#im only now getting caught up on the Gigi drama and like........................lol can y'all please unclench????

[beavesaintmarie]

me @ the Sanditon tag right now: 

#im only now getting caught up on the Gigi drama and like........................lol can y'all please unclench???? #it's WILD to me how folk are willing to afford Stringer so much empathy and understand and humanity when all he's done is like have a crush #on a girl he's had a handful of conversations with..............and he's been exalted to saint status for THE BARE MINIMUM #but everyone is ready to rip Gigi to shreds for having a bad reaction to the idea of her best friend and her pseudo-adoptive dad/big brother #maybe getting together........................ #also..............let's be really real right now..........Sidney hasn't totally mended his relationship with Gigi in the same way he has #with Char. while yes we know he cares about her wellbeing. we gotta look at this from Gigi's POV #he's essentially a man with whom she has no real connection to other than her WHITE SLAVE OWNING FATHER making him her guardian #a man who up until VERY RECENTLY thought that the best way to be a good guardian is to like keep her on house arrest #and never explain to her WHY he was so against her being with Otis and left her free to assume the worse #worst* which is the same thing Char did until she saw with her own eyes that she was wrong about him #so like THERE'S SO MUCH TO UNPACK WITH GIGI AND HER DYNAMIC WITH SIDNEY #and i don't doubt for a second that those two will come to an understanding and start from the beginning with a fresh slate #but man y'all are VICIOUS when it comes to ripping apart a young black woman who was taken from her home. lost her family. is nursing #a broken heart and is also stuck in a place where she is gawked at and feels that she is only valued because of her money............ #like i love Parkwood as much as you guys. LOL MAYBE EVEN MORE SINCE I LOVED SIDNEY AT HIS MOST DOUCHENOZZLE SELF #cause i knew still waters ran deep and he'd end up learning to EARN these relationships in his life #can y'all like..............get off Gigi's aerola and give her some space to like grow and mature too???????? #ANYWAYS THOSE ARE MY THOTS ON THE BULLSHIT #lol all fandoms are like cesspools honestly #sanditon itv #crazy ramblings of a troubled mind...