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TS tweet july 14, 2022 :
It's International Non-Binary Day, so quick reminder that you don't have to look or present any type of way for your identity to be valid and fuck anyone who makes you think otherwise.
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Happy Nonbinary Day!
I finally remembered, thankfully scheduled the posts. And I want to talk about my identity for a little bit, and how I came to the conclusion.
First off, gender is a spectrum, not a binary, that's what nonbinary means to me. It's different for everyone, and some of us have multiple, its not categories, our existences are colouring outside the lines. Its okay if it doesn't make sense, we have microlabels to be more specific, but some people are content just being free.
I thought I was cis for a long time, and some part of me exists that way still, but I didn't have a natural trans experience where I'd feel dysphoria for not being me. I never went down that pipeline, and to be honest, I felt left out. I never felt trans enough, up until a few years ago, I didn't even know anything.
It's comforting and convenient to be a girl, but there was cracks and crumbs whenever I thought about it. I wouldn't mind being someone else, I could even craft up an identity for this someone else, but there was a part of me that still called out to being a girl, I'd still like to wear dresses.
But I never explored it fully, despite those around me having explored it. But some of them treated nonbinary like a stepping stone between being cis and trans, and I didn't think I could ever be "trans". Not to mention, my mother is extremely transphobic and frankly, an asshole. But that's a whole different story.
And so these cracks and crumbs never amounted to anything, until I found out that I have a system. For those uninitiated, a system is a result of having a complex dissociative disorder, like DID. It means you may have many different parts of yourself that act independently of you. And depending on the type of dissociative disorder, they can have their own identities, personalities, opinions, appearances, sexualities and genders. It comes from your brain creating internal support during traumatic events, when you've had none as a young child.
I found out about my system, and the many different genders and identities that my alters held. And it all just made sense. Of course some parts of me would identify with the body, they split that way. And of course, some alters wouldn't identify with the body, that's just who they are. And then there's me, who feels as though the body is comfortable, but not completely, not everything fits me.
And so, the term that fits me, no, us the most, is nonbinary. Other microlabels we like to use is multigender, not all genders, but many of them, and systemfluid, our identity is affected by who is fronting. It's like genderfluid, but it pertains specifically to systemhood.
But I'm personally not comfortable identifying with the "trans" label, even if it includes me (the white stripe). There's just no way that I can safely identify that way currently, and my identity is not a stepping stone towards transition. I am still my agab, just as much as I am other genders.
I'm nonbinary, and whoever I damn want to headcannon is also nonbinary. Like Shiver from Splatoon 3. I get to choose the gender. And it's a lot of them.
Happy Nonbinary Day! Shoutout to everyone who is nonbinary!
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Happy International Nonbinary Day to those who fall under the nonbinary umbrella, those who are questioning, and those who support!
Imagine I'm wrapping you up in a teddy-bear soft sweater as I hand you a freshly made hot beverage. That's how much love I have for those who are reading.
Proud of you all!! Keep on being AMAZING ❤️
[Image description: A Grey cat lying on the ground holding a nonbinary flag]
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