world through your guitar strings, I speak through my keystrokes, and so I beg your patience. We're almost there.). If a German you have gotten to know puts their foot up your ass and calls you on your bullshit, they are not doing it to be a prick, and it's not done with the intent to create hard feelings or demolish your self-esteem. It's harsh, man, is it harsh when you're used to American doublespeak and soft-pedaling, but they're doing it because they see something in you and are trying to stop you from making a dumbass or a jackwagon of yourself. They're doing it because they want to keep being your friend.
So.
Punk alarm duly dropped and head dislodged from ass, I started making phone calls. To the banks do get my money in order. To bean counters to make sure I would have access to it. To Amtrak to discuss their booking options. I went to disability websites and forums to discuss precautions to take in case my health or my equipment gave out on the road. The best hospital for the broke-ass should I get mown down by a taxi while trying to cross the road. Emergency numbers and insurance forms and blah blah blah. A raft of bureaucracy and safeguards and double-checking, all for a concert I might not get tickets for.
But I did, because for once, my disability worked in my favor. MSG sold out in twenty-five minutes, but that venue, bless its heart, doesn't put disabled seating up for general sale. You have to call the disabled patron assistance line, and they don't release unsold disabled seats for general sale until three days before a show. So I called the magic line, and a very amiable fellow talked me through the process. Two weeks later, the tickets were in my mailbox.
I am not ashamed to tell you that when I opened the envelope and held the tickets in my hand, I screamed like a debutante that sat on an upturned spoon. It was really happening.
And yes, my German friend gave me a giant "I told you so!" But she was right, and she'd earned it. Besides, she was happy for me, too.
So I did it. I got on a train(where I soon learned that accessible or not, I couldn't use the toilet because the train swayed too much for me to keep my balance), and I went without eating, drinking, or urinating for twenty-two hours(I do not recommend this to anyone, by the by. It hurt, and it was dangerous)to get to New York. And when I got there, I stood in Penn Station and simply stared because I was somewhere I never thought I'd be. It was simultaneously everything I thought it would be and nothing like I'd expected.
There were still obstacles, of course. There always are when you have two hands and four wheels and see the world through asses and elbows. Clutching my luggage while my trusty and ever-present companion pushed me over the cracked sidewalk with one hand and dragged the rest of the luggage behind him. Finding out that the "accessible" hotel room was, in fact, not all that accessible and wrenching my knee every time I used the toilet. Being accosted by my first sidewalk screamer within ten minutes of being in the city. Meeting my first hustler.
Freezing my ass off outside the venue for four hours before the show and called not fan enough by other fans because I didn't do it for fourteen, because hey, if you were really a fan, you'd risk pneumonia to see the show, even if it would kill you. Being shunted and shuffled to four different doors by event staff because no one could agree on where the disabled fans were supposed to enter. Being let into the building to warm up by an MSG employee, only to be booted out by event staff three minutes later. Whee! Aren't the logistics of being disabled fun?
But Mr. Kruspe, it was all worth it. I've never felt an energy like that before. Whatever snitty elitism some of the fans might have been nursing outside, inside MSG, we were all fans, all people who had waited and wished for this for a very long time. The primal roar from the crowd when the band began to break through the wall raised the hairs on my nape, and you'd better believe that I joined them with all of my energy.
From the first note, I forgot my pain. It was still there, mind, waiting for me, black-toothed and patient as the grave, but I was beyond it, in a state of suspended euphoria. No pain, just joy. I watched everything as best I could despite my near-sightedmess and my rather distant seat. I soaked it all in--the music and the unapologetic bombast, and the pageantry of the fire. It was all so starkly, darkly beautiful, and according to my companion, who has all the sentimentality of pavement, when he looked over at me during "Ich Will", I was "radiant." He, who had known me for thirteen years by then, said he'd never seen me like that before, and that he would never forget it.
It was not without price. These things never are. There was another train journey and another twenty-two hours without access to a toilet, and by the time I got home, I was so strung out from lack of food, water, and sleep(because trufax, it is hard to sleep when your bladder is trying to pop out of your skin from the pressure)that I cried like a toddler on the drive home. And then I went home, peed forever, drank, ate, and collapsed for seventeen hours.
