#infj confessions

[mariamthe1st]

What are some secrets of the INFJ?

Peace and quiet is a high for us— We need time to recharge, alone, by ourselves.

We don't casual date— We need long term relationships.

We like routine— We can do the same thing repeatedly if we like it and are comfortable.

If we don't want to talk to you and you are one of our "people" We are hurt— We can isolate ourselves when we need space.

We can only love one person at a time romantically— We pour everything we have into something we love.

We love animals

If an INFJ sends you a song, listen to it— They are trying to say something they haven't found a way to verbalize.

We write better than we speak.

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[phoenixxxrizing]

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[epiphaniiii]

Indeed, joy can be extracted even from the tiniest mortal and immortal creations. And indeed, sorrow can be inhaled within every single blink underneath the sky. The past transcends the boundaries of the present and devours every reason to leave this ephemeral juncture of bones and blood.

-Her "Schrödinger's Cat" , First Insight

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[thequirkychameleon]

Contradictions of an INFJ:

- wanting alone time but wanting to be around people

- not in tune with your own emotions yet understanding the emotion of others

- trouble expressing your own emotions despite feeling deep emotion

- not always standing up for yourself but passionate about speaking up for other causes you believe in

- loving to plan things out but like the idea of spontaneity

- being so analytical yet so creative

- missing out on some small detail despite being perfectionists

- avoiding opening up to people yet love deep conversations

- often being misunderstood yet understanding others more than they understand themselves

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[chameleonpersonality]

INFJ

Living with a personality that is so rare is a struggle because it is hard to find someone who has the experience. My personality, INFJ, makes up 2% of the population.

INFJ stands for:

      - Introverted

      - Intuition

      - Feeling

      - Judging

People with INFJ are very complex people with an array of emotions, interests, and talents. Though they have a reputation for being reserved and quiet, they can be some of the most highly respected and admired people in the world.

Like all personalities they have their strengths and weaknesses. The strengths in this personality trait are:

      - Zealous and enthusiastic

      - Perceptive and deep

      - Compassionate and peace loving

      - Decisive and pragmatic

      - Virtuous and Noble

The Weaknesses are:

      - Perfectionist and too specific

      - Over sensitive and opposed to conflicts

      - Repressed and too private

      - People pleaser and meek

      - Overworked and burn out

With INFJ there are 7 signs you can pick up on if they're unhappy with their life. They are:

      - They become impulsive

      - They're tired all the time

      - They're detached

      - They ghost you

      - They see no future

      - They're always around people

       They can't concentrate

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[trashandwriting]

When an INFJ tells you they "forgot about it", that's often not true. We barely forget, we mostly have a good reason we don't bring things up again, but have often no bad intention at all. When we lie about trivial stuff like this, it often has one of the following reasons: we try to gather information (yep we're nosey), we try to protect someone or ourselves from harm or something or someone is draining/stressing to us and we try to avoid contact.

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[infjpaladin]

Relatable 😅🤣

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[0-secret-admirer-0]

Explains my current situation

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[skybrush3]

They say being rare is a good thing. No one ever mentions how lonely it is.

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[robcognitivepersonality]

Fe equating with empathy and absorbing emotions is not correct, particularly for IFJs / ITPs. Fe- is the "emotional feng shui" set by others.

Bad feng shui messes up their inner peace. It triggers them to do something about it. They can choose to care, blame, or ignore.

These types are not naturally good with emotions. They use logic and reason to better understand and gain a sense of control, in order to avoid these bad feng shui vibes from happening.

Most of them actually hold very strong values and opinions about how the world should behave, therefore need to devise solutions so that everyone, with them included, can get along.

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[mariamthe1st]

When the INFJ finally comes to the realization that they must move on, this looks nothing like the previously emotional state they were probably in. Once the INFJ has made the decision to shut someone out, they are very level-headed and rational. This may be frightening to people who are used to seeing the warm and gentle INFJ. They often appear very collected and even cold when they are set on slamming the door on someone. They know what they have to do, and this often takes removing all emotions from their actions. They have to shut off from this person, almost as if they are dead to them. The INFJ considers the loss of a relationship much like a death, and they are already spent time mourning this loss. At this point they are simply removing the finale memories of the lost relationship. This is no longer the mourning period, the INFJ has completely come to terms with what has happened. If the INFJ is still emotional or upset, then there is hope to resolve the relationship. Once the door slam has happened there is no going back. The INFJ has made the decision to move on and to them it is already done.

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[dangel-here]

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[phoenixxxrizing]

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[epiphaniiii]

You've always belonged to this world,love! It was just a cruel, a meticulous sense of being alive unacknowledged which deluded the compassion within you to annihilate itself. Do you recall giggling as a child,when your consciousness was yet to take over you? Your sense of self was in unity with the universe. We can always revive the love we once were.

Her Schrödinger's Cat, Fifth Insight

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[thequirkychameleon]

Feeling too much?

As an INFJ, I first noticed that I started developing my auxiliary or secondary function, extroverted feeling (Fe) a couple of years ago when I started university, especially during fresher’s week. There was a period when I thought I had converted to an extrovert as I had never seeked out friends prior to this, nor did I care about doing so. My friends from school were made by ‘accident’ as I like to call it or ‘destiny’ or whatever but the point is, I was never the one to first initiate friendship and I was alright with this.

Anyway, I really enjoyed my ability to connect with others and show empathy through Fe and feel less robotic and more like a people person, which I do consider myself as. However it has recently come to my attention while studying the cognitive functions that this Fe might actually be more harmful to my identity and has pushed me into this people pleasing mode and I realise that I hardly state my opinions due to fear of conflict with others. Also through socialising with Fi doms I have come to the realisation that I am not actually in tune with my feelings at all while completely being in tune with the feelings of others and prioritising this over my own. This makes decision making for even trivial things so difficult e.g. deciding where to eat with friends, hence why I also really enjoy my alone time as I am free from this people pleasing nature and feel less exhausted. Decision making even on my own decisions takes time and can be difficult as I always need validation even though i realise that I always stick to the one decision I made before validation.

I have also recently asked myself the question, what are my hobbies? What are my interests? What do I like? What am I passionate about? This leaves me in an identity crisis whenever I have time and space alone, hence why I subconsciously always try to be productive with my time so I don’t end up in this sad rabbit hole. If I don’t think about it, I think I am happy at least. This is why I also hate icebreakers when you do group activities at uni or interviews or when you first meet someone and tell them about yourself and you don’t actually know who you really are but can go on for hours about everyone else. Also, I call myself a chameleon for this reason, as I can blend in with others and change myself subconsciously to fit others and this even happens with my accent depending on who I’m talking to. I’m aware this can come across as fake but I do it subconsciously and I guess a positive is that as a medical student, it makes me relatable when I’m with patients in the hospital as I can communicate in their manner and fit their needs which helps build rapport.

What do my fellow INFJs think of this? Is this relatable?

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[blakkbutterfly]

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