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llleesmess · 4 months

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some steady ways to recover from an 3ating D1s0rder :)

tip 1 : monitor your thoughts. Back then when i’ve had severe bulimia, i’ve had negative thoughts flooding my mind and they almost seemed impulsive or intrusive. Everytime i looked at food all i could think about were negative thoughts. Some ways to combat this is to accept that you are not your thoughts. Accept the thought, let it pass, and replace it with a positive one to combat it.

Ex : “i really need to stop eating so much…” to “my body deserves to be nourished and taken care of.”

tip 2: i know how difficult it is to increase portion because of how stubborn our minds have gotten. They say that mental strain is more torturous than physical strain. If you’d like, try to eat healthier foods but more often, and reward yourself with chocolate once/ twice a week. It can make our hearts feel heavy with guilt, i know, but it’s also helping our heart beat is it not? try to respond more logically than emotionally and slowly increase food intake by eating healthier stuff more often. Have junk food on weekends (babe i promise you don’t gain from eating junk on a weekend, our body’s don’t work like that!)

tip 3: Let’s be realistic. We’re more likely to gain weight faster if we starve ourselves since our body is doing whatever it can to cling onto calories since you’re not giving it enough! so in order to recover from this slowly without triggering yourself or gaining weight, **slowly** increase food intake. have around 4 meals a day and i’m not saying a single cucumber or strawberry but make yourself a small dish. Your appetite must’ve shrunken from all the starving so to slowly help it accept food, have small dishes of food often. 4 to 5 meals of let’s just say a bowl of vegetables/ fruits/ protein is good. Carbs are also very important! Carbs give us energy to move and work throughout the day.

tip 4: You’re capable of setting beauty standards for yourself, we all are. It’s why we have beauty standards all around the world, for example : in most asian countries it’s beautiful to be pale while in western countries it’s beautiful to be tan! Beauty is NOT objective, it’s subjective. There’s many different flowers in a field, and all are beautiful but some prefer roses while others prefer daisies. So, instead of romanticising super skinny/ unhealthy bodies, let’s start romanticising fit bodies. Many fitness models eat a lot of food! as hard as it is to hear, they eat a lot of food but they balance it. For example they’ll have a lot of protein and vegetables and around a whole palm of rice, and that’s okay! that’s good intake for your body and it will maintain it.

tip 5: Workout! don’t get obsessed with working out or calories because general obsession isn’t good, well, too much of anything is not good. but working out has personally helped me recover since i felt less guilty about eating. walking everyday or running or home workouts are very beneficial. Eventually i stopped caring about calories as i grasped a more realistic idea of how our bodies work.

tip 6: Meditate. meditating is important to help calm our racing or impulsive negative thoughts. Practice void mediation or go on youtube and repeat positive affirmations (while meaning it.)

tip 7: Be kind to yourself! your body does a lot for you so return the favour and spoil it. Nourish and love it :)

tip 8: sometimes we are bad at advising ourselves so try to project yourself onto something else. Let’s just say you have a daughter who’s exactly like you and she’s suffering from the same thing. How would you treat her? the right thing to do is to reassure her and help her recover throughout her journey. that’s how you should treat yourself.

#ed #tw ed sheeran #tw disordered eating #recoverspo #recovery #mental health #positive mental attitude #therapy #e4t1ng d1s0rd3r #m3ansp0 #meanspø #e4ting disorder #3ating d1sorder #ed tips

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roxannarambles · 7 months

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teal mask fixit-fic on the fly part 8

(Current story so far: Part 1 - Part 2 - Part 3 - Part 4 -

Part 5 - Part 6 - Part 7)

The following day, Carmine had reported to the group that her grandfather required a special material in order to finish repairing the Ogre's mask. Some sort of fancy crystal that could only be found at the very top of the Oni Mountains. She suggested (well, it was more of a demand) that someone accompany her on the trip, since it was a long hike and the wild pokemon in the area could be pretty tough. At first, Juliana was going to be the one to go, but then Nemona suggested they all go, and Juliana realized that seemed like a much better idea. Carmine did not seem to be a fan of this plan, but she was very quickly outvoted by the rest of the group.

When they all set out on the journey, Kieran was nowhere to be found. In a way, that was a good thing, since it would have been difficult to keep the purpose of the trip a secret from him. However, it did worry Juliana a little. He'd been acting very sullen and withdrawn since yesterday. Carmine assured everyone that she'd seen him head off towards Loyalty Plaza and that he was fine, just being a moody teenager. Juliana wasn't quite sure if she bought that, but then again, it wasn't like she knew him well. So she tried to put the worries out of her mind and simply enjoy the trip in the beautiful mountains.

It ended up being a very enjoyable walk. Juliana had already walked partway up the mountain on her first day here, when Kieran showed her the Ogre's den. This time, though, they went much further, through a region of the mountain that was covered in a fine, white ash. Apparently, the Oni Mountains were volcanically active. There were different kinds of volcanoes, though, as Juliana had learned in school; not all of them were violently explosive. The Oni Mountains had a calmer sort of volcanic activity, which was much easier to monitor and keep safe around, the lava bubbling slowly and volcanic gasses escaping from beneath the ground they walked. The area also seemed to be a hotbed for Fire-type and Poison-type pokemon, which made sense. There were other types present as well, though, including some unique species Juliana wasn't very familiar with. The little bell-shaped pokemon floating about--Chingling-- were especially cute to Juliana, their melodic cries filling the air with a soothing sound, like wind-chimes.

It was a hot day, and towards the end of their hike, trudging up the steep incline started to really exhaust the group of teens. However, it turned out that the trip had been entirely worth it. When they finally climbed the last ash-covered step and reached the mountain's summit, they were rewarded with a breathtaking sight: the crystal pool, a large, still lake of the purest, clearest water Juliana had ever seen in her life. Beneath the water's surface, massive columns of crystals could be seen; they shimmered and glowed an ethereal light, reminding Juliana very much of the tera crystals found in Area Zero. Docile Chingling floated around all over the area, providing a lovely backdrop of chiming calls.

"Oh my god, this is incredible," Nemona said, quickly moving to the little bridge to gaze down into the waters. The others followed suit and Juliana pulled out her phone to take some pictures.

"I know, right? I bet you don't have anything this beautiful in Paldea. This is the Crystal Pool. Normally outsiders aren't welcome here, 'cause this is sacred ground, so consider yourselves lucky. The water here's the purest in the world, they say. There's even rumors you can see the spirits of the dead here, at night."

Arven asked,

"Spirits of the dead? Like human spirits, not pokemon?"

"Yeah," Carmine said, shrugging.

"Probably just a rumor, but who knows."

"Oooh, it's so cool and nice," Nemona said. She'd pulled her shoes off to dip her feet into the water's edge.

Carmine commented,

"I'm glad you think so, 'cause somebody's gotta jump in there and get us some crystal shards, and you seem like a good volunteer."

Juliana rasied a brow.

"Why not you? You're the local expert here, after all."

"Pshh, and mess up my clothes? I mean, uh-- I-- well I can't swim, it can't be me!"

Juliana's expression suggested she had some very strong doubt. Nemona interrupted,

"It's fine, a swim would be amazing right now! I'm all sweaty and hotter than a Houndour from that hike."

Arven let his oversized bag drop to the ground.

"You know what, you're right, I think I'll take a little dip too."

It did not take much convincing for Juliana and Penny to join in as well and begin to wade out into the inviting, cool waters.

"Oh, damn, that is nice," Penny said as she stepped in. Carmine called after them,

"W-wait, hold on, you all can't-- you can't just leave me out!"

"Well, you said you can't swim, right?" Waist-deep, Juliana turned and grinned at her.

Carmine gave an annoyed huff.

"I meant I can't swim well. But, I mean, it's a pretty shallow pool, so. I guess I could try it out."

Soon they were all fooling about in the crystal pool, and it was honestly amazing. The sun was beating down on the peak of the mountain with the full heat of the day, but the waters were perfectly chilly and relaxing. In some parts of the pool it was much shallower, where the huge colums of crystal had sprouted from the floor and reached quite tall; Juliana could walk on them with her bare feet and enjoy how perfectly smooth they felt. They glowed gorgeous shades of blue and green, and Juliana realized even the water itself seemed to retain a faint glow.

At some point, while they were horsing around, Nemona suggested they play 'Slowpoke Slowbro,' and Juliana laughed and seconded the idea.

"We're not grade-schoolers, you guys," Arven scoffed. Nemona crossed her arms and smirked at him,

"That sounds like something a guy who's afraid of sucking at Slowpoke Slowbro would say."

Arven snorted.

"You're not gonna get me with that trick. Besides, I can't possibly suck at it if I've never even played it."

"You haven't?! Well now you have to, Arven!"

Arven groaned and Nemona said,

"Penny, Carmine, c'mon, back me up, he should play, right?"

"I have no idea what you're even talking about," Carmine said, looking very wary. Nemona explained the kid's game to her, and to no one's surprise, Carmine thought it sounded stupid. However, the combined enthusiasum of Nemona and Juliana was a force to be reckoned with, and it didn't take much wheedling to win everyone else over.