But it was worth it. It was so worth it that on the band's next go-round, I took a cross-country roadtrip to Vegas, during which I peed much more often, thank God, but I also fought ants and roaches in a hotel room in Texas and stayed in a room so gross I slept in my clothes and threw them out when I got home. But it, too, was worth it, just as it was worth it to get in the car and drive to Florida and Atlanta on the next tour after that.
I told you ALL of these things, Mr. Kruspe, to tell you this. I saw your interview in that documentary about depression in 2010. I heard you say you felt worthless unless you were creating.
I don't know what you're worth to anyone else, but to me, you are priceless, and always will be. Without you, there would be no Rammstein, and for me, there would have been no reason to try, to spread my wings and take a run at that hill. Without you, I might have given up, might have let my mother win, and maybe now, I'd be sitting in some care home, stewing in my own yellowing stink and getting a bath once a week and a monthly outing and rotting from the inside out. Without you, I might never have taken the chance, never pushed myself.
But you were, and are, and because of that, I did. Because of that, I saw New York, and moved, however briefly, among that anonymous throng. Because of that, I met the sidewalk doomsayer and the exasperated hustler. Because of that, I tried New York Pizza(and yes, I saw a rat, but he minded his business, and I minded mine). Because of you, I heard a Cajun patois in Louisiana and watched out the window of the car as the Texas plains unwound around us. Because of you, I saw the night sky on the outskirts of Vegas and was escorted back to the Strip after the show by two Native dudes who walked far out of their way and called me little sister. These are gifts I got from you because you were, and are, and they have sustained me ever since. They sustain me now that my world has been reduced to the four walls of my house as I ride out the pandemic in a country that believes people like me are an acceptable sacrifice.
I know this won't change things for you, won't quiet that awful voice in your head. Depression doesn't work like that, and even if it did, I am just a stranger you will never meet. But maybe it will give you something to hang on to, something to think about on the bad days. Christ knows you kept my head above the water when all I wanted to do was let it go under.
Happy Birthday, Mr. Kruspe. May it bring you joy and all that you need.
Guera
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Ayo if it’s not too much trouble I’d love a mysme matchup! I haven’t done one of these in long while so hopefully I do okay lmao.
I use the labels queer and trans, pronouns are he/they. I tend to present masculine but occasionally do myself up, full camp. My everyday style ranges from eboy (sigh) to Hawaiian shirts to academia.
I’m introverted (lower social battery) but can handle myself in social situations, and am confident in more formal settings. Among friends I enjoy discussing deeper subjects and occasionally debating, however mostly joke around. I have a strange sense of humor- riddled with references, internet mannerisms, and a tendency to start bits on the spot. I can be sensitive to someone’s perception of me if I value their opinion, but that constitutes a very small number of people. Usually I don’t give a shit. I’ve dealt with mental issues such as depression (which can mute my emotions sometimes), and had family problems growing up. I’m pretty good at giving advice. Catch me on different days and I’ll be loud and eager to joke, a bit combative, or sometimes just tired.
I really enjoy music and theater- I sing, play piano, dance and act. I’m very academic and take rigorous courses (rip me), enjoying math and chemistry. Although I tend to excel, I also tend to overwork myself a bit aha. I care a lot about politics, environmental and social issues. In my free time I’m a huge nerd, enjoying video games, anime, and fanfiction. I like cities and other places full of life, but also the quiet safety of my home, where I keep my cat whom I love a lot <3
I’m usually attracted to people who excite me, whether it be intellectually, through humor, etc. If there’s no challenge it’s not as fun! That said I also need someone I can just exist with, no judgement. I don’t tolerate poor communication and tackle issues when they come up. I like to give gifts and also just have fun with my partner :) I can be a bit awkward with casual affection due to personal history, however I tend to adapt to whatever someone needs/wants.
Wow, hopefully that wasn’t too tedious. Tysm for all your writing, I love seeing people still interested in mysme. Hope you’re well dude :)
I match you with...
Jumin!
You're able to understand yourself on a very deep level. That thing only comes with a very methodical reflection and a very deep dive into one's own psyche. Although, it can definitely be difficult when you are aware of things that you struggle with but can't quite fix right away. For that reason, you're looking for a partner that can keep up with your energy and not expect you to be someone that you're not. You want someone to understand you for who you are and not the person that you project yourself to be. You need someone that can keep you stimulated but not push your buttons in the wrong way.
