#if you're not a lesbian... dont do it

[blueskittlesart]

Feel free to ignore this but as someone who also goes to art school, I find it really interesting how other art schools also have a “don’t date your peers” sort of faux pa. Like so many people I know (including me) refuse to date anyone else who goes to my college 😭

I wonder why that is tbh, small school thing maybe?

being so serious i didn't have anything against dating other art school peers when i first came here and i think most freshmen dont but once you have one or two art school relationships under your belt you realize why all the upperclassmen avoid dating each other like the plague

#it sounds so good on the surface. like when am i ever going to find this many lesbians concentrated into one place at the same time #but unfortunately in order to go to art school you need to be 1. in your 20s and 2. have something wrong with you #also especially as you get into years 3-4 i think maintaining a relationship just becomes SO hard. bc we're all in the trenches #AND ALSO. from experience. this school is SO small that you CANNOT avoid your exes. if it ends badly fuck you you have 4 classes with her #anyway obviously this doesnt stop me from looking for. things. on tinder. i just dont swipe right on anyone i recognize from class #and it ALSO does not stop you from WANTING to date people in your classes. this tinder girl is nowhere near my first art school crush i jus #do not act on them anymore <3 lmfao #that being said tinder girl if youre reading this i didnt mean any of it baby you're so pretty and im so stable please dm me

[mintharasthrone]

i wish people would stop calling your 20s the best years of your life

#that is not how it's gone for me....even for a year #it's weird to tell people like life will never be as good as it is now rarely #and so many women are filled with dread already in their 20s because of men saying our life is over and we've hit the wall #there's so much awful shit going on like how... #i also hate when people say that about AGRS like yes don't let predatory men take your youth but we dont have to say it will be the best #but they are important years where you grow and learn a lot and men will want to control mold and manipulate you #you get to develop yourself #with more autonomy now that you're not a teenager but im just saddened when i hear it. for lesbians it's even worse like look at the world #and when you're disabled or don't have basic needs...dont have privileges like what do you do... #idk it's for more people privileged or lucky people

[allgremlinart]

and I KNOWWWW book 3 is usually everybody's favorite Korra season by, like, a lot but ngl... its the first season to introduce Avatar characters that I just straight up didnt like..

#sorry Opal and Kai. and the other forgettable Beifongs. I uhm. dont HATE you. but you're just.... there. #tlok #this isnt even haterism ok im still tlok's biggest dickrider. that hasn't changed. #but man. Jinora you can do better. I know this. you would make such a wonderful lesbian tween.. #you know what .. maybe if Kai is a trans girl... that would turn my opinion around 100%... #it would A) make the smarminess bearable B) make the undercut hot and C) make like.. a fuller character arc.. doesnt have #to be on the run anymore... surrounded by people who care... can finally spend time discovering herself.. #I cant start making trans hc about characters I dont even like. how'd we get here.

[bidokja]

hey just so you all know, it is possible to acknowledge how often hsy is sidelined in fandom because of joongdok without being a...lesbophobe? how did you even come to this conclusion in a yaoi related poll. quit that shit. this has been a psa <3

#some of yall are toeing the lineee is2g #not every sangsoo fic/art is because of joongdok in fact i would say the Vast Majority arent from what ive seen #it does exist dgmw but it is extremely rare that i see any joongdok content that's like 'hsy is a lesbian btw'-- #--and then leaves her out of the story #like. you are cherrypicking if you're trying to posit that as a trend lmao #as far as hsy-sidelined-by-joongdok content goes #usually they just. leave her out of the story they dont bother to use her being a lesbian as a cover for it #some of yall are acting like anyone with a lesbian hsy hc is nefarious and i need you to step back and think about why thats kinda bonkers #ky speaks #do i dare leave this one rebloggable...oh well que sera sera #something something why are we pitting two bad bitches against each other lesbian hsy and bi hsy are both great

[the-eclectic-wonderer]

@\hecatesbroom (not tagging so I don't annoy you lmao) has been teaching me how to make gifs, and I'm happy to report I've been using this power for the greater good (to make gifs of beautiful women)

Bonus under the cut:

