#is this sex ment

[thecommunalfoolboy]

“College is about SEX and DRUGS and PARTIES” it’s been a month and the majority of people I’ve met have been asexual

#ace #asexual memes #asexual moment #asexual #asexuality #ace representation #acespec #ace pride #actually ace #ace moment #ace memes #sex ment tw #tw sex mention

[ace-aro-queerplatonic-positivity]

Credit: insta @/acedadadvice

[there was no image description on Instagram or Facebook, I would welcome if someone wrote one into a reblog]

Obviously these terms aren’t set in stone, these definitions aren’t gospel, use whatever definition/ term you are most comfortable with!

I’m sharing this because I went “oh hey, it me!” when I saw this.

I have made it a point to call myself averse to sex consistently and I will keep using sex-aversion to describe my views. It’s nice to see this info-graphic mention aegosexuality in context of that :)

Because yea, I’m a sex-averse aego-ace

EDIT FOR CLARIFICATION: Aegosexual as a sub- / micro-label for asexuality is not inherently connected to being sex-averse. The mention of aegosexuality in this context refers to an aego-ace being comfortable with the fantasy/ idea/ imagination of sex without necessarily wanting to participate in those sexual acts. Many aegosexuals use the label because we prefer sexual fantasies and things we can remove ourselves from (aego literally meaning “without self”). Not all aego-aces are sex-averse. Which is precisely why I said “mentioned in the context of that” since aegosexuality is not inherent to being sex-averse and sex-aversion is not inherent to aegosexuality.

Also, please keep in mind this is about personal feelings towards sex and towards participating in sex. Most asexuals are sex-positive which means we support that everyone has the right to have as much or as little sex, as vanilla or as kinky, as they want to have.

Sex is not shameful, sex is simply something people can do with their bodies. Sex is exactly as meaningful/ intimate as the people participating want it to be. A bodily activity or the most intimate act to share with your chosen partner – it’s as important as you make it out to be, nothing more, nothing less.

#about me #about the mod #sex averse #sex repulsion #sex repulsed #sex aversion #sex positive asexual #sex positivity #sex positive #we are kink positive here sir #kink mention #kink positive #kink ment #acedadadvice #aegosexual #id in alt text #id included #image described #image description in alt

[what-even-is-thiss]

I still get the occasional person telling me I have “top energy” and idk what that’s supposed to mean but I’m a sex neutral to repulsed asexual. My position in bed is idk dude can we get this over with I’ve got stuff to do

#roman said a thing #sex ment tw

[punkpuppylove]

polyamorous transsexual sex. reblog if you agree.

#tiki talks #poly #polyamourous #trans #sex ment tw

[notfromcold]

Izzy: I ... apologize. I thought that you and Blackbeard were engaging in activities of a, uh... sexual nature and it was affecting his judgment. I see now I misunderstood... it was simply fencing practice.

Stede: Oh, no no no. No, we were not doing anything like that.

Stede: We are now, mind you!

Ed: Quite a bit!

Stede: Quite a bit! But we weren't then!

#ofmd #sex ment

[doriandrifting]

Pure chaos.

#finn wolfhard #stranger things #interview #sex ment tw #ass eating ment LMAOOO

[demeterdefence]

i have a lot of bones to pick this chapter and i will get to that but i'm still really pressed by how rachel depicts kronos apparently grieving having to kill hera in her vision

rachel does this really gross thing where at some point in the narrative, she'll have the male abuser depict some kind of sadness in regards to his female victim, but it is not remorse. it really reads like whitewashing the abuse itself because "can't you see how upset the abuser is that he has to do this :("

apollo got that really disgusting pov chapter talking about his perspective on persephone after raping her and that was bad enough, but then you also see kronos and his relationship with hera being sanitized or even shipped, when hera said verbatim that he abused her and she did not want to sleep with him, she had hoped she could just charm him. the narrative explicitly points out that kronos is a chronic abuser - he kills or severely injures rhea in a fit of rage after using all her powers, he frequently drives away any nymph or consort who approaches him, and he spends who knows how long mentally torturing hera.

there's another essay tucked into that but i just find it so fucking egregious that rachel wants to portray kronos as being upset he has to kill hera because of his own feelings for her, when the fact of the matter is he is choosing to kill her, just like he chose to kill rhea, and swallow his sons, and tear hera in half. depicting an abuser (a serial abuser, in this case) as being upset over an action he's choosing to do for his own benefit is ... a choice, and a disturbing one. why are we centering the abuser in a sympathetic light when he is still ultimately abusing someone???

