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garden-bug · 8 months
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I am not a Thrawn apologist but I would apologise to Eli Vanto on Thrawn’s behalf.
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classic-entp · 7 months
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Classic-ENTP #42
Any Ixxx Type: That's my new friend!
ExxP: ???????????????I thought you had social anxiety???????????????
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lllakristos · 1 month
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One day, you'll realize your gut feeling was correct all along.
That you were right from the start.
They were never your friend, nor did they genuinely care about you.
You were merely a convenience, an unpaid therapist, and a source of validation for their shortcomings.
Human nature is so complex yet so disappointing when you hold your standards high.
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introvert-moments · 5 days
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Introvert Moment #123
As an introvert I am scared of talking to people flirtatiously. As a bisexual, this fear is rated E for everyone. Maybe I should just live alone in a bungalow with like 4 elderly rescue dogs
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mbti-enemies · 1 year
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how do you think each MBTI would react to their crush asking them out?
c r us h: would you like to get a coffee tomorrow?
INFJ: *stuffs excitement down down down down* yes. yes. i would... love that. 4pm? *jumps around whooping like a little kid once crush leaves*
INTJ: *malfunctions* whY? *starts blushing.... from embarrassment* NO not why i should go with you i meant. yes. i meant- why- *stop talkng now stop talking stop-*
ISFJ: *wide eyes* *starts smiling* yeah! yeah i would love to! *does a little jaw drop when you're gone* ohmygosh!
ISTJ: Like... together? To- together?
ESFJ: *does not contain it* ohmygosh really? yeah! i'd love that!!! <3333333333333<3333333333<333-
ESTJ: *gets really suspicious* *frowns* did someone put you up to this?? HUH? did one of my friends istg imma KILL them-
ENFJ: *plays it the coolest* yeah, sounds good! *crush leaves* *buries head in hands* soUndS gOoD? iS that ALL we had to SAY?
ENTJ: *malfunctions*. *pause*. YES i mean yeah for sure that would be nice .......(*mentally chucks out their jam packed schedule for the entire evening*)
INTP: *dies* coffee? coffee. yeah.... i like coffee, so, yes! yes.
ENTP: I already had a coffee. *crush leaves* NO NO WAIT I DIDN'T MEAN THAT... sorry i.... forgot to turn it off... how about 4? *after crush leaves* ...the one time i failed to be cool is now? really?
ISTP: Sounds good dude (*internal* dUDe?! DuDE wth how do i turn this thing OFF)
ESTP: Yeah *puts hand out on wall do the the sexy lean but for once misjudges and slips* (doesn't mind because it makes crush laugh)
ENFP: sorry let me just- *puts hand on wall for support* im just mentally keysmashing- *gives them the brightest sunshiney smile ever* YEAH i would love to!
INFP: *blushes perfectly* *wants to run and hide* *gives them the most hurried nod*
ESFP: yeah for sure sounds funsies! *crush leaves* *commence: phone a friend* BESTIE GUESS WHAT HAPPENED. WAIT NO I SAID FUNSIES *cries* WHY DID I SAY FUNSIES. "you always say funsies" I knoW but that was so not a sLaY. wait... what do i wear?? WHAT DO I WEAR?
ISFP: *bites lip and looks at the floor to stop smiling until they regain composure and look up* for sure! i know a super vibey place down the road...
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dress-and-impress · 11 months
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I’m doing my own take on other personality types cos the ones I’ve seen are by analysts and I’m a diplomat
ENTP- ya’ll actually scare me sometimes but u speak your mind about… everything and your confidence is smth I look up to.
ENTJ- ya’ll are quite intelligent and know what to say in a conversation.
INTP- I love ya’ll. You have very big brain power with a very well balanced goofy brain power. Your actually very insightful and your actually very funny.
INTJ- you seem very intelligent and knowledgeable. And very well structured in your study and daily life.
ENFP- every single ENFP I’ve met is so friendly and a lil cinnamon roll. And even if they/you don’t know if their an enfp… you can just tell. But low key u guys DO kinda scare me too cos u can fuse into an infp or an entp in a matter of seconds (it’s okay… you can be an infp any time you like). Just like entp your confidence and vibrancy and joy is smth I look up to.
ENFJ- ya’ll are so heroic… well duh your the protagonist styled peeps. Classic diplomat with feelings and motivation to do what’s right for themselves and others.