When Arven had asked who should take the first turn, Nemona had called out, "Not it!" which spurred Juliana and Penny to quickly echo her; Carmine, looking confused but getting the jist fast decided to shout it as well. Arven apparently thought this was very unfair, even after Nemona explained it was a time-honored tradition. Carmine however did not support Arven on this point, since she was just happy she wasn't "it" first.

Arven announced that he hated everyone, but he moved to the center of the pool anyway, closing his eyes. There was a heavy tone of resigned exasperation in his voice as he said,

"Slowpoke."

The others all answered 'Slowbro' in chorus. Arven turned and drifted forward blindly in the pool, calling 'Slowpoke' again, and the game carried on as such.

Despite the initial reluctance of some of the teens, they actually seemed to have a good time, for the most part. Arven ended up being very good at the game, although he seemed especially good at catching up to Penny, first following slowly and then lunging at her with a sudden burst of speed (Penny claimed it was unfair because she had shorter legs and couldn't swim as fast). In contrast, Carmine was pretty terrible at being 'It'; she quickly grew very frustrated with blundering around blindly, so the others could easily take advantage and swim laps around her. At one point Juliana just let herself be tagged by her, because she didn't want Carmine to get so annoyed with it that she gave up. Juliana reckoned that both she and Penny were just average at the game; Nemona seemed to be as good as Arven.

They killed a lot of time this way. Amusing hightlights for Juliana included the time when Carmine panicked and shrieked as Arven suddenly lunged in her direction and grabbed her about the waist, lifting her a little as he did so. She'd immediately blushed a dark crimson and swatted angrily at him, prompting him to complain "Ow ow ow ow!" and let her go, apologizing. It seemed Carmine quickly rescinded her anger, though, and she meekly muttered something to Arven that Juliana couldn't make out but apparently had smoothed things over.

Another highlight was when Nemona was 'It' and Juliana swam closer to chant 'Slowbro' repeatedly at her, just to be annoying and see how long she could get away with it. She didn't last too long, Nemona eventually grabbing her and pulling her underwater, where they proceeded to grapple until they had to surface, sputtering and laughing.

At some point when Arven was 'It,' he'd lurched forward, a wall of water splashing in his wake, and then turned around, looking annoyed.

"Okay, real funny, guys. Who'd I get?"

"What do you mean?"

He crossed his arms.

"Haha. Look, I know I tagged somebody, who'd I get?"

Some of them exchanged a few looks.

"Arven, you weren't near anyone!"

"Yeah I was! I--"

He frowned, noticing everyone looked genuinely puzzled. He said,

"Then . . . who did I . . ."

A large figure suddenly erupted from the center of the pool, and everyone screamed in surprise and scattered.

Rising from the waters was the large, elegant shape of a Milotic, its serpentine form coiled and its scales glinting brilliantly in the blue-green light of the crystal pool. It didn't take the teens too long to scramble from the water and onto shore, but during the time it took them, the Milotic underwent a transformation: its entire body became coated in shimmering, dark purple crystals, starting from its tail before quickly spreading up its entire body, finishing where the crystals created a draconic terajewel atop Milotic's pointed head.

The Milotic turned in Arven and Juliana's general direction and gave an angry cry. Arven cursed, stumbling in his haste to get further away, while Juliana struggled to find where she'd left her bag.

"Hold on, I've got this!" Carmine shouted, throwing a pokeball and releasing her Morpeko. It seemed that in everyone's race to find their pokeballs, she'd managed to come first.

"Morpeko, Aura Wheel!"

In a bright flash, the little rodent pokemon went barreling right into the Milotic, the sound of electricity crackling loudly in the air, but the Milotic seemed almost entirely unfazed by the attack.

"It's Dragon type, Carmine, it's terastalized!" Nemona called, and Juliana could see the irritation flash in Carmine's eyes.

"Damnit! Right, I was just-- i-it was instinctive!"

Nemona had recovered her pokeballs too and quickly threw one out, shouting,

"No worries, I'll back you up!"

Her Goodra materialized, and Nemona ordered,

"Dragon Pulse!"

The Milotic was struck by the purple beam of light, which seemed to anger it; it turned in the pool and coiled its body, before striking out with its tail in a sudden, powerful jerk. The strike hit Goodra head-on and sent it flying, which was honestly a sight to see, since Goodra was no lightweight. Nemona's pokeball kicked in and recalled Goodra before it could sail too far away.

"Whoa," Nemona said, eyes wide.

"This thing knows Dragon Tail?"

Meanwhile, Carmine had recalled her Morpeko and was chanting to herself,

"Dragon type, dragon type . . . crap. Okay, okay."

She threw another ball, her Mightyena appearing. Soon after, Nemona had thrown another ball too, sending out Pawmot.

"Crunch!"

"Ice Punch!"

The pokemon leapt after Milotic and struck one after the other, the Ice Punch causing the Milotic's entire body to shudder from the impact, and the Crunch doing damage but clearly not as much.

The Milotic did not enjoy being ganged up on. It sunk down deep into the pool, the water swirling as it swam in circles, then leapt up and sent a wave of water crashing out in all directions. All the teens were soaked, but the Pokemon were much closer to Milotic and took the brunt of the hit.

Coughing water, Nemona called out,

"Ice Punch, again!"

Carmine yelled,

"Double-Edge!"

The Milotic took heavy damage from the second Ice Punch, but it was able to launch a second Surf before Mightyena could attack-- both pokemon fainted at once.

"Wow, this thing hits hard!" Nemona said, taken a little offguard. Carmine was busy fuming,

"I don't have anything for this!"

She threw her Morpeko back out, at the same time Nemona deployed her Dundunsparce. The Milotic, meanwhile, began to glow a soft white light. Carmine looked on in horror, shouting,

"Oh, no you don't!"

But it was too late. The white light engulfed Milotic's body and sank into it, reinvigorating it. The pokemon lifted its head and glared out at its opponents, giving another cry.

"Aw, man, did it seriously just Recover?"

"I don't have time for this crap. Morpeko, Thunder Wave!'

The words had scarcely left Carmine's mouth when she suddnely seemed to regret them, her eyes widening as she called,

"WAIT, Morpeko, never mind, don't--"

It had been too late, since Morpeko had already sent out the shock wave, which struck Milotic, the electricity crackling along its body.

Carmine proceeded to use some very colorful language, much to Nemona's confusion.

"What's wrong? I don't understand--"

"It could have ****ing Marvel Scale-- goddamnit I knew that, I just--urghghh! How could I be so stupid?"

Remaining calm, Nemona said,

"Hey, it's okay, we still got this. Dundunsparce, use Dragon Rush!"

The silly-looking snake was cloaked in a strange blue light and its body coiled, its little pairs of wings flapping; then it began to charge, rapidly building up speed as it moved. When it struck Milotic, it hit with tremendous force, its foe crying out in pain. Yet, despite how intense the move was, it did not do as much damage as they had hoped-- Milotic did not fall. Its teracrystal encasing didn't even break.

Then, Milotic revealed its fourth move: swirling in the pool, it created several rings of water that circled its body. Aqua Ring.

"Oh my god I can't believe this, we would have had this by now if I hadn't given it the stupid Marvel Scale boost!" Carmine shouted, looking truly disgusted with herself.

"Carmine, calm down--"

Carmine wasn't listening.

"Now I have to be bailed out by these Naranja students! In my home turf!"

Nemona's worried eyes met with Juliana's, and the look seemed to ask her for advice; What do I do here? Pokemon battling was one thing, but she was less adept at dealing with this sort of situation.

Juliana came forward and whispered to her. Nemona nodded, then turned.

"Carmine, tell me what we should do next!"

The girl paused in her raging to shoot her a confused look.

"What? You're the master-Champion-whatever, you tell me!"

Nemona shook her head.

"Carmine, I don't even know this pokemon's name. You know its Ability, you know its movepool, its stats-- you're the one who can run the show here, if you just take a moment to think!"

Carmine blinked at her, then glanced away, scowling. She did seem to be thinking, though. That was good.

Although, less good, the Milotic seemed bored of waiting. It was turning in the water, preparing another attack.

"U-uh, guys--" Juliana started in warning.

"Do you have any pokemon with a stats-lowering move? Something fast, faster than Morpeko," Carmine asked Nemona suddenly.

Nemona hesitated.

"Umm, let's see, I don't think I . . . wait, yeah! Yeah, I do, Lycanroc has Scary Face right now."

"Good, send it out and target Morpeko with Scary Face! Now!"

Juliana's brow crumpled in confusion, but Nemona didn't question it-- she simply grabbed her pokeball and sent Lycanroc out, ordering it to turn on its own ally.

Milotic sent another wave of water crashing out at them. Lycanroc fainted, but Morpeko hung on, probably due to its Focus Sash.

Carmine cried out,

"Morpeko, now's your chance, Lash Out!"

The little rodent's red eyes flashed. It charged, with a stunning amount of rage for such a tiny body. When it plowed into the Milotic, the tera crystals shattered in a brilliant explosion, purple shards flying everywhere.