#anti lo #anti lore olympus #abuse ment / #just to be safe #it just strikes me as so ... backwards isn't strong enough it really disturbs me #esp considering the random ass sex scene in the next chapter and THOSE implications #but lo constantly just ... focuses time and energy on the male perpetuators of violence #and not on like ... their female victims lol #and if focus IS given to them it's handwaved away #demeter being tricked into having sex with zeus??? her frequent abuse from hades? nada #also hera saying ''i love you'' to a monster who is capable of killing her and everyone she loves #whom she is sleeping with in order to stop him from destroying everything #and people saying ''yeah that's a ship right there'' #nothing in this rant is coherent these tags are a mess lmao

[flowerbloom-arts]

Poor lad.

#moomins #moominvalley #art #hodgkins #moomin hodgkins #joxter #moomin fredrickson #juddler #moominpappa #young moominpappa #minor swearing #sex ment tw

[thecommunalfoolboy]

It’s so crazy to me that people associate asexuality and sex repulsion with women, can’t imagine it in a guy, don’t think men like that exist, ect ect. It’s part of that ace feeling of “but wait doesn’t everyone feel like that?” Like as an asexual sex repulsed man I think asexual sex repulsed and immediately think “man.” To me it’s crazy that other men actually be fuckin it’s wild

#asexual #asexual memes #asexual moment #asexuality #ace #ace representation #actually ace #ace problems #ace pride #acephobia #ace moment #ace memes #acespec #sex repulsed #tw sex mention #sex ment tw #tw implied sex

[scarorb]

#lady's art #fern's art #scarab #the scarab #orbo #scarorb #sex ment #adventure time #fionna & cake #fionna and cake

[altschmerzes]

on a related note, oh my gd is trying to find advice on or information about writing sex scenes ever a fucking Grim experience. it's like a roulette wheel of arophobia, acephobia, insane generalizations, transphobia, misogyny, gender essentialism, more insane generalizations, and half the links on guides or compilations of resources are dead lmao.

and so much of what i CAN access, all of the other weirdness aside, is written in such a like... catty, rude tone? like hello can we all calm down please. can people who write about sex a lot or want to provide resources for writing about sex please be less fucking weird about sex.

#gav gab #THERE'S SO MUCH GOING ON HERE. SO MUCH. #me trying to do research and running face-first into a lot of the reasons why i simply don't go near this type of writing/reading #even without the romance repulsion #sex ment #the tone issue is so fucking weird too lmao #i'm just trying to look up advice for how to write about x sex act can you stop being weird and mean to me

[rawbutchwolf]

wanna get high and play with a cute girl on my lap while she's extra sensitive so bad. mouth at her neck, lick her jaw. rub her nipples, hear her gasp and clutch me. grind against her ass. keep her on the edge shaking and whimpering till I inevitably bend her over the nearest surface and fuck her so good she comes undone and can't do anything but moan and whine uncontrollably while she cums on my cock over and over again

#lesbian nsft #butch dom #few weeks ago got high n had sex for like 6 hours almost straight. #i was tired as shit the next day lmfao but it was fun so no regrets #weed lesbians i love you #raw post #drug ment

[darubyprincx]

im sick n fucking tired of these "aro/ace shy people who never make sex jokes or flirt" wheres my aros/aces who have the dirtiest minds in their entire friend group and flirt shamelessly with baristas. wheres my allos who actually just never talk about those things cause they're just [shrug] about it. what about ace/aspecs with allo partners who literally dont care for sex but do it anyways with them because they genuinely dont mind and it benefits their partner. like come on guys we've got the whole range of the coolest people on earth and y'all are just choosing the extremes??? FUCK YOU ALL this character who regularly flirts with everyone and makes so many innuendoes all the time is aroace actually. its canon because I Fucking Say So

#ray's tag #sex ment #aromantic #asexual #mythicalsausage is now aroace

[fountain-ring]

trick question def all of em would fuck their clone

#nu metal #slipknot #corey taylor #joey jordison #craig jones #shawn crahan #sid wilson #paul gray #jay weinberg #mick thomson #jim root #sex ment tw

[interplanetarypurplythornyrose]

God the expression "In their guts" really is the nastiest way to describe sex. Like "damn I'm really in his trachea"-

Actually nevermind i know some of you would like to hear that. I don't understand allos

#asexual #sex repulsed #asexuality #sex ment tw

[lex-the-lesbiann]

headcanon that the only reason Lark fucked Rebecca was to make Henry upset because she’s a centrist

#Larks like “augh im so edgy and i HATE you ughh dad youre the WORST!” #and Henrys like “yeah thats fine thats understandable i love you” #then Sparrow brings home a centrist and Henry has a heart attack #and roll the clip thats like “the grinch had a wonderful. awful. idea” #sex ment tw #tw sex mention #cw sex mention #dndads #dungeons and daddies #dungeon and daddies #lark oak garcia #lark garcia #lark oak #sparrow oak garcia #sparrow oak #sparrow oak swallows garcia #henry oak garcia #henry oak #rebecca oak swallows garcia #lark and sparrow