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#its all very disheartening
citrongarde · 1 year
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terminally online exclusionists when they find out that bi ppl and pan ppl and ace ppl and lesbians and gay men and trans ppl and aro ppl and nonbinary ppl irl are all hanging out and having fun and being friends and dating each other and walking together at pride instead of getting into pointless discourse and ripping each other apart over shit like flags and identities
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#neela speaks#//#gif#flashing lights#sorta....#ANYWAY. this is mostly abt aphobia/nbyphobia/panphobia#but like. specifically a weird wave of pan antagonism ive seen as of late that disguises itself as bi activism?#like. yes. bi ppl have a long history. bi doesnt mean 'oh just men and women'. bisexuality is trans/nb inclusive and has always been#read the bisexual manifesto guys. come on#BUT ALSO. ALSO. ill see a post like that & go 'yes! good! i agree' and then when i look at op's blog#they just say some RANCID stuff abt pan ppl! and its usually just repackaged biphobia/aphobia/nbyphobia LOL#and like. it disheartens me. like arent you guys cousins???#the way i see it. like. idk. blue is a colour right? teal is a shade of blue but it's not the same as blue#and insisting that 'oh blue is harmfullll use teal it's less problematic uwu' is dumb#BUT ALSO. saying 'all teal is inherently harmful and erases blue and anything 'teal' is actually blue. i am very intelligent'? ALSO uncool#but sometimes it just comes off as 'how can i make it look Progressive(tm) to hate on other members of the lgbtq community'#like. congrats! youve taken genuinely good points and weaponized them against your own people. want a fucking gold star 4 that#just UUUUUGGUGGH it feels like. ace 'discourse' all over again. good lird#remember when ppl would advertise themselves as 'proudly aphobic' and say that asexuality was erasing gay ppl and inherently homophobic? 😬#idk. uhhh ace exclus/pan exclus/nby exclus dont touch this post#and this post isnt abt b1 lesb1ans either. isnt the whole point of lesbians. yknow. Not being attracted to men#and not abt stuff like 'oh im a binary trans man but i can still be a lesbian uwu' like you Do realize thats a Literal t*rf talking point#also this isnt about 'transandrophobia' or whatever reactionary transmisogynistic stuff is just as terminally online-#-as the exclusionism. like Gah go talk to some lgbtq ppl instead of getting into reactionary online Disk Horse#might turn off reblogs/comments at a point. idk
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burninglilys · 2 years
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it’s about jiwoo never really having a ‘home’ — feeling absolutely rejected from his hometown because of everything his family has been through and his partner at the time, who felt lonely in his company. everyone wants to belong, right? so why can’t he? everyone has a place with their name etched on it. so, why doesn’t he?
it’s about him finding seojoon, falling in love with him, and building a home with him. it’s him chasing that feeling of belonging. it’s about him slowly, inaccurately feeling that maybe he doesn’t have a place in seojoon’s life as well. that maybe he’s nothing but a burden. he does not belong there, that he could never, ever belong there, no matter how much he wants to. he gets to steal seojoon for a few moments but that’s it. if he stayed away long enough, it would be like he never existed there. everyone has a place where they belong — seojoon, in front of the cameras, in the spotlight, and in jiwoo’s arms. but jiwoo? if not for seojoon’s arms, he has no other place in the world at all. no place that calls him home.
which is why, i’m glad that jiwoo now knows that he is cared for and liked by so many other people: yooha, yoonseul, sungyoon, the village chief, the grandmas, and all the other villagers.
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arachling · 1 day
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My single piece of advice is that if your write a male oc, be ok with their nose getting broken once or twice. I promise its much more interesting if they get decked by a 5ft warrior woman than if they were just untouchable.
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maybe I'm just a hater but I'm annoyed at like, the uncritical excitement and thirsting over inquisitor Reva, cause there are ppl talking about how weird it is that they keep casting POC as fascists, and yet that gets ignored cause star wars fans want to pretend they are woke by being Vocal about their attraction 2 a black woman as if it's helpful at all.
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lucius-the-sinful · 2 months
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Playing Warframe again and I don't think I could go back to ESO. Like don't get me wrong,ESO has a lot of content but compared to Warframe it is so dry and devoid and all the events are the same thing just flavored differently.
