#it's okay to have notps but always stay respectful towards *all* shippers

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Disney Fairies Shipping Rant

(Warning: unpopular opinions ahead. You may disagree, but I’ll defend my opinions! I don’t mean offense to any of the people who like certain pairings in this series--what you like isn’t a reflection of you as a person, or your intelligence or heart, it’s that simple--I just have a hard time understanding why it is some of these are as popular as they are.)

I marked 4 “NOTPs” on that shipping meme, and...let’s talk about it, I guess!

I’ll start simple. Tink/Bobble:

This was particularly big back in the day with the first couple of TB movies before the majority latched onto Tink/Vidia. I never really “got it” but for the most part I wouldn’t have ever had reason to dislike them as a ship if it hadn’t been for the shippers themselves...

I liked Terence as a character, as well as his relationship with Tink, and the Bobble/Tink fans were very vocal about disparaging Terence in favor of Bobble, when that’s really unnecessary. It’s possible to like an underrated character without the need to bash a popular one just because you’re personally not interested in them.

I basically won’t go into it any more than I have in the past--after I did a two-part video reading of comments on this one Tink/Bobble fan art piece, I wrote up my feelings here and it still stands up. Basically the sight of the ship leaves a bad taste in my mouth not because of the characters involved themselves, but by the attitude the ship seemed to be entirely based on.

The only thing I would add is that I ship Bobble/Clank and to me, they’re as good as an old married couple that just wasn’t confirmed because it’s Disney :(

Clarion/Milori:

What can I even say? I’ve ranted extensively on my old blog, but to rehash, here’s the deal: There was no reason Milori’s character needed to be invented in the first place. The major plot holes and inconsistencies in The Secret of the Wings seemed to have prompted his becoming a character, but I think more importantly it was for the cliche, forced “forbidden romance” sub-plot between him and Clarion.

They didn’t need to replace the female Minister of Winter from her position to bring in this Lord of Winter, his role and existence wasn’t properly set up, and his backstory + relationship with Queen Clarion wasn’t developed at all, they just relied on the fact that having a tragically star-crossed love interest who’s attractive is enough for people to accept at face value.

And they were right, I guess... 🙄

So again, for me it’s not that the pairing of these two characters in inherently a bad thing, but it has never tracked for me that such an underdeveloped, boring pairing is one of the most popular in the fanbase, like most people just accepted it because it was canon and I’m like “we’re allowed to....NOT ship canon pairings, if they add nothing to the characters and story...you don’t have to just accept it”

Zarina/James:

This is another one that is a majorly popular ship in the fanbase, and to me it’s similar to shipping Anna with Hans, but possibly even worse. He manipulated her and tried to get away with murdering her. In James’ case, he emotionally/psychologically manipulated Zarina for A YEAR before betraying her and then tossing her into the sea to die.

There are a lot of people who think Hans should be able to have a redemption plotline, and I’ll make no comment about that, but the big difference between him and James is that we KNOW Hook will never be redeemed. We know he has never and will never feel remorse about his actions or treatment of Z.

He goes on to become the most fearsome pirate of all time, murdering without second thought--and still goes on to manipulate Tink and capture her in a lantern, because, I quote, “a jealous female can be tricked into anything.” His line in TPF mirrors this attitude (“Fairies are such gullible creatures”) so like....he is and will always be a misogynist who never held respect for Z or Tink or any fairy/female.

Also, The Pirate Fairy was as poorly written as SotW if not more so, and Z herself wasn’t a well-developed character, so I should say “to each their own” for anyone who wanted to believe there was chemistry between Z + James and ship them, but it’s gross and disgusting and wrong. (no offense)

Tink/Vidia:

Back to something much less sinful, but even more heretical within this fanbase. Vidia is one of THE most popular fairies from the movies, and Tink/Vidia is one of the most popular ships. That’s fine. My stance happens to be different, because I guess I don’t view things the exact same way.