That's why your guy is someone like Jumin. He, too, has an understanding of the world around him and knows what is too much for him and what it's not enough for him. He likes to get into discussions with people and he likes to see how far it can take him. That's why when the two of you get involved in a subject, you could go on for hours until someone points out that neither one of you has stopped to take a breath. It's passionate and it's a little bit overwhelming all at once but it's a challenge and it's a game that you like to play. You can push buttons but it's not in the wrong way. This sort of communication makes for a healthy relationship. You can be honest with him and he can be honest with you.
You both have this methodical approach to life and it just kind of works. He challenges you to be someone that dares to do things without second-guessing yourself. And you push him to be a better man everyday. That's why it works so well.
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merrybrides · 6 years
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14 Pieces of Actual, No-Silly Wedding Planning Advice
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There's a lot of wedding advice floating around the Internet. Problem is, a lot of it is useless fluff dreamed up by a) relatively well-heeled editors contractually obligated to spend their days inventing absurd nonsense to fill pages surrounded by advertisements b) people who've never planned a wedding/mistakenly think their very specific experience can be extrapolated. Or both!
Sure, those mason jars wrapped in polka-dotted ribbon are a cute idea on Pinterest, but it's a good way to wind up sobbing in the middle of your local Michael's two weeks before the big day. And all that money-saving advice? Yeah, the buffet's going to save you, but not as much as you may think.
Maybe you're planning to tie the knot at a 50-person backyard barbecue. Or maybe you're hosting 350 friends, family and business associates to some Gilded Age castle. Whatever. Here are a few pieces of real-talk wedding advice that you can actually use.
1. Maybe pay someone to do that. Are you supremely artistic and experienced in the ways of crafting? Is your great aunt Martha Stewart? Unless the answer to one of these questions is yes, think very carefully about any D.I.Y. projects. Examine your own abilities with a critical eye. For instance, I once tried to complete a "Cosmos manicure" and ended up looking like I'd let a four-year-old paint my nails. Face the music: Despite what Pinterest would have you believe, some of us are just not talented at some things. And your wedding is probably not the time to learn that lesson. It'll only be more expensive when you have to replace everything at the last minute.
2. Not everyone gets a date, and that's fine. Look, lots of us wanted everyone we've ever known and loved at the ceremony. But that's just not feasible unless your daddy is a robber baron. You'll want to invite as many significant others as possible, of course, and if someone is flying from Shanghai to Cleveland for your reception, you'd better allow them a date. But at some point, it's time to hitch the caboose to the gravy train, and once you do, stick 100 percent to your guns. Consider preparing an email in advance for anyone who truly does not understand that money doesn't grow on trees.
3. You are not the Lone Ranger. Perhaps you want to be the Stanley Kubrick of weddings, strictly controlling every single aspect of the entire production. But that way lies The Shining, my friend. When someone graciously offers to help, come up with some very specific detail they're well-equipped to handle. (If you've got it covered or this person is an absolute incompetent, politely decline, but I urge you to consider the offer, even if it's as simple as logging RSVPs.)
Also, on a more specific note, unless you're wearing that $100 H&M dress, seriously consider having more than one bridesmaid. If I'd known how much work getting my wedding garments and dress on was going to be, I'd have a bridal party of eight or nine really strapping gals.
4. Write thank-you notes as gifts come in. Do not get behind, unless you want to spend your honeymoon crafting odes to the lovely Waterford from Aunt Mildred.
5. Be ready to show some backbone. I'm willing to bet that most readers of this blog are very, very committed to not being a power-drunk nightmare-person Bridezilla during their planning process—and that's great! Never, ever be nasty. But know that it's perfectly okay to say no, no thanks, not gonna to happen when your florist tries to talk you into expensive hot-pink table overlays. (You'll also need to be prepared to wield that NOPE like a broadsword if you've laid down a law like no kids or no cellphones, by the way.) Let's practice together!  SORRY NO!!!!!
And once you put down a deposit on something, don't feel guilty about making sure that vendor gets her job done. If you're paying for a wedding planner, don't let her drop the ball. If your sample floral arrangements are the wrong color, speak up.
Now, a corollary: Pick your battles and save your emotional energy for the big stuff. Maybe you hate your cousin's formal kilt, or your bridesmaid's spray tan, or the best man's habit of wearing lime-green socks with dress shoes. For God's sake, just let it ride. Save your fury in case the limo never shows.