INFP- this is my type and I’m not gonna be biased. We’re so bloody weird. All I gotta say. U gotta catch us on a good day and we’ll be involved in everything. Catch us on a bad day and you’ll probs feel a weird vibe. We’re either too much or too little. (P.s soo many ppl have told me they love infp’s and I wanna ask why? Like no offence to other infp’s but like I don’t get it?)
INFJ- I love you guys so much. So so nice and caring and thoughtful. You guys listen and make conversation and I feel like your so similar to infp’s (no wonder you would get mistyped so much)
ESTP- wild lil animals (idk what else soz)
ESFP- big fun friendly party animals that make me feel free like I shouldn’t have a care in the world. Your very bright and bubbly people that see the world in a different exciting light.
ISTP- ya’ll make me feel so grounded and chill and take a few steps back. “No big deal” vibes
ISFP- also very much like INFP. You have passions and are very dedicated but also very emotional
ESTJ- even tho your the complete opposite to me, ya’ll actually aren’t so bad. Your very loud and proud and I think big on perfection.
ESFJ- a big teddy bear. Similar vibes to ENFJ I think and wants to be there for everyone
ISTJ- very structured and observant (also I think big on perfection)
ISFJ- your the sweetest personality type ever. I love you guys u always are so thoughtful and listen and your calm and chill.
*** Pls do not get offended I was as nice as possible and hope this is kinda accurate this is only from my personal experiences with personality types and I haven’t befriended all 16 personality types (although I have met about thousands of INFP’s and another thousand ENFP’s)
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desire-loves-food · 8 months
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INTJ, INTP & ENFP conversation
(This is a real story which took place in my school)
Me (INTJ) and my acquaintance (INTP) had been discussing MBTI and cognitive functions since we both find it interesting another acquaintance of my and our conversation goes like this:
ENFP - Hey guys!!!! What's up???
INTP - We are kinda busy now.
ENFP - Are you all hiding something? Is it for my birthday???
INTJ - No. We were talking about MBTI.
ENFP - That's boringggggg!!!
INTJ and INTP continue as it is a part of their project.
ENFP(bored)
ENFP - Do you know what my MBTI is??? Let me tell you. It is C-U-T-E!!!
INTJ and INTP look at each other awkwardly as they finally realize that they will have to continue with their project later.
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ladymacabrebeth · 9 months
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Friendships that are built on gossip and talking badly behind each other's backs will eventually implode. - Lady Macabre Beth
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plusvanity · 4 months
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I read these stupid intj x infp quotes thinking about vargelle
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katsutora · 1 year
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gave up on tumblr a year ago bc there’s no interaction whatsoever and it gets hella lonely lmfao. someone pls be my regular & share your thoughts w me. or if my fellow writers see this uhh wanna be moots with an itoshi rin kin idk idk
ps: as for now the obsession is blue lock but i also love tokyo revengers !! im also too scared to slide into anyones dms so hopefully this works
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reanimatestar · 9 months
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new guy* just dropped <3
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dark-wackademia · 11 months
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HOW DO U MAKE NEW FRIENDS WHEN UR OLDER?!?!?! As I’m learning, I might need some new friends in my life.
How do i deal with creating and keeping healthy boundaries with friends that are only ever concerned with themselves/what they’re going through and need from me? Like, i love my friends but it’s hard not to realize that the level of care, support, or dedication to actually being there in any helpful capacity is not balanced in the slightest. I’m not trying to really have an argument on the matter with them, but I’m not opposed to being bluntly honest about the lack of balance. I just would rather be there as i can be and focus most my time and energy on myself/disengage mostly from them and their drama and most of all, being the fix it friend. (While also being somehow the friend that they don't want to listen to but then regret not taking my advice weeks, months, or years down the line because i was right. Ah, the INTJ struggles)
I would just really like to make ONE friend that even gives a fragment of what i give. But now in days I'm so busy that the little time i do have, goes to maintaining the very lackluster friendships I’ve acquired over the years.