Vidia was cruel to Tink at first--and she’s nowhere near as bad as James; she’d never seriously want to hurt/kill somebody. But even after she is redeemed from her antagonist position....she’s honestly still pretty b*tchy to her so-called “friends.” I won’t be forgetting the scene in Legend of the Neverbeast anytime soon when Gruff sneezes/gets snot on them, Rosetta says “ew, my mouth was open!” and Vidia replies “It’s always open.” Like, there’s just no need for that, ever, it’s mean-spirited and didn’t need to be said, it didn’t help anything.

People seem to love sarcastic characters with a secret heart of gold, but I just can’t dig the way Vidia is treated like this amazing character just because she didn’t turn out to be genuinely evil, no matter how her attitude stayed. In the books, her character is more interesting to me--and she’s portrayed as a mean person, but also she knows it and the narrative doesn’t treat her like one of the girls who, oh, it’s just okay that she treats her friends poorly!

So yeah, Tink/Vidia never sat right with me. Also, within the books, they actually hate each other, not even like a sassy frenemy relationship, they can’t stand each other. Tink does NOT have a lot of patience--she would never stand for Vidia’s nasty attitude and just not call her out on it every time. They would never work in a relationship.

So, the reason people will hate me for having this opinion is because many seem to embrace Vidia as this lesbian icon (like those posts about how if she was your favorite fairy growing up, you’re gay) and Tink/Vidia as this natural pairing to come from their interaction in the movies. Lots of people automatically ship it, and I can see the distaste toward Tink/Terence as if it’s the boring, straight ship with no merit besides being basically canon.

Nobody has to ship Tink/Terence if it’s not their thing--I happen to like them, but they objectively have a LOT of development throughout the books, films and other media. More so than any of the canon ships like Clarion/Milori which people ATE UP even though they had NO development. If you ship Clarion/Milori and think Tink/Terence is boring, ya basic and hypocritical, but I digress.

What I mean to say is that if you’re not into Tink/Terence or basic, overhyped “straight” ships in general, your other option is not immediately Tink/Vidia. I’m bisexual myself, so it’s not like I’m anti-Vidibell because of homophobia or something. I really enjoy and appreciate f/f and m/m ships as well, and there are so many amazing fairies to ship Tink with who would have a more healthy and beautiful dynamic--which I think...good representation is better? Just me??

Tink had a lot of chemistry with Silvermist, in fact, someone who is genuinely kind and caring for Tink and vice versa. Tink/Sil is probably the most beautiful and natural pairing in the whole movie series, and it’s like no one has ever even CONSIDERED it because it’s so much more entertaining to have an enemies-to-lovers dynamic with the fairy who was mean to Tink, rather than the one who objectively cared the MOST.

Also, Tink and Zarina--they had a helluva dynamic in TPF. Stay hydrated with a drinking water game every time there’s a potential moment to read into wrt shipping them in that film. But then people want to ship Zarina with a man who tried to kill her instead.

So that’s the thing--I’m not mad at Tink/Bobble and Tink/Vidia because they go against Tink/Terence, but because of the attitude about it when arguably there are way better options than the ones people promote and those ones get entirely ignored and overlooked. It just grinds my gears. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

If you ship these pairing, I’m sorry if I hurt your feelings by calling them out like they’re these awful things--tbh the only one of these that I genuinely think is entirely and inherently bad in concept, is James/Z and I have no remorse if I offend anyone who ships that. Unfollow me, nasty.

To explain that in practice: if a picture of Clarion/Milori, Tink/Vidia or Tink/Bobble is cute, I’m still gonna reblog it and even tag it for those who enjoy the ships, because it doesn’t hurt me or anyone even if it’s not my taste. If J/Z is ever even implied I’m blocking people XD

#rant #anti ships #dont hate me for speaking my truth please #if you disagree feel free to state your case #im not the end all be all of whats good and not good #but ill go to my grave hating j/z particularly so its best not to touch that one okay?

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I’m gonna lose followers. Oh well... a rant by me.

People who harass others about SHIPPING FICTIONAL CHARACTERS are irksome.