The Milotic sagged weakly. Morpeko took the time to snack on a seed stored in its pouch, reverting quickly back to electric-type.

"YES! Morpeko, go for the kill, Aura Wheel!"

The Milotic reared up, lifting its tail for a last-ditch attack, but Morpeko dodged, ramming into Milotic cleanly.

The Milotic fainted. Carmine cackled in glee, shouting,

"YEAHHH!! Did you see that?! Morpeko crushed it! Take that, Naranja dorks!"

Juliana, Arven and Penny just stood there, looking at her. She said,

"What?" Then she sighed and rolled her eyes, adding,

"All right, fine, so Nemona helped a little."

Nemona didn't seem to hold anything against Carmine, though, simply walking up to her and saying brightly,

"That was so cool, Carmine! Really clever thinking, boosting up Lash Out with your own ally, I loved it! Looks like we're not a bad team, huh?"

She held out a hand. Carmine reluctantly shook her hand and said,

"T-thanks. Yeah, I guess so . . ."

Collecting the necessary crystal shards was easy after that. They were laying all over the place-- since the tera crystals, as it turned out, were exactly what they'd been looking for, one and the same with the crystals that grew in the Crystal Pool. The students returned to town, triumphant.

#pokemon #pokemon s/v #pokemon scarlet/violet #the teal mask #spoilers #pokemon spoilers #the teal mask fix it fic #I decided it was probably reasonable that Nemona does not have every single species of pokemon memorized #because she's more focused on battling (not just POKEMON knowledge per se) and so is mostly familiar with her own region's pokes #and I mean there's over a thousand species now so that's a lot for anyone to keep track of #idk it just felt more fun that way to me #(slowpoke slowbro is marco polo)#nintendo let carmine say 'fuck'

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feralchaton · 1 year

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There are the years that make us. I have been healing for the better part of a decade. It is at the point where I can talk about my story but don't feel the need to. However I do feel the want to get some things out and it will probably be messy and uncomfortable for a while, but that's how things often are.

The memories don't tear at the wounds anymore. Gentle tugs maybe, burns a little, and that may always be the case, but with high tolerance it is bearable. I am also not alone in my journey, although it often feels that way. When I post of love, deep understanding relationships, D/s...these aren't fantasies or hopes, it's often sentiment that mirrors what I, we, have. Things I believe, embody, share, keep learning, and live, daily.

I do yearn for friendships, genuine connections, a tribe (I have secluded myself for a long time, necessary but...) as I am open to it now, perhaps that hope will fill in, in time, baby steps and I feel beyond fortunate for some that I've met here. You have no idea what kindness and presence can mean to someone, even if it's just seeing a familiar avatar/notification.

Are relationships work? Um...

Are relationships technically every single interpersonal dealing and exchange not just those we deem honored by our presence? Yes. Why isn't that considered work? Isn't everything worth having and doing technically "work" anyway? Why do we call it work as opposed to effort, which is all it is? With parenting, friendships, family, co-workers, strangers you meet (or don't)...There is no clocking in and out, no breaks, no vacation or sick pay maybe because it's not a fucking job!

Labors of love, effort, with no clear reward or condition. Love. There may be one word for something that encompasses a few hundred thousand different emotions/feelings/circumstances/reasons/excuses/truths (love doesn't lie) so maybe we can chill with limiting parameters based in nothing but fear and the unknown.

Besides, the relationship with others isn't the difficult stuff, it's the relationship with ourselves that may actually be work but that also has nothing to do with anyone or anything else. Being honest, communicating earnestly, kindly, truthfully, openly and being and embodying that which we yearn and hope for. Sounds so much easier than it is.

My husband, partner as I prefer to say, and I hold ourselves and each other to this. 16 years together, half of that time considered to be a D/s relationship (no it didn't start out that way!) I took over a position he was holding and our professional nature, plus a very sweet and innocent misheard moment, solidified the actual love at first sight. We fought to be together. Yes, these things do happen. Often. People often try to ruin beautiful things so I don't feel the need to broadcast. We had established and enacted what works for us and revisit, discuss, and evolve as needed or wanted. Every single day we show up for, and with, each other in whatever capacity that means. It is far from always being sunbeams and rainbow unicorn farts but, no matter what, we have each other.

Be present, be aware, be open and keep moving forward. Allow yourself the grace to stumble, fall, maybe even take some extra time getting up, but hiding behind insecurities and masks to remain comfortable isn't going to do it.

Find comfort in your discomfort and forge ahead. It's worth it, all of it, every single part of it and if you don't know that, just wait, you will.

feralchaton

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guessimatarotgirlienow · 2 months

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luvvv your account so far 🩷🩵 i know you already got a list of questions a couple days ago, but i wanted to send you a list of questions i see on other tarot accounts about harry and his sm, if u don’t mind of course 🫶🏼

where do you think they will meet? idk how specific you can get, will it be online? at a public event? blind date?

will the sm have a big impact on harry’s music?

will they have kids together? a lot? a little?

will either of them have kids before they meet?

is the sm a public figure? what’s their job?

how will his fans react to their relationship? if the sm is famous, how will their fans react?

what is the sm’s fashion sense like?

Alright I managed to cut and paste this time so let’s rock n roll:

where do you think they will meet? idk how specific you can get, will it be online? at a public event? blind date?

TEN OF WANDS sounds like they are going to meet at the end of a difficult situation or journey for both of them. They both might be feeling a little burnt out and overwhelmed.

I tried asking the cards to be clearer about the physical setting and I drew THE FOOL….which I think is both directed at me for asking and represents that their meeting will be the beginning of a journey for them (the fool is the 0 card, the starting point)

will the sm have a big impact on harry’s music?

Woah!!!! I drew THE STAR!!!! Can the cards be any more literal?? Sounds like not only will they have a bright beautiful influence on his work, but because of them or the music he might create because of them, it will make him an even bigger star….

will they have kids together? a lot? a little?

THE EMPRESS okay i guess the cards can be more literal. This is the maternal divine mother card. So I’d take that as a string yes.

When I asked if they will have a lot or a little, I drew REVERSED WORLD which to me says not many. If it was upright, I’d think it meant they’d have it all, have the world…but this says they will be reserved about it

will either of them have kids before they meet?

THE HIEROPHANT this one is interesting and challenging for me to read. She can represent rigidity and tradition. Oh…well..I guess the traditional thing is to not have kids before you meet ‘the one’ so yeah I’d guess not. But I’ve also seen this card mean marriage so take that as you will

is the sm a public figure? what’s their job?

REVERSED KING OF CUPS and PAGE OF PENTACLES okay don’t ask me to explain myself, but this is giving soulmate is committed to a really draining job. Page of pentacles could suggest money, but the page is the least materialistic of the pentacles. As someone who has worked in a nonprofit, this description makes a lot of sense to me. There are lots of jobs that drain your emotional well (or cup) but can be rewarding in other ways that keep you committed to the job. Nursing. Teaching, etc.

how will his fans react to their relationship? if the sm is famous, how will their fans react?

Good lord I drew THE TOWER. Everything is on fire. Everything is chaotic, everything is madness. Maybe a lot of fan leave him because of it…or maybe everyone just loses their minds like how things are with Taylor Swift and her football boy.

what is the sm’s fashion sense like

I don’t know that the cards can answer this but I drew REVERSE FIVE OF PENTACLES which is low key hilarious because people are dressed in rags in this one. But it’s reversed, so definitely not rags. It can also be about finding support when it’s reverse, so honestly I hope this means the sm will support a lot of poor/underrated designers and/or find support with a lot of cool designers

This was intense but a lot of fun! If anyone wants to try to ask more details about any of these, I’m happy to try reading for them more

#harry styles

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kitclare · 2 years

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Misery SSR Union Birthday

“Happy Birthday” (Part 1)

[Ignihyde Dorm - Birthday Party Venue]

Misery: “The presenter who was chosen by the Magical Birthday Dice will bless you with good fortune.”

Misery: Good fortune....

Misery: Anyways, the presenter should be here soon.

???: Hello Misery-san! I hope I didn’t make you wait too long~

Maury: I, Maury Del Rey, shall be your presenter for today! I look forward to it!

Misery: Maury-senpai. No, you didn’t make me wait. You’re right on time.

Misery: I look forward to working with you.

Maury: Well without further ado, happy birthday Misery-san! Here’s your present!

Misery: Ah, thank you.

Misery: …

Misery: This is… a game cartridge. It’s definitely an older game from the looks of the packaging. The cover says, “Gloom”.

Misery:......Gloom?!

Maury: Yes Gloom!

Maury: The main character believes he’s left with no choice but to rot after being banished for assaulting his commanding officer, but then one day hears a distorted plea for aid over the radio!

Maury: “The demons are rising from the gates! Requesting military support immediately!”

Maury: And so the lone soldier returns armed with nothing but a singular pistol and his space suit only to be greeted by the growls of horrifying creatures.