I’m just tired. Like, really tired. I love helping and I’m good at it but I'm tired of people saying one thing while meaning another. I’m tired of people not wanting to change while also being appalled that others around them aren’t jumping at the chance to change for their ideals. I’m tired of the imbalance of others and my dynamics with them, and it creating resentfulness in me because I’m also too full of love but filled with much heartache and headache due to this. For all i give i don't deserve my reward being all this. It doesn’t add up. I’ve vented on other places and they all say the same things--my friends seem self-absorbed and straight up selfish, and like they don’t actually care about me. And ya know what i still defend them because i think somewhere behind that energy they do really care, sadly it takes ages to cycle back to caring about me again after ages of only “them, them, them” time, but it’s fine. I’m the fix it all myself type anyways because people usually hurt me in the long run when i do open up by seeming disinterested the second the convo turns to me. (Which actually proved their points, but still.. i mean, idk.. we have history that proves otherwise, i guess. it's just not that easy to explain. when i need people.. i end up being the best people in my circle to turn to because no one else has time, energy, or abilities to actually help let alone listen to me. Okay this is turning into a rant but-)
Just answer me this: HOW DO YOU MAKE NEW FRIENDS THAT DONT FUCKING ONLY THINK ABOUT THEMSELVES?!?! Even just the little things, like “hey, prides coming up, lmk if you’d like to do something!/”/ “been thinking about you <3 hope you’re well, lmk if you’d like to plan a talk.” (and actually let you talk, like show interest in your life too)? 
LIKE, I'm tired of being the friend that reaches out, offers time, and energy, offers help, offers ideas and still if I’m not there that’s all they can think about--the times i couldn’t do whatever it is they wanted me to for them because i finally am putting myself first because no one else can/will--which in the end, i’ve grown content with not being able to do it all and not being loved the same if i do (ending the people pleaser side of me because of podcasts i posted ages back helping a lot along with other research. i’ll link when i can). I understand, i always have, that no one can take better care of me than me, that’s all these friendships have taught me, all life has. I don’t want to sound as bitter as i once was about this even, it’s a lesson that is enlightening and i feel many could use (many, my friends included, are the type to think change will just come, slowly happen to them or suddenly be granted by some random force or person. i try to encourage them in proactivity in their life because they’re not, it’s exhausting talking to all them as a therapist--nurturing their inner child, telling them they must do the same to change, and still seeing them backslide or just stagnant. I’ve made peace with this too though young, people are all separate from me and we live and experience the world differently, no matter how much we love someone we can’t take their experiences/choices away from them... only help them along the journey, it’s just hard when you feel like a parent to everyone that no one listens to.) But really, i think they could do well with the lessons they’ve taught me to never look for what you can give yourself. but like a friend of mine i told this, said, external validation still matters for mental health... YEAH, YOU’RE RIGHT, IT’D BE GREAT IF YOU EXTENDED SOME MY WAY, THE WAY I AND EVERYONE ELSE POURS ONTO YOU/PEOPLE LIKE YOU. Like, as an INTJ I'm just getting tired of emotionally driven people getting all the attention and support just because that's their main focus (they can easily impose help of the type on others) and not ours, doesn’t mean we don’t feel emotions or wouldn’t like some support from time to time too. 
ok, ok, ima stfu
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shinoposting · 1 year
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I'm trying to find Shibi's personality typings and I think I'm on the money with my interpretation of his character.
I think the astrological signs that were assigned to the characters were assigned for good reason so a lot of the stuff about INFJs aligning closely with information about virgo men is very validating.
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gojygo · 8 months
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If I read one more "everything is gonna be okay or "take it easy" I'll lose it.
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vulturvolanss · 10 months
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as much as i see posts about alhaitham not having a single social clue and agree with all my heart i do not agree he's an intj. he's an entj with little social acumen and i will die on this fucking hill.
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tbh-entp · 4 months
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i knew it'd been like... a series of years that i've seen your infj posts. whyyyyy didn't yoou just lock him up when you were dating this year!? the angsssttt. rooting for you tho xx k byee
yeahh it's also totally at least 50% my fault we're not together.
The good news is that since 2018 we became very good friends, and if it doesn't work, at least I've had some really good years of friendship. Plus, we put effort into being friends despite the things that have happened between us, so I feel like unless he hits my pet cat with a car, we'll always be friends.
And I didn't lock him down because I knew he was moving to Thailand. Even though he wanted to. (am i insane)
But yeah, I'm a woman approaching 30. I want someone who wants to be where I am. Or is at least very sure about me (he might have been, idk) but I currently have a great job, I would've followed him otherwise. Plus his job is only a 1 year-long post, whereas I'm a bit more stably employed. And I think I was just hurt he was moving so far? I want kids also, and in my family it famously gets harder to give birth past 30.. I just thought he couldn't feel as strongly about me if he was moving to Thailand (even though he asked to be together multiple times, god am I an idiot?), and my time is ticking since I really love and want kids.
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