Preface: if you say you don’t want someone role playing a NOTP with you or sending asks about it, or you don’t want secret Santa stuff containing it, if you ask people not to suggest fics with that pairing for your fic collections, if you stay out of your NOTP’s pairing tags, if you choose not to interact with material related to your NOTP, if you blacklist the pairing tag and ask people not to tag your fanwork with your NOTP, if you heed warnings and don’t click something with material you don’t like, I do not have a problem with you.

But if you write novel long posts about why a ship is gross to you and tag the pairing so shippers see it, send people hate over their ships, reblog fanworks of your NOTP with nasty messages to the op of the post, if you make a blog all about hating that ship and anyone who ships it, claim it must be grooming, or if you call people pedophiles or abuse apologists because they wrote something morally heinous in fiction that they will most likely never do irl, I’m not gonna have much respect for you beyond you being a fellow person.

Guess what? Shit you hate is going to exist on the internet. If someone tags their work appropriately or tags with appropriate warnings, you should not be clicking on it and harassing them! They have done what is necessary to protect those pearls you want to clutch.

Banning all questionable material is not going to save people who are targeted by predators and criminals.

Calling people pedophiles because they ship a fictional minor with a fictional adult gives actual pedophiles who go after actual minors a hiding place. These days you can’t tell if someone is an actual pedo or got called one over a ship they ship. Pedos are totally banking on that.

Fiction is supposed to break rules and let people explore dark subjects that are morally messed up because you can close a book or close a website if it gets too weird for you. A child with a predator’s hands on them right this moment can’t click an x or close a book to stop it.

Think about that.

No one is forcing you to go read morally messed up stuff. Not clicking on someone’s creepy fic with your NOTP is nowhere in the same realm as turning a blind eye to actual predators predating on someone.

Running someone off a website because your ass is on fire about them writing a pairing you hate or whatever is not going to stop the bad shit happening in the real world.

Predators and criminals will use anything, so someone’s freaky babyfur smutfic that they wrote to troll a fan website in 1999 is hardly going to normalize bad behavior.

I swear some of you insult the intelligence of people with your moral abuse garbage.

Teaching people to recognize predatory behavior and what to do about it will actually help. Teaching people what is and isn’t a healthy relationship will help.

Remember how people called out Twilight for how unhealthy Edward’s behavior towards Bella was? I’m sure a lot of preteen and teen girls learned to open their eyes a bit more. And I’m sure others still enjoyed the books and movies anyway because it’s fiction. It is the job of parents and guardians to teach their children what is and isn’t healthy in a relationship, but the unfortunate problem there is that can fail if the parents aren’t in a healthy relationship.

That’s why there needs to be more discussions about “this is healthy, that might be fun in a story, but that is not healthy in the real world and anybody who treats you like that is waving abuse red flags” rather than attacking somebody by saying “you’re a monster for shipping that”.

The whole point of art in any form is to create an emotional reaction in the audience.

Fucked up fictional shit exists on the internet. Get over it. I think the fact that people get freaked out by weird stuff in fiction is a clear indicator that it’s not being normalized by that piece of fiction. Flailing about it is not helping anything except your ego. It’s not gonna help survivors who write messed up stuff to cope, it’s going to make them go more silent.

Imagine being someone with an abusive pedo parent who takes comfort in the SessRin ship and being called a pedophile for it, or seeing people in the tag call Sesshoumaru a pedophile. That’s triggering as fuck for somebody.

Imagine being a Starkster going through sexual abuse who takes comfort in the ship, and being called a pedophile for it. Imagine seeing people in the tag call Tony a pedophile. That’s triggering as fuck for somebody.

Imagine having the heinous thing that happened to you being turned onto you as an accusation by people on a moral high horse who forget what pedophile means. That is triggering as fuck for somebody.

Nobody owes you a trauma history in order to be ‘allowed’ to create and post morally messed up fanworks. It’s on YOU to check for warnings and keep scrolling if it’s so offensive to your sensibilities.

What’s better? Discussion of tropes that are harmful if done badly. That’s a place to start. Save the accusations for people who are knowingly doing harm to people and not caring that they’re doing harm.

