Those people who ask too personal questions to others like; when you are getting married; when will you have kids; when will you have a job; how much you earn; making comments on someone's appearance and weight; I want to ask you, what you gain out of this? Are you paying for someone's bill? NO! then why do you want to know so much about them? There are better questions to ask people, like are you happy; how are you; you can also give them compliments. If you are not helping someone with their trauma or problems, don't give them additional stress because you don't know what someone is going through and what they want out of life.
In the end, I want to ask these people, how do you sleep at night peacefully when you make others nights sleepless? How devils? How do you do that?💀
And there's always this one Bengali auntie who will win. Your throat could be on fire, water streaming from eyes and nose, your lips numb, begging the golgappa-wala for some merciful drops of sweet chutney, and she would stand beside you and put her leafy-cup thingy forward for more, because she is the kind of person who flips rotis with her bare hands and this heat is nothing, nothing, compared to the macher jhol she has eaten in her lifetime.