girltwink & boybutch flags
for girls who are twinks & boys who are butches !
girltwink ⤵️
boybutch ⤵️
higher quality versions on my twitter
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I’m so tired of seeing bi positive/bi pride posts, and then clicking on op’s blog and finding out they hate pansexuals. I’ve literally never met a pansexual who told me I couldn’t be attracted to trans/nonbinary people or whatever the fuck the panphobes are claiming that pansexuals are saying now (either online or in real life). I’m friends with pan people and it’s literally fine. Maybe there really are a handful of pansexual assholes out there (because anyone of any sexuality can be an asshole) but they are such a small minority. I’ve seen so many panphobic bis crying about how the pans are hurting the bi community, and not a single pan saying bis are bad/outdated/transphobic/whatever.
I don’t want my sexuality to become synonymous with exclusionism. It hurts every time a bi pride post ends up being posted by a panphobe. This happens to the vast majority of bi pride posts I come across.
So this one’s for the bis out there who stand with our m-spec siblings. All the bis who are happy and comfy with their label and don’t need to get upset because there are other labels similar to ours. All the bis who are sick and tired of bullshit and discourse.
Be suspicious of anyone who tries to make you hate other queer folks, and solidarity forever. 💖💜💙
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Neopronouns Flag Re-Desing
by: Ethan (i4eth)
I made this new flag design because the flag representing the most popular neopronouns wasn't very pleasing to my eyes and I found the meanings a bit vague and not very related to the neopronouns themselves. Not that there is a problem with that, just create an alternative to deal with these "problems".
Color Meanings
Green: Represents Diversity, and I think it's important as there are different types of neopronouns, and different types of ways in which you use pronouns for comfort, so it's important that you know that there is diversity between pronouns
Light Green: Represents Freedom, its about you can use whatever you feel comfortable with as a pronoun, it's almost freedom, it's as if you weren't obligated to use popular pronouns to refer to yourself.
White: Represents Recognition, because neopronouns are generally viewed very negatively by people who only use pronouns recognized by the language, and the idea would be for people to see that neopronouns don't hurt anyone and that they need to be taken seriously along with the people who use them.
Yellow: Represents Harmony, everything that a person who uses neopronouns deserves, everyone deserves to live in peace and harmony, but for this to happen people have to stop having an opinion on how people live and how they decide to be, being themselves, and Learning to respect them, well, it's not that difficult.
Orange: Represents Community, we are a group of people who are attacked for not only using the pronouns recognized by the languages, we need to be united so that anything that tries to stop us, we overcome, community is one of the very important aspects, but not just queers, but as in society itself, we walk together because we are better together
Symbol meanings
I was researching a little about pronouns, and I discovered that there is a symbol that represents pronouns, and also neopronouns, but I found this symbol a bit strange, such as the fact that it only works in the English language, and I, as a person who speaks Brazilian Portuguese, I felt a little left out, but I know that the person who made the symbol didn't do it with bad intentions.
So I decided to reuse the symbol in my own way, I realized that the part that represented the neorponomes looked like a flower, with just a few petals, so I used that to make a metaphor. Neopronouns are diverse and colorful like flower petals, so I placed a flower in the center of the flag with the neopronou symbols around it, using an old symbol, along with a possible symbol/metaphor for people who use neopronouns.
(Separate symbols, if you want to use them, and a photo by me with the meanings of the flag)
I couldn't think of any possible name for the flag, if you want to give your suggestions, you are free!