Three little Elizabeths because I couldn't resist her charm 💙

#these are not very well made lmao but i dont really care all that much. im having a great time #actually ngl im having the time of my life #nothing better than staring at beautiful women for hours <3 #im noticing now i've only picked gifs in which Dorothy is not smiling. criminal on my part #but in my defence i've been captivated by her hands #that gif where she crosses her arms... i would like her to... #no... i shan't say... #rose is *so pretty*. so pretty!! good heavens!! #(as is elizabeth lmao betty white really was that girl) #literally incredible how she manages to make confusion look so beautiful she's magnificent #and blanche. oh god. where do i even start. #her smile is. agh. how do i even tell you all i am literally in love with her #look at her in the top left and tell me you're not DESTROYED like #she makes an inappropriate joke. waits to see rose's reaction. and then brightens up in the cutest laugh in the world #i would literally unironically do anything for her #(to say nothing of bottom center. ooohhh that nightgown. the poise. i am but a wee lesbian and she's everything) #ok im done rambling in the tags. thank you alys for giving me this power i shall not misuse it #the golden girls

[juniperberrypipebomb]

i think me having access to photoshop shouldn't be allowed

Everything that could go wrong with this did go wrong

#196 #ruleposting #this is beyond ruleposting and 196 this is beyond stupid #do i fucking tag every fandom in this? fuck it we ball might as well apologize to everyone who will find it #honkai star rail #firefly honkai star rail #she ra and the princesses of power #azudaioh #touhou #undertale #human i remember youre genocides #deltarune #tf2 #team fortress 2 #lesbian #bisexual #dawg if you're the creator seeing this shit - i am so fucking sorry it all started out as a simple meme edit for my friend and it got out o #hand fast and now im here 2 hours later with this shit i made #and to all of you firefly lovers out there - i am one of you pls dont fucking kill me oh fuck oh god #fucked up #juniper stupider

[butchcharliee]

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#u know what i just realized?? #sometimes when i talk about top surgery #or talk about binding #there are people who try to convince not to do it?? #like some time ago when I first mentioned wanting top surgery #someone said “just get breast reduction” or “no don't do it i love butch boobs” #or recently i was asking good brands for chest binding #and people were telling me how itll harm my chest #or “it'll damage your ribs and lungs” #give me blisters and peel my skin off #like first of all that was not what i asked and second of all i know the dangers in binding #but the dangers in binding is not going to stop myself from wanting a flat chest #for wanting top surgery #i dont understand why but the people that follow me get so weird with me about top surgery and binding #and me being a butch lesbian that wants a flat chest/top surgery #y'all gotta remember im transmasc so this is really important to me #ive done tons of research about chest binding and top surgery #i know what im doing and you're not gonna convince me otherwise #just let me do my thing 😭 #anyways that's what I realized

[mack-anthology-mp3]

one of my mums favourite songs is 'daughter' by pearl jam and i play it on guitar sometimes, and i know when i play guitar the whole house can hear me. so i sit in my room singing 'don't call me daughter / not fit to' and every time my mum calls me a girl (not a girl) and introduces me as her daughter (not a daughter) and i play this song and think... does she know?

#i dont even really like pearl jam but its nice to play on guitar cos of the tuning and it fits my voice well #anyways #gender #even though it's like.... no im not a girl i'm a butch lesbian. which isnt a girl but uhmmm how do i explain that #its not that my parents wouldnt be accepting or anything i just dont know how to tell them #its fine really #anyways this is ok to reblog if you're so inclined

[hirokiyuu]

my hot twst take is that not a single housewarden would be a good boyfriend and i stand by it

#of all of htem i think. riddle and vil? are probably Least terrible #leona and idia worst #kalim could honestly be okay if its like. post book 4 maybe #but i have a special distaste for Dating Guys Where You're Their Mom so like #'arent you a lesbian' all my hs friends were straight. ive seen things. #twst stuff #i do think riddle wouldnt be Terrible (has read ghost bride) but i do think there would be Some Problems #also i dont think any of them are good. btw. #malleus is oging to propose on the first date. or potentially Before. #hes going to be possessive and weird. u kno this.

[userchappell]

lana lang🤝wednesday addams

has a romantic storyline(s) with a male antagonist while I believe they're lesbians that are in love with their blonde best friends

#if you disagree than just not reply to this post saying 'oh you're wrong. they're not lesbians' and if you do i will block you. dont test me #you guys can have your own headcanons and that's fine as long as you respect mine pls and thank you <3 #wednesday #smallville #wednesday addams #lana lang #wenclair #chlana #jaiden rants

[zeetbl33p]