Maury: In this classic horror sci-fi first person shooter the player must navigate through labyrinths while acquiring new weapons to strengthen their arsenal and surviving waves of attacks from hordes of unique enemies. Those who are keen on thoroughly searching their surroundings may even be rewarded for their endeavors with power-ups!

Maury: Thus is the thrilling setting of Gloom!

Misery: …

Maury: Oh my, is everything alright? Are you not fond of horror genre games?

Misery: No, it’s not that. I don’t mind horror at all.

Misery: Gloom was so popular back then that now it’s virtually impossible to find a copy of it. Most stores are always out of stock.

Maury: Ah~ So you’re wondering as to how I obtained such an unbelievably rare item?

Maury: Not to worry! I have many connections so acquiring the game was a simple matter~

Misery: I see…

Misery: Thank you, Maury-senpai. I’ll make sure to play when I have time in between school work.

“Happy Birthday” (Part 2)

Maury: Now, shall we start the interview? The first question is…

Maury: “If you could bring one person with you on a deserted island, who would you choose?”

Maury: However, you cannot pick anyone from your dorm.

Misery: … Rook-senpai.

Maury: Wow! Such a fast response! May I ask you to elaborate on why you’d choose Rook-san?

Misery: He was just the first one to come to mind when I thought about needing to survive in a foreign place.

Misery: I’m not very knowledgeable in the area, so it would be reassuring to have someone around who is.

Maury: Ah yes of course what excellent reasoning!

Maury: Indeed he would know all of the ins and outs of how to obtain everything one would need to brave any harsh situation.

Maury: His vigilant eyes and keen sense of smell allow him to track down food and water while remaining wary of any danger.

Misery: Yeah…

Maury: Not only that, but his unique sense for beauty could make any perilous journey feel like an adventure!

Maury: I could see him writing a whole book of poetry by simply gazing at the sky.

Misery: Mm, I didn’t think about that.

Misery: Yeah, I wouldn’t be bored if I brought him with me either.

“Happy Birthday” (Part 3)

Maury: Here’s the next question for you.

Maury: “If you were to join any dorm other than Ignihyde, which dorm would you choose?”

Misery: Another dorm….

Misery: …

Misery: I don’t know.

Maury: Yes it would be difficult to think of residing in a different dorm since the Dark Mirror chooses the one that suits each student best.

Maury: But go on and try to think of anything that might interest you in another dorm, even if it’s something small like thinking that the dorm uniform design is nice.

Maury: Personally, I think you would look fantastic in the Octavinelle dorm uniform~

Misery: Hm, then…

Misery: Maybe Heartslabyul.

Maury: Ah, yes Hearstlabyul has a wonderful uniform too! An elegant design with distinct patterns and accessories to add a touch of whimsicality.

Misery: Oh, their uniform is nice too. But I just thought about the tea parties.

Maury: They do throw excellent tea parties! Everyone gets to enjoy quality time together over delicious tea and food. Such a lovely experience!

Maury: Are you perhaps fond of sweets as well?

Misery: Mhm. Not to the point of having a sweet tooth, but I do like them.

Maury: In that case it would be an added bonus to be able to have Trey-san’s delectable baked treats so often.

Misery: Yeah. I only got to try them a couple times, but they were always really good.

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Maury: And with that the interview now comes to a close! Now comes the most exciting part!

Misery: Right, the “gift of good fortune”.

Misery: I’m ready when you are, Maury-senpai.

Maury: I admire your lack of hesitation! Let’s make some fond memories.

Maury: MISERY-SAN, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!

(Many thanks to the amazing @azulsartdump for letting me use her twst oc Maury and encouraging me to try writing!)

#twisted wonderland #twisted wonderland oc #twst #twst oc #misery strife #my oc #oc #my art #my writing

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Bendy And The Dark Revival: Thoughts and Opinions.

Yup, exactly what the title says this is. I just finished the game (~<1 hour ago as of the time of writing), and I had a few opinions I wanted to share. Consider this a sort of mini-review.

And obviously, this post is going to be the absolute motherload of every single sort of possible and impossible spoiler that may have spoilered in the history of spoilering since The Greatest Spoilering Of All Time.

YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!

Firstly, let's talk about the good parts! That's always a good way to start these things off, eh?

-First of all, he graphics are GREAT, the improvements done by The Meatly here are impeccable; the shadows and the general graphical atmosphere really sucks you in, even when playing on the lowest graphical settings, and some areas can be a treat to observe and watch, like the city in Chapter 4 when you're watching it from the glass window where you first meet little Bendy. I cannot understate how good the graphics can look at some points, and this also extends to entities and enemies, as they have unique designs that sill feel as if they belong to the Bendy universe, alongside the classic ones like the Butcher Gang, of course.

-The movement of Audrey is a whole lot smoother than Henry's ever was. When I played the original Bendy And The Ink Machine, the movements were sluggish almost, and the mouse sensitivity was either non-existent or too speedy that I couldn't notice it. Overall, I'd definitely consider it a plus that moving isn't actively impeded by some development hiccups this time around. Sprinting and running around is also fun to do and can lead to some tense moments when you're escaping an enemy.

-The game rewards exploration of its areas with the various rewards it hands out, like Audrey's upgrades or Gent's various contraptions and bits and bobs that simply lay about in the Studio with how useful they can be for the Gent Pipe upgrades. The same goes for exploring and finding the coins necessary to be able to heal yourself and buy coffee/food.

-The game's areas can be very diverse and even beautiful at times. The world itself is very well-crafted, and the fact that it loops on itself with the metro system and the areas being interconnected was a delight to experience, especially the connection between Wilson's manor and its northern and southern wings. I was delighted to find out I had re-entered the mansion through the closed doors I couldn't open when I first entered. The level design was definitely a highlight at points.

-BATDR is absolutely magnificent with friends. For context, I played this game from start to finish with my siblings on hard mode, and it can be a hilarious, tense, and sometimes terrifying journey. Discussing theories together or trying to beat a difficult part or ranting about a boss or two was never more fun than with friends, and I don't know if this is just me, but I felt that I enjoyed playing BATDR with my siblings a bit more than BATIM, probably thanks to the better controls not frustrating them.

So, for me, those were the very, very solid and good parts that this game provided, alongside the notably fewer amount of bugs compared to BATIM, of course. Those really helped me enjoy my journey throughout it a lot more, although that doesn't mean I enjoyed everything, unfortunately. Despite that fact that the bad parts should've been overshadowed by the good ones, I felt they always stuck out like a sore thumb whenever they were there, and one of the MOST prominent ones to me was:

-The dialogue. I often don't like disparaging game dialogue, but the dialogue throughout much of the game was rather painful to listen to. While the audio-logs were as good as they had been in BATIM, the dialogue between characters was especially jarring. From the very first piece of dialogue between Audrey and Alison, I found that the way the dialogue flowed was rigid. The introductions were awkward, and they lacked crucial information from both sides, instead going for vague descriptions like "he likes to smile...and he kills everything that moves!", which...almost breaks the immersion that the game tries building so very hard.

My biggest issue is that this is not limited to a specific section; the dialogue's tone shifts wildly in the same scenes, the phrasing and the words themselves don't fit, and rarely is important information conveyed through the dialogue. I found myself involuntarily laughing at parts that were meant to be serious due to how they were phrased, and I cannot blame the voice actors, as their work was very well-done, especially the Joey and Wilson actors, and although their dialogue was some of the best in the game, it was still awkward at points, perhaps due to the fact that none of the characters, Audrey excluded, had too much screen-time, which meant that they needed to convey as much information as possible and also play a role in the game's plot in their limited time, hence needing compact dialogue that fit everything at once in a short period of time. Speaking of which...

-There were too many characters for the game's length. I have heard that BATDR had some development trouble, so I understand that they had to make-do with some of the parts they had already, but the focus on Gent Corp. was, while very interesting at points, ultimately harmful as there was no payoff save for the teaser after the ending, seeing how the game revolved around Wilson and he rarely mentioned them except in a few parts, and for the most part, they had no relation to Wilson; instead, most references to them mentioned how they worked with Joey during the last days of the studio, which, for a game focusing on Audrey and Wilson, doesn't really make them the focal point of the game, so I don't understand why they got so much attention.

But there were also so many characters in the audio-logs that appeared for a single time and then disappeared forever. I get that they were meant to worldbuild with Gent, but when Gent themselves didn't play a major role in Wilson's story, it only helped split the game's narrative focus, at least in my eyes, especially seeing how very few logs talked about Wilson, and those were mostly by Wilson himself.

I know this is also present in BATIM, however, I felt that a good portion of the characters in audio-logs were very much related to Joey and the Studio, and we also had recurring characters, which helped build their stories without seeing them, like with Norman, Sammy, etcetra... Something that's not really repeated in BATDR, with the notable exception of Wilson.

