#it’s true tho

[happyheidi]

“What if we could let go of the binaries of good or bad, beautiful or ugly when talking about feelings?

What if we could see all feelings as necessary arrows, pointing us towards needs that are met or unmet?

What if we looked like the hard, messy, so-called ugly feelings with curiosity and compassion, rather than repressing them out of shame?”

(via)

#this is important #cottagecore #dogs #animals #it’s true tho #text #nature #naturecore #flowers #flowercore #warmcore #cottage academia #light academia aesthetic #positivity #vibes #idk how to tag this #but I love the overall message a lot

[nothingbutloveforyou]

i want the small but significant things. the goodbye and hello kisses, knowing how they like their tea/ coffee, taking care of them when they’re sick, „i got that thing you mentioned“, falling asleep in each other’s arms and them being the first thing you see when you wake up, lazily making out, being a shoulder to cry on, cooking together and for each other, making memories together … sharing our lives until we can’t tell where one ends and the other begins

#what is this rambling ? #it’s true tho #nothingbutloveforyou #quote #quotes #quote love #love quotes #beautiful words #words #poem #lovers #aesthetic #couple aesthetic #love #couple #hug #love scene #kindness

[bnprm]

may and cody: literally a married couple with a child

phil: they’re very dan and phil coded

#it’s true tho #their competitive edge helping them bond? #so dan and phil #dan and phil #dnp #dan and phil games #gaming as #phan

[stardustednymph]

if im existing then there’s a 98% chance im thinking about bumbleby

#bumbleby #rwby #yang xiao long #blake belladonna #thenymphrambles #it’s true tho #they’re almost always on my mind

[iwanthermidnightz]

#it’s true tho

[anouri]

what if us fic writers just started replying to all critiques with this en masse:

#it’s true tho #a decomposing dump of my thoughts

[agentfaust]

ethan hunt is an emotionally traumatized puppy and i want nothing more than to boop him on the nose

#mission impossible #ethan hunt #it’s true tho #what i wouldn’t give…

[traffys]

#one piece #trafalgar law #fem trafalgar law #trafalgar d. water law #did i do this right? #idk #it’s true tho #*mine

[ari-kari]

something I’ve noticed as I begin to include more “realistic” communication in my written work - particularly when it comes to boundaries and consent - is that after a while, it sort of rewires your brain a bit. And rather than feel turned off by it, you actually start to find it more attractive than the alternative.

Human communication is hard. I say this as someone who basically had to learn it from scratch as an adult. Expressing challenging emotions mid-hookup? Setting a hard boundary on what you do/don’t want? That shit can be awkward, and sometimes, even a “mood-killer” - if you’re thinking of “mood” as the constant presence of undisrupted, purely-libidinous thoughts.

But one-note human interactions don’t exist. We are complex creatures; there are always going to be mood fluctuations and energy changes in any given moment. And that was something that was very important for me to realize - in my writing, but also, in my personal life. I had to learn to make space for the full spectrum of human emotion in my sexual and romantic interactions (even for spur-of-the-moment hookups where “spontaneity” is a large part of the appeal.)

But I did. And now…I don’t know how I ever lived without it, to be honest. Because in my mind, introducing communication serves the following purposes:

1) Makes sex/romance interesting and varied, instead of some one-dimensional expression of “carnal desire” you read in shitty pulp novels.

2) Normalizes boundaries and consent, which (obviously) makes sex a lot more healthy and enjoyable in the long run.

3) When the hard stuff is over with, you can get back to it - and it’s literally way more intense when you do! Because not only have you strengthened that connection with your partner, you also get the catharsis of reuniting after the fact. And in a literary context at least, the laws of tension/release create a much more fulfilling end result than just rawdogging it in absolute silence for 10 minutes.

Obviously, there’s a time and a place for unbridled lust in fiction (even in real life, if you’ve communicated beforehand.) And I’m not saying every sexual/romantic interaction has to devolve into a round table discussion on feelings and preferences. I guess I’m just glad that I’ve found a place for human complexity in these moments, and even grown to enjoy its presence. Because as someone who used to have a lot of non-sober sex in an effort to “keep the good times going”……..it’s boring. And I’m a lot happier now that I’ve realized how genuinely sexy using your words can be.

#personal #writing #fic #I’m trying so hard not to do my homework right now send help #it’s true tho #long post

[astridshifts]

I hate the accidental pregnancy trope but do I want to see Aaron Hotchner thrown into parenting a newborn (adoption/emergency fostering) with Y/N and fluffy moments ensue 😩🤚🏻

#have my babies #I mean what #it’s true tho #aaron hotchner #aaron hotch fic #aaron hotchner smut #aaron hotch smut #aaron hotchner x reader #aaron hotch x reader #fluff #aaron hotch fluff #aaron hotch imagine #aaron hotchner imagine #why are there so many aaron Hotchner tags #fuck I just made one more #aaron hotch hotchner #criminal minds #hotch x reader #dbf!hotch #hotch x y/n #the word Hotch looks weird to me now #I can’t lie

[autistic-katara]

Will: has lips

Mike:

#idk if anyones done this yet #someone probably has #it’s true tho #byler #stranger things meme

[skaterbeth]

percy just randomly trusting a MONSTER cause he was hungry. that’s white boy confidence right there

#sorry. #it’s true tho #i’ll make an actual post about this ep layer #later* #pjo #percy jackson #pjo tv #pjo spoilers #pjo 1.3

[deep-peach]

‪Deleting my dating apps because I want to meet someone the old fashioned way: both of us trying to outsmart the other in a long con of false identities, witty repartee, and scathing exposés before admitting we’ve met our match and get whisked away in a helicopter to get married‬

#down with love #it’s true tho #not the deleting my apps part 🌚 #txt #peach posts

[draconic-ichor]

Friends and family begging on their hands and knees for me to not be cringe

Me:

#then beg meme #it’s true tho #I can’t control the brain rot #they haunt me

[shieldofiron]

I wish I could get into stranger things, but since my sisters watch it all the time, it's kinda been spoiled for me through osmosis. The Fandom and the show looks cool. But I've been spoiled about everything already. Plus with my adhd I have a short attention span.

Tbh I don’t believe you need to watch something to be in the fandom. Others may say differently but I think if you get the dynamic you can just rock it from there.

Honestly, some parts of stranger things are so plot hole-y and annoying you’re doing yourself a favor.

I mean look at the material?

#asks #It’s true tho #harringrove

[oswaldthehero]

#doc ock #doctor octopus #spider man: octopus girl #it’s true tho