Go after shit that is actually exploiting actual people right now instead of harassing creators whose trauma you don’t know. Tell pedos their attraction to kids is not a sexuality and they have no place in the LGBTQIA+ community. Warn minors away from MAPs/NOMAPs. Expose predators who have exploitative materials of actual real children. Teach people to recognize predatory behavior like grooming. Find ways to get people out of human trafficking. Question adults if you see them touching or treating a child in a way that doesn’t look right. If you’re a minor and somebody keeps sending you porn material or pictures of their genitalia after you said stop, remind them that you’re a minor and expose the shit out of them. If you’re an adult and know somebody is doing that to a minor you talk to online, help them expose that person. That’s not all you can do, but I can’t think of everything. There’s a lot you can do that will actually help people!

But telling someone not to create something questionable because a predator might misuse it is utter horseshit.

I can bet you anything that every single person who hounds others about their ships has a whole bunch of fucked up stuff they read and never talk about because they know it will get them run off by the same people they use as shields against scrutiny.

I’ve read fucked up shit that I enjoyed because it was done well, but I can grasp that it is not okay to do the same thing in the real world and I would be horrified if I saw somebody doing the same thing in the real world. I am able to experience that moment of being horrified, sit with it and see where the fanwork takes me with that feeling.

I say this after I have just read an awesome morally gray Inuyasha fanfic called “Devour Prometheus” by ladybattousai on AO3. It’s gorey, there is murder, there is abuse, there is exploitation, there are allusions to animal trade and it’s the darkest thing I ever laid eyes on. My stomach twisted several times. It’s a fantastic lens on society right now. (Sesshoumaru’s speech about “don’t hold me to your hypocritical human morality” was epic af.)

And some of you are going to think the author is some kind of violence glorifying freak based only on that.

I feel like a lot of anti shippers and antis in general can’t get past that horrified feeling. They yell that they can’t enjoy the fandom if the material makes a hated pairing canon, so it’s like they don’t want anyone else to enjoy the fandom or the pairing. It’s very immature and scorched earth, and it hurts everyone.

Hey, guess what? I have written pairings with hella huge age gaps. Oh, the horror!

OptimusxMikaela? I headcanon Optimus as being 10 billion + years old, and Mikaela was 18 when they hooked up. Mikaela ages as the stories carry on through the years as my Danceverse series, so she’s in her 30s currently. They fucked and still fuck explicitly.

UnicronxStarscream? Unicron is as old as the universe, so 13 billion + (headcanon), and Starscream is probably 11 million or so (headcanon). They fuck explicitly.

Whouffaldi? The 12th Doctor is 2000+ and Clara is in her 20s. They fuck explicitly.

BeastGojixMiki? Godzilla has been alive for probably close to 65 years in the story, but he acts more like he’s in his 20s and he looks to be in his 20s when he turns back into a human. Miki is 18. They fuck in the story, but it’s written non explicitly.

Bowser JrxOC? Cherry is an oc who is 19. I aged Junior up in that story to be about 20. Their ages aren’t specified, but they’re mentioned to be adults. They fuck in the story, but it’s written non explicitly.

I have written fanfics with rape, abuse, murder, manslaughter, bdsm, stuff that’s morally messed up, etc, and I’m not a murdering rapist who eats children now, am I?

No, because I have no desire to do those things in the real world (because some are not possible...cuz I would date Optimus 😛) and I can distinguish fiction from reality. I can grasp the concept that fiction / art is not always endorsement.

Now get a grip on yourselves, put the pitchforks down and stop policing people’s imaginations.

#hypocrisy #purity culture #shipping wars #ship wars #fandom #anti antis #antis #swearing #pro shipping #tw csa #tw p e d o mention #IF I HAD A TARDIS I WOULD MESS UP SPACETIME SO BAD #if a MAP is getting help and stays away from kids then whatever #but if they parade around proud of it and see nothing wrong they better stay the f away from me or kids #if you are a p e d o harming real world children I will take your eyeballs out through your butthole

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NOTP RemRom-averse Awareness Post

Welcome. This is the list of users who do not like Remrom and cannot scroll past and ignore it, compiled so that shippers know who to unfollow/avoid/block/etc. Names have been added from public posts I’ve come across, or from users sending me asks or PMs. 