-Speaking of Wilson, his role was very...meh. Everyone and their mother predicted he would be the villain, but what really, really disappointed me was how they treated his double-turn as a surprise. I thought that they were going to subvert expectations and have an ending where we side with Wilson and another one where we don't, but the fact that they treated his face-heel 'reveal' to be a big surprise was a letdown because it was really foreseeable. They had so much potential with him, and yet we know so little about him since, unlike Joey in BATIM, Wilson rarely has anyone else talk about him, whether in audio-logs or notes.

His motives were also hilariously absurd, though not in an especially good way. I remember that my siblings and I burst into laughter when his motives to rule the ink-realm was that his father didn't support him, and you know what? Sure, that CAN be a valid motive with enough backstory, but the thing is that there's no buildup. There's no anticipation or hinting at Wilson's relationship with his father. It is daddy issues at the most basic of levels and it's revealed during his face-heel reveal, and it's also not exactly the sort of mistreatment that makes someone subjugate a realm and kill (ink)people. Overall, Wilson had a lot of potential...it's just a shame barely any of it was used.

-Speaking of issues with the narrative, the story felt all over the place at times. Alison appeared at the start of the story, disappeared, and then talked to us after the first boss, but then she went away again and appeared to kill Alice, which was a cool moment, don't get me wrong, I just wasn't attached enough to her to appreciate the parallels to her saving Henry BATIM, seeing how she virtually has no screen-time.

Speaking of whom, Alice?! What was she doing there? How did she appear all of a sudden? Why was she there? How did Wilson not notice or neutralise her? How did she get into Wilson's manor? Why was she free but everyone from Henry's loops in BATIM caged? Her appearance was so sudden, and although I did really enjoy her return since her voice-acting and fight were fun, I just didn't enjoy how, thematically, it didn't make a lot of sense to just include her for no reason at all when it also didn't carry as much emotion and meaning to it like it did with Henry in BATIM, seeing how we dealt with her over the course of multiple Chapters.

This is actually one of the things that irked me most with the narrative; the game didn't seem to know what to do with the old characters. At first, I thought that with Alison appearing so soon, that we were going to meet the original BATIM crew and try and team-up with them against Wilson, but when she disappeared, I thought we were going to focus on the new characters, but then we met Henry and the old crew in the Cycle Breakers room and I believed they would play an important role in the fifth Chapter, but again, we only spoke with Henry once and then saw him again at the end of the game, which, I must admit, was quite cool in the heat of the moment as Beast Bendy, it was just underwhelming to think "Wait, that's all?" after the credits started rolling.

This hits especially true with the example of Sammy, who was hinted at throughout the entire game and across multiple Chapters, only to be shot at the end and die in a scene where most would've missed him. I wasn't his biggest fan myself, but I know how much a lot of people like him, and so treating him like this was a bit unkind to his fans, I feel. He could've been entirely absent from the game and nothing would've changed.

-Speaking on one, final note about the narrative, it felt as if there were a lot of unneeded and unnecessary gameplay decisions that broke the cohesion and flow of the story and caused a lot of frustration...At least for me. This is most apparent in the parts where you needed to back-track to earlier areas, especially the one part where you needed to return to the very first area of the game to get the heart you needed to feed to big ink monster, though it wasn't the only part where you needed to backtrack. There were also side-stories with the Lost Ones that interrupted otherwise grandiose and important moments, like the entry to the Cycle Breakers room being interrupted by a Lost One. While her quest was very sweet, I didn't really feel a sense of satisfaction when I finally found her as much as I went 'Finally!'.

-On the gameplay front, I almost felt like there were too many Lost Ones. I lost track of how many times I died to them, regardless of how many I killed, or how many times I encountered Demon Bendy, which lowered the value of their jumpscares. It was also annoying, in fact, the constantly worry about Bendy's incursions and saving every five seconds to make sure I lost no progress, something I felt was unnecessary with how often he popped up...However, this could also be entirely due to the fact that I was playing on Hard mode, so I will not hold this point against the game.

-And lastly, somehow, I don't feel as if there were that many tracks that stood out to me in the OST...Although that in particular can be my rose-tinted glasses remembering BATIM's soundtrack more fondly that it actually was.

So those were my thoughts about Bendy And The Dark Revival! Admittedly, while it can seem as if I had a lot of negative things to say about the game, that's mostly because I care a lot about the story in games like these, and I felt it wasn't really as gripping as I had hoped, even though there were plenty of things that made it a good game, it's just that standing up from BATIM's shadow was never going to be easy, and there were a few missteps, in my opinion.

Still, the game was quite fun to play through, and I have to give it either a 6.5 or a solid 7 out of 10 for me. It's worth trying for sure, though I'd temper my expectations going in.

#bendy and the dark revival spoilers #BATDR #batdr #batdr wilson #BATIM #(in a way)#batdr spoilers #review thingy #Sorry if this isn't my usual style of posts #I just thought I'd try it and see what everyone thinks #Do you agree or disagree? Share your thoughts! I'm eager to hear them!#This game is great for making me laugh with my siblings whenever we banished a Lost One while yelling 'CONSUUUUUME'#Seriously play this with a friend or a sibling you won't regret it

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Disney Dreamlight Valley Mining Routes & Guide

Welcome to our Disney Dreamlight Valley Mining Routes & Guide. Just a lil guide on how to run up the ores on ur map and get as much money as possible. We know that there are people who have a hard time finishing the Disney Dreamlight Valley game. If you are one of those who find it difficult to finish the game, let's take you to our Disney Dreamlight Valley guide. #DisneyDreamlightValley

Disney Dreamlight Valley Mining Routes & Guide

Don't forget ur mining-mate while running! Always be sure to have ur friend with u which is specialized on mining. Remember - 2 ores are better then 1 ore x). Fresh Start Route At the beginning u won't have the optimal route and u will have to wait a bit for ores to respawn but imma mark how to run it for Plaza and Peaceful Meadow (the first 2 Zones). The ores i put a "X" on are available later on in the game but they might have confused u if u new to the game.

Endgame Route So here is my endgame route i personally find to be the best. You will start in the cave that got released in the Scar update and keep rotating the map, u can easily forget about the other zones since they are not that profitable imo.

About Disney Dreamlight Valley Discover the Secrets Of Dreamlight Valley Free the Dream Castle from the insidious grip of the Forgetting, and unlock the unique Realms of well-loved Disney and Pixar characters. Each Realm has its own challenges, with puzzles to solve and friends to bring back to Dreamlight Valley. Free the Dream Castle from the Forgetting’s grasp and unlock the Realms of great queens and kings such as Anna and Simba. Each Realm contains unique challenges with puzzles to solve in the quest to bring friendship back to the Valley. You’ll start your adventure in the Valley, but your journey will take you to infinity… and beyond! Explore what looms in the Forest of Valor and brave the deepest caverns as you take on challenges from iconic Disney and Pixar heroes and villains. Who knows who—or what—you might discover. Forge friendships with Disney & Pixar characters Garden with WALL•E, cook with Remy or kick back and fish with Goofy. What better way to collect, craft, and rebuild the Valley than with a friend! From beautiful princesses to nefarious villains, every Dreamlight Valley resident brings their own story arc, quests, and rewards. Meet up in daily hangouts and make friends with some of your favorite Disney and Pixar characters.. More about Disney Dreamlight Valley Restore the Valley to its former glory Free the Valley from the grip of the Forgetting and return Dreamlight Valley to its former greatness by making it your own. In Dreamlight Valley, you can build the perfect neighborhood that is just for you with a fully customizable layout, creative landscaping, and thousands of decorative items. Will you settle on the Beach next to Moana, or call Buzz Lightyear your next-door neighbor in the Plaza? Express Your Disney Style Bring out your inner princess, villain, or Disney bounder! Assemble unique outfits and decorate your home with thousands of fantastic items. Using the Touch of Magic tool, you can even create your own designs using Disney and Pixar decals! With the in-game Camera, get ready to snap a sunset selfie with Rapunzel, a culinary creation with Remy or simply cherish a moment. Read the full article

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Something I’ve come to realise…

Those engaging in spiritual awakening, as we like to call it.. suffer the greatest!

I don’t know why it is this way. I feel, as soon as you begin on a path of truth, self discovery and love… you, tend to have challenges which deepens the awakening. It’s like, God saying, “You’ve started now, I’m gonna kick your ass until we are in unison”.

I’ve met ego’s with no interest in spirituality, their lives are quite easily led.

I had an email from Matt Khan, that’s why I wrote this post. The email goes:-

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Hello Beautiful Ricki,

As I shared in my recent documentary film, Healed by Love, three years ago I went through one of the most difficult times in my life. Several major painful life events coincided, causing me to feel like I had lost my connection with my intuition—and the Universe.

However, as a result of that low, I went through a process of transformation that caused me to rediscover and deepen my purpose here on this planet, not just as a healer, but as someone who inspires the inner healer to awaken within.

The process I went through was intense, and required me to activate new levels of consciousness and integrate them into every aspect of my being. By the end of it, I felt more embodied, empowered, compassionate, and loving toward myself and others than ever before.

The process and transformation I went through is a major inspiration for creating Healed to Completion, my new comprehensive online healing experience. This offering is near and dear to my heart because I feel it is the clearest, most direct pathway to higher consciousness and embodiment that I have ever transmitted.