Any questions suggestions just call ⭐
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Being a part of the more obscure side of the lgbtqia+ can be a bit much. Everyone is nearly always attacking you for not being something more simpler to grasp or less contradictory just so the cishet amatonormative society can accept us. But what many people seem to fail to understand is that no matter how many of our sisters, brothers and siblings we cut off from our queer family to just be more palatable, we will NEVER be accepted fully and equally. There will always be someone to have a bone to pick with us or try to bring us down, and this infighting won't help us stop the constant aggression towards us. We still have so much to learn about our own community and include everyone whose experiences are constantly being excluded and shamed for, we need to understand the difference between harmful and harmless, we need to learn and accept what is truly holding us back. So stop playing the blaming game which became quite of a trend in this community, and formed these atrocious groups like transmeds, battle axe bisexuals, terfs and the lgb alliance. They are the ones who are holding us back and cutting off our many sisters, brothers and siblings from our queer family. Just like the homophobes and transphobes outside of this community. But instead of playing the aggressive blaming card in those in-aggressors we can instead spread knowledge and open mindedness in stern forms obviously, because these groups were created mostly out of misinformation and desperation. but we can end that with the power of love and knowledge of all our wonderful experiences and lives which will eventually defeat the rampaging darkness of those organisations
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The wave of Thomas Sanders hate that was going for ages just because of him acting mildly annoying to some people while making jokes and being nice to people was INSANE. He's literally always been a cool guy
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mspec gays and lesbians are the coolest tbh. like there's so much depth to that identity and i love love love learning why ppl identify that way !! lesbians who sometimes like men? gay men who are only romantically intrested in women? it's awesome!!! people are using labels and customizing them to fit how they interact w their identity. i just like it a lot :]
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Kisses sex positive aces in semi-sex repulsed ace
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i havent seen a pansexual positivity post that doesn't focus on bisexuality in years.
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Gender-Neutral Omni Gay Cosmic Labels
Based on neopronouns' general omni gay flag.
#1: Planetary Omni Gay
Meaning: Someone who considers themselves an omni gay because they're attracted to all genders that are similarly, neutrally, xenically, or unaligned. I, OP, am a planetary stellian
#2: Comet Omni Gay
Meaning: Someone who considers themselves an omni gay because they're omni, but their attraction to genders similarly, neutrally, xenically, and unalinged is much greater or purposefully prioritized by the person.
#3: Asteroid Omni Gay
Meaning: Someone who considers themselves an omni gay because they use the split attraction model and are gay in one form of attraction and omni in another
#4: Nebula Omni Gay
Meaning: Someone who considers themselves an omni gay because they are omni and use gay as an umbrella term.
#5: Cosmic Omni Gay or Galactic Omni Gay
Meaning: Someone who's experience as an omni gay is fluid, changing just like how the galaxies are always changing
#6: Constellation Omni Gay or Cepheus Omni Gay oops I forgot to change the colors oh well the flag is pretty
Meaning: Someone who's experience as an omni gay is in between or a mix of two or more of the labels listed.
#7: Black Hole Omni Gay
Meaning: Someone who's experience as an omni gay was not listed here. You're free to coin your own cosmic terms to describe your omni gay attraction. You're valid even if not listed.
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Happy Unlabeled Visibility Day!!!
I’m still very much figuring out my feelings with regards to labels. I’ve been thinking a lot about what they are, why we have them, how we should go about using them, and how I myself fit into all of it. All of my beliefs are subject to change, but here are some reminders that I’ve been finding important lately:
We are all different. Don’t make statements that claim that something is true for everyone out there, because there will inevitably be people for whom that doesn’t apply. What works for you won’t necessarily work for others. There are very few true binaries out there. There may be caveats to things I say here, too.
Labels are a product of the culture that creates them. They are not intrinsic to us, nor are they tangibly separate from us.
The words that people use to describe ourselves are constantly shifting and evolving. They have never been set in stone, and they never will be.
Labels are less like checklists and more like complex, interconnected webs of traits.
There are no rules. There are no authorities. No one has control over whether or not you’re “allowed” to exist in a certain way. You don’t need to ask permission, and there is nobody in a position that allows them to even grant you that permission in the first place.
Labels are not the end-all-be-all of every facet of all of our experiences. It is very possible to relate to people who hold different identities than you. It is also very possible to not relate to people who hold the same identities as you. Your existence is not invalidated by either of these situations. It’s likely, in fact, that any two people with any number of identities/labels will have some differences and some commonalities. Because that’s just the nature of being an individual.
You don’t have to identify as a label. You can identify with one. You can associate yourself with a particular concept without defining yourself by its confines.
If you used to use a different label but have now changed it, please remember that you were not a bad person for doing so. Most of the time, we use labels because we feel that they explain our experiences at the time. Some people feel that they were wrong about their previous labels, and that’s totally okay! But some people feel like they were never “wrong”, their needs just changed, and that’s great too!
And last but not least, be kind. We’re all trying our best. Remember that you are valid, worthy of kindness, and that your existence provides so much value to the world. <3
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