To be on this post, you are directly asking Remrom shippers to do something, whether it be to block/unfollow you, to not interact with you, or to be extra careful around your trigger. You have crossed into our lane, and I am obligated to respond to your request. Users who are overly hostile, aggressive, or unrepentantly post death threats or suicide baiting towards Remrom shippers will also be added and tagged with applicable warnings.

To be clear: NOTPs - people who are non-aggressive but still opposed enough to RemRom to be unable to ignore it and scroll past Antis - people aggressively stirring up discourse in the fandom and violently and/or vocally opposing RemRom

(If you wish to be removed from one of these lists for any reason, contact me via an Ask or PM and we will discuss the matter. I have answered asks about this process, but I will consider each case individually and I am willing to work towards an agreement.)

I promise that I will do my best to respect DNIs and not @ tag anyone on this list as long as they stay in their own lane - however, if a user interacts with me or makes posts/comments about Remrom, I will probably respond (not always, but probably).

If anyone sees someone not on the list already talk about being anti-ship, request that shippers DNI, or publicly say that this topic is a trigger for them, I encourage you to let me know with a link to their post, and I will add them to the NOTP list so that their wishes can be respected.

Shippers: DO NOT send these people hatemail, period, no matter how hostile they are. Not everybody likes every pairing, and that’s okay. (And hey! Now that this list exists, maybe anti-shippers will stop making their own hate-posts about Remrom shippers and leave us alone!)

(Edited to Add: Dear NOTPs and Antis, please understand that you are fully capable of filtering the #remrom and #romrem tags, and that taking the next step to “unfollow/blocking” and asking people to “DNI” is an extreme reaction not to be taken lightly. Please take a moment to read this post before being asked to be added to this list.)

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Tag List Legend:

[DNI] = This user has requested that shippers Do Not Interact with them.

[*unfollow*] = This user has requested that anyone who ships Rem/Rom should “get off their blog”, unfollow and/or block them, or they’ve said they will block anyone who is a pro-shipper. 

[*trigger*] = This user has said that this is a trigger. Please do not tag or mention incest or remrom to them, either anti or pro.

[*sensitive*]  = This user is sensitive to this topic. Please do not tag or mention incest or remrom to them, either anti or pro.

[~Hostile~] = This user is actively stirring up trouble and/or spreading hostile messages in the fandom, and/or purposefully provoking Remrom shippers.

[~Hurtful~] = This user had been informed that their hostile anti-shipping comments are hurting people, and they are unwilling to listen. They know they are hurting people and are willfully and intentionally continuing to spread hate in the fandom. Pro-shippers, please completely avoid for your mental health. 

[~Violent~] = This user, whether “as a joke haha” or “maliciously”, chose to punctuate their opinion with a threat of violence towards pro-shippers. 

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Trigger/Sensitivity List: 

(Note: all post links have been moved to Gdoc)

(Please do not mention incest or Remrom to these users, either anti or pro. They are deeply uncomfortable with the topic and should be left completely out of the conversation.)

(ETA: This is by no means an exhaustive list of everyone who is triggered/sensitive to Remrom, only the ones I’ve come across or have spoken to via ask or PM about being on this list because they need Shippers to be extra careful around them. Some people prefer not to be on this list and I respect their wishes.)

@actslikeacat [Public Request, comment] [*sensitive*] 

@allycat31415 [PM] [*sensitive*] [*trigger*]

@anxxiousmess [Ask] [DNI] [*sensitive*]

@ask-creativitwins [Public Request] [DNI] [*trigger*]

@bumble-bitch-sanders [PM] [*trigger*]

@chicabear15 [PM] [*sensitive*]

@craftystar22 [Public Request] [DNI] [*trigger*]

@fanartfunart [Public Request] [*trigger*]

@g-dino777 [Anti Post, PM] [DNI] [*trigger*]

@hope-thy-nope [Anti Reblog comment, PM] [*sensitive*]

@i-am-fangirling-14 [Public Request, PM] [*sensitive*]