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sendmyresignation · 2 months
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anyway finally finished girls to the front. obviously had a lot of opinions about it. i have a lot more respect for the day-to-day lived realities of riot grrls and the underground community fostered. but like. man. is the music so secondary. my main critique of riot grrl is it took many of those bands growing out of the movement amd growing up to hit something truly, artistically great (music-wise).
#i think about marcus calling dc punk like. musically rigorous (in a way she was implying was 'macho' to a degree)#and how (1) most of the dischord stuff was still very much diy it was just naturally growing more experimental in a posthardcore landscape#but also (2) i dont think thats inherently.... a bad thing???? i guess i just dont see practicing a lot nd being passionate about your craf#as unpunk or some chauvinist methology that keeps girls out#like yes. allowing women the space to be imperfect. important! bc women arent allowed to play annoying shitty juvenile music#but that doesnt mean naturally developing as a musician and valuing tenchique and theory spits in the face of that#also of course sara marcus' perspective is pretty wack its easily the drawback of the book#she makes a lot of snap judgements and incorporates odd grudges that make me not trust her wholeheardly#lots of heroworship too.#the jessica hopper stuff is the most wild bc ive now become invested in hoppers like. career and shit#and even as someone who disagrees woth hopper on a lot i thought the book went Out Of Its Way#to shit on her in a way that kind of directly ruins her reputation as a music critic and such#and its so disheartening bc theres no grace given at all.#like again these were young girls and women- im willing to imagine theyve grown and changed and evolved#but marcus doesnt really care#or at least never interrogates that in the text itself#anyway! still positive experience to have a concise timeline and such#my posts
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octopusonparade · 2 months
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bl00dw1tch · 10 months
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Got my end of the month burst of motivation to get my shit together and did 10 push ups
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saltyoaktree · 11 months
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fuck ted lasso i'm rewatching ofmd because I need some fucking queer joy
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majidemah · 7 months
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i really miss the sense of community i got from following other kin blogs.... i know kin tumblr is way smaller than it used to be and i kinda doubt that will change but i still love you guys <3
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furrysmp · 1 month
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hi everyone, this is my disclaimer telling yall I live in israel so please stop following me if you happen to be in that group of people in this fandom who think everyone who lives here is evil, I already had to remove 10 of my followers who are reblogging stuff that casually mentions how 7/10 was israels fault and that we should all be happy that people I know personally died or lost limbs for being born in a country. thanks
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himbo-harrington · 1 year
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eikons · 1 year
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lemon-wedges · 11 months
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yerdad · 1 year
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Hi! Know I've been inactive for a bit and that probably isn't gonna change! I have other stuff to say but it'll be in the tags lol
#so im hesitant to say what i wanna say cause i dont wanna be perceived as ungrateful but like#i really wish my non fandom stuff got more attention/love#it sucks cause i know most of you followed me for Undertale/underswap art and junk so it only makes sense that#my more personal art wouldnt be treated in the same way#and im also aware thay regardless of how many followers i have not all of you will see/like/comment/reblog my stuff#and it bothers me that i care so much because i know the culture of social media doesnt cater towards the art community very well#even though art is so so popular#the creators of said art and content just dont get treated in the same way their creations do#and thats really disheartening cause ir feels like i have to constantly improve and one up myself in order to get people attention#like for so many this is their livelihood and to see it so dependant on algorithms is incredibly demoralizing#i dont know#this kinda feels like the only route for me right now since im still in highschool- this feels like the only way ill create connections atm#anyway im only saying this cause i wanna know if anyone else feels similarly? like i feel like such a jackass for thinking all this stuff#but i wanna know if its reasonable line of thinking yknow#thats why i havent been posting very much either. i just hate working so hard on something and feeling so proud and then it feels like#its being ignored? idk...#im aware this sounds whiny#i wont try to excuse it#if any of my art moots see this tell me if youve had similar experiences#since i feel bad ill try to post the sketches ive been doing since school started#my style has changed a bit so maybe some of you would be interested in seeing how ive improved? lolol#im done talking now. have a good one
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cephalomon · 1 year
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cant stop thinking about last night when the police were searching my house and my mom introduced me as her daughter even though ive literally got like. facial hair going on rn. when will it end
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