actually making my tags from my last post into their own post. writers who struggle with grammar, spelling, typos, errors etc i love you. writers who struggle with rereading their stuff thoroughly no matter how much they try, who don't always have access to other people to help them read i love you. whilst reading through and checking for these things is good practice i really believe that the weight of it should not be put wholly on the writer's shoulders. especially writers who are neurodivergent, disabled, have any condition that can impede their reading + comprehension, are overworked and overtired, are not writing in their native language, list goes on....because grammar mistakes/language mistakes/typos have nothing to do with your abilities as a creative. this is where editors should be uplifting writers, helping them, not scrutinising them for something they cannot always control
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RED VOX MENTIONED HIIIII I LOVE RED VOX was just thinking about them the other day actually I haven’t listened in so long I need to relisten….. AAGAGHHH I love red vox. I love the flow of their albums and how good all the songs sound together I love how the outro at the end of what could go wrong has the same melody from the beginning of another light I LOVE ANOTHER LIGGHTTTTTTTTT Ilove red vox
yah ive been spending the afternoon relistening to a bunch of songs and albums lol visions and afterthoughts are probably my favorite ones
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jumpscares you with my ocs
the first one was done today to keep my attention on the stream I was watching,,, I physically can not watch something if I dont draw at the same time.
the mermaid one was done a while ago but I wanted to share it since its dear to me (despite the godawful mistakes in anatomy and angles). I usually struggle with backrounds but I think it turned out fine there,, also something about its vibe is special to me,,, feels somewhat nostalgic
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Do you believe in the concept of soulmates?
Maybe not in the traditional sense, destiny-bound to be with each other and all that. I do think there are certain people out there that one is bound to "click" with bc of different factors, and it's just a matter of finding them. As in, I think I think there are lots of people you could consider your soul mate, but it's up to you to find them. Also, there may be more than one. (I also think a soul mate could be platonic, or in your family.) I think of it as "someone you're close to with your soul", and that can mean whatever you want it to mean.
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Hey fathör. Genuine question. How do you get like okay with the idea of like "it's better if I'm alone"? Cause I really resonated with some of the posts you've made talking about that but like the idea of being alone also kinda makes me scared. Like how do you get over that feeling?
uhmmmmmmm, im not the best person to ask cuz i have Problems and have had zero therapy in my life. im on no medications and have no diagnosis i am confident in saying i have, other than general depression but even then i dont know the extant that i have it, or the ways i feel it or deal with it.
generally the feeling doesnt go away. for me itts an unhealthy battle of "will my selfishness win or my will?" cuz its always conflicting feelings of "i dont think i should be friends with ppl cuz i can be shitty and im not mature enough for them" vs. "i am lonely and want to talk and connect with ppl" and eventually my selfishness wins and i start talking to ppl again even tho i cant justify itt to myself so
ive always been kind of a solitary person, or someone who enjoys their alone time. over the years its gotten more? worse?
humhumhum i noticed a ttrend over time where i like. get in like, a better mood and then act like an ass in some way or another and that will knock down my self esteem and stuff
last year was very eventful in a lot of bad ways and after it ive had enough things settle in my head that its okay to stay away from others for my own good as well as theirs. i kind of live in a constant "i dont think im being a good enough friend" while also feeling very exhausted as if im doing a lot but like really, im not. after many months this is still the case so i think itts just the new standard for me
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it’s funny how a lot of things that are making life in general bad for a lot of people could be resolved easily with just a few actions from the right people (as in the people needed to make it happen, not even talking about politicians etc). just like chain of events that get triggered through an action you do or an opportunity that gets to you, like receiving a phone call, asking someone a question, sending an email, talking to someone you just met. what im getting at is its pretty frustrating to be sad, angry, hopeless but if the right people and events line up and align like stars in the sky suddenly you could be out of that shit so quickly. and forcing it too might not even work that shit needs to happen organically which makes it more frustrating
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I will never forgive Those SU Fans(TM) for trying to convince everyone how bad the writing or characters were. One of the worst things I've seen was straight-up accusing Rebecca Sugar of being a fascist (which is so absurd that it's almost funny. ah yes this Jewish queer showrunner who almost lost her job for wanting the basic representation in her show is probably a fascist). But also allowing none of the characters to have any nuance? I know the fandom here was mostly made of teens but man. To the point that I wonder why they'd even be watching the show if they just hated on the pacing, writing, and the characters? God forbid you write characters with some nuance without getting cancelled.
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bro being a (very new) writer still stuck on fullmetal alchemist is lowkey kinda annoying like do you have any idea how frustrating it is to try and write a cool au that takes place earlier than the canon story when some of the characters dont really even have NAMES
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