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#important reminders
smiles-advice · 1 year
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there is no such thing as being "behind in life" but it's okay to recognise that you missed out on some things whilst you were busy surviving
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pluckypeony · 8 months
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Remember, that not every negative thought you have about yourself is true. At night, thoughts can come and go fleetingly, and this is especially crucial to remember for those inclined towards self-criticism. The inner voice that relentlessly critiques your actions and aspirations isn't an infallible guide. Letting go of these thoughts and calming your mind unveils the genuine truth beneath. ♡
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there are lives that you’ve touched; people who burn brighter simply because of the way that you’ve graced them—and it’s not always obvious; more often than not, the imprint is quiet. you are carried nonetheless.
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Rarely ever be emotional. Your default is under emotional. Always observing, looking at how you can turn certain events to have a favorable outcome for you and where you can benefit from. Save your emotions for your children or your pets or for when you write or paint or express yourself. Save it for your journal to put them all down in and sort through them. Process your emotions in private, with someone you trust, or with a therapist. Practice mental hygiene every night where you put them down on paper or say them out loud. But your emotions are a currency.
Say you only have so much currency to spend every day. Would you be giving them out as freely as you do and to people who didn’t even ask for it?
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STOP KOSA
DO ANYTHING IN YOUR POWER TO STOP KOSA! It will destroy the internet as we know it and if it gets passed it will show that the constitution means essentially nothing to the lawmakers because it violates the very first amendment. It's targeting lgbtq+ spaces, fandoms in general, reproductive education, and news about the world that doesn't align with this bill makers "values". *COUGH COUGH PALESTINE COUGH COUGH*
Oh and how could I forget, they're going to attempt to take your ID to try to prevent minors from going on the internet in the first place and if they do have their legal name attached to everything they're doing (this part I am more unsure about I'd like to learn a little bit more about that part). That will not help children in the slightest.
I'm someone who quite enjoys fandom and is an ally of lgbtq+, (and also reproductive education is so limited anyway, they teach you limited if any information at school so the internet is one of people's only option besides a select few books which, oh yeah, they're trying to get banned.) so, this bill terrifies me.
Don't panic too badly, if we continue to fight we can stop this bill.
We cannot afford to give up on this battle!
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liesmultixxx · 3 months
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i think i’m starting to realise how important self love actually is
like no one may ever be able to love me romantically and guess what- that’s okay!
i’ve got my family and friends and most importantly- i’ve got myself
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sotwk · 4 months
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Just a Mom's reminder to everyone to be gentle with yourselves when it comes to New Year's Resolutions. It's wonderful that you're making goals to better yourself! Self-improvement and achievements make us happy!
But as someone who cares about you--it is far more important that you are happy and healthy. That means minimizing stress, not over-exerting yourself, and absolutely NO getting down on yourself if you fall short of your aims.
It's January 4th and you still have 362 days to check things off your list. (We get an extra day 'cause of Leap Year!) Take it slow and steady and enjoy the process. :)
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lovelyheartclover · 3 months
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Why is it ALWAYS the nonlesbians that dont care enough to educate themselves on why the "bi lesbian" lable is problematic or just support the lable???
Just saw a post (op will not be named, PLEASE DO NOT ATTACK THEM) saying that the whole 'bi lesbian' discourse doesn't matter because regardless if someone is bi, lesbian, or both, they are queer and that we should stop being angry at how people choose to label themselves as.
Gee sherlock I donno, maybe im upset because the label that person chose to identify as is ACTUALLY PROBLEMATIC AND HARMFUL TO BOTH THE LESBIAN AND BI COMMUNITY!????
YOU CALLING YOURSELF A 'BI LESBIAN' IS SAYING THAT LESBIANS CAN LIKE MEN IN ANY COMPACITY, WHICH BTW IS NOT TRUE. LESBIANS HAVE AND WILL NEVER LIKE OR INCLUDE MEN.
LEAVE US ALONE.
The post's tag btw ⬇️
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positivewritesxo · 10 months
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Reminder that other people’s opinions are opinions and not facts, just because someone says something doesn’t make it true.
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smiles-advice · 1 year
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healing doesn't have to look pretty or be some magical process. healing is hard. it's draining and exhausting.
don't try to paint it as anything other than what it is. don't be ashamed at how rough it can look.
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pluckypeony · 7 months
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Insights I've gained since beginning university:
I am studying for myself, not for anyone else. Even though many professions require a degree, ultimately, we benefit the most personally. We become stronger, smarter, learn new things about ourselves, and grow beyond our limits. 🪄
I am not too dumb for studying, even though I used to think that due to poor grades in the past. I simply lacked interest. Now I know that when I do something I personally enjoy, it also has a positive impact on my performance! ✍🏻
Through the independent division and organization of my studies, I have become more self-reliant in general and have more confidence in myself. 👍🏻
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sk-lumen · 1 year
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Understand this powerful truth: you have to let go of the wrong one, in order to make space for the right one. Is that really all you think you deserve? You deserve more than breadcrumbs and lukewarm connections. You deserve the whole package, the whole white picket fence and soulful love and peaceful sunday mornings. Honor that by creating space.
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i love you body. i love you anxiety for always being on high alert because you want to protect me. i love you hunger for reminding me that i need nourishment and when i’m feeling down or stressed, you remind me to have a snack as a lil treat. i love you jealousy for showing me that i am not stuck and that i want to grow and have something just like they do. i love you tiredness for the way you show me that rest is just as important as doing things, if not more.
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sotwk · 2 months
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Protect your favorite writers and artists at all costs.
You know what to do! It's for the good of the whole fandom.
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positivelypenguin · 7 months
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sometimes you're just gonna have a bad day, and that's okay.
sometimes you're just gonna be annoyed and mad for no reason, and that's okay.
sometimes you're just gonna struggle to get out of bed, and that's okay.
Its okay to feel, its okay to have a bad day and its okay that you aren't at your absolute best all of the time. you're doing your best, and that's all that matters. you're trying, and that's all that matters. you got through the day, and that's all that matters. sometimes just getting through the day is hard sometimes, so that's a very big accomplishment and im very proud of you.
you will have bad days and bad emotions but they won't last forever, you'll be okay again, you will smile so hard and laugh until your stomach hurts. I promise. I promise you that will happen again.
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