@isoctopus​ [Ask] [DNI] [*sensitive*]

@just-breathe-violet​ [PM] [*trigger*]

@littlesquishyprincey [PM] [*trigger*]

@littlevirgilspace [Ask] [DNI] [*unfollow*] [*sensitive*]

@logans-doodles [Ask] [DNI] [*trigger*]  

@lotus-and-sides [PM] [DNI] [*sensitive*]

@lotus-evergreen [Post] [DNI] [*sensitive*]

@lrversefics [Ask] [DNI] [*unfollow*] [*sensitive*]

@magicallygrimmwiccan [PM] [DNI] [*trigger*] 

@not-safeforsanders [PM] [*sensitive*]

@pattonsfam-ily [Ask] [DNI] [*unfollow*] [*sensitive*]

@sanderssidesfanfiction [Public Request, PM] [*trigger*] 

@sidesandshortssmut [Anti Post, Ask] [DNI] [*unfollow*] [*sensitive*]

@sleepsbabyboy [Ask] [DNI] [*unfollow*] [*sensitive*]

@starbucks-remy [Ask] [*sensitive*]

@the-prince-and-the-emo [Anti Post] [*unfollow*] [*sensitive*]

@ts-virgil-angst [Reblog] [*sensitive*]

@yo-seff  [PM] [*sensitive*]

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Anti List:

(Note: all post links have been moved to Gdoc)

(These users have earned the label “Anti”, usually by starting posts that contain aggressive, exclusive, and/or degrading wording, stirring up drama and discourse, or otherwise behaving in a hostile/hurtful way. Pro-shippers, please avoid them at all costs.)

@3robots - [Raider] [~Hostile/Hurtful/Violent~]

@afroclementine - [Raider] [~Hostile/Hurtful~]

@ahcwolves [Anti Post] [*sensitive*] [~Hostile~]

@bing-fucker (prev. @smutty-sanders-sides-stories) [Anti post] [DNI] [*unfollow*]   [*trigger*] [~Hostile~]

@blogging-time [Anti Post] [PM] [DNI]

@despacitosanders [Anti Post] [DNI]

@dethwilldie [Anti Post]

@emovirgil-sanders [Anti Post]

@ephemeral-afterlight [Ask] [Anti Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*] [*trigger*] [~Hostile/Hurtful~]

@falsehoodx [Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@forcastings - [Raider] [~Hostile/Hurtful~]

@girdance - [Raider] [~Hostile/Hurtful~]

@heavensite - [Raider] [~Hostile/Hurtful/Violent~]

@iamyourfandomqueen [Anti Post] [DNI]

@ilovemygaydad [Blog description] [Anti Reblog comment] [*unfollow*]

@innocentblueberry [Anti Post] [Anti Comments] [~Hostile~]

@itsbleuybleu [Anti posts] [~Death threats/Suicide-baiter~]

@lovelylogans [Anti Comment] [~Hostile/Hurtful/Violent~]

@lovinglogan [Anti Posts and comments]

@nachosforfree [Ask] [Anti reblog] [DNI] [~Hostile/Hurtful/Violent~]

@nonbinarylogan [Anti Post] [DNI]

@notafeeling [Anti Post] [*unfollow*] [~Hostile/Violent~]

@my-analogical-romance [Public Request] [DNI] [*trigger*] [~Hostile/Hurtful~]

@passem (prev. @thedinodad) [Anti Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*] [~Hostile~]

@plyyeemoloser [Anti Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*] 

@remrom-fucking-sucks-you-sickos

@remuscore [Anti post] [DNI] [~Hostile/Violent~]

@romananalogicality [Anti Reblog comment] [~Hostile~] [DNI] [*unfollow*] [*sensitive*]

@sanders-sides-uncorrect-quotes [Post] [Anti Reblog comments] [*unfollow*]

@scarletteking [Anti posts] [~Hostile~]

@storytellerofuntoldlegends [Public Request] [*unfollow*] [~Hostile~] [~Hurtful~]

@tempest-tongue [Public Request] [DNI] [~Hostile/Hurtful~]

@the-no-name-system [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI] [~Hostile~]

