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youngchronicpain · 6 months

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Say it with me, kids, "I do not deserve this pain. I am in chronic pain due to forces outside of my control. I should not have to earn pain relief. I am good. I do not deserve to be shamed for my pain. It is not my fault."

#say it again and again and again #it is not your fault #chronic pain

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guhmshuda · 2 months

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just got to know kal results aa rahe hai (shayad) but please PLEASE remember there is more to life than this fuck all education system.

stay strong!! congratulations on giving your absolute best! please don't be hard on yourselves babies

take care!

sending love and kisses.

#desiblr #desi stuff #desi tumblr #education #system #our education system is fucked #IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT #trust me #i have lived enough to know it is not you.#it is them #desi studyblr #studyblr #study tumblr #desi study tumblr #competitive exams #desi #desi tag

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queercatcave · 10 months

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If your disability resulted from self-harm, it is not your fault.

If your disability resulted from a suicide attempt(s), it is not your fault.

If your disability resulted from an eating disorder, it is not your fault.

If your disability resulted from substance abuse, it is not your fault,

Your disability is not your fault.

No matter how it happened, you deserve compassion and love and accommodation just as much as anyone else.

#you are not alone #it is not your fault #disabled #disability #mental health

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mental-illness-bingo · 2 years

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If anyone out there has been waiting for a sign to tell a trusted adult something bad happened/is happening to you, this is it. Here is the sign.

If you thought "it's not that bad", "I'm making a big deal out of nothing", "it's not worth upsetting them", etc. I want you to know I'm talking to you too. It is bad enough, whatever it is.

Talking to a trusted adult does not have to mean everyone in the world finds out, if it does turn out to be not as bad as you thought. If it's upsetting you or making you uncomfortable, it's important and worth talking to them about.

Part of trusted adults' jobs in your life, whether they are family, chosen family/friends's parents, social workers, school counselors, teachers, principals, doctors, coaches, etc., is to listen to this type of thing - whatever type of thing it is - and help you work through your feelings with it no matter how big or small it is. Another part of their job is to decide if it's important enough to talk to others about.

But none of that is your job. Your job is just to talk to someone you trust, tell them the details of what happened, and help them help you.

They may have seen signs but doubted themselves, or they may not have realized anything is wrong yet, which would be why they haven't asked you about it. Just because they haven't doesn't mean they don't want to know.

Sometimes because you're going through it, it feels like the whole world should be able to tell, but the truth is even if you are showing signs, most of the time adults won't want to overreact and push you away/freak you out if nothing is wrong.

None of that means they don't want to know - often it means the exact opposite; that they are trying to make sure you feel comfortable talking to them and know that they won't push/force you.

Trust me, if you have adults in your life you can count on, and you don't tell them, one day you will find yourself regretting it.

If you're anything like me, you'll realize that some things you thought you were "being dramatic" by even feeling upset about were actually worth talking to police about.

If you're anything like me, you'll realize the adults you were protecting would give anything to go back and time and protect you.

Even if it turns out to be a "normal thing" that happens to everyone, you deserve to have your problems talked about and understood.

If you don't have anyone safe to talk to, I'm sorry. I wish you all the best, and I hope soon a safe adult enters your life who you can tell.

Most importantly, I want you all to know that I believe you. Your hurt/anger/pretty much any emotion you feel about this is valid.

Please, if you have the choice, don't deal with this all by yourself or with other minors who can't help you as much as they'd like to/don't know what to do.

If there is someone you trust, talk to them. If this post resonates, it's for you.

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stil-lindigo · 3 months

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Bisan is calling for another global strike!

I saw some posts just outlining Jan 21st, and wanted to clarify that Bisan has called for a full seven days of action.

What a global strike would look like is:

calling in sick to work

purchasing bare essentials ahead of the week so you can observe the general boycott of goods / buying as little as you genuinely can

putting in a concerted effort to elevate Palestinian voices and make it clear that this strike is in support of a permanent ceasefire!

For those who will have to purchase necessary goods during this time, please observe the brands that the BDS movement is asking us to boycott!

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Right now is also a good time to mention some better uses for your money during this week.

Available e-sims in Gaza are running low!!

Mirna El Helbawi and her team are working round the clock to continue to connect Palestinians as Israel does its best to cut them off from the rest of the world.

You can learn how to purchase and send e-sims here, and below you’ll find a list of what is currently needed (the areas in brackets indicate what region you should select to buy e-sims in).

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CareforGaza is an organisation that does verifiably good work, distributing supplies directly to Palestinian families.

They have a Gofundme set up at the moment, but because of Gofundme’s poor track record regarding refusing to transfer funds to Palestinians, I’d recommend continuing to donate directly to their PayPal here.

Good luck to all of you. Don't turn away from Palestine!

#i know that for some people their first instinct will be to scoff. how can anyone just not buy things for a full week?#what about groceries? rent?#and personally. i wanna say yes. there are some things that we have to spend money on to survive.#but it is possible still to make a concerted effort in your life #to carve out seven days where you can minimise that amount of money #i know its a lot.#for some people who are living on a tight budget. i know its not possible and i dont fault you for that #but i know for a fact that so many of us would be able to take out a few daily purchases in observance of this strike #do your best #dont turn away from palestine #free palestine #palestine #from the river to the sea #call to action

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thottybrucewayne · 8 days

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You have to recognize your capacity for harm. You cannot omit the harm you've done to others to remain "good." Anybody can be a bigot. Anyone can be an abuser. Anyone can harm anyone at any time even those who have been harmed themselves. The world is not made up of victims and villains only, this is life, not a Saturday morning cartoon and you are a human being who can or maybe even has hurt others and you HAVE to acknowledge that to learn to be better.

