#it's not that hard

[mandos-mind-trick]

This also very much applies to fanfics. Some people need to take a step back and think before they make straight fools out of themselves.

#you're not cute for coming into the comments on someone's fic saying you don't like it #just hit the back button and move on #it's not that hard

[kissesfemme]

please remember that the boundaries of dom(me)s and tops are just as important as those of bottoms and subs. this is especially true ONLINE. just because they're a dom(me) or top does not mean that they will be willing to flirt with you or entertain sexually forward messages. posting nsfw content does not mean consent.

#💋 #please i'm begging #i see so many of my friends blatantly have their boundaries disrespected #it's not that hard

[thereallyreallylatebird]

Daily reminder that using "asexual" as an umbrella term for ace-spec identities is fine and good.

But also,

Daily reminder that using "asexual" as an umbrella term for ace *and* aro-spec identities is not.

Aromanticism is not a subset of asexuality, and should not be grouped under the term asexual as if it is. Doing so erases aromantic allosexual people by making being asexual a barrier to entry to being aromantic.

No, it doesn't matter that's how it's been used in the past. Terminology changes. No, it doesn't matter if you don't mean it that way, people trying to figure out their identity will still see that you're grouping aromantic under asexual and assume they can't be aromantic because they're not asexual (partially why it took me so long to figure out I'm aro).

That's all.

#brought to you by me having an argument about this exact thing in a youtube comments section #with an aroace (unconfirmed but definitely aroace or alloace) person too #this is our (aroallos) community as well #please use inclusive language #it's not that hard #aromantic #asexual #aromantic allosexual #aro #ace #aroallo #thereallyreallylatebird

[blackbackedjackal]

As an aside, I grew up in the 'rofl LOL XD haters gonna hate' era where all we did was clown on people for being weird about other people enjoying things. Especially when it's harmless and not really affecting you. Like you're allowed to not vibe with stuff, but don't go to other people's spaces, say stupid shit, and expect to not get checked.

#don't be a hater mf #it's not that hard #sometimes I'm STILL a hater and I gotta check myself #it's about letting people enjoy their niche interests and respecting them and appreciating the passion #jackal's journal

[thisishowgalaxiescollide]

He went there. Good for him.

#and if you say you believe in that you should be able to put the jersey on #quinn hughes #it's not that hard #pride night #canucks #22 23 season

[that-multi-fandom-hijabi]

britain conquered more than half the fucking world for spices and then proceeded to use none of them in their food.

#SEASON #YOUR #FOOD #SEASON IT #IT'S NOT THAT HARD #SALT AND PEPPER ISN'T ENOUGH #edit: british people i did not mean to upset yall-

[ilovereadingandstuff]

TRUER WORDS COULDN'T BE SPOKEN!!

Also yes

Source

#bakudeku #izuku midoriya #bkdk #bakugou katsuki #bnha spoilers #bakudeku angst?? #it's not that hard #bakudeku is real

[jjaydazo]

Seeing a Ship I strongly dislike and find discomfort on my feed: Grrrrrr...... no no, I am an adult. And I will do the Mature and responsible thing to do.

*block the artist without interacting with them and add the list of the tags I don't want to see in my dashboard and feed*

#Cmon #it's not that hard #the people you blocked wouldn't even know you blocked them in the first place #unless you told them. #fandom

[bylersrise]

can we stop hating on characters just because we hate the actor? thanks

#you know who this is about #i love will #can we not? #the character is not the actor #poor will didn't do anything #and you all still hate him #learn to separate the character and the actor #it's not that hard #if i can do it #you can do it too #stranger things #will byers #noah schnapp #byler #<- target audience

[parachutingkitten]

How the hell did we get a ninjago movie with a large plot point involving a tall building with absolutely zero inclusion of Borg Tower???

#I'm sorry where’s borg tower? #it's quite literally the defining feature of the city #possibly the whole content/realm #you really just gonna leave it out of your adaptation? #it’s a tall skyscraper with a funky thing on top #it's not that hard #ninjago #tlnm #/lh

[daenerystargaryen06]

Targaryen haters are maddening

Can people stop with labeling the Targaryen's as colonizer's and Nazis? People really do have no reading comprehension whatsoever towards the world of asoiaf, specifically the Targs in general, by mislabeling them and hating on them for supposedly 'colonizing' Westeros. How can they label the Targ's as colonizers, yet ignore the fact that House Stark's ancestors literally did the same exact thing?

Aegon the Conqueror united Westeros with his sister-wives, Visenya and Rhaenys. But when he and his sisters conquered over the Seven Kingdoms and united them together, they did not erase any part of the Seven Kingdoms' ways. They did not force the people of the Seven Kingdoms to follow in their ways, nor did they force the people to abandon the gods they followed for the gods of Valyria, where the Targ's were originally from. They allowed the people to keep their traditions, beliefs, and customs even when united under Aegon's rule. Nor did they force the people into practicing close-related incestuous relations, and they definitely did not force any of the people to replace their banners, items of value, and ways of living for their own.