@the-starlit-blade [Anti Post] [DNI] 

@therubyjailcell [Anti Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*] [*trigger*]

@thesinningcell  [Anti Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*] [*trigger*]

@thewrongsidee [Anti Post] [~Hostile/Hurtful~]

@un-sympatheticside-opinions [PM] [Anti Posts and reblog comments] [DNI] [*unfollow*] [~Hostile/Suicide-baiter~]

@unsympathetic-sandys-sides [Anti Posts] [DNI] [~Hostile~]

@wolfishhel [Anti Post] [*unfollow*] [~Hostile~]

@xionical [Anti Post] [*unfollow*] 

@xtracheesy [Post] [~Violent~]

@yeet-ceit [Anti comment] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

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NOTP Remus/Roman List:

(Note: all post links have been moved to Gdoc)

@accidentally-logince [Reblog tags] [*unfollow*]  

@adrianthealien [Ask] 

@aleiimm [blog DNI list] [DNI]

@ambersky0319 [Post & Blog description] [DNI] [*unfollow*]  

@an-agender-disaster [Post] [DNI]

@angelpatton [Ask]

@angstyfanfiction [Post & Blog description] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@anti-virgil [Post] [DNI]

@ask-ordare-thedarksides [Post] [DNI]

@askthesandershshostclub [Blog description] [DNI]

@bitchyybabyy400 [PM]

@broadwaytheanimatedseries [Anti Reblog comment] [*unfollow*]

@broken-mirror-sanders-sides [PM] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@celeste-tyrrell [Blog description] [DNI]

@cheerycherrychampion38 [PM] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@chocomiruk [Blog description] [DNI]

@codeyellow-reptilian-rapscallion [Blog description] [DNI]

@cosmic-cleo [PM]

@creativitwinsagere [Blog description] [DNI]

@cryptidcherrry [Ask]

@deceit-propaganda [Post] [DNI]

@did-he-just-hiss-at-me [PM]

@down-low-gan [Post] [DNI]

@dr-skellington [Post] [*unfollow*]

@dragonindigo245 [Post & Blog description] [DNI]

@evilliouschroniclesfan [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI]

@frostfiredragon [Anti Reblog comment] [*unfollow*]

@futuristiclovetrash [Reblog comment] [*unfollow*]

@galaxy-lilies [Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@grayskiesrainyskies [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI]

@hotcocoalover [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI]

@imnotalwaysthebadguy [Reblog comment] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@izzyfandoms​ [Anti Reblog comment] [*unfollow*]

@jadabp​ [Ask] [DNI]

@janetsanders [Blog Description] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@joygaytrash [Anti Reblog comment] [*unfollow*] [~Violent~]

@juggalomilk [Blog Description] [DNI]  

@kaileah-kat [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI]

@kastrefeila [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI]

@katie-the-noble-fangirl [Post] [DNI]

@kindasortaemo2 [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@knightinsoftpastels [Posts] [DNI]

@lackingroman  [Anti Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@lavender-gumdrops [Ask]

@lawyerpatton [Ask]

@magikkittenz [Blog Description] [DNI]

@mango-shpango [Blog Description] [Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@mariuex [Anti Reblog comment] [~Violent~]

@mayflowers07 [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI] [~Hostile~]

@monstermemories [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI] [~Violent~]

@ninja-girl2846​ [Ask] [DNI] [*unfollow*] [*sensitive*]

@nogenderwhatsoever [Blog description] [DNI]

@ordinaryfander [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@pattontheback [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI] [~Violent~]

@peridot-the-kitten  [DNI]

@phantomofthesanderssides [Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@plauge-magic-doctor [Blog Description] [DNI]

@poppiesss [Post] [*unfollow*]

@pretty-odd-josh [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI]

@pxrpleprincey [Ask]

@rawr-xd [PM] [DNI]

@remusisastinkybastard  [Blog description] [DNI]

@remusrotten [Posts] [DNI]

@romansleftshoulderpad [Posts] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@ronnirotten [Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@sanders-geeks [Blog description] [DNI]  

@sanders-sides-reverse-au [Post] [DNI]