6. All you need is Google Docs. I've got a binder, a website, several notebooks and pieces of wedding-related paper lying all over my house. But the only tool I really needed to get through this without rending my garments and running screaming into the night was Google Docs. Sure, maybe your dad still hasn't gotten the hang of the Internet. But that's what the export to PDF function is for!
7. If you must give favors, give food. Don't give your guests something they're just going to throw away. No one in the history of party planning has ever gone wrong with a light snack. Definitely do not D.I.Y. anything. (See above.)
8. Limit your options. Planning my wedding I couldn't have any old thing that flitted into my brain, because I am a graphic designer and paid for my own wedding. 
A lot of things were simply out of budget. But honestly? THANK GOD. There are too damn many options out there, and limitations are your friend. The name of the game in wedding planning is eliminating as many possibilities as fast as possible. If you're pretty sure you don't want to get married in a barn, put your blinders on and stop looking at barns.
And for the love of God, do not let yourself get bogged down in any single decision. I spent weeks scouring New York City for wedding shoes and a hair comb. My mistake was ever considering more than five options in the first place.
9. Ask (politely!) for discounts. Hey, it can't hurt.
10. Treat thy bridesmaids as thou would like to be treated. I'm not talking no diet commands and no haircut lectures. That's table stakes. I mean don't pick a bridesmaid dress that would look good on you but not them. There are more body types than stars in the sky; maybe give them a choice of five dresses and let each pick her fave. It's not the end of the world if they don't match. Don't ask them to spend a fortune on something they'll never wear again, and give them some sort of thank you at the end.
11. Stop trying to be so damn unique. Look, weddings are not original. They are a template, a form letter drawn up hundreds of years before we were born. No matter how much money you throw at the planning process, your wedding is not going to be one of a kind. You don't need a special, hand-crafted symbol of your cosmic love on every escort card. Chill.
12. There is no perfect dress. You're probably not a paragon, and you're not marrying one, either. We live in the world of reality, not Platonic ideals. So do yourself a favor and pick a gown that's beautiful and within budget. Don't let the dress shopping drag on until the entire experience curdles.
13. Ask yourself: Who actually cares? Agonizing over whether to have a champagne toast, or pay for chiavari chairs, or (god forbid) shell out for peonies? Here's a question you should seriously ask yourself: Are my guests really going to care? Because this is technically a celebration of you, but REALLY it's an enormous party that you're throwing for your friends and family. This is not your fifth birthday party at McDonalds. You are hosting these people that you love. Every decision should come down to whether the guests like it, appreciate it, or notice it at all.
Remind yourself (as others have reminded me) that people care about the dancing, the food and whether a good time was had by all. They don't care about how much painstaking effort you put into the hand-aged programs and the very firm email you wrote to get the perfect amount of greenery in the centerpieces. You're better off focusing on the broad strokes that best facilitate the party than bothering overmuch with small details.
14. Have fun. Unless you are Olivia Pope and thrive on details and chaos, it's easy to get overwhelmed. (Yes, even if your plan is simply to order 25 pizzas and surprise all your buds at a bar, you still have to write the ceremony, write up the invites, etc., etc.) But this is fun! It's a happy occasion! Go forth and drink until you can't feel your face! And remember, as long as you're married at the end of the night, it was a success.
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WTF, Sara Bareilles!!! WTF
I just had this “ugh, stop me” afternoon. That afternoon where you do nothing, so you just watch videos and browse the internet... But then, there’s someone who ruined your afternoon. When all along you thought that he already understood and is already on the same page as you. But then, you get this side comments ending in “SO THIS IS HOW IT ENDS?” 
Hearing that from him... I want to fight back, say “I’VE BEEN TELLING YOU ALL THIS TIME YOU’RE NOT EVEN LISTENING TO ME.. OH WAIT, HAVE YOU ASKED ME ALREADY WHAT DO I WANT OR HOW AM I DOING?” But I just can’t say this... I don’t know how to, even I make up situations in my head just to tell them everything that’s been wanting to burst out from me for so long. 
Most of the time, I am not the kind of person where when I was just a little bit hurt, I would tell you right away. I think I’m like a plastic bag... When you put too many things inside, I would just burst out. There’s so many issues inside me that I would want to speak out to the persons involved. I want to tell them about how anxious I was couple of weeks ago just because I couldn’t get my mind off of what I am going through that time... Well, I am still in “that” situation right now, but I’m beginning to accept things and instead, divert my energy into something that would make me feel productive or useful. Ooh, wait, maybe you’re wondering WHAT is the situation that I was/am in? 