It is my sincere hope that the lessons I have learned while traversing the valleys and hilltops of the last several years have a resonance and a reverberation in your heart, and that they open you to a new sense of connection with your true self and your divine essence.

If it calls to you, I would be honored for you to join me and the rest of the All for Love community on this journey of heart-centered awakening.”.

I was fool to believe awakening to true nature would be easy. It’s difficult!

Yet, rewarding.

We’re coming back to our true self. Authenticity. LOVE.

To know the greatest spiritual teachers have suffered the greatest… Jesus, Adya, Matt Khan, Eckhart Tolle. Even, Scott Kiloby and Paul Hedderman were alcoholics/drug addicts.

Great hope knowing these wise, spiritually enlightened ‘people’ suffered and do suffer.

I thought everything would be perfect. Jesus was fully embodied, fully awakened, yet, got murdered!

Suffering is life.

The crucifix is a suffering instrument. Surrendering to the divine. It’s exactly what is!

#Matt Khan #Spiritual Awakening #Love #Challenges #Spirituality

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April 23rd, 2024 - The first Full Moon after the Aries Total Solar Eclipse (leadership, cosmic consciousness healing), Scorpio (just from Libra) happens, with attention to aesthetics & the need for emotional balancing. This Scorpio Moon then Wanes Gibbous (release to receive, harvest, service towards others) through the 25th.

All of this Aries / Mars / Scorpio energy continues; not to drive us crazy with it’s inherent presentation of fearful aggressiveness, or to make us blame everything on Mercury retrograde, but to motivate us to recognize stale patterns and creatively explore new ways to succeed.

Mercury is no longer cazimi the now Taurus Sun, and is conjunct only Venus. Those who have either planet prominent in a personal chart will still feel those transits

Check yoself before you wreck yoself, and then wreck it with others.

This is heavy leadership energy also being presented, and we have access to the creativity of Venus (light hearted beauty & love) exactly inconjunct Black Moon Lilith (difficult, yet rewarding integration of inner sacred feminine with sacred masculine) to help us.

As Jupiter conjunct Uranus is a few days into it’s first journey in Taurus since 1941, pay attention to your surroundings for synchronicities and to avoid slipping or tripping.

Or I’ll start making memes like, “What you trippin’ on Uranus fo’, when you could be mind expanding wit’ Jupiter?!”

Explore ways to expand your spiritual awareness, and then we will feel more like goofing off with the Sagittarius Moon.

#scorpio full moon #astrology #jupiter conjunct uranus #venus inconjunct jupiter #aries stellium #taurus season

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Overcoming Fear of Failure: Embracing Risks as an Entrepreneur

Overcoming Fear of Failure: Embracing Risks as an Entrepreneur http://warrenferster.org.uk/overcoming-fear-of-failure-embracing-risks-as-an-entrepreneur/ Starting a business is a beautiful journey filled with opportunities and challenges. As an entrepreneur, one of the biggest obstacles you’ll face is the fear of failure. However, embracing risks is essential for growth and success in the business world. Here’s how you can overcome the fear of failure and embrace risks as an entrepreneur: Shift Your Perspective: Instead of viewing failure as the end of the road, see it as a stepping stone to success. Many successful entrepreneurs have faced setbacks and failures before achieving their goals. Understand that failure is a natural part of the entrepreneurial journey and an opportunity for learning and growth. Set Realistic Expectations: Setting accurate expectations for yourself and your business is essential. Understand that only some ventures will be a resounding success, and that’s okay. Establishing attainable goals and milestones can gauge your progress and commemorate minor triumphs. Learn from Failure: Rather than dwelling on past failures, use them as valuable learning experiences. Analyze what went wrong, identify areas for improvement, and adapt your approach accordingly. Every failure brings valuable lessons that can help you become a better entrepreneur. Take Calculated Risks: While feeling apprehensive about taking risks is natural, it’s important to remember that calculated risks are essential for growth and innovation. Conduct thorough research, weigh the potential rewards against the risks, and trust your instincts. Venturing into calculated risks may pave the way for fresh opportunities and breakthroughs in your business. Surround Yourself with Support: Building a solid support network of mentors, peers, and advisors can help you navigate the challenges of entrepreneurship. Surround yourself with people who believe in your vision and are willing to offer guidance and support during difficult times. A support system can provide encouragement and perspective when facing fear and uncertainty. Focus on Progress, Not Perfection: Striving for perfection can be paralyzing and prevent you from taking necessary risks. Instead, focus on progressing and moving forward, even if it means taking small steps. Embrace the iterative nature of entrepreneurship, and remember that success is a process, not a final destination. Cultivate Resilience: Resilience is crucial for overcoming the fear of failure and bouncing back from setbacks. Develop resilience by practicing self-care, maintaining a positive mindset, and cultivating perseverance in adversity. In conclusion, overcoming the fear of failure and embracing risks is essential for success as an entrepreneur. By shifting your perspective, setting realistic expectations, learning from failure, taking calculated risks, building a support network, focusing on progress, and cultivating resilience, You can confront the challenges of entrepreneurship with assurance and resolve. Embrace risks as opportunities for growth, and you’ll be well on your way to achieving your entrepreneurial dreams. The post Overcoming Fear of Failure: Embracing Risks as an Entrepreneur first appeared on Warren Ferster Manchester | Leadership.

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The Transformative Power of Storytelling: Share Your Voice, Find Connection

We are creatures of narrative. Stories shape our understanding of the world, ourselves, and each other. From the earliest cave paintings and oral traditions to the digital outpourings of today, humans have found comfort, wisdom, and deep connection through sharing their stories. Whether it's a whispered secret between friends, a tearful confession, or a meticulously crafted memoir, there is something undeniably powerful about putting our experiences into words.

But what if we took the act of storytelling one step further? What if we were to break free from the confines of our familiar circles and bravely share our personal stories with strangers? While the idea might seem daunting, the potential rewards are vast. Sharing your story with the wider world can be a profoundly liberating, validating, and even healing experience.

Vulnerability as Strength

There's an undeniable element of vulnerability when we expose our narrative to the unknown. Whether it's recounting a personal struggle, triumph, or simply a life lesson, we make ourselves open to judgment or misinterpretation. Yet, within this vulnerability lies strength. When we share honestly, we break down artificial barriers and create space for others to do the same. We invite them to see our humanness, complete with its beautiful complexities and imperfections.

Sometimes, the most profound connections are forged with those we least expect. A personal story that resonates with a stranger on the other side of the world can be more transformative than the well-meaning platitudes of a close friend. When we find echoes of our feelings and experiences in the lives of others, however distant, a sense of universal belonging takes hold.

Platforms for Sharing

In the age of the internet, there are bountiful opportunities for us to share our stories. Social media, forums, and dedicated storytelling platforms like History Chip offer a stage for our voices. History Chip, in particular, provides a unique and valuable space to document narratives that might otherwise be lost to time. It's a testament to the enduring human need for connection and validation through sharing and preserving one's journey.

These online spaces not only allow us to connect with a wider audience, but also enable us to carefully curate our presentation. Whether you choose to write, record your voice, or use video, you have control over how you share your story and engage with others.

Benefits of Storytelling

Besides the connections forged with others, the act of sharing your personal story can hold deep benefits for yourself:

Self-Understanding: Putting your life into words forces you to examine it from new angles. You might be surprised by the patterns that emerge or the depth of emotions unearthed through the process of articulation.

Catharsis: Sharing difficult or painful experiences can be incredibly healing. It releases the weight of carrying those burdens alone and helps you to make sense of the past.

Inspiring Others: You never know how your story might touch someone else's life. By offering a glimpse into your challenges and successes, you might provide the encouragement, validation, or perspective that someone else desperately needs.

Where to Begin

If you're intrigued by the idea of sharing your personal stories but unsure where to start, consider these tips:

Start Small: Dip your toe in the water with smaller, more manageable stories before tackling deeply personal narratives.

Focus on Meaning: Don't just recount events; think about the significance they hold and the lessons you've learned.

Be Authentic: Write or speak in your own voice, without embellishment. Your genuineness will resonate deeply.

Find Your Medium: Experiment with different platforms and formats (written, audio, video) to find what feels most natural for you.

Respect Others: Be sensitive to how your story might affect others who are involved.

Sharing your story is a gift, both to yourself and the broader world. By embracing the transformative power of storytelling, you can find validation, forge unexpected connections, and make your unique mark within the tapestry of human experience. If you're searching for a platform to share and read stories, explore History Chip – a space dedicated to preserving and celebrating the stories that make us human.

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Hello i see that you are doing some readings... i really need help i just i don't know what to do from now on i'm so lost i need a sign something anything! what to do

please i need help i'm desperate thank you so much even if you can help thank you

Hey there! I am so sorry you're going through such a tough time. I think everyone reaches a period in their life where they just feel...lost. you are definitely not alone in that, and I promise you its temporary! I've been through it myself and I have absolutely turned my life around and am living my dreams! Its possible!

