I'm already seeing a bunch of posts on my dash about the server, the btd community ect.
I don't think the community quite gets it yet:
Everyone is a fallible person. Adults learn from their mistakes, even with their own personal consequences. At times, the consequences aren't visible, but they're there.
Call out posts hurt people.
There's still a lot of young folks in the community who haven't found the way to be educated on a lot of shit, and while that's unfortunate and can cause issues, it's even more dangerous to just call everyone awful and start slinging insults and starting hunts.
Let an exhausted creator rest and heal.
Let young adults who make stupid mistakes learn from their stupid mistakes. Stop making call out posts, starting drama, making side servers to speculate. Humans learn from their fuck ups, it's apart of being alive, but you don't give them room to change if you're just pushing out posts and posts and posts about how people fuck up.
They don't put your failures in the newspaper. Have some respect and allow others dignity, especially when they are willing to learn from where they tripped. That's how you grow as a person.
You're not responsible for everything on the internet. Folks are gonna grow and learn, it doesn't matter if you post a callout post. That just breeds more misinformation and abuse, and often times damages those who are trying to learn from where they fucked up.
Focus on you. Lay down your urge to clean up other people's messes. Be respectful, patient, and compassionate. Say your part and leave. t's a practice, it doesn't come naturally. Hold others accountable, but allow them room to change and grow.
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so I "100%" sumeru a while ago but realized recently I didn't have the achievement for fully upgrading the statue of the seven and when I went to check I was literally missing like 25 dendroculus lmao..... anyways we grinded and now sumeru is actually 100% 💪
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saw your answer about stripe ask and i just want to say for anyone out there: don’t use paypal unless that’s the only option for you.
i made a paypal account and immediately, within a minute of making it, it got permanently limited and after days to contacting paypal they still refused to fix it (saying they can’t reveal why it got limited for their safety) and didn’t let me close my account. basically i can’t use my account and i can’t delete it either so my info will always be stored on paypal, which is ridiculous and not safe.
anyway, like i said, if you have another option besides paypal then use that because paypal sucks. be careful!
^^^^^^ no yeah exactly same hat (og ask)
I have a solid guess on why mine is dead so tiny psa if you’re making a paypal account & have legally changed your name in the past like year before that pls triple check that everything official is as consistent and already changed over as possible and you have new IDs already Before you make the account bc they’ll find one tiny thing that hasn’t fixed itself yet and shut you down for possible identity fraud no matter what you do :)
(also if you feel like you need to have paypal so you have an option for customers who don’t have a card I will once again recommend stripe bc I’ve discovered their direct email invoices allow you to accept bank transfers as a payment method (including internationally) so people can just pay using the online banking account their paypal is linked to without having to go through paypal)
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have been double checking the state health insurance website to see if there was any update on my insurance renewal form being received or renewed, and they certainly are cutting it very close so i've been panic checking it daily. finally there was a little notification that said "your application has been reviewed and accepted, click here for more details" and
great job, mnsure.
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I still can't get over the fact that video games have currently one of the best and most natural LGBT representation out of all media and nobody outside of people who already like video games like... Gives a shit??? Lol
Can you imagine how popular something like dragon age, mass effect, the last of us (both parts), cyberpunk 2077, metal gear solid, night in the woods or disco elysium would be if they were TV shows on like, netflix or HBO? People would never shut up about how they're a "milestone" in the potrayal of LGBT people, about how complex these characters are and how different they are between eachother in personality, looks, character arcs, quirks and roles within the plot they are?
But because video games are still considered a specialized hobby at best and childish toys at worst, these amazing examples like Kim Kitsuragi, Ruby, Harry du Bois, Ellie Williams, Judy Alvarez, Kerry Eurodyne, Johnny Silverhand, V, Claire Russell, the bioware companions like Isabela, Dorian, Sera or Iron Bull and many, many others just go completely overlooked in favor of some milquetoste show that ends up disappointing and three-second-long shot in a Disney or Marvel movie that will end up cut in many versions anyways.
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All my friends in highschool were neurodivergent in one way or another
Not all of the ones I talked to outside of school were autistic but none were neurotypical
But in some classes I would have class specific friends. Like people I only really talked to when we had classes together. ALL of those people were autistic.
High school Riley did not know they were autistic
Nor did I ever seek these people out
But any time we had class together we would all just kinda group together. Like I was often the first to class on the first day and we if we were allowed to choose our own seats they would all just kinda group around me on the first day. If we had to get into groups for anything they would just kinda absorb me into their group without me having to say anything
And I have to wonder
Did they (correctly) assume i was autistic and decide to do all that on purpose
Or did they just all see me sitting as far away from other people as possible and decide they vibed with that
Either way I was always very appreciative towards them. They made the classes I assumed I would be alone in just a bit more bearable. And they never thought I was weird for not talking much at first and then oversharing once I got comfortable enough to talk to them.
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