You ever felt like you’re almost hopeless or faithless? Like when you thought you already had a goal, and would want to achieve that goal but then, bummer, IT DID NOT HAPPEN or maybe IT HAS NOT HAPPENED. So I failed on my Electronics Engineer Licensure Examination. I decided, oh well, I’ll give it a shot again this April. But my father wouldn’t want to send me again to a Review Center to continue my review... Honestly, I couldn’t get his wisdom at first, but as weeks pass, I learned to accept that I’ll just be self-reviewing (Thank God, my boyfriend helped me as he got into a review center.) Until January happened. My father came back here in the Philippines after working abroad. To sum it all up, I got distracted because of the so-many-happenings in our house. We got our van and truck repaired and running, so that meant having strangers into our house when it’s just my father and I who’s in the house. I don’t like that. I want privacy. And so I battled with myself, saying “I want to have my own place already, I want silence... I don’t want strangers in my house.” Keeping my focus when studying has been VERY HARD for me. Oo, naka-bold and capslock yan para intense! But I want to study, so I decided to adapt to my environment with all those chores that’s expected of me to do.
After battling for how many days, with wanting to sleep even having difficulty in breathing, (which I heard was one of the symptoms for anxiety) I gave up. I let it all go... I surrendered it to God. I can’t hold it off anymore. Since I realized that it already has affected my relationship with my parents by not talking to them that much, I let it go. And by doing that, I felt free. 
I’m sorry, by the way, about how mean you may think the title is... But we’re getting to the reason behind the title. 
As I was saying, I just had this “afternoon”. So I did the dishes and bathed with a background music to help me calm my nerves. Haha. While combing my hair, Sara Bareilles’ song Brave randomly came up.
You can be amazing  -humming to the 1st parts of the song.. You can turn a phrase into a weapon or a drug You can be the outcast Or be the backlash of somebody's lack of love Or you can start speaking up  -sang this part Nothing's gonna hurt you the way that words do  -listening to the lyrics... And they settle 'neath your skin  -listening..  Kept on the inside and no sunlight Sometimes a shadow wins But I wonder what would happen if you  -still listening.. 
Say what you wanna say  -sang this part  And let the words fall out Honestly I wanna see you be brave -shouted EVERY PART OF THE LYRICS HAVING THESE WORDS
With what you want to say And let the words fall out Honestly I wanna see you be brave
I just wanna see you I just wanna see you I just wanna see you I wanna see you be brave
I just wanna see you I just wanna see you I just wanna see you I wanna see you be brave
Everybody's been there, everybody's been stared down  -listening again..  By the enemy Fallen for the fear and done some disappearing Bow down to the mighty Don't run, stop holding your tongue  -STOP HOLDING MY TONGUE? Maybe there's a way out of the cage where you live  -holding back tears.. Maybe one of these days you can let the light in Show me how big your brave is
Say what you wanna say And let the words fall out Honestly I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say And let the words fall out  -STILL HOLDING BACK MY TEARS Honestly I wanna see you be brave
Innocence, your history of silence Won't do you any good  -YAS! RIGHT, SARA GURL! Did you think it would? Let your words be anything but empty Why don't you tell them the truth?  -but I don’t have the courage.. :( *was a little bit teary-eyed*
Say what you wanna say And let the words fall out Honestly I wanna see you be brave
With what you want to say And let the words fall out Honestly I wanna see you be brave
I just wanna see you I just wanna see you   I just wanna see you I wanna see you be brave
I just wanna see you I just wanna see you I just wanna see you See you be brave
I just wanna see you I just wanna see you  -starts to realize like how brave other people are.. I just wanna see you  -good thing they’re good at expressing their feelings
I just wanna see you I just wanna see you I just wanna see you
Read more:
Sara Bareilles - Brave Lyrics | MetroLyrics
So, yeah. WTF, SARA BAREILLES, YOUR WORDS ARE ON POINT AND ARE HURTING MY FEELINGS!!! But I want to sincerely thank you for this song though. It was just a song to me, I never imagined it would be THE SONG that would totally put to words what I should be doing. Thank God for these songs... 
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