The card that immediately jumped out of my deck was Death, which is a very powerful card and one of my favorites for new beginnings. (It's not bad!)

Literal meaning: The card of Death shows a skeleton in armor riding a white horse over the corpse of a king. This suggests that the old order has ended and a new era is about to begin. At this stage, the Fool must accept approaching endings and uncertainty about the future. The endings may be difficult and painful, but we must learn to accept them as change is inevitable. As we come to terms with loss, we are transformed.

It also represents endings, loss, mourning, acceptance, adjustment, change, transition, rebirth, and renewal.

Personal interpretation: I loveeee this card so much, and it makes me so excited for you! You are obviously in a tough spot, but this is rock bottom, which means this is the end of your struggles and it is telling you that you must accept what has happened, be okay with letting go and accepting change, and if you can, then you will be sprung forward into the next chapter of your life! This card always comes up in my readings for intense new beginnings where people are unsure and lost and a drastic change is coming. This is the start to a beautiful new beginning, even if you can't see it yet! It is a big growing moment on our life's journey. If you can pick yourself back up, accept what life has thrown your way, and keep your feet moving, you will be rewarded with a lesson learned and a new future. This will be a time of rebirth and renewal for you, and I'm so excited to see how this turns out for you. The results may not be immediate, but trust that everything happens the way it should, no matter how devestating, and that there may be higher knowledge at play. What didn't work out was not meant for you. There will be better things in the future. Hold onto your hope, rest while you're able, then keep moving!

Also, if you ever need anyone to talk to, please don't hesitate to reach out to me, I will always be here to listen! 💕

#answered asks #tarot #tarot reading #hope #new beginnings

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5 Ways to Start Improving Your Growth Mindset

We all know that by approaching what we do holistically, a sense of well-being will enhance our lives. Although, if we’re honest, the path to wellness can be daunting, not to mention overwhelming.

You want to make a change. You want to do the right thing. But how can you put one foot in front of the other? Where is the best place to start?

As a Mindset Expert and Business Coaching, Start-up Mentor, I am dedicated to empowering female entrepreneurs to overcome self-doubt and build their dream businesses with clarity.

Overall, I believe in the power of mindset. It has been key to the success of my clients. I’ve had extremely motivated women enrol for my coaching programme who were terrified that they wouldn’t fulfil their dreams because they didn’t have a strong enough skillset.

But a skillset is about capabilities and a mindset is about belief systems. You could have the most robust skill set and years of experience under your belt, but if your mindset is negative, self-critical and unfocused, you will certainly struggle to succeed.

On the flip side, a strong mindset will allow you to continually develop your skillset. The formula is a winner!

Improve your Growth Mindset

Getting into the right mindset is a beautiful and rewarding journey. If you fall into the trap of having a fixed mindset that settles into what is working for you, you’ll find it difficult to make changes and evolve.

What we do together is create a growth mindset by empowering your belief system. This way, you allow yourself the opportunity to drastically change your entire experience of your inner world and the world around you.

Here are 5 ways to start improving your growth mindset:

Change the Narrative

If you’re starting a new project, don’t think, “I hope this will be easy for me.” Instead, open yourself up to thinking, “This will be interesting!”

If you receive negative feedback, don’t kick yourself and say, “This proves I am rubbish.” See it as an opportunity and say, “Okay, I’m excited to get back to work and learn more.”

With a fixed mindset approach, it’s easy to attribute success and failure to inherent ability. You may look for reassurance by doing things you know you’re comfortable with.

A growth mindset coaching leads you to take inspired action in your work and look at challenges as learning curves.

Seek Feedback

Whether you view a recent project as a success or not, seeking feedback from people you worked with is a great way to develop a growth mindset.

They may give you insight into where you’ve developed or what needs improvement. You might receive a welcome vote of confidence or a better understanding of how to make positive changes.

Learn Something New

From yoga to salsa, from netball to learning a musical instrument, challenge yourself to learn something that you’re not already good at. What about a new language? Creative writing? The basics of economics?

This will shift you out of your comfort zone whilst keeping you focused during the time you’ve specially carved out for yourself to learn.

It’s Okay to Make Mistakes

You won’t get everything right the first time you try. Be kind to yourself and allow yourself the space to make errors, and then learn from them.

Mistakes are necessary and should be seen as positive rather than negative. They are all part of the learning process. You can only identify any weakness or lack of understanding by making a mistake.

Ask yourself this; if you saw somebody fail at a task that you know inside out, would you tell them they’re useless or encourage them to learn?

Welcome a Life of Wellness

Opening yourself to holistic ways means you want to transform and develop. I recently launched, Holistified, a specialist platform that unites wellness experiences and ethical and wellness products with wellness seekers and the conscious shopper.

By visiting holistified.com you can immediately find one-to-one and bespoke offerings, classes, workshops, events, courses and retreats.

Ethically sourced items are available in the online shop, too. You can be sure, if it’s happening and it’s holistic, it’s listed.

Over the past year, I have been dedicated to ensuring that holistified.com will empower its users with the best tools to cultivate well-being and connect to mind, body and soul. Did I make mistakes? Many! Am I learning every day? Of course!

Simply put, a Holistified lifestyle is about creating a better you. A more informed you. It is about discovering your highest potential. I have had to dig deep and ask myself so many questions in order to understand the importance of wellness in the community and lifestyle. And, as for all business owners, it’s an ongoing work in progress.

As Marilyn Monroe famously said, “A wise girl knows her limits, a smart girl knows she has none.” Being a boss should not be seen as a job. It’s a mindset.

And whether you’re the CEO of a company or head of your household, any type of boss cannot be fixed within their thinking. So open yourself up to all the possibilities out there, believe you can…and you will.

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heavenridersindia · 4 months

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UNVEILING THE MAJESTY OF SHRIKHAND MAHADEV TREK: A JOURNEY BEYOND HEIGHTS

INTRODUCTION

Embarking on a spiritual and adventurous journey, the Shrikhand Mahadev Trek stands tall as one of the most challenging yet rewarding experiences in the realm of trekking. Nestled in the Indian Himalayas, this trek takes you to the majestic Shrikhand Mahadev Peak, offering an awe-inspiring view of a colossal 75-feet tall Shiv-Ling. In this blog, we delve into the details of the Shrikhand Mahadev Trek, exploring its highlights, difficulty level, and why it’s a must-choose adventure for trekking enthusiasts.

SHRIKHAND MAHADEV TREK HIGHLIGHTS

A Glimpse Of The Terrain

The Shrikhand Mahadev trek unfolds through a thrilling and challenging terrain, featuring rocky roads, steep inclines, and glacier-covered landscapes. Despite the rugged path, trekkers are rewarded with mesmerizing views of hidden dirt roads, gushing waterfalls, and the tranquil Nayan Sarovar Lake.

Cultural Encounters

The journey is not just about conquering heights; it’s an opportunity to meet local villagers, gaining insights into their culture and lifestyle. Indulge in delicious local snacks and beverages, adding a flavorful touch to your trekking experience.

The Divine Shiv-Ling

The pinnacle of the trek is the Shrikhand Mahadev Peak, where a colossal Shiv-Ling awaits. Standing at 18,570 feet, this divine spectacle showcases the face of Lord Shiva, surrounded by breathtaking natural beauty.

SHRIKHAND MAHADEV TREK OVERVIEW

The Starting Point: Jaon Village

The trek kicks off at Jaon Village, accessible by driving from Shimla to Rampur, crossing the Sutlej River, and entering the Niramand region of the Kullu District. The journey unfolds through picturesque villages like Singhad and Thachru, culminating in the Nayan Sarovar Lake and the majestic Shrikhand Mahadev Peak.

Quick Facts

Maximum Altitude: 18,570 ft.

Temperature: 10°C to 30°C during the day, 2°C to 10°C at night

Trek Distance: 32 km

Difficulty Level: Moderate to Difficult

Starting and Ending Point: Jaon Village

WHY CHOOSE SHRIKHAND MAHADEV TREK?

A Spiritual Odyssey

The Shrikhand Mahadev Trek is not just a physical challenge; it’s a spiritual journey. Witnessing the massive Shiv-Ling atop the peak offers a sense of spiritual fulfillment, making the trek an enriching experience.

Untouched Natural Beauty

Traversing through the challenging terrain unveils nature’s hidden gems, from pristine lakes to rugged landscapes. The trek offers uninterrupted views of the Shrikhand Mahadev Rock, creating an immersive connection with the Himalayan beauty.

Cultural Immersion

Meeting local villagers and understanding their way of life adds a cultural dimension to the trek. It’s an opportunity to appreciate the simplicity and resilience of mountain communities.

HOW DIFFICULT IS THE SHRIKHAND MAHADEV TREK?

The Challenge Unveiled

With an elevation gain of 18,570 feet over 32 km, the Shrikhand Mahadev Trek is no easy feat. The moderate to difficult difficulty level demands physical fitness, mental resilience, and a spirit of adventure. The rocky moraine paths and glacier covers present a formidable challenge, making every step a testament to your determination.

