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Inclusionists and Radqueers
(quick note, I use the term "queer community" instead of "lgbtq+ community")
I think that many people need to know the difference between inclusionists and radqueers because a surprising amount of people don't.
One of the main differences is that inclusionists know the difference between valid, good-faith terminology and bad-faith, troll terminology, while radqueers do not (or don't care). This means that both inclusionists and radqueers accept communities such as xenogenders, neopronouns, a-specs (asexual spectrum, and aromantic spectrum), m-specs (multigender spectrum), and m-specs (multi-sexual/attraction spectrum) as valid parts of the queer community. However, radqueers take this many leaps further by accepting (harmful) xenogenders, (harmful) neopronouns (usually nounself pronouns based on sensitive topics or offensive words), and just generally harmful terms (e.g. transracial, z00philes, pokesexual, MAPs), as a part of the queer community.
This again, is one of the largest differences between inclusionists and radqueers. Many inclusionists understand the harm radqueers cause the queer community, and do not associate themselves with them due to this fact.
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michaelmilkers · 8 months
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i'm regularly astounded by the cognitive dissonance some of yall have to accept that gender is a social construct with infinite possibilities with the capacity to be deeply personal and individual but still think there's a list of like 4 acceptable sexual orientations and if you go outside of that list or mix entries on that list or relate to them in a non-traditional way not only are you Breaking The Rules you're personally directly harming people who follow them
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starnosedmoles · 8 months
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Occasional Trouble Passing…
“What do you mean I can’t go in there? You can just suck my sock, buddy!”
found in “FTM Newsletter”, 1990s
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tauon07 · 6 months
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guys i'm a girlfaggot
reblog if you're a girlfaggot
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womenaremypriority · 5 months
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This may not be the original meaning of the word, and it may still sound like a “bad” word to some people. But whether you like it or not, the word ‘lesbian’ exists in part to humanize lesbians. It exists so a lesbian girl can look it up after hearing for the first time, with wide eyes, and there there are others like her. It exists so that young lesbians can hear that there are other women like the. It exists so young lesbians can find accurate information about sexual behavior between women. It exists so young lesbians can find role models and spaces and TV shows for people like them.
What do you think happens when you take that away. What do you think happens when the meaning of the word ‘lesbian’ is in the dictionary is ‘non-men loving non-men’. What do you think happens when the lesbian tag on Tumblr mentions penis on every other post. What do you think happens when Reddit groups for lesbians mention finding men attractive constantly. What do you think happens when sex guides for lesbians stress that lesbians can learn to interact with dicks.
What do you fucking think happens?
I don’t give a shit about your “meanings change!” And “words are made up!” I don’t care. I don’t. You can deny all you want, but the only thing you’re meaningfully doing is prioritizing your feelings over the safety and happiness of actual lesbians. You laughed off the idea that predatory men will use the changing definition of lesbian to their advantage? Okay, what about adolescent lesbians trying to find others who are like them? As in- female humans, who only want to date other female humans? What about conversion therapists and upset parents who will say, “plenty of lesbians can like penis!” Oh, they already do that, you say? You’re just letting them continue! You’re just giving them MORE ammo and MORE room to do that, instead of fighting it!
Both liking other women and not liking men are parts of the lesbian experience. Both of these things contribute to why lesbians are oppressed, and if you don’t respect lesbians ability to voice BOTH of those things, simply and easily, you don’t respect lesbians. If you redefine lesbian, you’re not actually taking away the stigma around being a female homosexual. You’re doing nothing but adding to it, and making sure it’s harder to name.
I hope you’re all fucking proud of yourselves. The least you can do is admit that you only care about yourself.
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gray-ace-space · 5 months
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what was y'all's identity progression? mine was something like
lesbian -> bi -> bi & ply -> ply -> ply & gray ace -> bi & gray ace -> bi lesbian & gray ace -> bi lesbian & gray ace & genderqueer
(there were a bunch of acespec and gender microlabels in there too that sorta come and go and come again but i simplified)
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catgirl-catboy · 1 year
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I feel like LGBTQ+ identity politics would get a lot quieter if we could get rid of the idea that you can guess random people's sexual orientation.
That gay couple holding hands? One or both of them could be bi. Or you could be misgendering someone. Or they could simply be close friends that like to hold hands.
Less trying to guess people's identity and more waiting to see if they choose to tell you.
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bi-lesbian · 1 year
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icarusxxrising · 8 months
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My identity is for myself and no one else. Stop mistaking your discomfort for harm. If you're uncomfortable, that's something YOU have to work out, preferably far away from me.
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thatblondeperson · 11 months
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Genuinely disheartening to see this flag now showing up on a prominent asexuality blog.
Gonna just go ahead and keep using the prettier, "problematic" flag, since I'm not an exclusionst fuckface.
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doomgendr · 3 months
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girltwink & boybutch flags
for girls who are twinks & boys who are butches !
girltwink ⤵️
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boybutch ⤵️
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higher quality versions on my twitter
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starnosedmoles · 8 months
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Bisexual Pride! 1990 🩷💜💙
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intersexfairy · 7 months
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daily reminder i guess that "queer exclusionism" and "online discourse" isn't just internet bullshit. it has harmful, sometimes dangerous, impacts on real people. the people you see spouting even the most vapid queerphobia are real people who go around in their lives and their beliefs hurt others. it even hurts themselves. the internet may not be a physical place, but it still a place. the people on here are still real. it matters.
if all it is to you is nothing, you're either in denial or one of the lucky ones. also queerphobia isn't less important just because it comes from other queer people or takes place online.
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gray-ace-space · 1 month
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being bigender: a glitter text poem
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