#thotty speaks #like I'm not perfect by any means #I've made mistakes but growing from those mistakes took me acknowledging that I've made them #Sometimes it is your fault! Guilt will come but you have to face it and use it to grow

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madohomurat · 5 months

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trans women are everywhere and are so eager to be seen and heard but only if they feel safe around you. if you hardly ever have trans women interacting with you, especially online, then consider there might be a reason for that and you should address it

#the same thing happens with black people #black people are everywhere! especially online! black gay and black trans people!#but when your community is suspiciously devoid of them then theres something wrong and you need to acknowledge it #even if its not intentional you need to think about how theres minority groups who do not feel safe around you at face value #this is why loud and outright support and solidarity is so important #black people and trans people and etc minority groups will assume you are unsafe unless you explicitly state otherwise #you can't just sit there and say 'well they didnt approach us so its not our fault for not including them!'#like did you TRY to get them to approach you??#cy texts

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visenyaism · 8 months

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i just feel like “what if the trauma we go through is usually not noble but purposeless and terrible and the things we develop to keep us alive often change us for the worse” is one of the most important realizations you can come to in terms of like. empathizing with your fellow man and yet whenever that theme shows up in fiction so many people are immediately like its either PERFECT VICTIM OR IRREDEEMABLY EVIL. open the door and walk out of the dichotomy

#like this does not make it your fault but neither does it absolve you from trying to change!!#that’s the human condition idk #asoiaf

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maxgicalgirl · 2 months

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Being a “Fun Fact !” kind of autistic is all fun and games until you get halfway through sharing an interesting tidbit and realize that it probably wasn’t appropriate to share in polite company and now you have to deal with the consequences :(

#autism #neurodivergent #adhd #fun facts #GOD I’m such an idiot #anyways now a 10 year old is out there looking up swear words online and it’s all my fault :(#I got so excited by the fact that I knew a fun fact #that I didn’t stop to think that maybe not everyone knows that fun fact for a reason :(#it’s like explaining how to successfully bury a body at a book club #or explaining the dangers of Scientology to your sister’s boyfriend the first time you meet him #or debating gay sex positions with your best friend in front of your mom #no matter how much I wish to be a beacon of knowledge in this world #sometimes there are things others just don’t want to know #and consciously that’s valid but the autism ? I does not care

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montanabohemian · 10 months

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if i see a single one of you pissed that your faves canceled an event or a con appearance because they're striking for fair wages then imma come for you in your sleep 🔪🔪🔪

(direct that fury where it belongs: AMPTP and the execs)

#sag aftra #sagaftra #sag aftra strong #sag aftra strike #union strong #wga strike #PAY THE FUCKING ACTORS AND WRITERS #i hope the execs lose EVERYTHING #sag strike #sag-aftra #(BY THE WAY I'VE MADE A MINOR EDIT ON THE ORIGINAL POST)#in case you're confused: BE PISSED OFF. BUT DIRECT IT AT AMPTP AND THE EXECS.#if you don't get to see your fave at an event or a con? IT IS NOT THE UNION'S FAULT. IT IS THE FAULT OF THE EXECS #AMPTP AND THE EXECS ARE REFUSINGS TO NEGOTIATE IN GOOD FAITH AND ARE REFUSING TO PAY ACTORS AND WRITERS FAIRLY #SUPPORT THE WGA AND SAG STRIKE #if that means you can't see them at a con? then take the money you were gonna spend on that con and donate it #to the entertainment community fund #DIRECT YOUR ANGER WHERE IT BELONGS #WHICH IS AT AMPTP AND THE GREEDY PIECE OF SHIT EXECS #another edit: i forgot to add alt text which is my bad. I HAVE CORRECTED THAT.

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gerrysroots · 3 months

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You know what I will defend Colin even if he IS making the tech malfunction. Fuck that spacebar up Scottish man

#babygirl i am bewitched by your boiling rage and your scottish accent.#tmagp #the magnus protocol #tmagp 3 #colin becher #coling tmagp #tina.exe #not my fault that scottish accents are so hot #justice for colin #tmagp 1 #tmagp spoilers

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onetaho · 3 months

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hazbin hotel old man yaoi

#onetaho's art #hazbin hotel #hazbin hotel fanart #hazbin hotel lucifer #hazbin hotel alastor #radioapple #appleradio #old man yaoi #drew this for zhier because they drew my wife so good #they amplified my love for radioapple this is your fault

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litany-writes · 11 months

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savior complex

#litany-writes-poetry #poetry #tw sui ideation #(referenced)#(and not mine)#to anyone else who #like me #is overempathetic and/or feels responsible for the mental health of their friends #listen to me. it's not your fault #it isn't your fault #they are hurt and you hurt for them but if they are so entranced with self-destruction and you can't save them?#it is not your fault #and i love you #and i hope you are kind to yourself. you deserve it more than anyone

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phoenixonwheels · 3 months

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Pretty much every country: Stopped tracking Covid infections, hospitalizations and deaths.

99% of doctors: Claim Long Covid doesn’t exist. Tell patients they’re lazy, not disabled. Refuse to admit illnesses and deaths are due to damage done by Covid.

The 99% of the population who have their heads up their asses about Covid: If Covid is so dangerous why are hospitalizations down? Why aren’t people dying of it any more?

#wear a fucking mask #if you refuse to mask you WILL end up with long covid #and it will be your fault #and you will deserve it

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thepeacefulgarden · 10 months

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