Best Time To Visit

The optimal time for the trek is between the full moon day in July and the full moon day in August, offering pleasant weather to navigate the challenging route.

WHAT TO EXPECT ON THE SHRIKHAND MAHADEV TREK?

Harsh Climatic Conditions

As you ascend higher, be prepared for harsh and cold climatic conditions, especially after crossing the Nayan Sarovar Lake. Taking the time to acclimate and adjusting to weather fluctuations is crucial for a comfortable and safe trekking experience.

Expert Guidance

Follow the instructions of your professional guide diligently. Their expertise ensures a safe and successful completion of the trek. Safety should be a top priority, and adherence to guidance significantly contributes to a smooth journey.

Preparing Physically And Medically

Before embarking on the trek, consult with your doctor to ensure you are physically fit for the demanding journey. Carry necessary medications and a mini first aid kit to address any health concerns during the trek.

Responsible Trekking

Maintain the sanctity of the trekking environment by avoiding littering at campsites and local areas. Responsible trekking contributes to preserving the natural beauty of the Himalayas for future generations.

PACKING ESSENTIALS FOR SHRIKHAND MAHADEV TREK

Stay Hydrated

Carry a water bottle to stay hydrated, especially during the strenuous ascent. Proper hydration is vital for maintaining energy levels and combating altitude-related challenges.

Weather-Ready Gear

Pack a backpack with waterproof linings to protect your belongings from unexpected weather changes. Fleece jackets, thermals, and a windproof jacket are essential for tackling varying temperatures and windy conditions.

Footwear Matters

Invest in sturdy hiking shoes with proper grip to navigate the rocky and challenging terrain. Comfortable and well-fitted shoes are your allies on this arduous journey.

Warm Clothing

Given the fluctuating temperatures, pack warm clothes, including a base layer to keep your body warm. A rain jacket or poncho will shield you from sudden drizzles encountered along the trek.

IS SHRIKHAND MAHADEV TREK WORTH THE ADVENTURE?

Nature’s Symphony

The trek unfolds a symphony of nature — from the rugged landscapes to the vibrant flora. Each step brings you closer to the heart of the Himalayas, a journey that’s not just about conquering heights but also immersing yourself in the untouched beauty of the mountains.

Spiritual Bliss

For those seeking spiritual solace, the sight of the Shrikhand Mahadev Peak and its massive Shiv-Ling is a divine experience. The trek offers a unique blend of adventure and spirituality, making it a truly worthwhile endeavor.

Personal Growth

Beyond the physical challenges, the Shrikhand Mahadev Trek is a journey of self-discovery and personal growth. Overcoming obstacles, both physical and mental, fosters resilience and a sense of accomplishment.

SHRIKHAND MAHADEV TREKKING PACKAGE INCLUSIONS

Comprehensive Support

Opting for a Shrikhand Mahadev Trekking package ensures a hassle-free experience. The package typically includes accommodation at various stops, vegetarian meals, trekking equipment, medical kits, and a qualified trekking guide with supporting staff.

Trekking At Ease

With the package inclusions, trekkers can focus on the adventure without worrying about logistical details. The presence of a qualified guide adds a layer of safety and ensures a fulfilling trekking experience.

CONCLUSION: EMBRACE THE HIMALAYAN CHALLENGE

In conclusion, the Shrikhand Mahadev Trek beckons adventurers to embrace a Himalayan challenge like no other. Beyond the physical endurance, it offers a spiritual connection, cultural immersion, and a rendezvous with nature in its rawest form. The trek, though demanding, is a transformative journey, leaving indelible memories and a sense of accomplishment in its wake. Choose the Shrikhand Mahadev Trek for an adventure that transcends the ordinary and unveils the majesty of the Himalayas.

Source: https://www.nflnewsz.com/unveiling-the-majesty-of-shrikhand-mahadev-trek-a-journey-beyond-heights/

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pablice · 5 months

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I Walked Just 20 Minutes a Day and Lost 25 Pounds in 3 Months - My Success Story

Setting My Weight Loss Goal I decided it was time to take control of my health and get serious about losing weight. I knew it would not be easy, so I set a realistic goal. I wanted to lose 25 pounds in 8 weeks. This weight loss goal meant I would need to lose about three pounds per week. I researched healthy weight loss strategies and learned that, while exercise and diet would both be important, I should focus on making lifestyle changes that would last my entire life. I consulted with my healthcare provider to create a health plan that met my individual needs and lifestyle goals. Deciding to Walk 20 Minutes a Day I knew that exercise was important for weight loss, so I decided to start moving more on my journey. I began by walking 20 minutes a day, five days a week. I chose this amount because it was relatively easy to gradually build up to and fit into my schedule. I made sure to always wear comfortable clothing and good supportive shoes for my walks. I also enjoyed getting out in nature and exploring nearby parks and trails. I watched seasons change as I walked, appreciating the beauty around me, while I exercised. My Diet and Exercise Plan I wanted to make sure that I was eating the right foods in order to fuel my 20 minute walks. My diet consisted of high fiber carbohydrates such as oatmeal, quinoa, legumes, and fresh fruits and vegetables. In addition, I focused on lean proteins such as white chicken, fish, and tofu. I also made certain to include healthy fats such as avocados, olives, and nuts. To round off my meals, I sometimes had a few pieces of dark chocolate for a sweet treat. My exercise plan consisted of going for a 20 minute walk every morning. After completing the walk, I would do various bodyweight activities such as squats, lunges, and planks. This provided me with a full body workout without ever having to step foot into the gym. I also made sure to get plenty of rest so my body could recover and stay energized. 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I also made sure to reward myself for my accomplishments, such as giving myself a day off from exercise or treating myself to something nice after I hit my goal weight. Through this system of small steps and rewards, I was able to stay on track and reach my goals. Tracking My Progress To ensure that I achieved my weight loss goal, I tracked my progress. This included regularly weighing myself, keeping a food diary, and determining how much exercise I was doing each week. The difference in my weight was small each week, but the results accumulated over time. I was able to stay motivated because I could see progress and the results of my effort. Even when I did not reach my target weight, I was still celebrating my smaller successes. Benefits of Walking Walking provides a low-impact exercise that can benefit not only your physical health but also your mental health. It helps tones muscles, allowing you to burn calories and maintain a healthy weight. It also helps improve your endurance and stamina, which can increase your daily activity level. Additionally, walking can help reduce stress and anxiety, as it can be a form of mindfulness. Moving your body outside in the fresh air can help to clear your thoughts and create a sense of calm. It is a great activity to do for yourself or with a group of friends and family. It can help build relationships and even aid in community-building. You can explore new areas and be out in nature, surrounded by wildlife and natural beauty. Walking can be a great way to spend time with those near and dear to you. It can also provide a social health benefit, as it is a form of motivation that can help keep you on track with your goals. How I Felt After Losing 25 Pounds After sticking to my plan for a few months, I was pleased to find that I had lost 25 pounds! I was surprised and delighted at how quickly my body had adapted to my healthier lifestyle. I felt amazing, with a newfound sense of confidence and purpose. My energy levels had improved, and I was motivated to continue on my journey to better health. The changes I had made to my lifestyle had a profound effect on my mental health. Feeling healthier and fitter had given me a sense of achievement and a renewed sense of self-worth. It helped me to focus on the positive aspects of my life and allowed me to set small goals that I could gradually achieve. As I lost weight, I gained a newfound appreciation for my body and its capabilities. What I Learned About Myself Throughout my weight loss journey, I realized a few things about myself. I had a newfound appreciation for taking time for myself and for self-care. I learned that when I dedicated time to my health, I felt better about myself in every other area of my life. Every step I took towards better health showed me that I was in control of my own destiny and capable of making positive changes for my future. I discovered that exercise was a great way to de-stress and manage anxiety. Taking the time to go for a walk or to do a workout made it easier for me to think clearly and be more productive in the rest of my day. Engaging in physical activity made me feel empowered in a way that I had not expected. I felt like I was in control of every aspect of my life - from controlling my diet and lifestyle to finding more time for myself. I felt more confident in my own abilities and more hopeful about my future. What was my goal when I started the weight loss journey? My goal when I started my weight loss journey was to lose 25 pounds. What diet and exercise plan did I follow? I followed a balanced diet that included plenty of fruits and vegetables, lean proteins, and whole grains. I also incorporated a regular exercise routine that included 20 minutes of walking each day. What challenges did I face and how did I overcome them? The biggest challenge I faced was staying motivated and sticking to my diet and exercise plan. I overcame this by setting small, attainable goals and rewarding myself for reaching them. How did I track my progress? I tracked my progress by taking weekly measurements and weighing myself once a week. What were the benefits of walking? Walking provided numerous benefits, including improved cardiovascular health, better weight management, and improved overall mood. How did I feel after losing 25 pounds? After losing 25 pounds, I felt a noticeable increase in energy levels, a feeling of accomplishment, and a renewed zest for life. What did I learn about myself? Through this weight loss journey, I learned that I am capable of achieving my goals and that with dedication and perseverance, anything is possible. Read the full article

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