The Targaryen's are NOT 'Nazis' for utilizing their dragons. Targaryen's did not commit specific acts of genocide against a race, culture, or people such as Nazi's have done. I myself am Jewish. Nowhere in asoiaf, GoT, or HOTD does it show or say that the Targaryen's eradicated or went after a specific race, people, or culture that wasn't theirs. Did they use their dragons in war, and burned people that didn't swear fealty to them? Yes. But they did NOT target those people because of their specific race, nor did they try to eradicate race/cultures just because the Targaryen's were different from them. In asoiaf and GoT, we have one character that actually does the opposite, Dany. Daenerys conforms to other cultures and keeps an open mind about their traditions, ways of living, and conforms to those ways because they are her people. She learns about her peoples livelihoods, what they value, and does not judge other people for those things, nor does she attempt to kill anyone or eradicate their culture or race just because they are different from her and what her House used to do, or believe in. There is also the fact that during their reign, the Targaryen's conformed and kept the religion of the Faith of the Seven, rather than attempting at pushing for their own gods onto others, and eradicating those that had belief said Faith. The Targaryen's do not commit genocide towards a specific race or culture. They are NOT Nazi's in any form of way, just because they have dragons and utilize said dragons. Perhaps people should spend time on studying their history, and what specific terms actually mean, instead of throwing around labels towards fictional characters, who committed around the same acts of violence every other House did in the series (or are we just ignoring the fact that Westeros warred within itself before Aegon united the lands, or the fact that the First Men first came to Westeros' shores, and decided to eradicate the Children of the Forest?)

It is entirely ridiculous to hate on the Targaryen's for conquering Westeros, and labeling them as 'colonizers', compared to the First Men, and ancestors of the Stark's. When they arrived to Westeros- they had chopped down Weirwoods, which were sacred to the gods and Children of the Forest. They warred against the Children, took their lands, and diminished them. Though a pact of peace was created between them, it does not change the fact that the First Men enacted horrible things to the Children of the Forest, and took lands that the Children once inhabited as theirs to chop down the forests and build settlements and roads for their own people, considering they were outsiders to the land.

I also see people calling the Targ's slavers. Slavery was practiced in Old Valyria, by many other Houses that weren't just Targaryen. Essos continued its slavery, but when the Targ's went to Westeros before the Doom, slavery was outlawed and they did not continue its practices. Not to mention, Daenerys, is fighting against slavery. She is attempting to dismantle the practice, and considers everyone as equal, being the first Targaryen to fight against slavery- considering she herself was once a slave. Daenerys is NOT a slaver. She does not want to own others, make them do her bidding, and treat them as lower than her. She herself was once a slave, and does not want to see it continued in others. Daenerys' arc centers around her compassion, empathy, and her drive to end the suffering for those others see as 'lowly' or 'property'. She is the voice speaking for those who have suffered, who gives them strength and courage to not be owned by others. She is the driving force that enables the people to free themselves from the masters.

A comment I saw on Tik Tok inspired this little rant... I just beg for people to gain some reading comprehension every once in a while. For my sanity.

#daenerys defence squad #daenerys targeryan #daenerys appreciation #daenerys stormborn #daenerys targaryen #pro daenerys targaryen #mother of dragons #breaker of chains #khaleesi #team daenerys #house of the dragon #house targaryen #anti daenerys antis #just learn how to read please #it's not that hard #i promise #game of thrones daenerys #queen daenerys #targnation

[soaps-mohawk]

Is your fic a soap or ghost fic? I’m still gonna read it because it sounds so cool and interesting but I really hope it’s about one of them

Poly is short for Polyamory.

Reader is with all of them. All four members of the 141. So yes, technically reader will be with both Ghost and Soap, as well as Price and Gaz.

#i cannot with these anons rn literally just read the pairings #it's not that hard #answered

[nickgoesinsane]

The only thing I hate about getting latino rep is that people use Google translate for phrases and nicknames when they could ask someone who speaks Spanish or do actual research.

Nothing ruins my mood more than seeing Castellano instead of a Mexican dialect for Miguel or a Puerto Rican dialect for Miles.

#: ̗̀➛ nick talks ! #just do some research #it's not that hard #miguel o'hara #miles morales #spiderman into the spiderverse #spiderman across the spiderverse

[hobartsaglet]

if one more person spells Hobie like Hobbie im going to violently correct them and then kill myself

#hobie brown #across the spiderverse #spider punk #spider verse #seriously if you like him so much #learn to spell his fucking name #it's not that hard

[systemserendipity]

《Edit (11/13/23): here's where we address any misinformation/misconceptions that may be spread due to this post》

Come on, y'all. It takes like. Ten minutes. Listen to other plurals' voices and experiences. Here, I'll help. And here's even *academic research*, if you really need that. I'll even give ya a specific screenshot if you need a tl;dr.

-Vic🌞he/they

#bernie sanders #spittin facts #pro endo #mixed origin #syscourse #endotraumagenic #endo friendly #plural memes #memes #mental health memes #systems #plural gang #pluralpunk #academic research #debunking sysmeds #research #it's not that hard #and please pay attention to ppl's DNIs

[avisisisis]

You people should learn that it's okay to like a character without bringing another one down

#this is for azula and zuko enjoyers #zuko is my favorite character. i love him no matter what #but i can still understand azula's situation even if i'm not as interested in her character as i am with zuko's #and guys. being understanding DOES NOT MEAN erasing the shit someone did #you can love azula while also admitting that she did horrible things #you can love zuko while not beinging katara down for disliking him after he betrayed her and almost got her bf killed #it's not that hard #zuko #azula #princess azula #prince zuko #atla #avatar the last airbender #fire siblings #fire hazard