...damnit. Why did I end up getting attached to Citrus? Lhclhfo

#will say. the anime is way more non con and uncomfortable than the manga #i do appreciate that these disaster lesbians later find solace and stability. but you dont get to see a lot of that in the anime as #they only start dating at the end of the anime. aka manga chapter 16. the manga continues for 41 chaperts iirc. #and then there's also citrus+. the step sisters thing did also throw me off at first #however they only met at the start of the series when yuzu transfers into the all girl aihara academy #and they only learned they had become step siblings when they both come home to their mom #and she reveals that she (yuzus bio mom) married Mei's bio dad #seriously though. the anime went overboard and extended some of the assault sequences as fan service and just yikes. #they were there in the manga to a lesser extent. for instance the first kiss lasted like 3 panels and a two page spread. #while in the anime it was like 40ish seconds (i went and checked the timecode after reading the original chapter to compare) #oh well #at least it wasnt the first yuri media i encountered? still not entirely sure why ive officially gained citrus brainrot for a week now tho #citrus #meiyuzu #saburouta #if you do plan to check out the series. read the manga unless you're comfortable with 'assault as fan service' #...i will admit to kicking my feet. squeeing. and squeezing a pillow like a schoolgirl reading some of it tho hkrkbfhkd

[sapphic-woes]

Tbh 99% of my ideas come from some form of BL being consumed followed by "This could be about lesbians....it should be about lesbians." *Opens google doc in a frenzy*

#i dunno why wlw cant get down and dirty like bl sometimes #and NO i dont mean the webtoon i actually hate that story #but i would kill for Black Mirror but lesbian #or mm Painter in the Night but lesbian #or BLIND PLAY BUT LESBIAN #WAIT???? WHY DON'T I DO THAT???? #......killers....are hot....right....(yk when they arent real. real ones are best looking behind bars lmao) #ahahahahahahaha *digs fingers into knees* #wat if BJ Alex but lesbian. #WHAT IF JINX BUT LESBIAN??? #💀💀💀 also how do yall feel abt jinx im possessed even tho i would actually stab the seme #like mmm For Garbage (yuri) is pretty up there if you're looking for toxic yaoi but make it wlw #Savior too. yk. till they fucked up the end😒 #*shimmies sensually* andddd on a leaaassshhh my favorite everrrr its 1000 shades of toxicccc~

[creepymutelilbugger]

WARNING! I AM ROMANTICIZING CITY LIFE A LITTLE BIT .

I want to go somewhere and meet a girl who knows everything about where I am. A big city where she's lived her whole life, where she can show me all the spots she went as a kid. I want to feel like an accessory to her life tour as she shows me all around the stomping grounds of her childhood. All the local spots she's found over years of trying throughout her whole life. I want to date a city girl who has never had the chance to leave her home city so she knows more about it than anyone who moved there ever possibly could. I want to share the trusting warmth of a hug and a kiss in a shitty little hiding spot off the main road where nobody can see you, and because of the din of the cars, nobody can hear you, either. I want to hear sirens in the background of a romantic moment , watch her completely ignore them, become inspired and just completely sink into the moment with her. I want to go behind a restaurant I don't work at and smoke by the dumpster with her like she's done her whole adult life. I want to flatter her by telling her truthfully how exciting and interesting all of these things she's known for her whole life are for me to learn. I want to have the chance to make somebody realize how special and unique they are like that.

I am such a useless dumbass fag ugh

#do you think just because you're a lesbian that this is any less pathetic? #no i dont #please humor me i want to love someone so badly #196 #rule #shitpost #r/196 #/r/196 #r196 #lonelyposting #lesbian #useless lesbian #why do I exist #pyro thoughts

[ghcstofutopia]

what sure gets me about radfems is how they lose me every step of the way, even beyond the transphobia, because they genuinely do not give a fuck that i was not particularly hurt by anyone "male"

#delete later #i get why women that were preyed on and hurt gravitate to the ideology but also. i'm Not the typical victim to them so they kinda... #hate my ass LOL. like genuine plugging their ears and singing real loud over me #do they actually have anything to say about ppl hurt by other women. do they just not remember the experience of being lesbian #and being ostracized or assaulted or getting in trouble for going in 'safe spaces' because they think you'll perv on other girls #like actually. you say you're there for women that have been hurt and done wrong. but because i dont fit your weird manVwoman memo #you wanna kick me out on the streets too cause i KNOW from experience it's not just 'males' trying to use and abuse in the worst ways #even then i never like you mfs you let the ableism/antisemitism/racism/etc etc go completely unchecked. amazing ideology though if youre-- #a cis(usually het) neurotypical middle class skinny white woman