@sanders-sides-spoofs  [Post] [DNI]

@sanders-sides-theories [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI]

@sanders-sides-with-quinn [Post] [*unfollow*]

@sanders-stars [Post] [DNI]

@sandersfanders [Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@sandersmuts [Anti Post] [DNI]

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@shitpost-sides [PM]

@short-circut [Blog description] [DNI]

@shut-it-nerdywolverine [Ask]

@sizzlingfacedonut [Ask]

@softestpatton [DNI]

@space-captain-lars [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI]

@sporkkles-irl [Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@starryicarus [PM]

@stxrry-sanders [Blog description] [DNI]

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@sweetest-honeybee [Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@swordscurse [Post] [DNI]

@sympathetic-deceit-trash [Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@teardroppeddew [Post] [*unfollow*]

@that-one-garbage-nerd [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI]

@thefinaltatertot [Post & Blog description] [DNI]

@theprettiestflower [Post & Blog description] [DNI]

@thingysandstuff [Post] [*unfollow*]

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@thomas-sanders-is-my-life [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI]

@tulipscomeinallsortsofcolors [Blog description] [DNI]

@under-the-blue-moonlight  [Blog description] [DNI]

@unsympathetic-character-thomas [PM] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@unsympathetic-remus  [Blog description] [DNI]

@vaugleysassygrunt [Anti Reblog comment] [*unfollow*] 

@virgil-negativity [PM] [DNI]

@virgilvigil [PM] [DNI]

@we-all-horny-here [Blog description] [DNI]

@whats-going-on-kiddos [Anti Post] [DNI] [*unfollow*]

@why-should-i-tell-youu2 [Blog description] [DNI] [*sensitive*]

@wolves-on-caffeine [Post] [*unfollow*]

@wooflesthatwoof [PM]

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NOTP (Dis)Honorable Mentions:

(Note: all post links have been moved to Gdoc)

The Anti-list started as a way for me to keep track of the anti-shipping posts I kept seeing being reblogged all over my dash. Since I went public with it, I’ve been re-editing the list and being more selective about who I automatically add to it. The below users were added to the list because instead of ignoring the discourse and scrolling past (or even just reblogging without a comment), they felt it necessary to jump on the anti-shipping bandwagon and add “don’t ship this” and/or “get out of the fandom”-esque comments, or they made a post that was hostile and/or insulting towards Remrom or its shippers. This is not a complete list, because not even I can keep track of the entire fandom, but it gives the reader some context into the scale of the discourse. While these users may not have expressly requested pro-shippers to stay away, it is a reasonable assumption that we should keep our distance - they have made it clear that they don’t want us on their blog and/or in this fandom.

[~Violent~] = This user, whether “as a joke haha” or “maliciously”, chose to punctuate their opinion with a threat of violence towards pro-shippers.

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@everyoneprotector [Anti Reblog comment] [~Violent~]

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@green-writes-sanderssides [Anti Reblog comment] [~Violent~]

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@mynamesmuse [Anti comment] [DNI] [~Violent~]

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@pinkroses030 [Anti Reblog comment] [DNI]

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@romanknite [Anti Reblog comment 1, Anti Reblog comment 2] 

@royally-anxious [Anti Post] [*unfollow*]

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@sleeping-is-for-the-weak-nerds [Anti Reblog comment]

@sugarglider9603 [Anti Post]

@sunshineandteddybears [Anti comment]

@taylordoescoversandstuff [Post]

@teacupfulofstarshine [Anti Post] 

@the-weaver-of-worlds [Anti Post]

@the-yandere-kitsune [Anti Post comment]

@urlocalkookware [Anti Reblog comment]

@vestsfriends [Anti Reblog comment]

@virgil-in-the-bathroom [Post] [~Violent~]

@whats-up-bitch [Anti Reblog comment]

@whizzers [Anti Reblog comment] [~Violent~] 

@whore-energy [Post] [*unfollow*]

@yty-is-a-gfeat [Anti Reblog comment] 

(List last updated 08/25/2020)

(Gif credit goes to @hiddendreamer67)

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